1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:16,920 Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara' 3 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,920 Mijina Kalil Tihama ne 4 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:26,739 Idan nau'ikan maza uku da suka gabata sun kasance marasa kyau 5 00:00:26,739 --> 00:00:30,739 Wannan nau'in mutum ne mai kyau 6 00:00:30,739 --> 00:00:34,740 Haka rayuwa take da kyau da mara kyau 7 00:00:34,740 --> 00:00:38,740 Ba daidai ba ne a haɗa nau'i ɗaya ga duk mutane 8 00:00:38,740 --> 00:00:41,740 Ba akan maza ko akan mata ba 9 00:00:41,740 --> 00:00:45,780 Maimakon haka, yin gabaɗaya wajen hukunta mutane wani nau'in rashin adalci ne 10 00:00:45,780 --> 00:00:50,780 Ko an yi wa al’ummar wata kasa, ko kabila, ko wasunsu gaba daya 11 00:00:50,780 --> 00:00:55,780 Ba daidai ba ne a ce duka maza daidai suke 12 00:00:55,780 --> 00:00:59,780 Ba a ce duk mata daidai suke ba 13 00:00:59,780 --> 00:01:02,780 Amma a cikin dukkan abubuwa masu kyau 14 00:01:02,780 --> 00:01:07,840 Wannan nau'in mutum ne mai kyau, dabam da waɗanda suka gabace shi 15 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,840 Kamar yadda mace ta hudu ta siffanta shi da cewa: 16 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,840 Mijina Kalil Tihama ne 17 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:18,840 Babu zafi, ba haushi, ba tsoro, babu guba 18 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,129 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 19 00:01:22,129 --> 00:01:26,129 Tace bashi da izini ko cutarwa 20 00:01:26,129 --> 00:01:28,129 Amma wannan kamar 21 00:01:28,129 --> 00:01:33,129 Domin zafi da sanyi duka suna da kunne idan ya yi tsanani 22 00:01:33,129 --> 00:01:35,189 Babu tsoro 23 00:01:35,189 --> 00:01:40,189 Tace babu wani hadari gareshi kuma babu wani mugun tsoro 24 00:01:40,189 --> 00:01:42,189 Kuma ba gajiyawa 25 00:01:42,189 --> 00:01:46,189 Tace baya gajiya da company dina 26 00:01:46,189 --> 00:01:49,290 Al-Asbahani Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 27 00:01:49,290 --> 00:01:52,290 Ana tunawa da daren Tihama don alheri 28 00:01:52,290 --> 00:01:55,290 Wato ba shi da izini kuma ba shi da wata adawa 29 00:01:55,290 --> 00:01:58,349 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 30 00:01:58,349 --> 00:02:04,349 Wato mijinta ba ya da nauyi kuma ba shi da lalaci 31 00:02:04,349 --> 00:02:06,349 Maimakon haka, yana da dadi kuma mai dadi 32 00:02:06,349 --> 00:02:08,349 Sauƙi akan abokin 33 00:02:08,349 --> 00:02:10,349 Mastlan gefe 34 00:02:10,349 --> 00:02:13,580 Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 35 00:02:13,580 --> 00:02:16,580 Ta bayyana mijinta a matsayin kyakkyawa 36 00:02:16,580 --> 00:02:20,580 Daidaita halin da ake ciki da aminci na ciki 37 00:02:20,580 --> 00:02:22,580 Kamar yadda ta fada 38 00:02:22,580 --> 00:02:25,580 Babu cutarwa ko cutarwa gare shi 39 00:02:25,580 --> 00:02:27,580 Na tsira daga gare shi 40 00:02:27,580 --> 00:02:29,580 Bana tsoron sharrinsa 41 00:02:29,580 --> 00:02:33,580 Ba ya gajiya kuma ya gaji da kamfani na 42 00:02:33,580 --> 00:02:35,580 Ko kuma ba munanan halaye ba 43 00:02:35,580 --> 00:02:37,580 Na gaji da zama da shi 44 00:02:37,580 --> 00:02:40,580 Ina farin cikin zama da shi 45 00:02:40,580 --> 00:02:44,580 Mutanen Tihama suna jin daɗin darensu mai laushi 46 00:02:44,580 --> 00:02:50,139 Wannan mata ta siffanta mijinta da kyau 47 00:02:50,139 --> 00:02:53,139 Halayensa masu kyau sun bayyana a cikinsa 48 00:02:53,139 --> 00:02:57,139 Abin da kowace mace ke so a wurin mijinta 49 00:02:57,139 --> 00:03:02,139 Kowace mace tana farin cikin samun kwanciyar hankali da mijinta 50 00:03:02,139 --> 00:03:06,139 Wannan jin yana zuwa ne saboda ayyukan miji 51 00:03:06,139 --> 00:03:08,139 Kuma duba shi ma 52 00:03:08,139 --> 00:03:11,210 Saboda ayyukan miji 53 00:03:11,210 --> 00:03:15,210 Wani mutum ya yi wa matarsa barazanar saki shi ne dalili mafi ban dariya 54 00:03:15,210 --> 00:03:18,210 Ko kuma ya yawaita ambaton saki a gabanta 55 00:03:18,210 --> 00:03:20,210 Ya rasa tsaron tunanin ta 56 00:03:20,210 --> 00:03:23,210 Yana rayuwa da shi cikin tsoro kullum 57 00:03:23,210 --> 00:03:26,210 Domin bata tsira daga wannan bangaren ba 58 00:03:26,210 --> 00:03:30,270 Bai dace mai hankali ya yiwa matarsa barazana ba 59 00:03:30,270 --> 00:03:34,270 A 'yar karamar matsalar da ke faruwa a tsakaninsu 60 00:03:34,270 --> 00:03:38,270 Maimakon haka, mai hankali ba ya maganar saki a gaban matarsa 61 00:03:38,270 --> 00:03:42,270 Ana iya sake shi ne kawai bayan duk hanyoyin sun ƙare 62 00:03:42,270 --> 00:03:44,270 Don magance matsalarsa da ita 63 00:03:44,270 --> 00:03:49,460 Bayan istikharah, shawara da shawara 64 00:03:49,460 --> 00:03:52,460 Mace tana jin aminci da mijinta 65 00:03:52,460 --> 00:03:56,460 Yana daya daga cikin muhimman abubuwan da ke kawo farin cikinta 66 00:03:56,460 --> 00:04:00,460 Wannan dalili ne na yawan bayarwa da sadaukarwa gare ku 67 00:04:00,460 --> 00:04:02,460 Ya kai mutum 68 00:04:02,460 --> 00:04:04,460 Don haka kiyaye shi kuma za ku yi farin ciki 69 00:04:04,460 --> 00:04:06,659 Wannan jin na tsaro 70 00:04:06,659 --> 00:04:09,659 Wannan mace ta hudu ta bayyana shi 71 00:04:09,659 --> 00:04:13,659 Bayani mai mahimmanci guda uku a cikin rayuwar aure 72 00:04:13,659 --> 00:04:15,659 Na farko 73 00:04:15,659 --> 00:04:19,660 Maza wajen mu'amala da mata a rayuwar aure 74 00:04:19,660 --> 00:04:22,660 Matar ta kamanta shi da daren Tihama 75 00:04:22,660 --> 00:04:24,660 Babu zafi ko jin dadi 76 00:04:24,660 --> 00:04:27,660 Yana nufin kyawawan matsakaici 77 00:04:27,660 --> 00:04:31,660 Haka ya kamata namiji ya kasance a rayuwarsa ta aure 78 00:04:31,660 --> 00:04:35,660 Ba ya cutar da matarsa ta kowace hanya 79 00:04:35,660 --> 00:04:39,660 Domin ita abokiyar zamansa ce a rayuwar duniya 80 00:04:39,660 --> 00:04:41,660 Wanda ya zaba da yardarsa 81 00:04:41,660 --> 00:04:45,660 Kuma yayi yaki don samun yardarta 82 00:04:45,660 --> 00:04:49,660 Ya ba ta kuɗi, zinariya, da kyaututtuka don ta karɓa 83 00:04:49,660 --> 00:04:52,660 Hakan ya kara mata ciwo 84 00:04:52,660 --> 00:04:56,750 Da sauri yana buƙatarta kuma ba zai iya yi ba tare da shi ba 85 00:04:56,750 --> 00:05:01,819 Don me zai bata mata hankali ya dagula mata ranta? 86 00:05:01,819 --> 00:05:04,819 Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya hana mutum 87 00:05:04,819 --> 00:05:07,819 Game da cutar da mata da wuri 88 00:05:07,819 --> 00:05:10,819 Sannan kayi jima'i da ita a karshe 89 00:05:10,819 --> 00:05:13,819 An kar~o daga Abdullahi bn Zamaa Allah Ya yarda da shi 90 00:05:13,819 --> 00:05:17,819 An kar~o daga Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya ce 91 00:05:17,819 --> 00:05:21,819 Kada ɗayanku ya yi wa matarsa bulala kamar bawa 92 00:05:21,819 --> 00:05:24,819 Sannan ya sadu da ita a karshen yini 93 00:05:24,819 --> 00:05:26,819 Bukhari ne ya ruwaito shi 94 00:05:26,819 --> 00:05:31,069 Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 95 00:05:31,069 --> 00:05:34,069 Wannan musun wanda ya yi wa matarsa bulala ne 96 00:05:34,069 --> 00:05:39,069 Kuma fiye da haka har sai ya dauke ta kamar al'umma 97 00:05:39,069 --> 00:05:42,069 Sannan yana da sauki bayan haka 98 00:05:42,069 --> 00:05:44,069 Ya koma ya bata mata 99 00:05:44,069 --> 00:05:47,069 Da kuma biyan bukatarsa gareta 100 00:05:47,069 --> 00:05:50,069 Kada ku yi masa biyayya ko ku kyautata masa 101 00:05:50,069 --> 00:05:52,069 Kuna iya ƙi shi 102 00:05:52,069 --> 00:05:54,069 Wataƙila yana son ta 103 00:05:54,069 --> 00:05:58,069 Yanayinsa ya tabarbare kuma lamarinsu ya tsananta 104 00:05:58,069 --> 00:06:03,069 Rahama da soyayyar da Allah Ta’ala ya kafa tsakanin ma’aurata za su gushe 105 00:06:03,069 --> 00:06:06,069 Kuma akasin haka ya faru 106 00:06:06,069 --> 00:06:08,069 Da ita Allah ya jikansa da rahama 107 00:06:08,069 --> 00:06:10,069 Da wannan gajeriyar kalmar 108 00:06:10,069 --> 00:06:14,170 Amma sharrin da ke tasowa daga hakan 109 00:06:14,170 --> 00:06:17,170 Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 110 00:06:17,170 --> 00:06:20,170 Da jima'i ko jima'i 111 00:06:20,170 --> 00:06:25,170 Maimakon haka, ya fi kyau a yi wa kanmu da sha’awar a yi musu alheri 112 00:06:25,170 --> 00:06:28,170 Wanda aka yi masa bulala yakan kori wanda aka yi masa bulala 113 00:06:28,170 --> 00:06:33,670 An nuna cewa an yi Allah wadai da hakan 114 00:06:33,670 --> 00:06:36,670 Ya girmama Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama 115 00:06:36,670 --> 00:06:41,670 Matar ta yi mamakin tunani a hankali don ta sami kwanciyar hankali da kwanciyar hankali tare da mijinta 116 00:06:41,670 --> 00:06:45,670 Ya fadakar da maigida akan ladubban mu'amala da mata 117 00:06:45,670 --> 00:06:48,670 Kuma baya kyautatawa mata 118 00:06:48,670 --> 00:06:52,769 Jiki ne marar rai ko ji 119 00:06:52,769 --> 00:06:57,769 Mace mai lafiya tana ba da jikinta ga waɗanda take so 120 00:06:57,769 --> 00:07:01,769 Kuma a cikin cikakken tabbaci na tunani 121 00:07:01,769 --> 00:07:03,990 Na biyu 122 00:07:03,990 --> 00:07:05,990 Tsaro na ciki 123 00:07:05,990 --> 00:07:10,990 Kada ku yi tsammanin kowace irin yaudara daga gare shi a rayuwar aure 124 00:07:10,990 --> 00:07:12,990 Kuma kada ku ji tsoron hakan 125 00:07:12,990 --> 00:07:16,990 Wannan shi ne kololuwar amincin tunani a rayuwar mace 126 00:07:16,990 --> 00:07:19,990 Don jin kwarin gwiwa ga mijinta 127 00:07:19,990 --> 00:07:25,149 Cikinsa kamar na waje yana da tsafta kuma babu yaudara a ciki 128 00:07:25,149 --> 00:07:27,149 Na uku 129 00:07:27,149 --> 00:07:31,149 Kyakkyawan kamfani da kamfani mai kyau ba sa gajiya da su 130 00:07:31,149 --> 00:07:35,149 Wannan yana nuna wa mace cewa mijinta yana son ta 131 00:07:35,149 --> 00:07:41,149 Kyakkyawar kamfani da kyakkyawan kamfani suna zuwa ne kawai daga wanda yake da kyawawan halaye 132 00:07:41,149 --> 00:07:46,149 Zama da matar na tsawon lokaci shaida ne na son da yake mata 133 00:07:46,149 --> 00:07:50,149 Wannan yana buƙatar sauraro da kyau 134 00:07:50,149 --> 00:07:52,149 Domin idan ya zauna da ita 135 00:07:52,149 --> 00:07:56,149 Naji dadin magana dashi kuma naji dadi dashi 136 00:07:56,149 --> 00:08:00,149 Haka Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya yi 137 00:08:00,149 --> 00:08:02,149 A cikin hadisin Ummu Zara’ 138 00:08:02,149 --> 00:08:04,149 Ya zauna da Aisha 139 00:08:04,149 --> 00:08:06,149 Kuma hira da ita 140 00:08:06,149 --> 00:08:09,149 Kuma ka saurare ta da kyau 141 00:08:09,149 --> 00:08:15,149 Mata suna da rawar gani wajen kawar da gajiya daga rayuwar aure tare da kyakkyawar kulawa 142 00:08:15,149 --> 00:08:17,149 Zaɓi batun tattaunawa 143 00:08:17,149 --> 00:08:22,149 Da sabuntawa a rayuwarta, suturarta, da gidanta 144 00:08:22,149 --> 00:08:26,149 Don haka sai Umar bin Al-Aas ya faxi kyawawan kalmominsa 145 00:08:26,149 --> 00:08:30,149 Ba na gajiya da dabbata muddin ƙafata ta ɗauke ta 146 00:08:30,149 --> 00:08:33,149 Haka kuma matata ba ta kyautata min ba 147 00:08:33,149 --> 00:08:37,149 Haka kuma abokina bai rufa min asiri ba 148 00:08:37,149 --> 00:08:40,149 Rashin gajiya yana daya daga cikin dabi'un karya 149 00:08:40,149 --> 00:08:44,500 Ya kai mai daraja da matar ka? 150 00:08:44,500 --> 00:08:47,500 Kuna jin lafiya tare da ku? 151 00:08:47,500 --> 00:08:50,500 Kuna marmarin zama da ita? 152 00:08:50,500 --> 00:08:54,500 Kuna da ikon sauraronta ba tare da katse ba? 153 00:08:54,500 --> 00:08:56,500 Ko da ta dade tana magana 154 00:08:56,500 --> 00:09:00,879 Zamu cigaba a nan gaba insha Allah 155 00:09:00,879 --> 00:09:03,879 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai