1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,399 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,399 --> 00:00:16,500 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 3 00:00:16,500 --> 00:00:21,960 Types of men with their wives 4 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,559 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 5 00:00:24,559 --> 00:00:28,660 May blessings and peace be upon the most honorable prophets and messengers 6 00:00:28,660 --> 00:00:30,559 Our Prophet Muhammad 7 00:00:30,559 --> 00:00:33,659 And upon all his family and companions 8 00:00:33,659 --> 00:00:35,060 And after 9 00:00:35,259 --> 00:00:37,460 This is a new series 10 00:00:37,460 --> 00:00:42,659 Somewhat different from series written in past years 11 00:00:42,659 --> 00:00:46,759 It does not talk about the story of a woman in the Holy Qur’an 12 00:00:46,759 --> 00:00:50,159 Its main subject is not women 13 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:55,659 Rather, it talks about the types of men in their dealings with their wives 14 00:00:55,659 --> 00:00:57,759 This category is for men 15 00:00:57,759 --> 00:01:00,960 It was said by a group of women 16 00:01:01,060 --> 00:01:05,560 We talked about their husbands very frankly and clearly 17 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,719 In very eloquent Arabic terms 18 00:01:09,719 --> 00:01:12,719 Which brought us this useful event 19 00:01:12,719 --> 00:01:15,819 She is our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 20 00:01:15,819 --> 00:01:18,519 In the long hadith of Umm Zara’ 21 00:01:18,519 --> 00:01:22,819 Which I told the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 22 00:01:22,819 --> 00:01:25,819 Listen to her carefully and carefully 23 00:01:25,819 --> 00:01:29,519 Then he commented on her words with great words 24 00:01:29,519 --> 00:01:33,000 It is an example for those who consider it 25 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,900 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 26 00:01:35,900 --> 00:01:39,599 It is the subject of this Ramadan series 27 00:01:39,599 --> 00:01:42,099 The goal of raising this topic 28 00:01:42,099 --> 00:01:46,299 It is knowing the qualities that a woman loves in her husband 29 00:01:46,299 --> 00:01:49,200 And the qualities that you hate in him 30 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:54,299 And find out how women dealt with these characteristics 31 00:01:54,299 --> 00:01:56,299 It is talk or sow 32 00:01:56,299 --> 00:01:59,599 With its focus on mentioning the types of men 33 00:01:59,599 --> 00:02:04,099 However, it reveals to us the extent of a woman’s suffering with her husband 34 00:02:04,099 --> 00:02:06,099 And what her chest hides 35 00:02:06,099 --> 00:02:09,199 Which is difficult to reveal to anyone 36 00:02:09,199 --> 00:02:13,699 This hadith is of great importance to the man 37 00:02:13,699 --> 00:02:16,199 To understand the way women think 38 00:02:16,199 --> 00:02:19,199 And her view of the man in her life 39 00:02:19,199 --> 00:02:23,199 Her most important psychological and physical needs 40 00:02:23,199 --> 00:02:26,199 As this great hadith shows us 41 00:02:26,199 --> 00:02:29,199 Some innate qualities of a woman 42 00:02:29,199 --> 00:02:32,699 Some of her good and bad morals 43 00:02:32,699 --> 00:02:38,199 This means that women are strongly present in the meanings of the hadith 44 00:02:38,199 --> 00:02:41,360 And in the details of this series 45 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,360 And we can say 46 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,360 This series 47 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,860 It is women talking about men 48 00:02:47,860 --> 00:02:49,860 And explain their types 49 00:02:49,860 --> 00:02:52,860 A man needs to know himself 50 00:02:52,860 --> 00:02:54,860 Which type is it? 51 00:02:54,860 --> 00:02:58,360 To catch up if he was wrong 52 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,360 To invest in his good qualities 53 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,419 He develops it and is happy with it 54 00:03:04,419 --> 00:03:06,419 And women as well 55 00:03:06,419 --> 00:03:09,419 Need to know the nature of her husband 56 00:03:09,419 --> 00:03:11,419 Which type is it? 57 00:03:11,419 --> 00:03:13,419 To improve your dealings with him 58 00:03:13,419 --> 00:03:16,919 And direct it to the good that is in it 59 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,680 It keeps him away from the reprehensible characteristics of men 60 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,180 This is a great talk 61 00:03:23,180 --> 00:03:26,680 Al-Hafiz bin Al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said about him 62 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:29,180 This hadith is great and interesting 63 00:03:29,180 --> 00:03:30,680 All the benefits 64 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,680 I am the sole author 65 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,680 It was singled out by Abu al-Qasim bin Hibban 66 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,680 Al-Qadi and Bin Qutaybah 67 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:43,169 Rather, scholars classified it individually 68 00:03:43,169 --> 00:03:45,669 Because of its many benefits 69 00:03:45,669 --> 00:03:48,669 And details that rarely exist 70 00:03:48,669 --> 00:03:50,669 In others combined 71 00:03:50,669 --> 00:03:52,729 It is worthy of all of us 72 00:03:52,729 --> 00:03:54,729 Men and women 73 00:03:54,729 --> 00:03:58,729 To pay attention to this hadith, study it and teach it 74 00:03:58,729 --> 00:04:03,020 And even save it as well if possible 75 00:04:03,020 --> 00:04:07,020 Abu al-Qasim al-Qazwin, may God have mercy on him, said 76 00:04:07,020 --> 00:04:09,020 My father, may God have mercy on him 77 00:04:09,020 --> 00:04:13,020 He wanted me to memorize this hadith when I was young 78 00:04:13,020 --> 00:04:16,019 Because of its many benefits and good words 79 00:04:16,019 --> 00:04:20,939 This is encouragement from his father 80 00:04:20,939 --> 00:04:23,939 Make him compose an explanation of this hadith 81 00:04:24,939 --> 00:04:28,290 Hadith or implantation 82 00:04:28,290 --> 00:04:31,290 Some people may find it difficult to understand some of the words contained 83 00:04:31,290 --> 00:04:33,290 In direct conversation 84 00:04:33,290 --> 00:04:36,290 There is no surprise in that 85 00:04:36,290 --> 00:04:39,290 These words were spoken by women 86 00:04:39,290 --> 00:04:41,290 Aqah Arabs 87 00:04:41,290 --> 00:04:44,290 Their tongues did not mix with the non-Arabs 88 00:04:44,290 --> 00:04:47,290 We did not work in anything other than the Arabic language 89 00:04:47,290 --> 00:04:49,290 Unlike our time 90 00:04:49,290 --> 00:04:53,290 In which tongues are weak in pronouncing Arabic 91 00:04:53,290 --> 00:04:56,290 We were mixed with foreigners from everywhere 92 00:04:56,290 --> 00:04:59,290 Foreign languages became dominant 93 00:04:59,290 --> 00:05:02,519 In Muslim countries 94 00:05:02,519 --> 00:05:04,519 As for this hadith 95 00:05:04,519 --> 00:05:07,519 He came up with a very beautiful Arabic pronunciation 96 00:05:07,519 --> 00:05:10,519 Judge Ayadni Al-Yahsbi said about him 97 00:05:10,519 --> 00:05:12,519 May God have mercy on him 98 00:05:12,519 --> 00:05:15,519 In short, the words of these women 99 00:05:15,519 --> 00:05:18,519 Of eloquent speech 100 00:05:18,519 --> 00:05:20,519 Correct purposes 101 00:05:20,519 --> 00:05:22,519 Eloquent phrase 102 00:05:22,519 --> 00:05:25,519 Wonderful metaphor and reference 103 00:05:25,519 --> 00:05:28,519 Sublime simile and metaphor 104 00:05:28,519 --> 00:05:30,519 Some of them have more eloquent words 105 00:05:30,519 --> 00:05:32,519 And the highest hand 106 00:05:32,519 --> 00:05:34,519 And longer 107 00:05:34,519 --> 00:05:36,519 And possible base and origin 108 00:05:36,519 --> 00:05:40,519 The words of some of them are more elegant and prefaced 109 00:05:40,519 --> 00:05:44,519 The softest entourage and vivid dreams 110 00:05:44,519 --> 00:05:47,519 Some of them are more eloquent in tone 111 00:05:47,519 --> 00:05:50,519 He explained in the statement an argument 112 00:05:50,519 --> 00:05:53,519 Subtlety in eloquence and brevity is an argument 113 00:05:53,519 --> 00:05:58,180 If you meditate on the words or the plants 114 00:05:58,180 --> 00:06:02,180 I found it with its many chapters and lack of curiosity 115 00:06:02,180 --> 00:06:06,180 Choose words with clear features 116 00:06:06,180 --> 00:06:08,180 Between sections 117 00:06:08,180 --> 00:06:11,180 Qais's words have estimated their meanings 118 00:06:11,180 --> 00:06:13,180 Its rules were decided 119 00:06:13,180 --> 00:06:15,180 Its buildings were constructed 120 00:06:15,180 --> 00:06:18,180 Some of it was given a place in eloquence 121 00:06:19,180 --> 00:06:22,310 And I bid him farewell from Budaiya 122 00:06:22,310 --> 00:06:25,310 And if you notice the words of the ninth hour 123 00:06:25,310 --> 00:06:28,310 The owner of pillars, carpets, and ashes 124 00:06:28,310 --> 00:06:32,310 Its authorship of the art of rhetoric is comprehensive 125 00:06:32,310 --> 00:06:35,310 Perhaps the statement is a lever 126 00:06:35,310 --> 00:06:39,430 With some brevity and clear intent 127 00:06:39,430 --> 00:06:45,089 Now to the text of the conversation 128 00:06:45,089 --> 00:06:48,189 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 129 00:06:48,189 --> 00:06:50,189 11 women sat 130 00:06:50,189 --> 00:06:52,189 So we pledged and contracted 131 00:06:52,189 --> 00:06:56,189 Do they not conceal anything from their husbands? 132 00:06:56,189 --> 00:06:58,439 She said the first 133 00:06:58,439 --> 00:07:01,439 My husband had sloppy camel meat 134 00:07:01,439 --> 00:07:03,439 On top of a rugged mountain 135 00:07:03,439 --> 00:07:05,439 It is not easy to rise 136 00:07:05,439 --> 00:07:08,439 Not fat, so it moves 137 00:07:08,439 --> 00:07:10,600 She said the second 138 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,600 My husband, I don't care about him 139 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,600 I'm afraid I won't let him go 140 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:19,600 If I remember him, I remember his reward and reward 141 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:22,019 She said the third 142 00:07:22,019 --> 00:07:24,019 My adoring husband 143 00:07:24,019 --> 00:07:26,019 If I speak, I will release 144 00:07:26,019 --> 00:07:28,019 If I remain silent, I will comment 145 00:07:28,019 --> 00:07:30,339 She said the fourth 146 00:07:30,339 --> 00:07:32,339 My husband is Kalil Tihama 147 00:07:32,339 --> 00:07:35,339 There is neither heat nor comfort 148 00:07:35,339 --> 00:07:38,339 No fear or boredom 149 00:07:38,339 --> 00:07:40,629 She said the fifth 150 00:07:40,629 --> 00:07:42,629 If my husband enters, he will be a leopard 151 00:07:42,629 --> 00:07:44,629 And if a lion comes out 152 00:07:44,629 --> 00:07:47,629 He is not asked about what he promised 153 00:07:47,629 --> 00:07:49,920 She said six 154 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:51,920 My husband ate wraps 155 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:53,920 If he drinks, he will be relieved 156 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:55,920 And if he lies down, he will recover 157 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,920 And the palm does not enter 158 00:07:57,920 --> 00:07:59,920 To teach broadcasting 159 00:07:59,920 --> 00:08:02,240 She said the seventh 160 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,240 My husband is afraid of me 161 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:06,240 Or gaya 162 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:08,240 Apply 163 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,240 Every alternative to this 164 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,240 Shajak or Falak 165 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,240 Or collect both for you 166 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,779 She said eight 167 00:08:16,779 --> 00:08:18,779 My husband touches me 168 00:08:18,779 --> 00:08:20,779 Touch the rabbit 169 00:08:20,779 --> 00:08:22,779 And the wind is the smell of grapes 170 00:08:22,779 --> 00:08:25,040 She said nine 171 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,040 My husband is a high-ranking man 172 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,040 Long Najad 173 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:31,040 Great ash 174 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,039 The house is close to the club 175 00:08:33,039 --> 00:08:35,039 She said ten o'clock 176 00:08:35,039 --> 00:08:37,289 My husband is Malik 177 00:08:37,289 --> 00:08:39,289 And what's wrong with you? 178 00:08:39,289 --> 00:08:41,289 What's better than that? 179 00:08:41,289 --> 00:08:43,289 He has many blessed camels 180 00:08:43,289 --> 00:08:45,289 Few theatres 181 00:08:45,289 --> 00:08:47,289 Few theatres 182 00:08:47,289 --> 00:08:49,289 Few theatres 183 00:08:49,289 --> 00:08:51,289 If we hear Al-Mizhar's voice 184 00:08:51,289 --> 00:08:53,289 I am sure that they are your threat 185 00:08:53,289 --> 00:08:55,710 I am sure that they are your threat 186 00:08:55,710 --> 00:08:57,710 She said eleven 187 00:08:57,710 --> 00:08:59,710 My husband is a father of sow 188 00:08:59,710 --> 00:09:01,740 And he is not the father of Zaraa 189 00:09:01,740 --> 00:09:03,740 People of my ear jewelry 190 00:09:03,740 --> 00:09:05,740 And it was filled with fat from my genitals 191 00:09:05,740 --> 00:09:07,740 And it was filled with fat from my genitals 192 00:09:07,740 --> 00:09:09,740 And he made me smile 193 00:09:09,740 --> 00:09:11,740 So I shouted to myself 194 00:09:11,740 --> 00:09:13,740 He found me among the people of Ghanimah Bashaq 195 00:09:13,740 --> 00:09:15,740 So he placed me among the people of Saheel 196 00:09:15,740 --> 00:09:17,740 And I trample, and trample, and purify 197 00:09:17,740 --> 00:09:19,740 Then I say 198 00:09:19,740 --> 00:09:21,840 Don't be ugly 199 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,840 And I lie down and it becomes morning 200 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:25,840 And I drink and I get sick 201 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:27,840 My father's mother planted 202 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,159 My father's mother did not plant anything 203 00:09:30,159 --> 00:09:32,159 Akumha Raddah 204 00:09:32,159 --> 00:09:34,159 And her house is spacious 205 00:09:34,159 --> 00:09:36,159 Ibn Abi Zar'a 206 00:09:36,159 --> 00:09:38,409 Ibn Abi did not plant anything 207 00:09:38,409 --> 00:09:40,409 His bed is amused 208 00:09:40,409 --> 00:09:42,409 To bevel 209 00:09:42,409 --> 00:09:44,409 And an arm fills him 210 00:09:44,409 --> 00:09:46,409 Daughter of Abu Zara 211 00:09:46,409 --> 00:09:48,700 My father’s daughter did not plant anything 212 00:09:48,700 --> 00:09:50,700 Her father volunteered 213 00:09:50,700 --> 00:09:52,700 And her mother volunteered 214 00:09:52,700 --> 00:09:54,700 And he filled her cover 215 00:09:54,700 --> 00:09:56,700 And her neighbour's anger 216 00:09:56,700 --> 00:09:58,700 My father's slave girl 217 00:09:58,700 --> 00:10:00,889 What is my father’s slave girl? 218 00:10:00,889 --> 00:10:02,889 Don't broadcast our conversation 219 00:10:02,889 --> 00:10:04,889 Instantly 220 00:10:04,889 --> 00:10:06,889 And do not destroy our wife 221 00:10:06,889 --> 00:10:08,889 Neqtatha 222 00:10:08,889 --> 00:10:10,889 Do not fill our house 223 00:10:10,889 --> 00:10:12,889 Nesting 224 00:10:12,889 --> 00:10:14,889 Our nesting house 225 00:10:14,889 --> 00:10:17,179 she said 226 00:10:17,179 --> 00:10:19,179 Abu Zar' came out 227 00:10:19,179 --> 00:10:21,179 And the stakes are churning 228 00:10:21,179 --> 00:10:23,179 He found a woman with her 229 00:10:23,179 --> 00:10:25,179 She has two sons like cheetahs 230 00:10:25,179 --> 00:10:27,179 They play from below her waist 231 00:10:27,179 --> 00:10:29,179 Bermantine 232 00:10:29,179 --> 00:10:31,179 So he divorced me and married her 233 00:10:31,179 --> 00:10:33,309 So I got married after him 234 00:10:33,309 --> 00:10:35,309 A secret man 235 00:10:35,309 --> 00:10:37,309 Shreya rode 236 00:10:37,309 --> 00:10:39,309 And he took it in writing 237 00:10:39,309 --> 00:10:41,309 He bestowed blessings on me 238 00:10:41,309 --> 00:10:43,309 Shreya rode 239 00:10:43,309 --> 00:10:45,309 He gave me every scent 240 00:10:45,309 --> 00:10:47,309 A pair 241 00:10:47,309 --> 00:10:49,309 And he said 242 00:10:49,309 --> 00:10:51,559 Whole or transplant 243 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,559 And see your family 244 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:55,559 If you collect everything 245 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,559 He gave me 246 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:59,980 What amounted to the smallest vessel 247 00:10:59,980 --> 00:11:01,980 My father planted 248 00:11:01,980 --> 00:11:03,980 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said 249 00:11:03,980 --> 00:11:05,980 The Messenger of God said to me 250 00:11:05,980 --> 00:11:08,139 May God bless him and grant him peace 251 00:11:08,139 --> 00:11:10,139 I was like my father to you 252 00:11:10,139 --> 00:11:12,330 Narrated by Al-Bukhari and Muslim 253 00:11:12,330 --> 00:11:14,620 Zad Al-Tabarani 254 00:11:14,620 --> 00:11:16,620 In his novel 255 00:11:16,620 --> 00:11:18,620 Oh Aisha 256 00:11:18,620 --> 00:11:20,620 I was like my father to you 257 00:11:20,620 --> 00:11:22,620 For a sow mother 258 00:11:22,620 --> 00:11:24,620 However, Aba planted 259 00:11:24,620 --> 00:11:26,620 He was divorced and I am not divorced 260 00:11:26,620 --> 00:11:28,720 Correct it 261 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,720 Al-Albani in Sahih Al-Jami' 262 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:34,220 We continue in a meeting 263 00:11:34,220 --> 00:11:36,220 Coming, God willing 264 00:11:36,220 --> 00:11:38,220 Thank God 265 00:11:38,220 --> 00:11:40,220 Lord of the worlds