WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:07.190 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:00:07.190 --> 00:00:14.650 O Aisha, protect yourself from Hell, even with a half of dates 00:00:14.650 --> 00:00:21.050 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was keen to raise his wives to do good deeds 00:00:21.050 --> 00:00:27.309 He used opportunities to teach them, guide them, and correct their path 00:00:27.309 --> 00:00:31.589 This is from his love for them, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:00:31.789 --> 00:00:36.509 Love between spouses requires advice to the other party 00:00:36.509 --> 00:00:43.090 And making sure that he is saved from Hell on the Day of Resurrection and that he wins Paradise 00:00:43.090 --> 00:00:53.259 From what the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, taught Aisha, may God be pleased with her, the issue of charity and what to give in charity 00:00:53.259 --> 00:01:00.500 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her 00:01:00.539 --> 00:01:05.980 O Aisha, protect yourself from Hell, even with a half of dates 00:01:05.980 --> 00:01:13.299 It blocks the hungry person as it blocks the full person. Narrated by Ahmad 00:01:13.299 --> 00:01:21.780 O Aisha, this gentle call is repeated with us in the hadiths of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:21.780 --> 00:01:25.739 With the Mother of the Believers, Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:01:25.739 --> 00:01:30.939 Which indicates that this is the approach of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:30.939 --> 00:01:37.010 In calling his wives by the beautiful name that the wife loves 00:01:37.010 --> 00:01:41.450 How beautiful is the name of our mother Aisha in pronunciation and meaning 00:01:41.450 --> 00:01:49.060 God made us among those who love it, support it, and draw closer to God thereby 00:01:49.060 --> 00:01:54.700 This hadith contained important educational directions 00:01:54.700 --> 00:02:01.780 Among them is the importance of protecting oneself from Hell, even with a small amount of charity 00:02:01.780 --> 00:02:05.260 As in his saying, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:05.260 --> 00:02:10.740 O Aisha, protect yourself from Hell, even with a half of dates 00:02:10.740 --> 00:02:16.300 It indicates that all humans on the Day of Resurrection will be exposed to Hell 00:02:16.300 --> 00:02:22.180 It is in front of them in the crowd and there is no escape from passing by it 00:02:22.219 --> 00:02:28.099 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided his wife, Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:02:28.099 --> 00:02:34.939 To a simple work that will protect her from the fire, its heat, its flames, and its torment 00:02:34.939 --> 00:02:38.419 It is giving a portion of the dates in charity 00:02:38.419 --> 00:02:42.659 He has known about women throughout the history of our nation 00:02:42.659 --> 00:02:46.419 Her love for charity and kindness to people 00:02:46.460 --> 00:02:54.379 But it may sometimes be burdensome on the pretext that what it will produce is little and will not be enough for those in need 00:02:54.379 --> 00:02:59.139 Therefore, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her to give charity 00:02:59.139 --> 00:03:04.099 Even if it is half a date, it will protect her from the fire 00:03:04.099 --> 00:03:06.659 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:06.659 --> 00:03:14.349 That is, if protection is done by giving charity in the form of one date, it will be beneficial 00:03:14.389 --> 00:03:19.750 This laziness in giving charity with little is evident among women 00:03:19.750 --> 00:03:28.270 Therefore, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, directed women to give a small amount in charity in more than one hadith 00:03:28.270 --> 00:03:31.949 From that, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:31.949 --> 00:03:39.469 O Muslim women, do not despise a neighbor to her neighbor, even if he raises a horse 00:03:39.469 --> 00:03:41.750 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:03:41.789 --> 00:03:44.610 Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:44.610 --> 00:03:49.169 It encourages gifts and museums, even if it is small 00:03:49.169 --> 00:03:55.810 Because it attracts affection, removes resentment, and selects neighbors 00:03:55.810 --> 00:04:01.090 And because of its cooperation in the matter of living for the living 00:04:01.090 --> 00:04:04.969 Also, if the gift is small 00:04:04.969 --> 00:04:09.050 It is more indicative of affection and less burdensome 00:04:09.050 --> 00:04:13.270 It will be easier for Al-Mahdi to assign the task 00:04:13.270 --> 00:04:16.470 This is laziness in giving little in charity 00:04:16.470 --> 00:04:19.589 It may stem from self-doubt 00:04:19.589 --> 00:04:26.259 What could this little do to the needy, poor, hungry person? 00:04:26.259 --> 00:04:33.300 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, removed this suspicion from the soul of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:04:33.300 --> 00:04:35.459 Before you fall into it 00:04:35.459 --> 00:04:36.899 By saying 00:04:36.899 --> 00:04:41.660 It blocks the hungry as it blocks the full 00:04:41.660 --> 00:04:44.339 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:44.339 --> 00:04:48.939 It is as if what unites them is their sweetness 00:04:48.939 --> 00:04:53.300 That is, the one who is full eats it, enjoying its sweetness 00:04:53.300 --> 00:04:58.899 The hungry person eats it, enjoying its taste and sweetness 00:04:58.899 --> 00:05:03.620 This upbringing bore fruit in Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:05:03.620 --> 00:05:06.899 So I gave in charity a little and a lot 00:05:06.899 --> 00:05:10.379 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 00:05:10.379 --> 00:05:14.600 A woman entered with her two daughters asking 00:05:14.600 --> 00:05:17.920 You did not find anything with me except a date 00:05:17.920 --> 00:05:20.160 So I gave it to her 00:05:20.160 --> 00:05:24.160 So she divided it between her two daughters and did not eat from it 00:05:24.160 --> 00:05:26.600 Then she got up and went out 00:05:26.600 --> 00:05:30.519 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon us 00:05:30.519 --> 00:05:32.920 So I told him and he said 00:05:32.920 --> 00:05:36.079 Who among these girls has been afflicted with anything? 00:05:36.079 --> 00:05:38.839 Be a cover for him from the fire 00:05:38.839 --> 00:05:40.949 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:05:40.949 --> 00:05:45.269 Aisha only found one date in her house 00:05:45.269 --> 00:05:52.750 So I gave it in charity in compliance with what I learned from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:52.750 --> 00:05:57.470 Since she had a lot, she gave it in charity as well 00:05:57.470 --> 00:05:58.949 Urwa said 00:05:58.949 --> 00:06:03.870 One day, eighty thousand people came to it from Muawiyah 00:06:03.870 --> 00:06:06.750 She did not have a dirham 00:06:06.750 --> 00:06:09.310 Her maid said to her 00:06:09.310 --> 00:06:12.990 Did you buy us meat for a dirham? 00:06:12.990 --> 00:06:17.259 She said if you had reminded me, I would have done so 00:06:17.259 --> 00:06:21.699 Imam Al-Ghazali, may God have mercy on him, mentioned the conditions of asceticism 00:06:21.699 --> 00:06:24.300 He mentioned five cases 00:06:24.300 --> 00:06:25.740 Then he said 00:06:25.740 --> 00:06:28.699 And behind these five conditions 00:06:28.740 --> 00:06:31.660 A state that is higher than asceticism 00:06:31.660 --> 00:06:35.860 It is that the presence and loss of money are equal to him 00:06:35.860 --> 00:06:39.660 If he finds it, he will not be happy about it and will not be harmed 00:06:39.660 --> 00:06:42.019 Even if he loses it 00:06:42.019 --> 00:06:47.379 Rather, his condition was the same as that of Aisha, may God Almighty be pleased with her 00:06:47.379 --> 00:06:51.100 One hundred thousand dirhams came to her as a gift 00:06:51.100 --> 00:06:54.500 So I took it and separated it from that day on 00:06:54.500 --> 00:06:56.740 Her maid said 00:06:56.779 --> 00:06:59.500 I couldn't do anything different today 00:06:59.500 --> 00:07:03.740 To buy us meat for a dirham to slander us 00:07:03.740 --> 00:07:05.019 And she said 00:07:05.019 --> 00:07:07.860 If you reminded me, I would 00:07:07.860 --> 00:07:09.660 This is how he is 00:07:09.660 --> 00:07:14.180 If the entire world were in his hand and his treasures 00:07:14.180 --> 00:07:15.660 Didn't hurt him 00:07:15.660 --> 00:07:21.100 Because he sees the money in the treasury of God Almighty, not in his own hands 00:07:21.100 --> 00:07:25.899 It makes no difference whether it is in his hand or in the hands of someone else 00:07:25.939 --> 00:07:30.740 Can we protect ourselves from Hellfire by splitting a date in this holy month? 00:07:30.740 --> 00:07:33.660 Do we raise our husbands in this way? 00:07:35.240 --> 00:07:38.800 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:07:38.800 --> 00:07:45.089 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 00:07:45.089 --> 00:07:48.730 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her