1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,190 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:07,190 --> 00:00:14,650 O Aisha, protect yourself from Hell, even with a half of dates 3 00:00:14,650 --> 00:00:21,050 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was keen to raise his wives to do good deeds 4 00:00:21,050 --> 00:00:27,309 He used opportunities to teach them, guide them, and correct their path 5 00:00:27,309 --> 00:00:31,589 This is from his love for them, may God bless him and grant him peace 6 00:00:31,789 --> 00:00:36,509 Love between spouses requires advice to the other party 7 00:00:36,509 --> 00:00:43,090 And making sure that he is saved from Hell on the Day of Resurrection and that he wins Paradise 8 00:00:43,090 --> 00:00:53,259 From what the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, taught Aisha, may God be pleased with her, the issue of charity and what to give in charity 9 00:00:53,259 --> 00:01:00,500 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her 10 00:01:00,539 --> 00:01:05,980 O Aisha, protect yourself from Hell, even with a half of dates 11 00:01:05,980 --> 00:01:13,299 It blocks the hungry person as it blocks the full person. Narrated by Ahmad 12 00:01:13,299 --> 00:01:21,780 O Aisha, this gentle call is repeated with us in the hadiths of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 13 00:01:21,780 --> 00:01:25,739 With the Mother of the Believers, Aisha, may God be pleased with her 14 00:01:25,739 --> 00:01:30,939 Which indicates that this is the approach of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 15 00:01:30,939 --> 00:01:37,010 In calling his wives by the beautiful name that the wife loves 16 00:01:37,010 --> 00:01:41,450 How beautiful is the name of our mother Aisha in pronunciation and meaning 17 00:01:41,450 --> 00:01:49,060 God made us among those who love it, support it, and draw closer to God thereby 18 00:01:49,060 --> 00:01:54,700 This hadith contained important educational directions 19 00:01:54,700 --> 00:02:01,780 Among them is the importance of protecting oneself from Hell, even with a small amount of charity 20 00:02:01,780 --> 00:02:05,260 As in his saying, may God bless him and grant him peace 21 00:02:05,260 --> 00:02:10,740 O Aisha, protect yourself from Hell, even with a half of dates 22 00:02:10,740 --> 00:02:16,300 It indicates that all humans on the Day of Resurrection will be exposed to Hell 23 00:02:16,300 --> 00:02:22,180 It is in front of them in the crowd and there is no escape from passing by it 24 00:02:22,219 --> 00:02:28,099 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided his wife, Aisha, may God be pleased with her 25 00:02:28,099 --> 00:02:34,939 To a simple work that will protect her from the fire, its heat, its flames, and its torment 26 00:02:34,939 --> 00:02:38,419 It is giving a portion of the dates in charity 27 00:02:38,419 --> 00:02:42,659 He has known about women throughout the history of our nation 28 00:02:42,659 --> 00:02:46,419 Her love for charity and kindness to people 29 00:02:46,460 --> 00:02:54,379 But it may sometimes be burdensome on the pretext that what it will produce is little and will not be enough for those in need 30 00:02:54,379 --> 00:02:59,139 Therefore, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her to give charity 31 00:02:59,139 --> 00:03:04,099 Even if it is half a date, it will protect her from the fire 32 00:03:04,099 --> 00:03:06,659 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 33 00:03:06,659 --> 00:03:14,349 That is, if protection is done by giving charity in the form of one date, it will be beneficial 34 00:03:14,389 --> 00:03:19,750 This laziness in giving charity with little is evident among women 35 00:03:19,750 --> 00:03:28,270 Therefore, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, directed women to give a small amount in charity in more than one hadith 36 00:03:28,270 --> 00:03:31,949 From that, may God bless him and grant him peace 37 00:03:31,949 --> 00:03:39,469 O Muslim women, do not despise a neighbor to her neighbor, even if he raises a horse 38 00:03:39,469 --> 00:03:41,750 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 39 00:03:41,789 --> 00:03:44,610 Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said 40 00:03:44,610 --> 00:03:49,169 It encourages gifts and museums, even if it is small 41 00:03:49,169 --> 00:03:55,810 Because it attracts affection, removes resentment, and selects neighbors 42 00:03:55,810 --> 00:04:01,090 And because of its cooperation in the matter of living for the living 43 00:04:01,090 --> 00:04:04,969 Also, if the gift is small 44 00:04:04,969 --> 00:04:09,050 It is more indicative of affection and less burdensome 45 00:04:09,050 --> 00:04:13,270 It will be easier for Al-Mahdi to assign the task 46 00:04:13,270 --> 00:04:16,470 This is laziness in giving little in charity 47 00:04:16,470 --> 00:04:19,589 It may stem from self-doubt 48 00:04:19,589 --> 00:04:26,259 What could this little do to the needy, poor, hungry person? 49 00:04:26,259 --> 00:04:33,300 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, removed this suspicion from the soul of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 50 00:04:33,300 --> 00:04:35,459 Before you fall into it 51 00:04:35,459 --> 00:04:36,899 By saying 52 00:04:36,899 --> 00:04:41,660 It blocks the hungry as it blocks the full 53 00:04:41,660 --> 00:04:44,339 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 54 00:04:44,339 --> 00:04:48,939 It is as if what unites them is their sweetness 55 00:04:48,939 --> 00:04:53,300 That is, the one who is full eats it, enjoying its sweetness 56 00:04:53,300 --> 00:04:58,899 The hungry person eats it, enjoying its taste and sweetness 57 00:04:58,899 --> 00:05:03,620 This upbringing bore fruit in Aisha, may God be pleased with her 58 00:05:03,620 --> 00:05:06,899 So I gave in charity a little and a lot 59 00:05:06,899 --> 00:05:10,379 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 60 00:05:10,379 --> 00:05:14,600 A woman entered with her two daughters asking 61 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,920 You did not find anything with me except a date 62 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,160 So I gave it to her 63 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:24,160 So she divided it between her two daughters and did not eat from it 64 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,600 Then she got up and went out 65 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:30,519 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon us 66 00:05:30,519 --> 00:05:32,920 So I told him and he said 67 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,079 Who among these girls has been afflicted with anything? 68 00:05:36,079 --> 00:05:38,839 Be a cover for him from the fire 69 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,949 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 70 00:05:40,949 --> 00:05:45,269 Aisha only found one date in her house 71 00:05:45,269 --> 00:05:52,750 So I gave it in charity in compliance with what I learned from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 72 00:05:52,750 --> 00:05:57,470 Since she had a lot, she gave it in charity as well 73 00:05:57,470 --> 00:05:58,949 Urwa said 74 00:05:58,949 --> 00:06:03,870 One day, eighty thousand people came to it from Muawiyah 75 00:06:03,870 --> 00:06:06,750 She did not have a dirham 76 00:06:06,750 --> 00:06:09,310 Her maid said to her 77 00:06:09,310 --> 00:06:12,990 Did you buy us meat for a dirham? 78 00:06:12,990 --> 00:06:17,259 She said if you had reminded me, I would have done so 79 00:06:17,259 --> 00:06:21,699 Imam Al-Ghazali, may God have mercy on him, mentioned the conditions of asceticism 80 00:06:21,699 --> 00:06:24,300 He mentioned five cases 81 00:06:24,300 --> 00:06:25,740 Then he said 82 00:06:25,740 --> 00:06:28,699 And behind these five conditions 83 00:06:28,740 --> 00:06:31,660 A state that is higher than asceticism 84 00:06:31,660 --> 00:06:35,860 It is that the presence and loss of money are equal to him 85 00:06:35,860 --> 00:06:39,660 If he finds it, he will not be happy about it and will not be harmed 86 00:06:39,660 --> 00:06:42,019 Even if he loses it 87 00:06:42,019 --> 00:06:47,379 Rather, his condition was the same as that of Aisha, may God Almighty be pleased with her 88 00:06:47,379 --> 00:06:51,100 One hundred thousand dirhams came to her as a gift 89 00:06:51,100 --> 00:06:54,500 So I took it and separated it from that day on 90 00:06:54,500 --> 00:06:56,740 Her maid said 91 00:06:56,779 --> 00:06:59,500 I couldn't do anything different today 92 00:06:59,500 --> 00:07:03,740 To buy us meat for a dirham to slander us 93 00:07:03,740 --> 00:07:05,019 And she said 94 00:07:05,019 --> 00:07:07,860 If you reminded me, I would 95 00:07:07,860 --> 00:07:09,660 This is how he is 96 00:07:09,660 --> 00:07:14,180 If the entire world were in his hand and his treasures 97 00:07:14,180 --> 00:07:15,660 Didn't hurt him 98 00:07:15,660 --> 00:07:21,100 Because he sees the money in the treasury of God Almighty, not in his own hands 99 00:07:21,100 --> 00:07:25,899 It makes no difference whether it is in his hand or in the hands of someone else 100 00:07:25,939 --> 00:07:30,740 Can we protect ourselves from Hellfire by splitting a date in this holy month? 101 00:07:30,740 --> 00:07:33,660 Do we raise our husbands in this way? 102 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:38,800 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 103 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:45,089 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 104 00:07:45,089 --> 00:07:48,730 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her