WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:06.000 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him 00:00:06.000 --> 00:00:13.939 Women's suffering in marriage 00:00:13.939 --> 00:00:19.899 A woman is wanted, not a student, desired by a man 00:00:19.899 --> 00:00:23.899 This is what women like to feel 00:00:23.899 --> 00:00:29.899 She wants to see young men approaching her in hopes of obtaining her approval 00:00:29.899 --> 00:00:32.899 She chooses from them what she likes 00:00:32.899 --> 00:00:35.899 According to the specifications you want 00:00:35.899 --> 00:00:40.899 And the dreams she has for the future of her family life 00:00:40.899 --> 00:00:46.990 But a woman may suffer from not having the qualities she is looking for in a future husband 00:00:46.990 --> 00:00:53.990 If she is in a society where there are few men with the characteristics she wants 00:00:53.990 --> 00:00:56.990 Women are righteous and religious today 00:00:56.990 --> 00:00:59.990 Don't look for money or fame 00:00:59.990 --> 00:01:03.990 Rather, you are looking for a good, upright man 00:01:03.990 --> 00:01:08.989 The effect of adherence to his religion appears in his obedience to his Lord 00:01:08.989 --> 00:01:12.989 His morals appear in his dealings with people 00:01:12.989 --> 00:01:18.180 Here the suffering of women in the marriage journey appears 00:01:18.180 --> 00:01:21.180 Many young people may apply for it 00:01:21.180 --> 00:01:24.180 But she does not accept their religion 00:01:24.180 --> 00:01:27.180 Years pass by as she waits 00:01:27.180 --> 00:01:31.180 Others take precedence over her in marriage and childbearing 00:01:31.180 --> 00:01:35.180 And achieving motherhood while she waits 00:01:35.180 --> 00:01:40.180 Because the woman of principle does not accept any man to live with 00:01:40.180 --> 00:01:46.409 This is the suffering that women go through today in some societies 00:01:46.409 --> 00:01:50.409 The righteous woman passed by it in the city of Media 00:01:50.409 --> 00:01:53.409 In the time of Moses, peace be upon him 00:01:53.409 --> 00:02:00.439 Medea's men lack chivalry, jealousy and mercy towards women 00:02:00.439 --> 00:02:04.439 They are harsh and have a harsh approach to women 00:02:04.439 --> 00:02:08.439 As we saw in a previous episode 00:02:08.439 --> 00:02:14.439 We add in this episode that honesty is scarce among the men of Medea 00:02:14.439 --> 00:02:17.439 Evidenced by what the daughter said to her father 00:02:17.439 --> 00:02:23.439 O Father, hire. The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy 00:02:23.439 --> 00:02:28.569 If the trait of honesty was widespread among the men of Medea 00:02:28.569 --> 00:02:32.569 When this girl said this to her father 00:02:32.569 --> 00:02:35.569 Because there is a need for someone to take care of the sheep 00:02:35.569 --> 00:02:39.569 It existed before the coming of Moses, peace be upon him 00:02:39.569 --> 00:02:43.569 But what prevents you from taking a hired worker from the people of Media 00:02:44.569 --> 00:02:48.569 Loss of the quality of honesty or its scarcity in them 00:02:48.569 --> 00:02:52.599 A good woman looks for a faithful and strong husband 00:02:52.599 --> 00:02:56.599 He has chivalry and is jealous of his wives 00:02:56.599 --> 00:03:00.699 The two women are the daughters of a righteous man 00:03:00.699 --> 00:03:04.699 She was raised with high morals 00:03:04.699 --> 00:03:07.699 Which appeared in their dealings in life 00:03:07.699 --> 00:03:10.819 Outside and inside the house 00:03:10.819 --> 00:03:14.819 When I was outside the home, I was raised not to 00:03:14.819 --> 00:03:17.819 Mixing with foreign men 00:03:17.819 --> 00:03:20.819 This is indicated by the Almighty’s saying 00:03:20.819 --> 00:03:24.819 When he reached the waters of Midian, he found a nation on it 00:03:24.819 --> 00:03:27.819 Of people watering 00:03:27.819 --> 00:03:31.889 And besides him, he found two women fleeing 00:03:31.889 --> 00:03:35.889 I was also raised to talk to foreign men 00:03:35.889 --> 00:03:39.889 Be as much as needed and with complete clarity 00:03:39.889 --> 00:03:42.889 This is indicated by what God Almighty says about them 00:03:42.889 --> 00:03:45.889 He said what's wrong with you 00:03:45.889 --> 00:03:49.889 Then he said: Water until the shepherds leave 00:03:49.889 --> 00:03:52.889 Our father is a great sheikh 00:03:52.889 --> 00:03:54.889 And the Almighty said 00:03:54.889 --> 00:04:01.080 She said: My father is calling you to reward you for what you watered for us 00:04:01.080 --> 00:04:04.080 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:04.080 --> 00:04:06.080 This is politeness in the phrase 00:04:06.080 --> 00:04:09.080 She never asked for it 00:04:09.080 --> 00:04:11.080 But it is not suspicious 00:04:11.080 --> 00:04:17.079 Rather, she said, “My father is calling you to reward you for what you watered for us.” 00:04:17.079 --> 00:04:23.230 It means to reward you and reward you for watering our sheep 00:04:23.230 --> 00:04:26.230 As I was raised on life 00:04:26.230 --> 00:04:29.230 Which is the true adornment of a woman 00:04:29.230 --> 00:04:32.230 From which the rest of morals radiate 00:04:32.230 --> 00:04:36.230 Life is a branch of faith 00:04:36.230 --> 00:04:40.230 Life has affected her movement outside the home 00:04:40.230 --> 00:04:42.230 God Almighty said 00:04:42.230 --> 00:04:46.230 Then one of them came to him, walking timidly 00:04:46.230 --> 00:04:49.680 It's the mission you came out for 00:04:49.680 --> 00:04:52.680 She was very hard on herself 00:04:52.680 --> 00:04:55.680 It is the call of Moses, and he was a stranger to it 00:04:55.680 --> 00:04:58.680 To meet her father 00:04:58.680 --> 00:05:01.680 Its difficulty stems from the severity of life 00:05:01.680 --> 00:05:03.680 Which you adored 00:05:03.680 --> 00:05:05.810 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:05:05.810 --> 00:05:08.810 Then she suddenly walked shyly 00:05:08.810 --> 00:05:11.810 This indicates the generosity of her element 00:05:11.810 --> 00:05:13.810 And her good creation 00:05:13.810 --> 00:05:16.810 Life is a matter of virtuous morals 00:05:16.810 --> 00:05:18.810 Especially in women 00:05:18.810 --> 00:05:22.639 Like this living woman 00:05:22.639 --> 00:05:25.639 A man of low temperament is not suitable for her 00:05:25.639 --> 00:05:27.639 Thick silver 00:05:27.639 --> 00:05:29.639 He is not jealous of his wives 00:05:29.639 --> 00:05:32.639 He is not a trustee of people's money 00:05:33.639 --> 00:05:36.639 How can he be faithful to this woman? 00:05:36.639 --> 00:05:39.860 However, this is alive 00:05:39.860 --> 00:05:42.860 When you find the qualities you desire 00:05:42.860 --> 00:05:44.860 Every girl in the pair 00:05:44.860 --> 00:05:47.860 It was represented by the Prophet of God, Moses 00:05:47.860 --> 00:05:51.860 She hinted to her father that she wanted to marry him 00:05:51.860 --> 00:05:53.860 And she said 00:05:53.860 --> 00:05:55.860 Father, rent 00:05:55.860 --> 00:05:59.899 The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy 00:05:59.899 --> 00:06:01.899 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:01.899 --> 00:06:04.899 That is, Moses was the first to be hired 00:06:04.899 --> 00:06:07.899 It combines strength and honesty 00:06:07.899 --> 00:06:11.899 The best employee is the one who brings them together 00:06:11.899 --> 00:06:15.899 That is, the power and ability to do what he was hired to do 00:06:15.899 --> 00:06:18.899 And honesty in it is not betrayal 00:06:18.899 --> 00:06:20.899 These are two descriptions 00:06:20.899 --> 00:06:22.899 They should be considered 00:06:22.899 --> 00:06:24.899 In everyone who takes over for man 00:06:24.899 --> 00:06:27.899 Pursuant to a lease or other 00:06:27.899 --> 00:06:29.899 The defect will not be 00:06:29.899 --> 00:06:32.899 Unless they are lost or one of them is lost 00:06:32.899 --> 00:06:34.899 As for their meeting 00:06:34.899 --> 00:06:37.899 The work is done and completed 00:06:37.899 --> 00:06:40.180 But she said that 00:06:40.180 --> 00:06:43.180 Because she witnessed the power of Moses 00:06:43.180 --> 00:06:45.180 When watering them and its activity 00:06:45.180 --> 00:06:47.180 What I knew about his strength 00:06:47.180 --> 00:06:50.180 I witnessed his honesty and religion 00:06:50.180 --> 00:06:52.180 And He had mercy on them 00:06:52.180 --> 00:06:55.180 If not, please benefit from them 00:06:55.180 --> 00:06:57.180 But he meant it 00:06:57.180 --> 00:06:59.180 The face of God Almighty 00:07:00.730 --> 00:07:02.730 This description of a woman 00:07:02.730 --> 00:07:04.730 To this strange man 00:07:04.730 --> 00:07:06.730 She couldn't pass on her father 00:07:06.730 --> 00:07:08.730 Go unnoticed 00:07:08.730 --> 00:07:10.730 He is the one who raised her to live 00:07:10.730 --> 00:07:12.730 And teach her how to deal 00:07:12.730 --> 00:07:14.730 With foreign men 00:07:14.730 --> 00:07:16.730 He quickly realized what she meant 00:07:16.730 --> 00:07:18.730 And seize the opportunity 00:07:18.730 --> 00:07:20.920 Ibn Jarir said 00:07:20.920 --> 00:07:22.920 May God have mercy on him 00:07:22.920 --> 00:07:24.920 It was said that what she said 00:07:24.920 --> 00:07:26.920 That's for her father 00:07:26.920 --> 00:07:28.920 Her father denounced this 00:07:28.920 --> 00:07:30.920 He told her who described it to him 00:07:30.920 --> 00:07:32.920 He said to her 00:07:32.920 --> 00:07:34.920 And what do you know about that? 00:07:34.920 --> 00:07:36.920 And she said 00:07:36.920 --> 00:07:38.920 As for his strength 00:07:38.920 --> 00:07:40.920 I have not seen any treatment for it 00:07:40.920 --> 00:07:42.920 What was treated when watering the well 00:07:42.920 --> 00:07:44.920 As for honesty 00:07:44.920 --> 00:07:46.920 I did not see anyone angry with me 00:07:46.920 --> 00:07:48.920 And so it came 00:07:48.920 --> 00:07:50.920 News about people of interpretation 00:07:53.529 --> 00:07:55.529 This is the description of it 00:07:55.529 --> 00:07:57.529 It indicates the accuracy of observation 00:07:57.529 --> 00:07:59.529 It also indicates admiration 00:07:59.529 --> 00:08:01.939 With this boy 00:08:01.939 --> 00:08:03.939 The compassionate father has realized 00:08:03.939 --> 00:08:05.939 What happened to his daughter's heart 00:08:05.939 --> 00:08:07.939 From the beginning of the story 00:08:07.939 --> 00:08:09.939 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:09.939 --> 00:08:11.939 When the two women returned 00:08:11.939 --> 00:08:13.939 They quickly brought the sheep to their father 00:08:13.939 --> 00:08:15.939 He denied their situation 00:08:15.939 --> 00:08:17.939 Because they came quickly 00:08:17.939 --> 00:08:19.939 So he asked them about 00:08:19.939 --> 00:08:21.939 Tell them 00:08:21.939 --> 00:08:23.939 So they told them something 00:08:23.939 --> 00:08:25.939 Moses, peace be upon him 00:08:25.939 --> 00:08:27.939 One of them came to him 00:08:27.939 --> 00:08:29.939 To invite him to her father 00:08:29.939 --> 00:08:31.939 God Almighty said 00:08:31.939 --> 00:08:33.940 One of them came to him 00:08:33.940 --> 00:08:35.940 She walks shyly 00:08:35.940 --> 00:08:37.940 That is, walking silks 00:08:40.360 --> 00:08:42.360 This is the good father 00:08:42.360 --> 00:08:44.360 He knows his daughter's need to get married 00:08:44.360 --> 00:08:46.360 So I understood her message 00:08:46.360 --> 00:08:48.360 Mentioning the most important characteristics of a good husband 00:08:48.360 --> 00:08:50.360 So he made an offer 00:08:50.360 --> 00:08:52.360 Ali Musa's two daughters 00:08:52.360 --> 00:08:54.360 To choose whichever one he wants 00:08:54.360 --> 00:08:56.360 To marry her 00:08:56.360 --> 00:08:58.360 And he said 00:08:58.360 --> 00:09:00.360 I want to marry you 00:09:00.360 --> 00:09:02.360 One of my daughters, Yahatin 00:09:02.360 --> 00:09:04.419 And so it should 00:09:04.419 --> 00:09:06.419 For the good man 00:09:06.419 --> 00:09:08.419 If so, seize the opportunity 00:09:08.419 --> 00:09:10.419 He had the opportunity to marry his daughter 00:09:10.419 --> 00:09:12.740 With a good man 00:09:12.740 --> 00:09:14.740 And hope my dear sister 00:09:14.740 --> 00:09:16.740 How do I honor God Almighty? 00:09:16.740 --> 00:09:18.740 Who adhered to her religion and her life 00:09:18.740 --> 00:09:20.740 Which was 00:09:20.740 --> 00:09:22.740 She suffers from a lack of masculinity 00:09:22.740 --> 00:09:24.740 For the youth of Media 00:09:24.740 --> 00:09:26.740 To get her a good husband 00:09:26.740 --> 00:09:28.740 Rather, he is a noble prophet 00:09:28.740 --> 00:09:30.740 One of the first determination of the Messengers 00:09:30.740 --> 00:09:32.740 From outside her city 00:09:32.740 --> 00:09:34.740 To marry her 00:09:34.740 --> 00:09:37.539 We continue in a meeting 00:09:37.539 --> 00:09:39.539 Coming, God willing 00:09:39.539 --> 00:09:41.539 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 00:09:43.539 --> 00:09:46.220 A story of suffering 00:09:46.220 --> 00:09:48.220 Women 00:09:48.220 --> 00:09:50.220 In the time of Moses 00:09:50.220 --> 00:09:52.220 Peace be upon him