WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:16.920 Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara' 00:00:16.920 --> 00:00:19.920 Mijina Kalil Tihama ne 00:00:19.920 --> 00:00:26.739 Idan nau'ikan maza uku da suka gabata sun kasance marasa kyau 00:00:26.739 --> 00:00:30.739 Wannan nau'in mutum ne mai kyau 00:00:30.739 --> 00:00:34.740 Haka rayuwa take da kyau da mara kyau 00:00:34.740 --> 00:00:38.740 Ba daidai ba ne a haɗa nau'i ɗaya ga duk mutane 00:00:38.740 --> 00:00:41.740 Ba akan maza ko akan mata ba 00:00:41.740 --> 00:00:45.780 Maimakon haka, yin gabaɗaya wajen hukunta mutane wani nau'in rashin adalci ne 00:00:45.780 --> 00:00:50.780 Ko an yi wa al’ummar wata kasa, ko kabila, ko wasunsu gaba daya 00:00:50.780 --> 00:00:55.780 Ba daidai ba ne a ce duka maza daidai suke 00:00:55.780 --> 00:00:59.780 Ba a ce duk mata daidai suke ba 00:00:59.780 --> 00:01:02.780 Amma a cikin dukkan abubuwa masu kyau 00:01:02.780 --> 00:01:07.840 Wannan nau'in mutum ne mai kyau, dabam da waɗanda suka gabace shi 00:01:07.840 --> 00:01:10.840 Kamar yadda mace ta hudu ta siffanta shi da cewa: 00:01:10.840 --> 00:01:13.840 Mijina Kalil Tihama ne 00:01:13.840 --> 00:01:18.840 Babu zafi, ba haushi, ba tsoro, babu guba 00:01:18.840 --> 00:01:22.129 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 00:01:22.129 --> 00:01:26.129 Tace bashi da izini ko cutarwa 00:01:26.129 --> 00:01:28.129 Amma wannan kamar 00:01:28.129 --> 00:01:33.129 Domin zafi da sanyi duka suna da kunne idan ya yi tsanani 00:01:33.129 --> 00:01:35.189 Babu tsoro 00:01:35.189 --> 00:01:40.189 Tace babu wani hadari gareshi kuma babu wani mugun tsoro 00:01:40.189 --> 00:01:42.189 Kuma ba gajiyawa 00:01:42.189 --> 00:01:46.189 Tace baya gajiya da company dina 00:01:46.189 --> 00:01:49.290 Al-Asbahani Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 00:01:49.290 --> 00:01:52.290 Ana tunawa da daren Tihama don alheri 00:01:52.290 --> 00:01:55.290 Wato ba shi da izini kuma ba shi da wata adawa 00:01:55.290 --> 00:01:58.349 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 00:01:58.349 --> 00:02:04.349 Wato mijinta ba ya da nauyi kuma ba shi da lalaci 00:02:04.349 --> 00:02:06.349 Maimakon haka, yana da dadi kuma mai dadi 00:02:06.349 --> 00:02:08.349 Sauƙi akan abokin 00:02:08.349 --> 00:02:10.349 Mastlan gefe 00:02:10.349 --> 00:02:13.580 Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 00:02:13.580 --> 00:02:16.580 Ta bayyana mijinta a matsayin kyakkyawa 00:02:16.580 --> 00:02:20.580 Daidaita halin da ake ciki da aminci na ciki 00:02:20.580 --> 00:02:22.580 Kamar yadda ta fada 00:02:22.580 --> 00:02:25.580 Babu cutarwa ko cutarwa gare shi 00:02:25.580 --> 00:02:27.580 Na tsira daga gare shi 00:02:27.580 --> 00:02:29.580 Bana tsoron sharrinsa 00:02:29.580 --> 00:02:33.580 Ba ya gajiya kuma ya gaji da kamfani na 00:02:33.580 --> 00:02:35.580 Ko kuma ba munanan halaye ba 00:02:35.580 --> 00:02:37.580 Na gaji da zama da shi 00:02:37.580 --> 00:02:40.580 Ina farin cikin zama da shi 00:02:40.580 --> 00:02:44.580 Mutanen Tihama suna jin daɗin darensu mai laushi 00:02:44.580 --> 00:02:50.139 Wannan mata ta siffanta mijinta da kyau 00:02:50.139 --> 00:02:53.139 Halayensa masu kyau sun bayyana a cikinsa 00:02:53.139 --> 00:02:57.139 Abin da kowace mace ke so a wurin mijinta 00:02:57.139 --> 00:03:02.139 Kowace mace tana farin cikin samun kwanciyar hankali da mijinta 00:03:02.139 --> 00:03:06.139 Wannan jin yana zuwa ne saboda ayyukan miji 00:03:06.139 --> 00:03:08.139 Kuma duba shi ma 00:03:08.139 --> 00:03:11.210 Saboda ayyukan miji 00:03:11.210 --> 00:03:15.210 Wani mutum ya yi wa matarsa barazanar saki shi ne dalili mafi ban dariya 00:03:15.210 --> 00:03:18.210 Ko kuma ya yawaita ambaton saki a gabanta 00:03:18.210 --> 00:03:20.210 Ya rasa tsaron tunanin ta 00:03:20.210 --> 00:03:23.210 Yana rayuwa da shi cikin tsoro kullum 00:03:23.210 --> 00:03:26.210 Domin bata tsira daga wannan bangaren ba 00:03:26.210 --> 00:03:30.270 Bai dace mai hankali ya yiwa matarsa barazana ba 00:03:30.270 --> 00:03:34.270 A 'yar karamar matsalar da ke faruwa a tsakaninsu 00:03:34.270 --> 00:03:38.270 Maimakon haka, mai hankali ba ya maganar saki a gaban matarsa 00:03:38.270 --> 00:03:42.270 Ana iya sake shi ne kawai bayan duk hanyoyin sun ƙare 00:03:42.270 --> 00:03:44.270 Don magance matsalarsa da ita 00:03:44.270 --> 00:03:49.460 Bayan istikharah, shawara da shawara 00:03:49.460 --> 00:03:52.460 Mace tana jin aminci da mijinta 00:03:52.460 --> 00:03:56.460 Yana daya daga cikin muhimman abubuwan da ke kawo farin cikinta 00:03:56.460 --> 00:04:00.460 Wannan dalili ne na yawan bayarwa da sadaukarwa gare ku 00:04:00.460 --> 00:04:02.460 Ya kai mutum 00:04:02.460 --> 00:04:04.460 Don haka kiyaye shi kuma za ku yi farin ciki 00:04:04.460 --> 00:04:06.659 Wannan jin na tsaro 00:04:06.659 --> 00:04:09.659 Wannan mace ta hudu ta bayyana shi 00:04:09.659 --> 00:04:13.659 Bayani mai mahimmanci guda uku a cikin rayuwar aure 00:04:13.659 --> 00:04:15.659 Na farko 00:04:15.659 --> 00:04:19.660 Maza wajen mu'amala da mata a rayuwar aure 00:04:19.660 --> 00:04:22.660 Matar ta kamanta shi da daren Tihama 00:04:22.660 --> 00:04:24.660 Babu zafi ko jin dadi 00:04:24.660 --> 00:04:27.660 Yana nufin kyawawan matsakaici 00:04:27.660 --> 00:04:31.660 Haka ya kamata namiji ya kasance a rayuwarsa ta aure 00:04:31.660 --> 00:04:35.660 Ba ya cutar da matarsa ta kowace hanya 00:04:35.660 --> 00:04:39.660 Domin ita abokiyar zamansa ce a rayuwar duniya 00:04:39.660 --> 00:04:41.660 Wanda ya zaba da yardarsa 00:04:41.660 --> 00:04:45.660 Kuma yayi yaki don samun yardarta 00:04:45.660 --> 00:04:49.660 Ya ba ta kuɗi, zinariya, da kyaututtuka don ta karɓa 00:04:49.660 --> 00:04:52.660 Hakan ya kara mata ciwo 00:04:52.660 --> 00:04:56.750 Da sauri yana buƙatarta kuma ba zai iya yi ba tare da shi ba 00:04:56.750 --> 00:05:01.819 Don me zai bata mata hankali ya dagula mata ranta? 00:05:01.819 --> 00:05:04.819 Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya hana mutum 00:05:04.819 --> 00:05:07.819 Game da cutar da mata da wuri 00:05:07.819 --> 00:05:10.819 Sannan kayi jima'i da ita a karshe 00:05:10.819 --> 00:05:13.819 An kar~o daga Abdullahi bn Zamaa Allah Ya yarda da shi 00:05:13.819 --> 00:05:17.819 An kar~o daga Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya ce 00:05:17.819 --> 00:05:21.819 Kada ɗayanku ya yi wa matarsa bulala kamar bawa 00:05:21.819 --> 00:05:24.819 Sannan ya sadu da ita a karshen yini 00:05:24.819 --> 00:05:26.819 Bukhari ne ya ruwaito shi 00:05:26.819 --> 00:05:31.069 Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 00:05:31.069 --> 00:05:34.069 Wannan musun wanda ya yi wa matarsa bulala ne 00:05:34.069 --> 00:05:39.069 Kuma fiye da haka har sai ya dauke ta kamar al'umma 00:05:39.069 --> 00:05:42.069 Sannan yana da sauki bayan haka 00:05:42.069 --> 00:05:44.069 Ya koma ya bata mata 00:05:44.069 --> 00:05:47.069 Da kuma biyan bukatarsa gareta 00:05:47.069 --> 00:05:50.069 Kada ku yi masa biyayya ko ku kyautata masa 00:05:50.069 --> 00:05:52.069 Kuna iya ƙi shi 00:05:52.069 --> 00:05:54.069 Wataƙila yana son ta 00:05:54.069 --> 00:05:58.069 Yanayinsa ya tabarbare kuma lamarinsu ya tsananta 00:05:58.069 --> 00:06:03.069 Rahama da soyayyar da Allah Ta’ala ya kafa tsakanin ma’aurata za su gushe 00:06:03.069 --> 00:06:06.069 Kuma akasin haka ya faru 00:06:06.069 --> 00:06:08.069 Da ita Allah ya jikansa da rahama 00:06:08.069 --> 00:06:10.069 Da wannan gajeriyar kalmar 00:06:10.069 --> 00:06:14.170 Amma sharrin da ke tasowa daga hakan 00:06:14.170 --> 00:06:17.170 Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 00:06:17.170 --> 00:06:20.170 Da jima'i ko jima'i 00:06:20.170 --> 00:06:25.170 Maimakon haka, ya fi kyau a yi wa kanmu da sha’awar a yi musu alheri 00:06:25.170 --> 00:06:28.170 Wanda aka yi masa bulala yakan kori wanda aka yi masa bulala 00:06:28.170 --> 00:06:33.670 An nuna cewa an yi Allah wadai da hakan 00:06:33.670 --> 00:06:36.670 Ya girmama Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama 00:06:36.670 --> 00:06:41.670 Matar ta yi mamakin tunani a hankali don ta sami kwanciyar hankali da kwanciyar hankali tare da mijinta 00:06:41.670 --> 00:06:45.670 Ya fadakar da maigida akan ladubban mu'amala da mata 00:06:45.670 --> 00:06:48.670 Kuma baya kyautatawa mata 00:06:48.670 --> 00:06:52.769 Jiki ne marar rai ko ji 00:06:52.769 --> 00:06:57.769 Mace mai lafiya tana ba da jikinta ga waɗanda take so 00:06:57.769 --> 00:07:01.769 Kuma a cikin cikakken tabbaci na tunani 00:07:01.769 --> 00:07:03.990 Na biyu 00:07:03.990 --> 00:07:05.990 Tsaro na ciki 00:07:05.990 --> 00:07:10.990 Kada ku yi tsammanin kowace irin yaudara daga gare shi a rayuwar aure 00:07:10.990 --> 00:07:12.990 Kuma kada ku ji tsoron hakan 00:07:12.990 --> 00:07:16.990 Wannan shi ne kololuwar amincin tunani a rayuwar mace 00:07:16.990 --> 00:07:19.990 Don jin kwarin gwiwa ga mijinta 00:07:19.990 --> 00:07:25.149 Cikinsa kamar na waje yana da tsafta kuma babu yaudara a ciki 00:07:25.149 --> 00:07:27.149 Na uku 00:07:27.149 --> 00:07:31.149 Kyakkyawan kamfani da kamfani mai kyau ba sa gajiya da su 00:07:31.149 --> 00:07:35.149 Wannan yana nuna wa mace cewa mijinta yana son ta 00:07:35.149 --> 00:07:41.149 Kyakkyawar kamfani da kyakkyawan kamfani suna zuwa ne kawai daga wanda yake da kyawawan halaye 00:07:41.149 --> 00:07:46.149 Zama da matar na tsawon lokaci shaida ne na son da yake mata 00:07:46.149 --> 00:07:50.149 Wannan yana buƙatar sauraro da kyau 00:07:50.149 --> 00:07:52.149 Domin idan ya zauna da ita 00:07:52.149 --> 00:07:56.149 Naji dadin magana dashi kuma naji dadi dashi 00:07:56.149 --> 00:08:00.149 Haka Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya yi 00:08:00.149 --> 00:08:02.149 A cikin hadisin Ummu Zara’ 00:08:02.149 --> 00:08:04.149 Ya zauna da Aisha 00:08:04.149 --> 00:08:06.149 Kuma hira da ita 00:08:06.149 --> 00:08:09.149 Kuma ka saurare ta da kyau 00:08:09.149 --> 00:08:15.149 Mata suna da rawar gani wajen kawar da gajiya daga rayuwar aure tare da kyakkyawar kulawa 00:08:15.149 --> 00:08:17.149 Zaɓi batun tattaunawa 00:08:17.149 --> 00:08:22.149 Da sabuntawa a rayuwarta, suturarta, da gidanta 00:08:22.149 --> 00:08:26.149 Don haka sai Umar bin Al-Aas ya faxi kyawawan kalmominsa 00:08:26.149 --> 00:08:30.149 Ba na gajiya da dabbata muddin ƙafata ta ɗauke ta 00:08:30.149 --> 00:08:33.149 Haka kuma matata ba ta kyautata min ba 00:08:33.149 --> 00:08:37.149 Haka kuma abokina bai rufa min asiri ba 00:08:37.149 --> 00:08:40.149 Rashin gajiya yana daya daga cikin dabi'un karya 00:08:40.149 --> 00:08:44.500 Ya kai mai daraja da matar ka? 00:08:44.500 --> 00:08:47.500 Kuna jin lafiya tare da ku? 00:08:47.500 --> 00:08:50.500 Kuna marmarin zama da ita? 00:08:50.500 --> 00:08:54.500 Kuna da ikon sauraronta ba tare da katse ba? 00:08:54.500 --> 00:08:56.500 Ko da ta dade tana magana 00:08:56.500 --> 00:09:00.879 Zamu cigaba a nan gaba insha Allah 00:09:00.879 --> 00:09:03.879 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai