1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,000 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:13,939 Women's suffering in marriage 3 00:00:13,939 --> 00:00:19,899 A woman is wanted, not a student, desired by a man 4 00:00:19,899 --> 00:00:23,899 This is what women like to feel 5 00:00:23,899 --> 00:00:29,899 She wants to see young men approaching her in hopes of obtaining her approval 6 00:00:29,899 --> 00:00:32,899 She chooses from them what she likes 7 00:00:32,899 --> 00:00:35,899 According to the specifications you want 8 00:00:35,899 --> 00:00:40,899 And the dreams she has for the future of her family life 9 00:00:40,899 --> 00:00:46,990 But a woman may suffer from not having the qualities she is looking for in a future husband 10 00:00:46,990 --> 00:00:53,990 If she is in a society where there are few men with the characteristics she wants 11 00:00:53,990 --> 00:00:56,990 Women are righteous and religious today 12 00:00:56,990 --> 00:00:59,990 Don't look for money or fame 13 00:00:59,990 --> 00:01:03,990 Rather, you are looking for a good, upright man 14 00:01:03,990 --> 00:01:08,989 The effect of adherence to his religion appears in his obedience to his Lord 15 00:01:08,989 --> 00:01:12,989 His morals appear in his dealings with people 16 00:01:12,989 --> 00:01:18,180 Here the suffering of women in the marriage journey appears 17 00:01:18,180 --> 00:01:21,180 Many young people may apply for it 18 00:01:21,180 --> 00:01:24,180 But she does not accept their religion 19 00:01:24,180 --> 00:01:27,180 Years pass by as she waits 20 00:01:27,180 --> 00:01:31,180 Others take precedence over her in marriage and childbearing 21 00:01:31,180 --> 00:01:35,180 And achieving motherhood while she waits 22 00:01:35,180 --> 00:01:40,180 Because the woman of principle does not accept any man to live with 23 00:01:40,180 --> 00:01:46,409 This is the suffering that women go through today in some societies 24 00:01:46,409 --> 00:01:50,409 The righteous woman passed by it in the city of Media 25 00:01:50,409 --> 00:01:53,409 In the time of Moses, peace be upon him 26 00:01:53,409 --> 00:02:00,439 Medea's men lack chivalry, jealousy and mercy towards women 27 00:02:00,439 --> 00:02:04,439 They are harsh and have a harsh approach to women 28 00:02:04,439 --> 00:02:08,439 As we saw in a previous episode 29 00:02:08,439 --> 00:02:14,439 We add in this episode that honesty is scarce among the men of Medea 30 00:02:14,439 --> 00:02:17,439 Evidenced by what the daughter said to her father 31 00:02:17,439 --> 00:02:23,439 O Father, hire. The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy 32 00:02:23,439 --> 00:02:28,569 If the trait of honesty was widespread among the men of Medea 33 00:02:28,569 --> 00:02:32,569 When this girl said this to her father 34 00:02:32,569 --> 00:02:35,569 Because there is a need for someone to take care of the sheep 35 00:02:35,569 --> 00:02:39,569 It existed before the coming of Moses, peace be upon him 36 00:02:39,569 --> 00:02:43,569 But what prevents you from taking a hired worker from the people of Media 37 00:02:44,569 --> 00:02:48,569 Loss of the quality of honesty or its scarcity in them 38 00:02:48,569 --> 00:02:52,599 A good woman looks for a faithful and strong husband 39 00:02:52,599 --> 00:02:56,599 He has chivalry and is jealous of his wives 40 00:02:56,599 --> 00:03:00,699 The two women are the daughters of a righteous man 41 00:03:00,699 --> 00:03:04,699 She was raised with high morals 42 00:03:04,699 --> 00:03:07,699 Which appeared in their dealings in life 43 00:03:07,699 --> 00:03:10,819 Outside and inside the house 44 00:03:10,819 --> 00:03:14,819 When I was outside the home, I was raised not to 45 00:03:14,819 --> 00:03:17,819 Mixing with foreign men 46 00:03:17,819 --> 00:03:20,819 This is indicated by the Almighty’s saying 47 00:03:20,819 --> 00:03:24,819 When he reached the waters of Midian, he found a nation on it 48 00:03:24,819 --> 00:03:27,819 Of people watering 49 00:03:27,819 --> 00:03:31,889 And besides him, he found two women fleeing 50 00:03:31,889 --> 00:03:35,889 I was also raised to talk to foreign men 51 00:03:35,889 --> 00:03:39,889 Be as much as needed and with complete clarity 52 00:03:39,889 --> 00:03:42,889 This is indicated by what God Almighty says about them 53 00:03:42,889 --> 00:03:45,889 He said what's wrong with you 54 00:03:45,889 --> 00:03:49,889 Then he said: Water until the shepherds leave 55 00:03:49,889 --> 00:03:52,889 Our father is a great sheikh 56 00:03:52,889 --> 00:03:54,889 And the Almighty said 57 00:03:54,889 --> 00:04:01,080 She said: My father is calling you to reward you for what you watered for us 58 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,080 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 59 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,080 This is politeness in the phrase 60 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,080 She never asked for it 61 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,080 But it is not suspicious 62 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:17,079 Rather, she said, “My father is calling you to reward you for what you watered for us.” 63 00:04:17,079 --> 00:04:23,230 It means to reward you and reward you for watering our sheep 64 00:04:23,230 --> 00:04:26,230 As I was raised on life 65 00:04:26,230 --> 00:04:29,230 Which is the true adornment of a woman 66 00:04:29,230 --> 00:04:32,230 From which the rest of morals radiate 67 00:04:32,230 --> 00:04:36,230 Life is a branch of faith 68 00:04:36,230 --> 00:04:40,230 Life has affected her movement outside the home 69 00:04:40,230 --> 00:04:42,230 God Almighty said 70 00:04:42,230 --> 00:04:46,230 Then one of them came to him, walking timidly 71 00:04:46,230 --> 00:04:49,680 It's the mission you came out for 72 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,680 She was very hard on herself 73 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,680 It is the call of Moses, and he was a stranger to it 74 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,680 To meet her father 75 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,680 Its difficulty stems from the severity of life 76 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,680 Which you adored 77 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,810 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 78 00:05:05,810 --> 00:05:08,810 Then she suddenly walked shyly 79 00:05:08,810 --> 00:05:11,810 This indicates the generosity of her element 80 00:05:11,810 --> 00:05:13,810 And her good creation 81 00:05:13,810 --> 00:05:16,810 Life is a matter of virtuous morals 82 00:05:16,810 --> 00:05:18,810 Especially in women 83 00:05:18,810 --> 00:05:22,639 Like this living woman 84 00:05:22,639 --> 00:05:25,639 A man of low temperament is not suitable for her 85 00:05:25,639 --> 00:05:27,639 Thick silver 86 00:05:27,639 --> 00:05:29,639 He is not jealous of his wives 87 00:05:29,639 --> 00:05:32,639 He is not a trustee of people's money 88 00:05:33,639 --> 00:05:36,639 How can he be faithful to this woman? 89 00:05:36,639 --> 00:05:39,860 However, this is alive 90 00:05:39,860 --> 00:05:42,860 When you find the qualities you desire 91 00:05:42,860 --> 00:05:44,860 Every girl in the pair 92 00:05:44,860 --> 00:05:47,860 It was represented by the Prophet of God, Moses 93 00:05:47,860 --> 00:05:51,860 She hinted to her father that she wanted to marry him 94 00:05:51,860 --> 00:05:53,860 And she said 95 00:05:53,860 --> 00:05:55,860 Father, rent 96 00:05:55,860 --> 00:05:59,899 The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy 97 00:05:59,899 --> 00:06:01,899 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 98 00:06:01,899 --> 00:06:04,899 That is, Moses was the first to be hired 99 00:06:04,899 --> 00:06:07,899 It combines strength and honesty 100 00:06:07,899 --> 00:06:11,899 The best employee is the one who brings them together 101 00:06:11,899 --> 00:06:15,899 That is, the power and ability to do what he was hired to do 102 00:06:15,899 --> 00:06:18,899 And honesty in it is not betrayal 103 00:06:18,899 --> 00:06:20,899 These are two descriptions 104 00:06:20,899 --> 00:06:22,899 They should be considered 105 00:06:22,899 --> 00:06:24,899 In everyone who takes over for man 106 00:06:24,899 --> 00:06:27,899 Pursuant to a lease or other 107 00:06:27,899 --> 00:06:29,899 The defect will not be 108 00:06:29,899 --> 00:06:32,899 Unless they are lost or one of them is lost 109 00:06:32,899 --> 00:06:34,899 As for their meeting 110 00:06:34,899 --> 00:06:37,899 The work is done and completed 111 00:06:37,899 --> 00:06:40,180 But she said that 112 00:06:40,180 --> 00:06:43,180 Because she witnessed the power of Moses 113 00:06:43,180 --> 00:06:45,180 When watering them and its activity 114 00:06:45,180 --> 00:06:47,180 What I knew about his strength 115 00:06:47,180 --> 00:06:50,180 I witnessed his honesty and religion 116 00:06:50,180 --> 00:06:52,180 And He had mercy on them 117 00:06:52,180 --> 00:06:55,180 If not, please benefit from them 118 00:06:55,180 --> 00:06:57,180 But he meant it 119 00:06:57,180 --> 00:06:59,180 The face of God Almighty 120 00:07:00,730 --> 00:07:02,730 This description of a woman 121 00:07:02,730 --> 00:07:04,730 To this strange man 122 00:07:04,730 --> 00:07:06,730 She couldn't pass on her father 123 00:07:06,730 --> 00:07:08,730 Go unnoticed 124 00:07:08,730 --> 00:07:10,730 He is the one who raised her to live 125 00:07:10,730 --> 00:07:12,730 And teach her how to deal 126 00:07:12,730 --> 00:07:14,730 With foreign men 127 00:07:14,730 --> 00:07:16,730 He quickly realized what she meant 128 00:07:16,730 --> 00:07:18,730 And seize the opportunity 129 00:07:18,730 --> 00:07:20,920 Ibn Jarir said 130 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:22,920 May God have mercy on him 131 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:24,920 It was said that what she said 132 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:26,920 That's for her father 133 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:28,920 Her father denounced this 134 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:30,920 He told her who described it to him 135 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:32,920 He said to her 136 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,920 And what do you know about that? 137 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,920 And she said 138 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:38,920 As for his strength 139 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:40,920 I have not seen any treatment for it 140 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:42,920 What was treated when watering the well 141 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:44,920 As for honesty 142 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:46,920 I did not see anyone angry with me 143 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:48,920 And so it came 144 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:50,920 News about people of interpretation 145 00:07:53,529 --> 00:07:55,529 This is the description of it 146 00:07:55,529 --> 00:07:57,529 It indicates the accuracy of observation 147 00:07:57,529 --> 00:07:59,529 It also indicates admiration 148 00:07:59,529 --> 00:08:01,939 With this boy 149 00:08:01,939 --> 00:08:03,939 The compassionate father has realized 150 00:08:03,939 --> 00:08:05,939 What happened to his daughter's heart 151 00:08:05,939 --> 00:08:07,939 From the beginning of the story 152 00:08:07,939 --> 00:08:09,939 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 153 00:08:09,939 --> 00:08:11,939 When the two women returned 154 00:08:11,939 --> 00:08:13,939 They quickly brought the sheep to their father 155 00:08:13,939 --> 00:08:15,939 He denied their situation 156 00:08:15,939 --> 00:08:17,939 Because they came quickly 157 00:08:17,939 --> 00:08:19,939 So he asked them about 158 00:08:19,939 --> 00:08:21,939 Tell them 159 00:08:21,939 --> 00:08:23,939 So they told them something 160 00:08:23,939 --> 00:08:25,939 Moses, peace be upon him 161 00:08:25,939 --> 00:08:27,939 One of them came to him 162 00:08:27,939 --> 00:08:29,939 To invite him to her father 163 00:08:29,939 --> 00:08:31,939 God Almighty said 164 00:08:31,939 --> 00:08:33,940 One of them came to him 165 00:08:33,940 --> 00:08:35,940 She walks shyly 166 00:08:35,940 --> 00:08:37,940 That is, walking silks 167 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,360 This is the good father 168 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,360 He knows his daughter's need to get married 169 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,360 So I understood her message 170 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,360 Mentioning the most important characteristics of a good husband 171 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,360 So he made an offer 172 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,360 Ali Musa's two daughters 173 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,360 To choose whichever one he wants 174 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,360 To marry her 175 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,360 And he said 176 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:00,360 I want to marry you 177 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,360 One of my daughters, Yahatin 178 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,419 And so it should 179 00:09:04,419 --> 00:09:06,419 For the good man 180 00:09:06,419 --> 00:09:08,419 If so, seize the opportunity 181 00:09:08,419 --> 00:09:10,419 He had the opportunity to marry his daughter 182 00:09:10,419 --> 00:09:12,740 With a good man 183 00:09:12,740 --> 00:09:14,740 And hope my dear sister 184 00:09:14,740 --> 00:09:16,740 How do I honor God Almighty? 185 00:09:16,740 --> 00:09:18,740 Who adhered to her religion and her life 186 00:09:18,740 --> 00:09:20,740 Which was 187 00:09:20,740 --> 00:09:22,740 She suffers from a lack of masculinity 188 00:09:22,740 --> 00:09:24,740 For the youth of Media 189 00:09:24,740 --> 00:09:26,740 To get her a good husband 190 00:09:26,740 --> 00:09:28,740 Rather, he is a noble prophet 191 00:09:28,740 --> 00:09:30,740 One of the first determination of the Messengers 192 00:09:30,740 --> 00:09:32,740 From outside her city 193 00:09:32,740 --> 00:09:34,740 To marry her 194 00:09:34,740 --> 00:09:37,539 We continue in a meeting 195 00:09:37,539 --> 00:09:39,539 Coming, God willing 196 00:09:39,539 --> 00:09:41,539 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 197 00:09:43,539 --> 00:09:46,220 A story of suffering 198 00:09:46,220 --> 00:09:48,220 Women 199 00:09:48,220 --> 00:09:50,220 In the time of Moses 200 00:09:50,220 --> 00:09:52,220 Peace be upon him