1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,639 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:05,639 --> 00:00:16,239 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 3 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:23,059 Mother of planting and beauty of the family environment 4 00:00:23,059 --> 00:00:27,660 Of the happiness that a woman achieves in her married life 5 00:00:27,660 --> 00:00:31,260 To have a cohesive, sane family 6 00:00:31,260 --> 00:00:35,859 They are surrounded by love, tolerance, and good morals 7 00:00:36,060 --> 00:00:39,359 Far from trouble 8 00:00:39,359 --> 00:00:42,359 Neither from the husband nor from his relatives 9 00:00:42,359 --> 00:00:46,320 Neither of the children nor of the servants 10 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,520 Umm Zar’a experienced all of this 11 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:53,320 She was the one who told me the details 12 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:57,020 My father's mother planted, but my father's mother did not plant 13 00:00:57,020 --> 00:01:01,109 Her house is spacious and her house is spacious 14 00:01:01,109 --> 00:01:04,709 My father's son planted, but my father's son did not plant 15 00:01:04,709 --> 00:01:07,310 His bed is like a bevel 16 00:01:07,310 --> 00:01:10,280 And the arm of Jafr satisfies him 17 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,980 The daughter of my father, Zar’, but not the daughter of my father, Zur’ 18 00:01:13,980 --> 00:01:16,680 Her father willingly and her mother willingly 19 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:20,500 And fill her clothes and please her neighbour 20 00:01:20,500 --> 00:01:25,000 My father’s maid Zar’a, but not my father’s maid Zar’a 21 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,900 Don't broadcast our conversation 22 00:01:27,900 --> 00:01:31,200 And do not let our mirror be cleansed 23 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:34,930 Do not fill our house with nests 24 00:01:34,930 --> 00:01:38,829 This is the environment that surrounds a sow mother 25 00:01:38,829 --> 00:01:41,930 But this is eloquent Arabic 26 00:01:41,930 --> 00:01:46,129 Which described the mother of the members of this environment 27 00:01:46,129 --> 00:01:47,930 It needs explanation 28 00:01:47,930 --> 00:01:51,030 To reveal the beauty of this environment to us 29 00:01:51,030 --> 00:01:55,030 And the extent of the bliss that Umm Zar’a lived 30 00:01:55,030 --> 00:01:57,329 Let's ask then 31 00:01:57,329 --> 00:01:59,829 How did you lose this bliss? 32 00:01:59,829 --> 00:02:04,480 Did she cause his loss through her bad behavior? 33 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:07,280 Before answering this question 34 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:12,979 We show the beauty of the family environment that Umm Zara lived in 35 00:02:12,979 --> 00:02:16,080 First, my father's mother planted 36 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,280 Umm Zara said about her 37 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:22,900 Her house is spacious and her house is spacious 38 00:02:22,900 --> 00:02:25,699 She praised her husband's mother for two things 39 00:02:25,699 --> 00:02:28,800 The first one praised her to herself 40 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,340 That her mind is bad 41 00:02:31,340 --> 00:02:33,639 Akoum has two meanings 42 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,240 The first meaning 43 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:38,240 They are similar to lockers or bags 44 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,939 Where luggage is stored 45 00:02:40,939 --> 00:02:46,099 She described it as heavy and full of luggage 46 00:02:46,099 --> 00:02:49,500 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said 47 00:02:49,500 --> 00:02:50,900 Akoum 48 00:02:50,900 --> 00:02:54,199 Loads and bags containing containers 49 00:02:54,199 --> 00:02:57,099 Of all kinds of food and enjoyment 50 00:02:57,099 --> 00:02:59,000 One of them is yours 51 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:00,900 And what she said was redundant 52 00:03:00,900 --> 00:03:02,000 She says 53 00:03:02,099 --> 00:03:06,560 They are bones with a lot of filling 54 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:08,060 The second meaning 55 00:03:08,060 --> 00:03:10,259 It means a woman's buttocks 56 00:03:10,259 --> 00:03:12,659 It is called Kafla 57 00:03:12,659 --> 00:03:13,960 The meaning 58 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,159 Her buttocks are great 59 00:03:16,159 --> 00:03:17,460 And from her bones 60 00:03:17,460 --> 00:03:21,020 It becomes swollen from too much grease 61 00:03:21,020 --> 00:03:24,120 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 62 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:28,319 It is possible that it is the kenab of Al-Akum and its rada 63 00:03:28,319 --> 00:03:30,520 About its greatness and greatness 64 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:31,919 As he said 65 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,819 Raddah's slave girl 66 00:03:33,819 --> 00:03:35,919 That is, great Kafl 67 00:03:35,919 --> 00:03:40,419 He made the keel an akum, which is a plural of its bones 68 00:03:40,419 --> 00:03:45,039 It is as if every aspect of it is blind 69 00:03:45,039 --> 00:03:46,740 And everyone involved 70 00:03:46,740 --> 00:03:49,539 It tells me that my father's mother is a transplant 71 00:03:49,539 --> 00:03:53,539 She lived the life of the affluent rich 72 00:03:53,539 --> 00:03:56,740 Until she had a place for her belongings 73 00:03:56,740 --> 00:03:59,439 Because of its abundance and diversity 74 00:03:59,439 --> 00:04:01,939 She was infected with food 75 00:04:01,939 --> 00:04:04,240 Which left its mark on her body 76 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:08,099 Of grease, bliss, and body glasses 77 00:04:08,099 --> 00:04:11,000 The second praised her home 78 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:15,199 She described him as being abundant in his bounties and his mortality 79 00:04:15,199 --> 00:04:18,300 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 80 00:04:18,300 --> 00:04:21,699 He praised the spaciousness of the house and the spaciousness of the yard 81 00:04:21,699 --> 00:04:23,399 About his abundance of goodness 82 00:04:23,399 --> 00:04:24,899 Raghad is a living 83 00:04:24,899 --> 00:04:27,000 And righteousness descends 84 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,600 They were also generous with what they said 85 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:31,899 Hello 86 00:04:31,899 --> 00:04:33,100 And they said 87 00:04:33,100 --> 00:04:35,600 So-and-so welcomed the house 88 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:38,100 They do not want the capacity of its drop 89 00:04:38,100 --> 00:04:42,959 Rather, the abundance of His goodness and the abundance of His righteousness 90 00:04:42,959 --> 00:04:47,189 But why did she praise her husband's mother? 91 00:04:47,189 --> 00:04:49,790 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 92 00:04:49,790 --> 00:04:52,689 She described her mother-in-law 93 00:04:52,689 --> 00:04:56,089 Until her husband is very kind to his mother 94 00:04:56,089 --> 00:04:58,589 And he was not aged 95 00:04:58,589 --> 00:05:00,389 Because that is the majority 96 00:05:00,389 --> 00:05:05,990 Who has a mother described as such 97 00:05:05,990 --> 00:05:07,689 This is a compliment to her husband 98 00:05:07,689 --> 00:05:09,990 And to his mother as well 99 00:05:09,990 --> 00:05:13,389 If her husband’s mother is young 100 00:05:13,389 --> 00:05:16,089 There was no conversation between her and Umm Zar’ 101 00:05:16,089 --> 00:05:19,990 Problems related to jealousy among women 102 00:05:19,990 --> 00:05:23,589 This is the bliss that Umm Zar’a used to experience 103 00:05:23,589 --> 00:05:24,990 From her competition 104 00:05:24,990 --> 00:05:29,439 On the heart of this honorable young man, my father has a seed 105 00:05:29,439 --> 00:05:30,639 Secondly 106 00:05:30,740 --> 00:05:32,680 Ibn Abi Zar'a 107 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:34,879 Umm Zara said about him 108 00:05:34,879 --> 00:05:37,480 His bed is like a bevel 109 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,439 And the arm of jealousy satisfies him 110 00:05:40,439 --> 00:05:42,839 She praised him for his slim body 111 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,439 For whom a narrow space is sufficient 112 00:05:45,439 --> 00:05:47,439 Like stick mats 113 00:05:47,439 --> 00:05:50,040 A little food is enough for him 114 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,839 He is not a foodie 115 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:53,839 He makes her tired of asking for food 116 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,699 Its abundance and diversity 117 00:05:56,699 --> 00:05:59,699 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 118 00:05:59,699 --> 00:06:04,300 I thought that his bed in which he sleeps is in distress 119 00:06:04,300 --> 00:06:06,500 One bevel cam 120 00:06:06,500 --> 00:06:08,899 If you bleed from the mat 121 00:06:08,899 --> 00:06:12,699 Her place remains empty among her sisters 122 00:06:12,699 --> 00:06:16,500 It is something that Arab men praise 123 00:06:16,500 --> 00:06:19,100 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 124 00:06:19,100 --> 00:06:20,800 And so is what she said 125 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,300 The arm of Jafra satisfies him 126 00:06:23,300 --> 00:06:26,300 He doesn't need what she has to eat 127 00:06:26,300 --> 00:06:28,300 As well as taking 128 00:06:28,300 --> 00:06:30,300 Even if it tastes like it 129 00:06:30,300 --> 00:06:32,000 It's easy to be convinced 130 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:37,500 Which fills one's thirst for food and drink 131 00:06:37,500 --> 00:06:42,660 This is one of the bliss she lived with Ibn Abi Zara’ 132 00:06:42,660 --> 00:06:43,860 Third 133 00:06:43,860 --> 00:06:45,860 Daughter of Abu Zara 134 00:06:45,860 --> 00:06:48,160 Umm Zara said about her 135 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,759 Her father willingly and her mother willingly 136 00:06:50,759 --> 00:06:54,589 And its clothing and its neighbor's tip 137 00:06:54,589 --> 00:06:56,990 I praised her for three things 138 00:06:56,990 --> 00:06:58,189 The first 139 00:06:58,189 --> 00:07:00,389 Her obedience to her parents 140 00:07:00,389 --> 00:07:03,189 This is one of the things that makes a woman happy the most 141 00:07:03,189 --> 00:07:06,189 That her daughter be obedient to her 142 00:07:06,189 --> 00:07:07,990 Because it's usually a girl 143 00:07:07,990 --> 00:07:10,990 She competes with her mother for her father's heart 144 00:07:10,990 --> 00:07:12,990 Problems often happen 145 00:07:12,990 --> 00:07:14,490 Between the girl and her mother 146 00:07:14,490 --> 00:07:18,180 Because of stubbornness and jealousy between them 147 00:07:18,180 --> 00:07:21,180 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 148 00:07:21,180 --> 00:07:23,779 That is, she is righteous towards them 149 00:07:23,779 --> 00:07:26,779 Not out of their mind 150 00:07:26,779 --> 00:07:31,649 This indicates her chastity and intelligence 151 00:07:31,649 --> 00:07:32,850 The second 152 00:07:32,850 --> 00:07:35,350 She praised the beauty of her body 153 00:07:35,350 --> 00:07:38,350 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 154 00:07:38,350 --> 00:07:41,350 She described it as plump 155 00:07:41,350 --> 00:07:43,149 Lots of meat 156 00:07:43,149 --> 00:07:46,850 She expressed this by being fully dressed 157 00:07:46,850 --> 00:07:50,350 Because it is only filled to the bone of its body 158 00:07:50,350 --> 00:07:52,350 And the perfection of her person 159 00:07:52,350 --> 00:07:54,050 And its abundance of meat 160 00:07:54,050 --> 00:07:55,949 And the grace of her body 161 00:07:55,949 --> 00:07:58,949 This is what he praises women for 162 00:07:58,949 --> 00:08:02,160 He blames us for its opposite 163 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:03,660 Third 164 00:08:03,660 --> 00:08:06,660 That her peers are jealous of her 165 00:08:06,660 --> 00:08:10,819 Because of her beauty and good morals 166 00:08:10,819 --> 00:08:13,819 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 167 00:08:13,819 --> 00:08:16,319 Then I emphasized her praise 168 00:08:16,319 --> 00:08:18,819 That she is the best of her women 169 00:08:18,819 --> 00:08:21,819 Any women of her time or her people 170 00:08:21,819 --> 00:08:24,319 And it is perfectly fine 171 00:08:24,319 --> 00:08:27,819 Her character and character are similar in perfection 172 00:08:27,819 --> 00:08:29,819 Tip her neighbor 173 00:08:29,819 --> 00:08:33,320 That is, its harm or neighbourhood 174 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:37,320 But she sees this as making her angry and jealous of him 175 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,570 And he is confused by it 176 00:08:40,570 --> 00:08:44,570 If we look closely at Umm Zara’s praise of her family 177 00:08:44,570 --> 00:08:49,570 We found that it focused on the aesthetic appearance of the body 178 00:08:49,570 --> 00:08:51,070 No wonder 179 00:08:51,070 --> 00:08:53,070 The women of pre-Islamic times 180 00:08:53,070 --> 00:08:56,070 Their greatest concern is taking care of the body 181 00:08:56,070 --> 00:08:59,070 As for the woman's mind and heart 182 00:08:59,070 --> 00:09:03,070 This is for those who adhere to the teachings of Islam 183 00:09:03,070 --> 00:09:06,070 Otherwise, even Muslim women today 184 00:09:06,070 --> 00:09:12,070 They were busy making the body according to the pre-Islamic European style and standards 185 00:09:12,070 --> 00:09:16,100 I ask God for guidance and success for them 186 00:09:16,100 --> 00:09:18,460 Fourth 187 00:09:18,460 --> 00:09:20,460 My father's maid planted 188 00:09:20,460 --> 00:09:23,460 I praised her with three beautiful qualities 189 00:09:23,460 --> 00:09:26,460 Every woman wishes her in her maid 190 00:09:26,460 --> 00:09:28,460 And she said 191 00:09:28,460 --> 00:09:31,460 Don't broadcast our conversation 192 00:09:31,460 --> 00:09:34,460 And do not let our mirror be cleansed 193 00:09:34,460 --> 00:09:37,460 Do not fill our house with nests 194 00:09:37,460 --> 00:09:40,649 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 195 00:09:40,649 --> 00:09:44,649 She described it as honesty over secrets and money 196 00:09:44,649 --> 00:09:48,649 And carry out their services and advise them 197 00:09:48,649 --> 00:09:51,649 And there are no recent outbreaks of them 198 00:09:51,649 --> 00:09:55,649 Do not waste food for them or betray it 199 00:09:55,649 --> 00:09:57,649 Do not pass it on to others 200 00:09:57,649 --> 00:10:00,649 Don't spoil it and waste it 201 00:10:00,649 --> 00:10:03,649 Let no grudges enter between them 202 00:10:03,649 --> 00:10:07,649 Do not neglect serving them and improving their home 203 00:10:07,649 --> 00:10:15,379 This is a maid with the highest ratings for housework 204 00:10:15,379 --> 00:10:19,379 This is part of the bliss in which Umm Zara lived 205 00:10:19,379 --> 00:10:23,379 Every woman dreams of it in her life 206 00:10:23,379 --> 00:10:26,509 How did you lose this bliss? 207 00:10:26,509 --> 00:10:30,509 Is this really the reason, as she mentioned at the end of her speech? 208 00:10:30,509 --> 00:10:33,610 He went out and looked and divorced 209 00:10:33,610 --> 00:10:36,610 Or are there other reasons she hid it? 210 00:10:36,610 --> 00:10:41,860 It was the real reason for the divorce 211 00:10:41,860 --> 00:10:44,860 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 212 00:10:44,860 --> 00:10:47,860 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds