WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.299 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.299 --> 00:00:08.240 Men's items 00:00:08.240 --> 00:00:16.219 In the hadith of Umm Zara’ 00:00:16.219 --> 00:00:21.300 Why did the mother of Zara divorce? 00:00:21.300 --> 00:00:24.800 After all the beautiful description that Umm Zara mentioned 00:00:24.800 --> 00:00:29.300 About the bliss she lived with her husband, Abu Zara 00:00:29.300 --> 00:00:30.300 she said 00:00:30.300 --> 00:00:33.799 Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning 00:00:34.299 --> 00:00:38.299 He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards 00:00:38.299 --> 00:00:41.799 They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist 00:00:41.799 --> 00:00:44.929 So he divorced me and married her 00:00:44.929 --> 00:00:47.929 That's how I put it in brief 00:00:47.929 --> 00:00:50.929 The evidence is how quickly he divorced her 00:00:50.929 --> 00:00:53.090 And marrying someone else 00:00:53.090 --> 00:00:56.090 Can you imagine that such a man? 00:00:56.090 --> 00:00:59.590 Who showed her all this kindness 00:00:59.590 --> 00:01:02.590 He gives it up so quickly to someone else 00:01:02.590 --> 00:01:05.319 For no apparent reason 00:01:05.319 --> 00:01:08.819 Perhaps we should consider the event from several angles 00:01:08.819 --> 00:01:12.480 The picture becomes clearer to us 00:01:12.480 --> 00:01:13.980 Firstly 00:01:13.980 --> 00:01:17.480 What do we benefit from mentioning it at the time of his departure? 00:01:17.480 --> 00:01:18.480 she said 00:01:18.480 --> 00:01:22.140 Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning 00:01:22.140 --> 00:01:25.140 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 00:01:25.140 --> 00:01:29.140 It is possible that she wanted to leave her house early 00:01:29.140 --> 00:01:31.140 And they set him up for that 00:01:31.140 --> 00:01:34.140 Because it is the time for servants and slaves 00:01:34.140 --> 00:01:36.140 for their jobs and professions 00:01:36.140 --> 00:01:38.140 And it collapsed during that 00:01:38.140 --> 00:01:41.140 The abundance of the best of his home and the abundance of his bricks 00:01:41.140 --> 00:01:45.140 And they have something to drink pure and pure 00:01:45.140 --> 00:01:47.140 It is preferable to their needs 00:01:47.140 --> 00:01:50.140 Until they put him through the stakes 00:01:50.140 --> 00:01:53.359 It is extracted from butter and ghee 00:01:53.359 --> 00:01:55.359 And you probably want to 00:01:55.359 --> 00:01:59.359 He came out to welcome the time, its goodness and its spring 00:01:59.359 --> 00:02:02.359 At a time when people are travailing 00:02:02.359 --> 00:02:05.359 And his departure is either for travel or for something else 00:02:05.359 --> 00:02:07.359 It was at this time 00:02:07.359 --> 00:02:10.360 The benefit is in the first possibility 00:02:10.360 --> 00:02:14.360 Defining it by leaving her early in the day 00:02:14.360 --> 00:02:16.360 In the second possibility 00:02:16.360 --> 00:02:22.219 Informing her of the time of his departure from her in the seasons 00:02:22.219 --> 00:02:24.219 In the first possibility 00:02:24.219 --> 00:02:26.219 He goes out at the beginning of the day 00:02:26.219 --> 00:02:29.219 If we imagine it with what she said about herself 00:02:29.219 --> 00:02:31.219 And I lie down and it becomes morning 00:02:31.219 --> 00:02:34.219 That is, she sleeps first thing in the morning 00:02:34.219 --> 00:02:37.219 Do not wake up except in the morning 00:02:37.219 --> 00:02:39.219 We can tell 00:02:39.219 --> 00:02:42.219 By the time he left early, she was asleep 00:02:42.219 --> 00:02:47.219 The man whose nature is to be early in his deeds from the beginning of the day 00:02:47.219 --> 00:02:50.219 He likes his wife to be like him 00:02:50.219 --> 00:02:54.219 Or at least be awake with him 00:02:54.219 --> 00:02:57.219 If he leaves his house, she falls asleep 00:02:57.219 --> 00:03:00.219 As for the one whose habit is to sleep until noon 00:03:00.219 --> 00:03:05.219 It is not suitable for a husband who likes to go early in his life 00:03:05.219 --> 00:03:08.219 She does not serve him before he leaves 00:03:08.219 --> 00:03:11.219 He does not enjoy it when he faces his day 00:03:11.219 --> 00:03:14.219 It is no surprise that he came out after that 00:03:14.219 --> 00:03:18.219 He finds an active woman awake at dawn 00:03:18.219 --> 00:03:20.219 He is fascinated by her 00:03:20.219 --> 00:03:23.259 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:23.259 --> 00:03:25.259 As if the reason for mentioning that 00:03:25.259 --> 00:03:28.259 A prelude to the motivation to see Abu Zara’ 00:03:28.259 --> 00:03:32.259 For the woman in the state he saw her in 00:03:32.259 --> 00:03:34.259 That is, it is from churning milk 00:03:34.259 --> 00:03:37.259 She was tired, so she lay down to rest 00:03:37.259 --> 00:03:40.259 Abu Zar’ saw that 00:03:40.259 --> 00:03:45.090 The presence of servants in the home does not mean a woman is lazy 00:03:45.090 --> 00:03:49.090 She is the housewife and guide to the servants 00:03:49.090 --> 00:03:52.090 They work under her supervision 00:03:52.090 --> 00:03:56.090 Rather, they are a factor that helps women in some of their work 00:03:56.090 --> 00:03:59.090 Which is not related to the husband 00:03:59.090 --> 00:04:01.090 Not raising children 00:04:01.090 --> 00:04:05.090 The presence of a woman in the life of her husband and offspring 00:04:05.090 --> 00:04:07.090 It's very important 00:04:07.090 --> 00:04:10.090 For family stability and happiness 00:04:10.090 --> 00:04:13.180 Was this a mistake or an implant? 00:04:13.180 --> 00:04:15.180 Which you did not mention to us 00:04:15.180 --> 00:04:17.279 Secondly 00:04:17.279 --> 00:04:20.279 What is the beautiful thing that attracted Abu Zara? 00:04:20.279 --> 00:04:22.410 In this woman 00:04:22.410 --> 00:04:25.410 When she described the woman whom Abu Zar’ saw 00:04:25.410 --> 00:04:27.410 she said 00:04:27.410 --> 00:04:30.410 He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards 00:04:30.410 --> 00:04:34.410 They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist 00:04:34.410 --> 00:04:37.629 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:37.629 --> 00:04:41.629 It is more likely that what is meant by it is two breasts 00:04:41.629 --> 00:04:43.629 And his saying is 00:04:43.629 --> 00:04:46.629 They play from under her waist or chest 00:04:46.629 --> 00:04:49.629 That is, this is the place of the two boys 00:04:49.629 --> 00:04:51.629 No place for pomegranates 00:04:51.629 --> 00:04:54.629 And her two sons were in her arms 00:04:54.629 --> 00:04:57.629 Or barefoot beside her 00:04:57.629 --> 00:05:00.730 He likened the breasts to pomegranates 00:05:00.730 --> 00:05:03.730 It indicates their breasts and ankles 00:05:03.730 --> 00:05:06.730 This is because she is young and young 00:05:06.730 --> 00:05:09.730 And it is yet to be enacted 00:05:09.730 --> 00:05:11.730 And sag and sag 00:05:11.730 --> 00:05:14.730 Her breasts would break and hang down 00:05:14.730 --> 00:05:18.730 In that case, they are not like pomegranates 00:05:19.730 --> 00:05:24.660 This is what is expected from the description of a mother implanted in a woman 00:05:24.660 --> 00:05:28.660 Because we noticed that her description of her entire family 00:05:28.660 --> 00:05:31.660 Focused on physical beauty 00:05:31.660 --> 00:05:35.660 Here she also describes women as having a kind of physical beauty 00:05:35.660 --> 00:05:37.660 Which men love 00:05:37.660 --> 00:05:39.660 It is like the heels of the chest 00:05:39.660 --> 00:05:42.660 Indicative of a woman's young age 00:05:42.660 --> 00:05:44.660 It is one of the bliss of heaven 00:05:44.660 --> 00:05:46.660 God Almighty said 00:05:46.660 --> 00:05:48.660 And Ka'ab Ataraba 00:05:48.660 --> 00:05:51.720 Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said 00:05:51.720 --> 00:05:54.720 Ka'ab is the plural of Ka'ab 00:05:54.720 --> 00:05:56.720 She is Al-Nahed 00:05:56.720 --> 00:05:59.720 This was said by Qatada, Mujahid, and the commentators 00:05:59.720 --> 00:06:01.720 Al-Kalbi said 00:06:01.720 --> 00:06:03.720 They are the arks 00:06:03.720 --> 00:06:06.720 Those whose breasts are heaving and falling apart 00:06:06.720 --> 00:06:09.720 The origin of the word is roundness 00:06:09.720 --> 00:06:11.720 And what is meant 00:06:11.720 --> 00:06:14.720 Their breasts are as bright as pomegranates 00:06:14.720 --> 00:06:17.720 Not hanging down 00:06:17.720 --> 00:06:20.720 They are called Nawahid and Ka'ab 00:06:20.720 --> 00:06:24.550 Here we have a question 00:06:24.550 --> 00:06:28.550 This is the aesthetic description that fascinated Abu Zara 00:06:28.550 --> 00:06:31.550 Is it present in or planted? 00:06:31.550 --> 00:06:34.550 Apparently it doesn't exist there 00:06:34.550 --> 00:06:36.550 Either creation 00:06:36.550 --> 00:06:38.550 Or because of her old age 00:06:38.550 --> 00:06:41.550 Or she neglected to take care of herself 00:06:41.550 --> 00:06:45.550 Although it is blessed and sufficient for work 00:06:45.550 --> 00:06:47.649 Her body is not exhausted 00:06:47.649 --> 00:06:49.649 And the truth 00:06:49.649 --> 00:06:52.649 Every woman has beauty characteristics 00:06:52.649 --> 00:06:54.649 Different from others 00:06:54.649 --> 00:06:56.649 This is from the greatness of the Creator 00:06:56.649 --> 00:06:59.649 Not all beautiful specifications will be available 00:06:59.649 --> 00:07:01.649 Combined with a woman 00:07:01.649 --> 00:07:03.939 Except in heaven 00:07:03.939 --> 00:07:06.939 If a man directs his gaze to women 00:07:06.939 --> 00:07:09.939 He will find someone more beautiful than his wife 00:07:09.939 --> 00:07:11.939 It is necessary 00:07:11.939 --> 00:07:13.939 Therefore, God Almighty forbade it 00:07:13.939 --> 00:07:16.939 Men should look at non-mahram women 00:07:16.939 --> 00:07:18.939 Whoever looses his sight gets tired 00:07:18.939 --> 00:07:20.939 And his heart was corrupted 00:07:20.939 --> 00:07:24.939 He was not satisfied with the blessing he had in his wife 00:07:24.939 --> 00:07:26.939 And he will enter into the scourge of comparison 00:07:26.939 --> 00:07:29.939 Between what he sees and his wife 00:07:29.939 --> 00:07:30.939 And then 00:07:30.939 --> 00:07:33.939 His married life will not be straight 00:07:33.939 --> 00:07:36.939 He will not get everything he sees 00:07:36.939 --> 00:07:40.000 Whoever lowers his gaze is included in Paradise 00:07:40.000 --> 00:07:43.000 On the authority of Ubadah bin Al-Samit, may God be pleased with him 00:07:43.000 --> 00:07:46.000 That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:46.000 --> 00:07:47.000 He said 00:07:47.000 --> 00:07:50.000 Guarantee me six of yourselves 00:07:50.000 --> 00:07:52.000 I guarantee you heaven 00:07:52.000 --> 00:07:54.000 Believe me if you tell me 00:07:54.000 --> 00:07:56.000 And fulfill your promise 00:07:56.000 --> 00:07:59.000 And perform if you are entrusted with it 00:07:59.000 --> 00:08:01.000 And protect your private parts 00:08:01.000 --> 00:08:03.000 And lower your gaze 00:08:03.000 --> 00:08:05.000 And hold your hands 00:08:05.000 --> 00:08:07.000 Narrated by Ahmed 00:08:07.000 --> 00:08:09.259 Then Aba planted 00:08:09.259 --> 00:08:11.259 One pavement 00:08:11.259 --> 00:08:13.259 Related to her body 00:08:13.259 --> 00:08:15.259 Other things were hidden from him 00:08:15.259 --> 00:08:18.259 It's about living with her and her morals 00:08:18.259 --> 00:08:20.259 It could ruin his life 00:08:20.259 --> 00:08:22.319 A man should not 00:08:22.319 --> 00:08:24.319 That his concern is the woman’s body 00:08:24.319 --> 00:08:27.319 Without looking at her character and religion 00:08:27.319 --> 00:08:29.449 Fourth 00:08:29.449 --> 00:08:31.449 Is there anything else? 00:08:31.449 --> 00:08:33.450 He liked this woman 00:08:33.450 --> 00:08:36.610 Dell or implant description of the scene 00:08:36.610 --> 00:08:39.610 That Abu Zara looked at something else 00:08:39.610 --> 00:08:41.610 He liked this woman 00:08:41.610 --> 00:08:44.610 He is the survivor of offspring 00:08:44.610 --> 00:08:46.830 Umm Zara said in the description 00:08:46.830 --> 00:08:51.830 He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards 00:08:51.830 --> 00:08:53.929 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:53.929 --> 00:08:56.929 And the benefit of describing it to them 00:08:56.929 --> 00:09:00.929 Alert on the reasons for my father marrying her to her 00:09:00.929 --> 00:09:06.929 Because they wanted their children to be from women who gave birth 00:09:06.929 --> 00:09:10.929 That's why Abu Zar'a was keen on her when he saw her 00:09:10.929 --> 00:09:15.700 Was she a sow mother with few children? 00:09:15.700 --> 00:09:17.700 This is what is apparent 00:09:17.700 --> 00:09:19.700 She only mentioned two 00:09:19.700 --> 00:09:23.700 With the long period of her stay with her husband 00:09:23.700 --> 00:09:26.759 Childbirth is a gift from God 00:09:26.759 --> 00:09:28.759 God Almighty said about it 00:09:28.759 --> 00:09:35.759 He gives females to whomever He wishes, and He gives males to whomever He wishes 00:09:35.759 --> 00:09:38.759 Or he will marry them to two males and two females 00:09:39.759 --> 00:09:43.759 He makes whomever He wills sterile 00:09:43.759 --> 00:09:46.759 He is All-Knowing and All-Powerful 00:09:46.759 --> 00:09:50.820 The mother of Zara was provided with every comfort 00:09:50.820 --> 00:09:53.820 So why didn't she give birth to more than two? 00:09:53.820 --> 00:09:55.820 And the answer 00:09:55.820 --> 00:09:58.820 Either this is what is meant for her 00:09:58.820 --> 00:10:02.820 Or she is the type who hates having children 00:10:02.820 --> 00:10:04.820 She did not care about it 00:10:04.820 --> 00:10:08.820 This was a reason for her husband to marry her 00:10:08.820 --> 00:10:10.980 Can we say? 00:10:10.980 --> 00:10:13.980 Zara's mother caused her divorce 00:10:13.980 --> 00:10:17.980 Or to push her husband to look at others 00:10:17.980 --> 00:10:19.980 And marry her 00:10:19.980 --> 00:10:25.070 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:10:25.070 --> 00:10:28.070 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds