1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:10,869 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:10,869 --> 00:00:15,650 Oh Aisha, where does the similarity come from? 3 00:00:15,650 --> 00:00:22,300 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, praised life 4 00:00:22,300 --> 00:00:25,980 He said, “Life is all good.” 5 00:00:25,980 --> 00:00:27,699 Narrated by Muslim 6 00:00:27,699 --> 00:00:30,460 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 7 00:00:30,460 --> 00:00:33,700 Life only brings good things 8 00:00:33,700 --> 00:00:35,890 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 9 00:00:36,130 --> 00:00:39,530 When the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, passed by 10 00:00:39,530 --> 00:00:41,810 On a man from the Ansar 11 00:00:41,810 --> 00:00:45,530 He blames his brother for his excessive modesty 12 00:00:45,530 --> 00:00:46,770 He told him 13 00:00:46,770 --> 00:00:49,969 Let him live by faith 14 00:00:49,969 --> 00:00:52,140 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 15 00:00:52,140 --> 00:00:55,020 If this describes life 16 00:00:55,020 --> 00:00:58,500 It cannot lead to the loss of rights 17 00:00:58,500 --> 00:01:01,140 Or the spread of ignorance among people 18 00:01:01,140 --> 00:01:05,609 Especially since life is a branch of faith 19 00:01:05,609 --> 00:01:08,689 But that's what some people fall into 20 00:01:08,689 --> 00:01:10,569 Life is confused 21 00:01:10,569 --> 00:01:13,250 And some bad descriptions 22 00:01:13,250 --> 00:01:17,569 Which leads to the loss of rights and silence over injustice 23 00:01:17,569 --> 00:01:19,890 Such as fear, cowardice, and shame 24 00:01:19,890 --> 00:01:22,799 They call it life 25 00:01:22,799 --> 00:01:25,400 Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said 26 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,200 As for life being all good 27 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:30,400 It only brings goodness 28 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,760 It may affect some people 29 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,079 In that he is the owner of life 30 00:01:35,079 --> 00:01:38,599 He may be ashamed to confront with the truth those who respect him 31 00:01:38,599 --> 00:01:42,640 So he abandons his enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong 32 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:44,439 May life carry him 33 00:01:44,439 --> 00:01:46,959 Violating some rights 34 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,640 And other than what is usually known 35 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:55,040 This is what a group of imams answered 36 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,719 Among them is Sheikh Abu Omar bin Al-Salah, may God have mercy on him 37 00:01:58,719 --> 00:02:01,319 This is the obstacle we mentioned 38 00:02:01,319 --> 00:02:03,680 Not real life 39 00:02:03,719 --> 00:02:06,719 Rather, it is helplessness, lowliness, and humiliation 40 00:02:06,719 --> 00:02:11,280 Rather, calling it life is the usage of some customary people 41 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:15,759 They called it a metaphor because it resembles real life 42 00:02:15,759 --> 00:02:18,000 But the truth of life 43 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,800 A creation that encourages abandonment of the ugly 44 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,719 It is prohibited from negligence in the right of the rightful person 45 00:02:23,719 --> 00:02:25,659 And so on 46 00:02:25,659 --> 00:02:27,780 Abu Qatada said 47 00:02:27,780 --> 00:02:31,139 We were with Imran bin Hussein in Rahat 48 00:02:31,139 --> 00:02:33,620 Among us is Bashir bin Kaab 49 00:02:33,620 --> 00:02:36,340 Imran told us that day 50 00:02:36,340 --> 00:02:37,460 He said 51 00:02:37,460 --> 00:02:41,020 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 52 00:02:41,020 --> 00:02:43,620 Life is all good 53 00:02:43,620 --> 00:02:46,020 Bashir bin Kaab said 54 00:02:46,020 --> 00:02:49,819 We find in some books or wisdom 55 00:02:49,819 --> 00:02:53,259 That he has peace and reverence for God 56 00:02:53,259 --> 00:02:54,979 And it is weak 57 00:02:54,979 --> 00:02:56,020 He said 58 00:02:56,020 --> 00:02:59,460 Imran became angry until his eyes became red 59 00:02:59,460 --> 00:03:00,819 And he said 60 00:03:00,860 --> 00:03:05,699 Don't I see that I can tell you about the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace? 61 00:03:05,699 --> 00:03:07,620 And contradict it 62 00:03:07,620 --> 00:03:08,740 He said 63 00:03:08,740 --> 00:03:11,060 Imran repeated the conversation 64 00:03:11,060 --> 00:03:12,060 He said 65 00:03:12,060 --> 00:03:13,819 So Bashir returned 66 00:03:13,819 --> 00:03:15,620 Imran got angry 67 00:03:15,620 --> 00:03:16,740 He said 68 00:03:16,740 --> 00:03:18,780 We still say it 69 00:03:18,780 --> 00:03:21,419 He is from us, Abu Najid 70 00:03:21,419 --> 00:03:23,500 It's ok 71 00:03:23,500 --> 00:03:25,780 Narrated by Muslim 72 00:03:25,780 --> 00:03:29,259 Imran bin Hussein was angry with Bashir 73 00:03:29,259 --> 00:03:33,539 Because it opposes the hadith of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 74 00:03:33,539 --> 00:03:37,379 What he found in the cultures of other nations 75 00:03:37,379 --> 00:03:39,300 It is the duty of the believer 76 00:03:39,300 --> 00:03:43,340 To submit to the words of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 77 00:03:43,340 --> 00:03:45,219 Absolute delivery 78 00:03:45,219 --> 00:03:47,580 No one says anything about it 79 00:03:47,580 --> 00:03:50,270 He does not oppose him with anything 80 00:03:50,270 --> 00:03:53,430 Life is an innate characteristic of women 81 00:03:53,430 --> 00:03:55,750 It grows with her from childhood 82 00:03:55,789 --> 00:03:59,469 However, it is subject to modification and exchange 83 00:03:59,469 --> 00:04:04,110 According to the upbringing she was raised in her first nursery 84 00:04:04,110 --> 00:04:09,759 Or the effects of mingling with men in the fields of life 85 00:04:09,759 --> 00:04:13,759 Life increases and decreases for men and women 86 00:04:13,759 --> 00:04:16,759 The happy one is the one who has more life 87 00:04:16,759 --> 00:04:19,189 And his faith increased 88 00:04:19,189 --> 00:04:21,189 And a beautiful story 89 00:04:21,189 --> 00:04:24,829 It occurred in the presence of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 90 00:04:24,829 --> 00:04:31,670 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, invested it in the education and upbringing of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 91 00:04:31,670 --> 00:04:35,579 With the answer to the Ansari woman’s question 92 00:04:35,579 --> 00:04:38,259 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 93 00:04:38,259 --> 00:04:41,500 Umm Sulaimeen Al-Ansariyya said: 94 00:04:41,500 --> 00:04:43,220 O Messenger of God 95 00:04:43,220 --> 00:04:47,300 God Almighty is not ashamed of the truth 96 00:04:47,300 --> 00:04:51,420 Have you seen if a woman sees in sleep what a man sees? 97 00:04:51,420 --> 00:04:53,790 Should I take a shower or not? 98 00:04:53,829 --> 00:04:55,550 Aisha said 99 00:04:55,550 --> 00:04:58,829 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 100 00:04:58,829 --> 00:04:59,870 Yes 101 00:04:59,870 --> 00:05:03,149 Take a bath if you find water 102 00:05:03,149 --> 00:05:04,829 Aisha said 103 00:05:04,829 --> 00:05:06,550 So I accepted it 104 00:05:06,550 --> 00:05:08,509 So I said, “Fuck you.” 105 00:05:08,509 --> 00:05:11,110 Do you see that woman? 106 00:05:11,110 --> 00:05:16,069 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me and said 107 00:05:16,069 --> 00:05:18,790 May your right hand be blessed, O Aisha 108 00:05:18,790 --> 00:05:21,269 Where does the similarity come from? 109 00:05:21,269 --> 00:05:23,290 Narrated by Muslim 110 00:05:23,290 --> 00:05:27,250 This story has several educational benefits 111 00:05:27,250 --> 00:05:30,610 Among them is the acumen and intelligence of Umm Salim 112 00:05:30,610 --> 00:05:36,009 She presented her question with an introduction that would explain what she wanted to mention 113 00:05:36,009 --> 00:05:39,889 What women are ashamed to mention in front of men 114 00:05:39,889 --> 00:05:41,370 And she said 115 00:05:41,370 --> 00:05:45,689 God Almighty is not ashamed of the truth 116 00:05:45,689 --> 00:05:48,209 Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said 117 00:05:48,209 --> 00:05:49,810 Scientists said 118 00:05:49,810 --> 00:05:52,850 It means that it does not refrain from stating the truth 119 00:05:52,850 --> 00:05:56,050 He used the example of a mosquito and its likeness 120 00:05:56,050 --> 00:05:59,129 As God Almighty said 121 00:05:59,129 --> 00:06:11,420 God is not ashamed to give an example of a mosquito or anything above it 122 00:06:11,420 --> 00:06:17,209 Thus, I do not refrain from asking about what I need 123 00:06:17,209 --> 00:06:19,009 Its meaning was said 124 00:06:19,009 --> 00:06:23,370 God does not command or permit life in the truth 125 00:06:23,370 --> 00:06:27,209 Rather, she said this as an apology in response to her question 126 00:06:27,209 --> 00:06:29,529 What was needed 127 00:06:29,529 --> 00:06:33,209 Which women are usually ashamed to ask about 128 00:06:33,209 --> 00:06:36,209 He reminded him of the presence of men 129 00:06:36,209 --> 00:06:40,290 Among them is the keenness of the female companions to gain understanding in religion 130 00:06:40,290 --> 00:06:43,009 Ibn Abdul-Barr, may God have mercy on him, said 131 00:06:43,009 --> 00:06:44,810 And in this hadith 132 00:06:44,810 --> 00:06:48,370 Explaining what the women of that time were like 133 00:06:48,410 --> 00:06:50,889 Who cares about his religion 134 00:06:50,889 --> 00:06:52,569 And asking about him 135 00:06:52,569 --> 00:06:55,569 This is obligatory for every believer, male and female 136 00:06:55,569 --> 00:06:59,699 If he does not know anything about his religion, he should ask about it 137 00:06:59,699 --> 00:07:03,740 Among them is that life does not prevent one from learning knowledge 138 00:07:03,740 --> 00:07:06,220 Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said 139 00:07:06,220 --> 00:07:11,300 It indicates that whoever is presented with an issue should ask about it 140 00:07:11,300 --> 00:07:15,220 The life of the one who mentioned it is not prevented from asking 141 00:07:15,220 --> 00:07:18,420 This is not real life 142 00:07:18,420 --> 00:07:20,939 That life is all good 143 00:07:20,939 --> 00:07:24,180 Life only brings goodness 144 00:07:24,180 --> 00:07:28,220 Refraining from asking questions in this case is not okay 145 00:07:28,220 --> 00:07:29,699 Rather, it is evil 146 00:07:29,699 --> 00:07:32,589 How can it be life? 147 00:07:32,589 --> 00:07:37,790 Among them is the permissibility of a woman asking a chaste scholar about matters of her religion 148 00:07:37,790 --> 00:07:41,870 Even if it is something that he is usually ashamed to mention 149 00:07:41,870 --> 00:07:43,069 And from her 150 00:07:43,069 --> 00:07:48,509 Use beautiful words to express what is meant without obscenity 151 00:07:48,509 --> 00:07:50,870 As Umm Salim said 152 00:07:50,870 --> 00:07:54,829 Have you seen if a woman sees in sleep what a man sees? 153 00:07:54,829 --> 00:07:57,259 Should I take a shower or not? 154 00:07:57,259 --> 00:07:58,420 And from her 155 00:07:58,420 --> 00:08:01,180 That women are the sisters of men 156 00:08:01,180 --> 00:08:05,180 On the issue of wet dreams and its consequences 157 00:08:05,180 --> 00:08:07,620 Including denial of the wrongdoer 158 00:08:07,620 --> 00:08:11,100 And correct his opinion with argument and proof 159 00:08:11,100 --> 00:08:16,620 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, denounced Umm Salim for asking her 160 00:08:16,660 --> 00:08:20,339 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, denounced her 161 00:08:20,339 --> 00:08:23,519 And he showed her the truth in the matter 162 00:08:23,519 --> 00:08:27,639 Including rational reasoning on legal issues 163 00:08:27,639 --> 00:08:32,080 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to Aisha: 164 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:35,720 In a statement that a woman has a dream and sees water 165 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:36,960 By saying 166 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,549 Where does the similarity come from? 167 00:08:39,549 --> 00:08:43,149 Among them is the woman who asks about her religion 168 00:08:43,149 --> 00:08:46,549 Even if it is in matters that he is ashamed of 169 00:08:46,549 --> 00:08:48,549 Mahmouda the act 170 00:08:48,549 --> 00:08:51,470 It is not permissible to blame or discourage 171 00:08:51,470 --> 00:08:53,590 Or condemn her action 172 00:08:53,590 --> 00:08:57,710 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, defended Umm Salim 173 00:08:57,710 --> 00:09:00,870 In her question about wet dreams in a dream 174 00:09:00,870 --> 00:09:04,870 It is for a woman to see in her dream what a man sees 175 00:09:04,870 --> 00:09:09,070 Of full intercourse between her and the man 176 00:09:09,070 --> 00:09:13,990 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, praised the women of the Ansar 177 00:09:13,990 --> 00:09:15,429 And she said 178 00:09:15,429 --> 00:09:18,509 Yes, women are women of the Ansar 179 00:09:18,509 --> 00:09:22,860 Life did not prevent them from learning religion 180 00:09:22,860 --> 00:09:25,340 Oh God, make us understand your religion 181 00:09:25,340 --> 00:09:27,580 And teach us what benefits us 182 00:09:27,580 --> 00:09:32,539 Benefit us from what you have taught us and increase our knowledge 183 00:09:32,539 --> 00:09:36,059 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 184 00:09:36,059 --> 00:09:42,289 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 185 00:09:42,289 --> 00:09:45,889 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her