Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
Oh Aisha, where does the similarity come from?
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, praised life
He said, “Life is all good.”
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He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Life only brings good things
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When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, passed by
On a man from the Ansar
He blames his brother for his excessive modesty
He told him
Let him live by faith
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If this describes life
It cannot lead to the loss of rights
Or the spread of ignorance among people
Especially since life is a branch of faith
But that's what some people fall into
Life is confused
And some bad descriptions
Which leads to the loss of rights and silence over injustice
Such as fear, cowardice, and shame
They call it life
Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said
As for life being all good
It only brings goodness
It may affect some people
In that he is the owner of life
He may be ashamed to confront with the truth those who respect him
So he abandons his enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong
May life carry him
Violating some rights
And other than what is usually known
This is what a group of imams answered
Among them is Sheikh Abu Omar bin Al-Salah, may God have mercy on him
This is the obstacle we mentioned
Not real life
Rather, it is helplessness, lowliness, and humiliation
Rather, calling it life is the usage of some customary people
They called it a metaphor because it resembles real life
But the truth of life
A creation that encourages abandonment of the ugly
It is prohibited from negligence in the right of the rightful person
And so on
Abu Qatada said
We were with Imran bin Hussein in Rahat
Among us is Bashir bin Kaab
Imran told us that day
He said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Life is all good
Bashir bin Kaab said
We find in some books or wisdom
That he has peace and reverence for God
And it is weak
He said
Imran became angry until his eyes became red
And he said
Don't I see that I can tell you about the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace?
And contradict it
He said
Imran repeated the conversation
He said
So Bashir returned
Imran got angry
He said
We still say it
He is from us, Abu Najid
It's ok
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Imran bin Hussein was angry with Bashir
Because it opposes the hadith of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
What he found in the cultures of other nations
It is the duty of the believer
To submit to the words of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
Absolute delivery
No one says anything about it
He does not oppose him with anything
Life is an innate characteristic of women
It grows with her from childhood
However, it is subject to modification and exchange
According to the upbringing she was raised in her first nursery
Or the effects of mingling with men in the fields of life
Life increases and decreases for men and women
The happy one is the one who has more life
And his faith increased
And a beautiful story
It occurred in the presence of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, invested it in the education and upbringing of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
With the answer to the Ansari woman’s question
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her
Umm Sulaimeen Al-Ansariyya said:
O Messenger of God
God Almighty is not ashamed of the truth
Have you seen if a woman sees in sleep what a man sees?
Should I take a shower or not?
Aisha said
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Yes
Take a bath if you find water
Aisha said
So I accepted it
So I said, “Fuck you.”
Do you see that woman?
So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me and said
May your right hand be blessed, O Aisha
Where does the similarity come from?
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This story has several educational benefits
Among them is the acumen and intelligence of Umm Salim
She presented her question with an introduction that would explain what she wanted to mention
What women are ashamed to mention in front of men
And she said
God Almighty is not ashamed of the truth
Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said
Scientists said
It means that it does not refrain from stating the truth
He used the example of a mosquito and its likeness
As God Almighty said
God is not ashamed to give an example of a mosquito or anything above it
Thus, I do not refrain from asking about what I need
Its meaning was said
God does not command or permit life in the truth
Rather, she said this as an apology in response to her question
What was needed
Which women are usually ashamed to ask about
He reminded him of the presence of men
Among them is the keenness of the female companions to gain understanding in religion
Ibn Abdul-Barr, may God have mercy on him, said
And in this hadith
Explaining what the women of that time were like
Who cares about his religion
And asking about him
This is obligatory for every believer, male and female
If he does not know anything about his religion, he should ask about it
Among them is that life does not prevent one from learning knowledge
Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said
It indicates that whoever is presented with an issue should ask about it
The life of the one who mentioned it is not prevented from asking
This is not real life
That life is all good
Life only brings goodness
Refraining from asking questions in this case is not okay
Rather, it is evil
How can it be life?
Among them is the permissibility of a woman asking a chaste scholar about matters of her religion
Even if it is something that he is usually ashamed to mention
And from her
Use beautiful words to express what is meant without obscenity
As Umm Salim said
Have you seen if a woman sees in sleep what a man sees?
Should I take a shower or not?
And from her
That women are the sisters of men
On the issue of wet dreams and its consequences
Including denial of the wrongdoer
And correct his opinion with argument and proof
Aisha, may God be pleased with her, denounced Umm Salim for asking her
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, denounced her
And he showed her the truth in the matter
Including rational reasoning on legal issues
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to Aisha:
In a statement that a woman has a dream and sees water
By saying
Where does the similarity come from?
Among them is the woman who asks about her religion
Even if it is in matters that he is ashamed of
Mahmouda the act
It is not permissible to blame or discourage
Or condemn her action
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, defended Umm Salim
In her question about wet dreams in a dream
It is for a woman to see in her dream what a man sees
Of full intercourse between her and the man
Aisha, may God be pleased with her, praised the women of the Ansar
And she said
Yes, women are women of the Ansar
Life did not prevent them from learning religion
Oh God, make us understand your religion
And teach us what benefits us
Benefit us from what you have taught us and increase our knowledge
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her