WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.399 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai 00:00:03.399 --> 00:00:16.500 Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara' 00:00:16.500 --> 00:00:21.960 Types of men with their wives 00:00:21.960 --> 00:00:24.559 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai 00:00:24.559 --> 00:00:28.660 May blessings and peace be upon the most honorable prophets and messengers 00:00:28.660 --> 00:00:30.559 Our Prophet Muhammad 00:00:30.559 --> 00:00:33.659 Da kuma ga dukkan iyalansa da sahabbansa baki daya 00:00:33.659 --> 00:00:35.060 Kuma bayan 00:00:35.259 --> 00:00:37.460 This is a new series 00:00:37.460 --> 00:00:42.659 Somewhat different from series written in past years 00:00:42.659 --> 00:00:46.759 It does not talk about the story of a woman in the Holy Qur’an 00:00:46.759 --> 00:00:50.159 Its main subject is not women 00:00:50.159 --> 00:00:55.659 Rather, it talks about the types of men in their dealings with their wives 00:00:55.659 --> 00:00:57.759 This category is for men 00:00:57.759 --> 00:01:00.960 It was said by a group of women 00:01:01.060 --> 00:01:05.560 We talked about their husbands very frankly and clearly 00:01:05.560 --> 00:01:09.719 In very eloquent Arabic terms 00:01:09.719 --> 00:01:12.719 Which brought us this useful event 00:01:12.719 --> 00:01:15.819 She is our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:01:15.819 --> 00:01:18.519 In the long hadith of Umm Zara’ 00:01:18.519 --> 00:01:22.819 Which I told the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:22.819 --> 00:01:25.819 Listen to her carefully and carefully 00:01:25.819 --> 00:01:29.519 Then he commented on her words with great words 00:01:29.519 --> 00:01:33.000 It is an example for those who consider it 00:01:33.000 --> 00:01:35.900 Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara' 00:01:35.900 --> 00:01:39.599 It is the subject of this Ramadan series 00:01:39.599 --> 00:01:42.099 The goal of raising this topic 00:01:42.099 --> 00:01:46.299 It is knowing the qualities that a woman loves in her husband 00:01:46.299 --> 00:01:49.200 And the qualities that you hate in him 00:01:49.200 --> 00:01:54.299 And find out how women dealt with these characteristics 00:01:54.299 --> 00:01:56.299 It is talk or sow 00:01:56.299 --> 00:01:59.599 With its focus on mentioning the types of men 00:01:59.599 --> 00:02:04.099 However, it reveals to us the extent of a woman’s suffering with her husband 00:02:04.099 --> 00:02:06.099 And what her chest hides 00:02:06.099 --> 00:02:09.199 Which is difficult to reveal to anyone 00:02:09.199 --> 00:02:13.699 This hadith is of great importance to the man 00:02:13.699 --> 00:02:16.199 To understand the way women think 00:02:16.199 --> 00:02:19.199 And her view of the man in her life 00:02:19.199 --> 00:02:23.199 Her most important psychological and physical needs 00:02:23.199 --> 00:02:26.199 As this great hadith shows us 00:02:26.199 --> 00:02:29.199 Some innate qualities of a woman 00:02:29.199 --> 00:02:32.699 And some of her good and bad morals 00:02:32.699 --> 00:02:38.199 This means that women are strongly present in the meanings of the hadith 00:02:38.199 --> 00:02:41.360 And in the details of this series 00:02:41.360 --> 00:02:43.360 And we can say 00:02:43.360 --> 00:02:45.360 This series 00:02:45.360 --> 00:02:47.860 It is women talking about men 00:02:47.860 --> 00:02:49.860 And explain their types 00:02:49.860 --> 00:02:52.860 A man needs to know himself 00:02:52.860 --> 00:02:54.860 Which type is it? 00:02:54.860 --> 00:02:58.360 To catch up if he was wrong 00:02:58.360 --> 00:03:01.360 To invest in his good qualities 00:03:01.360 --> 00:03:04.419 He develops it and is happy with it 00:03:04.419 --> 00:03:06.419 And women as well 00:03:06.419 --> 00:03:09.419 Need to know the nature of her husband 00:03:09.419 --> 00:03:11.419 Which type is it? 00:03:11.419 --> 00:03:13.419 To improve your dealings with him 00:03:13.419 --> 00:03:16.919 And direct it to the good that is in it 00:03:16.919 --> 00:03:20.680 It keeps him away from the reprehensible characteristics of men 00:03:20.680 --> 00:03:23.180 This is a great talk 00:03:23.180 --> 00:03:26.680 Al-Hafiz bin Al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said about him 00:03:26.680 --> 00:03:29.180 This hadith is great and interesting 00:03:29.180 --> 00:03:30.680 All the benefits 00:03:30.680 --> 00:03:32.680 I am the sole author 00:03:32.680 --> 00:03:35.680 It was singled out by Abu al-Qasim bin Hibban 00:03:35.680 --> 00:03:38.680 Al-Qadi and Bin Qutaybah 00:03:38.680 --> 00:03:43.169 Rather, scholars classified it individually 00:03:43.169 --> 00:03:45.669 Because of its many benefits 00:03:45.669 --> 00:03:48.669 And details that rarely exist 00:03:48.669 --> 00:03:50.669 In others combined 00:03:50.669 --> 00:03:52.729 It is worthy of all of us 00:03:52.729 --> 00:03:54.729 Men and women 00:03:54.729 --> 00:03:58.729 To pay attention to this hadith, study it and teach it 00:03:58.729 --> 00:04:03.020 And even save it as well if possible 00:04:03.020 --> 00:04:07.020 Abu al-Qasim al-Qazwin, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:07.020 --> 00:04:09.020 My father, may God have mercy on him 00:04:09.020 --> 00:04:13.020 He wanted me to memorize this hadith when I was young 00:04:13.020 --> 00:04:16.019 Because of its many benefits and good words 00:04:16.019 --> 00:04:20.939 This is encouragement from his father 00:04:20.939 --> 00:04:23.939 Make him compose an explanation of this hadith 00:04:24.939 --> 00:04:28.290 Hadith or implantation 00:04:28.290 --> 00:04:31.290 Some people may find it difficult to understand some of the words contained 00:04:31.290 --> 00:04:33.290 In direct conversation 00:04:33.290 --> 00:04:36.290 There is no surprise in that 00:04:36.290 --> 00:04:39.290 These words were spoken by women 00:04:39.290 --> 00:04:41.290 Aqah Arabs 00:04:41.290 --> 00:04:44.290 Their tongues did not mix with the non-Arabs 00:04:44.290 --> 00:04:47.290 We did not work in anything other than the Arabic language 00:04:47.290 --> 00:04:49.290 Unlike our time 00:04:49.290 --> 00:04:53.290 In which tongues are weak in pronouncing Arabic 00:04:53.290 --> 00:04:56.290 We were mixed with foreigners from everywhere 00:04:56.290 --> 00:04:59.290 Foreign languages became dominant 00:04:59.290 --> 00:05:02.519 In Muslim countries 00:05:02.519 --> 00:05:04.519 As for this hadith 00:05:04.519 --> 00:05:07.519 He came up with a very beautiful Arabic pronunciation 00:05:07.519 --> 00:05:10.519 Judge Ayadni Al-Yahsbi said about him 00:05:10.519 --> 00:05:12.519 Allah yayi masa rahama 00:05:12.519 --> 00:05:15.519 In short, the words of these women 00:05:15.519 --> 00:05:18.519 Of eloquent speech 00:05:18.519 --> 00:05:20.519 Correct purposes 00:05:20.519 --> 00:05:22.519 Eloquent phrase 00:05:22.519 --> 00:05:25.519 Wonderful metaphor and reference 00:05:25.519 --> 00:05:28.519 Sublime simile and metaphor 00:05:28.519 --> 00:05:30.519 Some of them have more eloquent words 00:05:30.519 --> 00:05:32.519 And the highest hand 00:05:32.519 --> 00:05:34.519 And longer 00:05:34.519 --> 00:05:36.519 And possible base and origin 00:05:36.519 --> 00:05:40.519 The words of some of them are more elegant and prefaced 00:05:40.519 --> 00:05:44.519 The softest entourage and vivid dreams 00:05:44.519 --> 00:05:47.519 Some of them are more eloquent in tone 00:05:47.519 --> 00:05:50.519 He explained in the statement an argument 00:05:50.519 --> 00:05:53.519 Subtlety in eloquence and brevity is an argument 00:05:53.519 --> 00:05:58.180 If you meditate on the words or the plants 00:05:58.180 --> 00:06:02.180 I found it with its many chapters and lack of curiosity 00:06:02.180 --> 00:06:06.180 Choose words with clear features 00:06:06.180 --> 00:06:08.180 Between sections 00:06:08.180 --> 00:06:11.180 Qais's words have estimated their meanings 00:06:11.180 --> 00:06:13.180 Its rules were decided 00:06:13.180 --> 00:06:15.180 Its buildings were constructed 00:06:15.180 --> 00:06:18.180 Some of it was given a place in eloquence 00:06:19.180 --> 00:06:22.310 And I bid him farewell from Budaiya 00:06:22.310 --> 00:06:25.310 And if you notice the words of the ninth hour 00:06:25.310 --> 00:06:28.310 The owner of pillars, carpets, and ashes 00:06:28.310 --> 00:06:32.310 Its authorship of the art of rhetoric is comprehensive 00:06:32.310 --> 00:06:35.310 Perhaps the statement is a lever 00:06:35.310 --> 00:06:39.430 With some brevity and clear intent 00:06:39.430 --> 00:06:45.089 Now to the text of the conversation 00:06:45.089 --> 00:06:48.189 An kar~o daga Aisha – Allah Ya yarda da ita ta ce 00:06:48.189 --> 00:06:50.189 11 women sat 00:06:50.189 --> 00:06:52.189 So we pledged and contracted 00:06:52.189 --> 00:06:56.189 Do they not conceal anything from their husbands? 00:06:56.189 --> 00:06:58.439 She said the first 00:06:58.439 --> 00:07:01.439 My husband had sloppy camel meat 00:07:01.439 --> 00:07:03.439 On top of a rugged mountain 00:07:03.439 --> 00:07:05.439 It is not easy to rise 00:07:05.439 --> 00:07:08.439 Not fat, so it moves 00:07:08.439 --> 00:07:10.600 She said the second 00:07:10.600 --> 00:07:13.600 My husband, I don't care about him 00:07:13.600 --> 00:07:15.600 I'm afraid I won't let him go 00:07:15.600 --> 00:07:19.600 If I remember him, I remember his reward and reward 00:07:19.600 --> 00:07:22.019 She said the third 00:07:22.019 --> 00:07:24.019 My adoring husband 00:07:24.019 --> 00:07:26.019 If I speak, I will release 00:07:26.019 --> 00:07:28.019 If I remain silent, I will comment 00:07:28.019 --> 00:07:30.339 She said the fourth 00:07:30.339 --> 00:07:32.339 My husband is Kalil Tihama 00:07:32.339 --> 00:07:35.339 There is neither heat nor comfort 00:07:35.339 --> 00:07:38.339 No fear or boredom 00:07:38.339 --> 00:07:40.629 She said the fifth 00:07:40.629 --> 00:07:42.629 If my husband enters, he will be a leopard 00:07:42.629 --> 00:07:44.629 And if a lion comes out 00:07:44.629 --> 00:07:47.629 He is not asked about what he promised 00:07:47.629 --> 00:07:49.920 She said six 00:07:49.920 --> 00:07:51.920 My husband ate wraps 00:07:51.920 --> 00:07:53.920 If he drinks, he will be relieved 00:07:53.920 --> 00:07:55.920 And if he lies down, he will recover 00:07:55.920 --> 00:07:57.920 And the palm does not enter 00:07:57.920 --> 00:07:59.920 To teach broadcasting 00:07:59.920 --> 00:08:02.240 She said the seventh 00:08:02.240 --> 00:08:04.240 My husband is afraid of me 00:08:04.240 --> 00:08:06.240 Or gaya 00:08:06.240 --> 00:08:08.240 Aiwatar 00:08:08.240 --> 00:08:10.240 Every alternative to this 00:08:10.240 --> 00:08:12.240 Shajak or Falak 00:08:12.240 --> 00:08:14.240 Or collect both for you 00:08:14.240 --> 00:08:16.779 She said eight 00:08:16.779 --> 00:08:18.779 My husband touches me 00:08:18.779 --> 00:08:20.779 Touch the rabbit 00:08:20.779 --> 00:08:22.779 And the wind is the smell of grapes 00:08:22.779 --> 00:08:25.040 She said nine 00:08:25.040 --> 00:08:27.040 My husband is a high-ranking man 00:08:27.040 --> 00:08:29.040 Long Najad 00:08:29.040 --> 00:08:31.040 Great ash 00:08:31.040 --> 00:08:33.039 The house is close to the club 00:08:33.039 --> 00:08:35.039 She said ten o'clock 00:08:35.039 --> 00:08:37.289 My husband is Malik 00:08:37.289 --> 00:08:39.289 And what's wrong with you? 00:08:39.289 --> 00:08:41.289 Me ya fi haka? 00:08:41.289 --> 00:08:43.289 Yana da rakuma masu albarka da yawa 00:08:43.289 --> 00:08:45.289 'Yan wasan kwaikwayo 00:08:45.289 --> 00:08:47.289 'Yan wasan kwaikwayo 00:08:47.289 --> 00:08:49.289 'Yan wasan kwaikwayo 00:08:49.289 --> 00:08:51.289 If we hear Al-Mizhar's voice 00:08:51.289 --> 00:08:53.289 Na tabbata cewa su ne barazanar ku 00:08:53.289 --> 00:08:55.710 Na tabbata cewa su ne barazanar ku 00:08:55.710 --> 00:08:57.710 She said eleven 00:08:57.710 --> 00:08:59.710 My husband is a father of sow 00:08:59.710 --> 00:09:01.740 And he is not the father of Zaraa 00:09:01.740 --> 00:09:03.740 People of my ear jewelry 00:09:03.740 --> 00:09:05.740 And it was filled with fat from my genitals 00:09:05.740 --> 00:09:07.740 And it was filled with fat from my genitals 00:09:07.740 --> 00:09:09.740 And he made me smile 00:09:09.740 --> 00:09:11.740 So I shouted to myself 00:09:11.740 --> 00:09:13.740 He found me among the people of Ghanimah Bashaq 00:09:13.740 --> 00:09:15.740 So he placed me among the people of Saheel 00:09:15.740 --> 00:09:17.740 And I trample, and trample, and purify 00:09:17.740 --> 00:09:19.740 Then I say 00:09:19.740 --> 00:09:21.840 Don't be ugly 00:09:21.840 --> 00:09:23.840 Ni kuwa na kwanta sai gari ya waye 00:09:23.840 --> 00:09:25.840 And I drink and I get sick 00:09:25.840 --> 00:09:27.840 My father's mother planted 00:09:27.840 --> 00:09:30.159 My father's mother did not plant anything 00:09:30.159 --> 00:09:32.159 Akumha Raddah 00:09:32.159 --> 00:09:34.159 And her house is spacious 00:09:34.159 --> 00:09:36.159 Ibn Abi Zar'a 00:09:36.159 --> 00:09:38.409 Ibn Abi did not plant anything 00:09:38.409 --> 00:09:40.409 His bed is amused 00:09:40.409 --> 00:09:42.409 To bevel 00:09:42.409 --> 00:09:44.409 And an arm fills him 00:09:44.409 --> 00:09:46.409 Daughter of Abu Zara 00:09:46.409 --> 00:09:48.700 My father’s daughter did not plant anything 00:09:48.700 --> 00:09:50.700 Her father volunteered 00:09:50.700 --> 00:09:52.700 And her mother volunteered 00:09:52.700 --> 00:09:54.700 And he filled her cover 00:09:54.700 --> 00:09:56.700 And her neighbour's anger 00:09:56.700 --> 00:09:58.700 My father's slave girl 00:09:58.700 --> 00:10:00.889 What is my father’s slave girl? 00:10:00.889 --> 00:10:02.889 Kar a watsa hirar mu 00:10:02.889 --> 00:10:04.889 Nan take 00:10:04.889 --> 00:10:06.889 And do not destroy our wife 00:10:06.889 --> 00:10:08.889 Neqtatha 00:10:08.889 --> 00:10:10.889 Do not fill our house 00:10:10.889 --> 00:10:12.889 Nesting 00:10:12.889 --> 00:10:14.889 Our nesting house 00:10:14.889 --> 00:10:17.179 Ta ce 00:10:17.179 --> 00:10:19.179 Abu Zar' came out 00:10:19.179 --> 00:10:21.179 And the stakes are churning 00:10:21.179 --> 00:10:23.179 He found a woman with her 00:10:23.179 --> 00:10:25.179 She has two sons like cheetahs 00:10:25.179 --> 00:10:27.179 They play from below her waist 00:10:27.179 --> 00:10:29.179 Bermantine 00:10:29.179 --> 00:10:31.179 So he divorced me and married her 00:10:31.179 --> 00:10:33.309 So I got married after him 00:10:33.309 --> 00:10:35.309 A secret man 00:10:35.309 --> 00:10:37.309 Shreya rode 00:10:37.309 --> 00:10:39.309 And he took it in writing 00:10:39.309 --> 00:10:41.309 He bestowed blessings on me 00:10:41.309 --> 00:10:43.309 Shreya rode 00:10:43.309 --> 00:10:45.309 He gave me every scent 00:10:45.309 --> 00:10:47.309 A pair 00:10:47.309 --> 00:10:49.309 Sai ya ce 00:10:49.309 --> 00:10:51.559 Whole or transplant 00:10:51.559 --> 00:10:53.559 And see your family 00:10:53.559 --> 00:10:55.559 If you collect everything 00:10:55.559 --> 00:10:57.559 He gave me 00:10:57.559 --> 00:10:59.980 What amounted to the smallest vessel 00:10:59.980 --> 00:11:01.980 My father planted 00:11:01.980 --> 00:11:03.980 Aisha, Allah ya kara mata yarda ta ce 00:11:03.980 --> 00:11:05.980 Sai Manzon Allah ya ce da ni 00:11:05.980 --> 00:11:08.139 Allah ya jikan shi da rahama 00:11:08.139 --> 00:11:10.139 I was like my father to you 00:11:10.139 --> 00:11:12.330 Bukhari da Muslim ne suka ruwaito 00:11:12.330 --> 00:11:14.620 Zad Al-Tabarani 00:11:14.620 --> 00:11:16.620 In his novel 00:11:16.620 --> 00:11:18.620 Oh Aisha 00:11:18.620 --> 00:11:20.620 I was like my father to you 00:11:20.620 --> 00:11:22.620 For a sow mother 00:11:22.620 --> 00:11:24.620 However, Aba planted 00:11:24.620 --> 00:11:26.620 He was divorced and I am not divorced 00:11:26.620 --> 00:11:28.720 Gyara shi 00:11:28.720 --> 00:11:30.720 Al-Albani in Sahih Al-Jami' 00:11:30.720 --> 00:11:34.220 We continue in a meeting 00:11:34.220 --> 00:11:36.220 Coming, God willing 00:11:36.220 --> 00:11:38.220 Godiya ga Allah 00:11:38.220 --> 00:11:40.220 Lord of the worlds