1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,299 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,299 --> 00:00:08,240 Men's items 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:16,219 In the hadith of Umm Zara’ 4 00:00:16,219 --> 00:00:21,300 Why did the mother of Zara divorce? 5 00:00:21,300 --> 00:00:24,800 After all the beautiful description that Umm Zara mentioned 6 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:29,300 About the bliss she lived with her husband, Abu Zara 7 00:00:29,300 --> 00:00:30,300 she said 8 00:00:30,300 --> 00:00:33,799 Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning 9 00:00:34,299 --> 00:00:38,299 He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards 10 00:00:38,299 --> 00:00:41,799 They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist 11 00:00:41,799 --> 00:00:44,929 So he divorced me and married her 12 00:00:44,929 --> 00:00:47,929 That's how I put it in brief 13 00:00:47,929 --> 00:00:50,929 The evidence is how quickly he divorced her 14 00:00:50,929 --> 00:00:53,090 And marrying someone else 15 00:00:53,090 --> 00:00:56,090 Can you imagine that such a man? 16 00:00:56,090 --> 00:00:59,590 Who showed her all this kindness 17 00:00:59,590 --> 00:01:02,590 He gives it up so quickly to someone else 18 00:01:02,590 --> 00:01:05,319 For no apparent reason 19 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,819 Perhaps we should consider the event from several angles 20 00:01:08,819 --> 00:01:12,480 The picture becomes clearer to us 21 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:13,980 Firstly 22 00:01:13,980 --> 00:01:17,480 What do we benefit from mentioning it at the time of his departure? 23 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:18,480 she said 24 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:22,140 Abu Zara went out and the bricks were churning 25 00:01:22,140 --> 00:01:25,140 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 26 00:01:25,140 --> 00:01:29,140 It is possible that she wanted to leave her house early 27 00:01:29,140 --> 00:01:31,140 And they set him up for that 28 00:01:31,140 --> 00:01:34,140 Because it is the time for servants and slaves 29 00:01:34,140 --> 00:01:36,140 for their jobs and professions 30 00:01:36,140 --> 00:01:38,140 And it collapsed during that 31 00:01:38,140 --> 00:01:41,140 The abundance of the best of his home and the abundance of his bricks 32 00:01:41,140 --> 00:01:45,140 And they have something to drink pure and pure 33 00:01:45,140 --> 00:01:47,140 It is preferable to their needs 34 00:01:47,140 --> 00:01:50,140 Until they put him through the stakes 35 00:01:50,140 --> 00:01:53,359 It is extracted from butter and ghee 36 00:01:53,359 --> 00:01:55,359 And you probably want to 37 00:01:55,359 --> 00:01:59,359 He came out to welcome the time, its goodness and its spring 38 00:01:59,359 --> 00:02:02,359 At a time when people are travailing 39 00:02:02,359 --> 00:02:05,359 And his departure is either for travel or for something else 40 00:02:05,359 --> 00:02:07,359 It was at this time 41 00:02:07,359 --> 00:02:10,360 The benefit is in the first possibility 42 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:14,360 Defining it by leaving her early in the day 43 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,360 In the second possibility 44 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:22,219 Informing her of the time of his departure from her in the seasons 45 00:02:22,219 --> 00:02:24,219 In the first possibility 46 00:02:24,219 --> 00:02:26,219 He goes out at the beginning of the day 47 00:02:26,219 --> 00:02:29,219 If we imagine it with what she said about herself 48 00:02:29,219 --> 00:02:31,219 And I lie down and it becomes morning 49 00:02:31,219 --> 00:02:34,219 That is, she sleeps first thing in the morning 50 00:02:34,219 --> 00:02:37,219 Do not wake up except in the morning 51 00:02:37,219 --> 00:02:39,219 We can tell 52 00:02:39,219 --> 00:02:42,219 By the time he left early, she was asleep 53 00:02:42,219 --> 00:02:47,219 The man whose nature is to be early in his deeds from the beginning of the day 54 00:02:47,219 --> 00:02:50,219 He likes his wife to be like him 55 00:02:50,219 --> 00:02:54,219 Or at least be awake with him 56 00:02:54,219 --> 00:02:57,219 If he leaves his house, she falls asleep 57 00:02:57,219 --> 00:03:00,219 As for the one whose habit is to sleep until noon 58 00:03:00,219 --> 00:03:05,219 It is not suitable for a husband who likes to go early in his life 59 00:03:05,219 --> 00:03:08,219 She does not serve him before he leaves 60 00:03:08,219 --> 00:03:11,219 He does not enjoy it when he faces his day 61 00:03:11,219 --> 00:03:14,219 It is no surprise that he came out after that 62 00:03:14,219 --> 00:03:18,219 He finds an active woman awake at dawn 63 00:03:18,219 --> 00:03:20,219 He is fascinated by her 64 00:03:20,219 --> 00:03:23,259 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 65 00:03:23,259 --> 00:03:25,259 As if the reason for mentioning that 66 00:03:25,259 --> 00:03:28,259 A prelude to the motivation to see Abu Zara’ 67 00:03:28,259 --> 00:03:32,259 For the woman in the state he saw her in 68 00:03:32,259 --> 00:03:34,259 That is, it is from churning milk 69 00:03:34,259 --> 00:03:37,259 She was tired, so she lay down to rest 70 00:03:37,259 --> 00:03:40,259 Abu Zar’ saw that 71 00:03:40,259 --> 00:03:45,090 The presence of servants in the home does not mean a woman is lazy 72 00:03:45,090 --> 00:03:49,090 She is the housewife and guide to the servants 73 00:03:49,090 --> 00:03:52,090 They work under her supervision 74 00:03:52,090 --> 00:03:56,090 Rather, they are a factor that helps women in some of their work 75 00:03:56,090 --> 00:03:59,090 Which is not related to the husband 76 00:03:59,090 --> 00:04:01,090 Not raising children 77 00:04:01,090 --> 00:04:05,090 The presence of a woman in the life of her husband and offspring 78 00:04:05,090 --> 00:04:07,090 It's very important 79 00:04:07,090 --> 00:04:10,090 For family stability and happiness 80 00:04:10,090 --> 00:04:13,180 Was this a mistake or an implant? 81 00:04:13,180 --> 00:04:15,180 Which you did not mention to us 82 00:04:15,180 --> 00:04:17,279 Secondly 83 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,279 What is the beautiful thing that attracted Abu Zara? 84 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:22,410 In this woman 85 00:04:22,410 --> 00:04:25,410 When she described the woman whom Abu Zar’ saw 86 00:04:25,410 --> 00:04:27,410 she said 87 00:04:27,410 --> 00:04:30,410 He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards 88 00:04:30,410 --> 00:04:34,410 They are playing with two pomegranates under her waist 89 00:04:34,410 --> 00:04:37,629 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 90 00:04:37,629 --> 00:04:41,629 It is more likely that what is meant by it is two breasts 91 00:04:41,629 --> 00:04:43,629 And his saying is 92 00:04:43,629 --> 00:04:46,629 They play from under her waist or chest 93 00:04:46,629 --> 00:04:49,629 That is, this is the place of the two boys 94 00:04:49,629 --> 00:04:51,629 No place for pomegranates 95 00:04:51,629 --> 00:04:54,629 And her two sons were in her arms 96 00:04:54,629 --> 00:04:57,629 Or barefoot beside her 97 00:04:57,629 --> 00:05:00,730 He likened the breasts to pomegranates 98 00:05:00,730 --> 00:05:03,730 It indicates their breasts and ankles 99 00:05:03,730 --> 00:05:06,730 This is because she is young and young 100 00:05:06,730 --> 00:05:09,730 And it is yet to be enacted 101 00:05:09,730 --> 00:05:11,730 And sag and sag 102 00:05:11,730 --> 00:05:14,730 Her breasts would break and hang down 103 00:05:14,730 --> 00:05:18,730 In that case, they are not like pomegranates 104 00:05:19,730 --> 00:05:24,660 This is what is expected from the description of a mother implanted in a woman 105 00:05:24,660 --> 00:05:28,660 Because we noticed that her description of her entire family 106 00:05:28,660 --> 00:05:31,660 Focused on physical beauty 107 00:05:31,660 --> 00:05:35,660 Here she also describes women as having a kind of physical beauty 108 00:05:35,660 --> 00:05:37,660 Which men love 109 00:05:37,660 --> 00:05:39,660 It is like the heels of the chest 110 00:05:39,660 --> 00:05:42,660 Indicative of a woman's young age 111 00:05:42,660 --> 00:05:44,660 It is one of the bliss of heaven 112 00:05:44,660 --> 00:05:46,660 God Almighty said 113 00:05:46,660 --> 00:05:48,660 And Ka'ab Ataraba 114 00:05:48,660 --> 00:05:51,720 Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said 115 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,720 Ka'ab is the plural of Ka'ab 116 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,720 She is Al-Nahed 117 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,720 This was said by Qatada, Mujahid, and the commentators 118 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:01,720 Al-Kalbi said 119 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:03,720 They are the arks 120 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,720 Those whose breasts are heaving and falling apart 121 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,720 The origin of the word is roundness 122 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:11,720 And what is meant 123 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,720 Their breasts are as bright as pomegranates 124 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,720 Not hanging down 125 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,720 They are called Nawahid and Ka'ab 126 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:24,550 Here we have a question 127 00:06:24,550 --> 00:06:28,550 This is the aesthetic description that fascinated Abu Zara 128 00:06:28,550 --> 00:06:31,550 Is it present in or planted? 129 00:06:31,550 --> 00:06:34,550 Apparently it doesn't exist there 130 00:06:34,550 --> 00:06:36,550 Either creation 131 00:06:36,550 --> 00:06:38,550 Or because of her old age 132 00:06:38,550 --> 00:06:41,550 Or she neglected to take care of herself 133 00:06:41,550 --> 00:06:45,550 Although it is blessed and sufficient for work 134 00:06:45,550 --> 00:06:47,649 Her body is not exhausted 135 00:06:47,649 --> 00:06:49,649 And the truth 136 00:06:49,649 --> 00:06:52,649 Every woman has beauty characteristics 137 00:06:52,649 --> 00:06:54,649 Different from others 138 00:06:54,649 --> 00:06:56,649 This is from the greatness of the Creator 139 00:06:56,649 --> 00:06:59,649 Not all beautiful specifications will be available 140 00:06:59,649 --> 00:07:01,649 Combined with a woman 141 00:07:01,649 --> 00:07:03,939 Except in heaven 142 00:07:03,939 --> 00:07:06,939 If a man directs his gaze to women 143 00:07:06,939 --> 00:07:09,939 He will find someone more beautiful than his wife 144 00:07:09,939 --> 00:07:11,939 It is necessary 145 00:07:11,939 --> 00:07:13,939 Therefore, God Almighty forbade it 146 00:07:13,939 --> 00:07:16,939 Men should look at non-mahram women 147 00:07:16,939 --> 00:07:18,939 Whoever looses his sight gets tired 148 00:07:18,939 --> 00:07:20,939 And his heart was corrupted 149 00:07:20,939 --> 00:07:24,939 He was not satisfied with the blessing he had in his wife 150 00:07:24,939 --> 00:07:26,939 And he will enter into the scourge of comparison 151 00:07:26,939 --> 00:07:29,939 Between what he sees and his wife 152 00:07:29,939 --> 00:07:30,939 And then 153 00:07:30,939 --> 00:07:33,939 His married life will not be straight 154 00:07:33,939 --> 00:07:36,939 He will not get everything he sees 155 00:07:36,939 --> 00:07:40,000 Whoever lowers his gaze is included in Paradise 156 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:43,000 On the authority of Ubadah bin Al-Samit, may God be pleased with him 157 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:46,000 That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 158 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:47,000 He said 159 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,000 Guarantee me six of yourselves 160 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,000 I guarantee you heaven 161 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,000 Believe me if you tell me 162 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,000 And fulfill your promise 163 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:59,000 And perform if you are entrusted with it 164 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,000 And protect your private parts 165 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,000 And lower your gaze 166 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,000 And hold your hands 167 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,000 Narrated by Ahmed 168 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,259 Then Aba planted 169 00:08:09,259 --> 00:08:11,259 One pavement 170 00:08:11,259 --> 00:08:13,259 Related to her body 171 00:08:13,259 --> 00:08:15,259 Other things were hidden from him 172 00:08:15,259 --> 00:08:18,259 It's about living with her and her morals 173 00:08:18,259 --> 00:08:20,259 It could ruin his life 174 00:08:20,259 --> 00:08:22,319 A man should not 175 00:08:22,319 --> 00:08:24,319 That his concern is the woman’s body 176 00:08:24,319 --> 00:08:27,319 Without looking at her character and religion 177 00:08:27,319 --> 00:08:29,449 Fourth 178 00:08:29,449 --> 00:08:31,449 Is there anything else? 179 00:08:31,449 --> 00:08:33,450 He liked this woman 180 00:08:33,450 --> 00:08:36,610 Dell or implant description of the scene 181 00:08:36,610 --> 00:08:39,610 That Abu Zara looked at something else 182 00:08:39,610 --> 00:08:41,610 He liked this woman 183 00:08:41,610 --> 00:08:44,610 He is the survivor of offspring 184 00:08:44,610 --> 00:08:46,830 Umm Zara said in the description 185 00:08:46,830 --> 00:08:51,830 He found a woman with two sons who looked like two leopards 186 00:08:51,830 --> 00:08:53,929 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 187 00:08:53,929 --> 00:08:56,929 And the benefit of describing it to them 188 00:08:56,929 --> 00:09:00,929 Alert on the reasons for my father marrying her to her 189 00:09:00,929 --> 00:09:06,929 Because they wanted their children to be from women who gave birth 190 00:09:06,929 --> 00:09:10,929 That's why Abu Zar'a was keen on her when he saw her 191 00:09:10,929 --> 00:09:15,700 Was she a sow mother with few children? 192 00:09:15,700 --> 00:09:17,700 This is what is apparent 193 00:09:17,700 --> 00:09:19,700 She only mentioned two 194 00:09:19,700 --> 00:09:23,700 With the long period of her stay with her husband 195 00:09:23,700 --> 00:09:26,759 Childbirth is a gift from God 196 00:09:26,759 --> 00:09:28,759 God Almighty said about it 197 00:09:28,759 --> 00:09:35,759 He gives females to whomever He wishes, and He gives males to whomever He wishes 198 00:09:35,759 --> 00:09:38,759 Or he will marry them to two males and two females 199 00:09:39,759 --> 00:09:43,759 He makes whomever He wills sterile 200 00:09:43,759 --> 00:09:46,759 He is All-Knowing and All-Powerful 201 00:09:46,759 --> 00:09:50,820 The mother of Zara was provided with every comfort 202 00:09:50,820 --> 00:09:53,820 So why didn't she give birth to more than two? 203 00:09:53,820 --> 00:09:55,820 And the answer 204 00:09:55,820 --> 00:09:58,820 Either this is what is meant for her 205 00:09:58,820 --> 00:10:02,820 Or she is the type who hates having children 206 00:10:02,820 --> 00:10:04,820 She did not care about it 207 00:10:04,820 --> 00:10:08,820 This was a reason for her husband to marry her 208 00:10:08,820 --> 00:10:10,980 Can we say? 209 00:10:10,980 --> 00:10:13,980 Zara's mother caused her divorce 210 00:10:13,980 --> 00:10:17,980 Or to push her husband to look at others 211 00:10:17,980 --> 00:10:19,980 And marry her 212 00:10:19,980 --> 00:10:25,070 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 213 00:10:25,070 --> 00:10:28,070 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds