1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,399 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai 2 00:00:03,399 --> 00:00:08,210 Kayan maza 3 00:00:08,210 --> 00:00:13,199 A cikin hadisin Ummu Zara’ 4 00:00:13,199 --> 00:00:21,460 Mijin masoyi 5 00:00:21,460 --> 00:00:25,859 Babu lokacin da mace ke fama da mijinta 6 00:00:25,859 --> 00:00:29,460 Babu wahala ga namiji daga matarsa 7 00:00:29,460 --> 00:00:34,060 Halin rayuwar nan ita ce ba ta da wahala 8 00:00:34,060 --> 00:00:38,259 Amma wahala ya bambanta da wahala 9 00:00:38,259 --> 00:00:40,759 Akwai wahala na ɗan lokaci 10 00:00:40,759 --> 00:00:43,759 Akwai wahala akai-akai 11 00:00:43,759 --> 00:00:45,960 Mafi wuya kuma mafi tsawo 12 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:50,460 Wahalar da ke da alaka da halin namiji ko mace 13 00:00:50,460 --> 00:00:55,560 Wahalar ta samo asali ne daga rashin son mutum ya canza halinsa 14 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,289 Da kuma daidaitawa da na kusa da shi 15 00:00:58,289 --> 00:00:59,390 In ba haka ba 16 00:00:59,390 --> 00:01:02,990 Kowace halitta abin zargi tana canzawa 17 00:01:03,090 --> 00:01:07,609 Wanda ya canza kansa, Allah ya canza yanayinsa 18 00:01:07,609 --> 00:01:11,810 Wasu mutane na iya musun yiwuwar canza ɗabi'a 19 00:01:11,810 --> 00:01:14,810 Karkashin cewa an haife shi da cewa 20 00:01:14,810 --> 00:01:16,310 Kuma suka ce 21 00:01:16,310 --> 00:01:19,140 Bugawa ya yi nasara akan bugawa 22 00:01:19,140 --> 00:01:21,340 Ya amsa gayyata 23 00:01:21,340 --> 00:01:24,140 Imam Al-Ghazali, Allah ya yi masa rahama 24 00:01:24,140 --> 00:01:25,540 Kuma yana cewa 25 00:01:25,540 --> 00:01:28,739 Idan ɗabi'a ba su yarda da canji ba 26 00:01:28,739 --> 00:01:33,069 Umarni, wa'azi, da azabtuwa sun zama marasa inganci 27 00:01:33,069 --> 00:01:38,269 Al-Ghazali ya yi adawa da wannan magana da wani abu daban, yana mai cewa: 28 00:01:38,269 --> 00:01:41,569 Ta yaya za a hana wannan a kan mutane? 29 00:01:41,569 --> 00:01:44,769 Canza halin dabba yana yiwuwa 30 00:01:44,769 --> 00:01:48,870 Yana canja wurin goshawk daga Istihaash zuwa Anas 31 00:01:48,870 --> 00:01:51,170 Kare mai yawan cin abinci ne 32 00:01:51,170 --> 00:01:54,569 Don zama mai ladabi, kaurace, kuma a sake 33 00:01:54,569 --> 00:01:56,469 Kuma doki yana daga raga 34 00:01:56,469 --> 00:01:59,069 Don santsi da biyayya 35 00:01:59,069 --> 00:02:02,269 Duk wannan canji ne a cikin ɗabi'a 36 00:02:04,099 --> 00:02:06,599 Idan wannan ya shafi dabbobi 37 00:02:06,599 --> 00:02:11,759 A cikin dan Adam da Allah ya girmama shi da hankali, na farko 38 00:02:11,759 --> 00:02:15,360 Bai inganta ba a yi uzuri da maganar namiji ko mace 39 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:16,960 Wannan dabi'ata ce 40 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,759 Kyakkyawar dabi'a ta kasance tare da shi 41 00:02:19,759 --> 00:02:22,919 Kuma mummunan fushi yana canzawa 42 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:27,419 Abin da ya same mu shi ne wahalar da matan farko da na biyu suka sha 43 00:02:27,419 --> 00:02:32,780 Wannan duk ya faru ne saboda mummunan hali na mutum wanda bai canza ba 44 00:02:32,879 --> 00:02:35,580 Wannan shine wahala ta uku 45 00:02:35,580 --> 00:02:37,879 Mace ta uku ce ta ruwaito 46 00:02:37,879 --> 00:02:39,379 Don haka ta ce 47 00:02:39,379 --> 00:02:41,479 Mijin masoyi 48 00:02:41,479 --> 00:02:43,680 Idan nayi magana zan saketa 49 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,599 Idan na yi shiru zan yi sharhi 50 00:02:46,599 --> 00:02:52,199 Wahala na nuni da cewa mace ba ta da lafiya, ba a shiru ko a zance ba 51 00:02:52,199 --> 00:02:54,659 To me kuke yi? 52 00:02:54,659 --> 00:02:57,960 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 53 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,560 Dogon runguma 54 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,689 Al-Asmai ta ce 55 00:03:02,689 --> 00:03:03,889 Tace 56 00:03:03,889 --> 00:03:07,490 Ba shi da fiye da tsayinsa ba tare da amfani ba 57 00:03:07,490 --> 00:03:11,090 Idan na ambaci laifinsa zai sake ni 58 00:03:11,090 --> 00:03:13,990 Idan ya yi shiru sai ya bar ni a rataye 59 00:03:13,990 --> 00:03:18,770 Ba wani ko ɗaya da Ba'al 60 00:03:18,770 --> 00:03:22,870 Wannan mata ta kwatanta mijinta da tsayi 61 00:03:22,870 --> 00:03:26,069 Yabonsa take yi ko kuwa bata masa rai? 62 00:03:26,069 --> 00:03:29,069 Yanayin maganar yana nuna batanci 63 00:03:29,069 --> 00:03:32,259 Me kuke nufi da wannan kalmar? 64 00:03:32,259 --> 00:03:34,759 Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 65 00:03:34,759 --> 00:03:36,460 Al-Asmai ta ce 66 00:03:36,460 --> 00:03:41,460 Ta so kada ya wuce tsayinsa ba tare da amfani ba 67 00:03:41,460 --> 00:03:42,960 Sai wani yace 68 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,360 Tsawon dole ne ya kasance 69 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:46,460 Kuma aka ce 70 00:03:46,460 --> 00:03:48,259 Na kwatanta shi da tsayi 71 00:03:48,259 --> 00:03:52,050 Domin tsayi galibi jagora ne ga wauta 72 00:03:52,050 --> 00:03:54,550 Ya kuma ce, Allah Ya yi masa rahama 73 00:03:54,550 --> 00:03:56,849 Abu Saeed Al-Dareer yace 74 00:03:56,849 --> 00:03:58,050 Wanda ya dace 75 00:03:58,050 --> 00:03:59,550 Wannan soyayya 76 00:03:59,550 --> 00:04:01,550 Mai tsawo da daraja 77 00:04:01,550 --> 00:04:03,550 Wanda ya mallaki al'amuransa 78 00:04:03,550 --> 00:04:06,250 Mata ba sa sarrafa shi 79 00:04:06,250 --> 00:04:09,150 Maimakon haka, yana sarauta bisa su yadda yake so 80 00:04:09,150 --> 00:04:13,050 Matarsa tana tsoron magana a gabansa 81 00:04:13,050 --> 00:04:15,620 Tayi shiru 82 00:04:15,620 --> 00:04:17,420 Al-Zamakhshari ya ce 83 00:04:17,420 --> 00:04:20,220 Babban korafi ne 84 00:04:20,220 --> 00:04:21,750 Ya kare 85 00:04:21,750 --> 00:04:25,449 Wannan abin da ya faru a cikin ruwayar Yaqub bin Al-Sakit ya inganta 86 00:04:25,449 --> 00:04:27,949 Daga karuwa a karshen 87 00:04:27,949 --> 00:04:31,350 Yana da banƙyama kamar haƙori 88 00:04:31,350 --> 00:04:34,449 Ta hanyar buɗe ƙamus da ƙarfafa lam 89 00:04:34,449 --> 00:04:37,649 Wato abstract tare da nauyinsa da ma'anarsa 90 00:04:37,649 --> 00:04:41,149 Ta nuna tana hattara dashi 91 00:04:41,149 --> 00:04:44,149 Mai yiyuwa ne hakan ta so 92 00:04:44,149 --> 00:04:47,449 Ba shi da hankali kuma ba zai iya daidaitawa ba 93 00:04:47,449 --> 00:04:51,850 Kamar kaifi hakora 94 00:04:51,850 --> 00:04:55,050 Dangane da siffanta shi a matsayin wawa, wauta ce 95 00:04:55,050 --> 00:04:57,550 Wannan abin zargi ne a fili 96 00:04:57,550 --> 00:05:01,850 Larabawa sun ce yana da ra'ayi ba tare da mai ba da labari ba 97 00:05:01,850 --> 00:05:03,850 Yana ganin yara maza a matsayin dabino 98 00:05:03,850 --> 00:05:06,610 Kuma ba ku san menene kudin shiga ba 99 00:05:06,610 --> 00:05:10,810 Dangane da bayyana shi da cewa ba mata ne ke sarrafa su ba 100 00:05:10,810 --> 00:05:13,209 Wannan yana daya daga cikin ma'anonin namiji 101 00:05:13,209 --> 00:05:15,410 Ba a yi la'akari da abin zargi ba 102 00:05:15,410 --> 00:05:17,410 Da kuma yanayin maganarta 103 00:05:17,410 --> 00:05:21,839 Yana nuni da cewa ta wulakanta shi ta hanyar kwatanta shi da tsayi 104 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:23,439 Ma'anar daidai 105 00:05:23,439 --> 00:05:26,639 Cewa irin waɗannan maza suna da kamanni 106 00:05:26,639 --> 00:05:28,939 Ba su da mai ba da labari 107 00:05:28,939 --> 00:05:30,339 Abin takaici 108 00:05:30,339 --> 00:05:34,139 A yau, akwai matasa da yawa masu kula da kamannin su 109 00:05:34,139 --> 00:05:37,339 Don fita cikin mutane ta hanya mai kyau 110 00:05:37,339 --> 00:05:39,639 Idan yayi magana yayi magana 111 00:05:39,639 --> 00:05:42,639 Ya nuna maka dan hankalinsa 112 00:05:42,639 --> 00:05:46,040 Kuma har sai mutumin ya rabu da wannan annoba 113 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:50,240 Ya kamata ya kasance yana da ilimi da al'adun da suke haɓaka tunaninsa 114 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:53,939 Ba wai don haɓaka tsokar sa ba 115 00:05:53,939 --> 00:05:55,839 Kuma babban bala'i 116 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,839 Idan mata da miji sun shagaltu 117 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,439 Abin da ake kira triviality a yau 118 00:06:00,439 --> 00:06:04,730 Rayuwar aure za ta ruguje da sauri 119 00:06:04,730 --> 00:06:08,029 Kuma wanda ya kalli rayuwar mashahuran mutane sosai 120 00:06:08,029 --> 00:06:12,329 Ya sami zullumi da halaka da waɗannan mutane suka rayu a ciki 121 00:06:12,329 --> 00:06:16,129 Waɗanda suke yaudarar mutane da kamanceceniya 122 00:06:16,129 --> 00:06:20,129 Suna kwana a kan ƙaya na matsaloli da bambance-bambance 123 00:06:20,129 --> 00:06:23,930 Domin hankalinsa ya shagaltu da wasu abubuwa marasa muhimmanci 124 00:06:23,930 --> 00:06:28,129 Mafi yawan abin da ya dame shi shi ne yadda ake siffanta Al-Baraka na karya 125 00:06:28,129 --> 00:06:30,930 Kuma a buga a social media 126 00:06:30,930 --> 00:06:34,819 Domin samun mabiya da samun suna 127 00:06:34,819 --> 00:06:37,620 Wannan ba shine kawai wahala ba 128 00:06:37,620 --> 00:06:40,620 Wanda ta rayu a wannan lokaci 129 00:06:40,620 --> 00:06:42,920 Amma akwai sauran wahala 130 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:45,420 Ta bayyana hakan da cewa: 131 00:06:45,420 --> 00:06:47,620 Idan nayi magana zan saketa 132 00:06:47,620 --> 00:06:50,209 Idan na yi shiru zan yi sharhi 133 00:06:50,209 --> 00:06:52,910 Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 134 00:06:52,910 --> 00:06:55,110 Wanda kuma ya bayyana a gareni 135 00:06:55,110 --> 00:06:58,910 Ta so ta kwatanta masa mummunan yanayinta 136 00:06:58,910 --> 00:07:01,310 Ta nuna mugun halinsa 137 00:07:01,310 --> 00:07:03,709 Alkawari mai yuwuwar maganarta 138 00:07:03,709 --> 00:07:06,110 Idan ta yi masa korafin halin da take ciki 139 00:07:06,110 --> 00:07:08,910 Kuma ta san lokacin da ta ambace shi 140 00:07:08,910 --> 00:07:10,509 Babu wani abu makamancin haka 141 00:07:10,509 --> 00:07:12,910 Ya dau matakin ya sake ta 142 00:07:12,910 --> 00:07:14,910 Bai shafi sakinsa ba 143 00:07:14,910 --> 00:07:17,240 Don sonta a cikinsa 144 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,839 Sai na haye jimla ta biyu 145 00:07:19,839 --> 00:07:21,639 Alamar cewa haka ne 146 00:07:21,639 --> 00:07:24,839 Idan ta yi hakuri a cikin wannan hali 147 00:07:24,839 --> 00:07:27,339 Ya zama kamar cokali a gare shi 148 00:07:27,339 --> 00:07:32,500 Wanda bashi da miji ko wani 149 00:07:32,500 --> 00:07:35,300 Ba ta zaune da shi lafiya 150 00:07:35,300 --> 00:07:38,720 Maimakon haka, tana rayuwa cikin damuwa na dindindin 151 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,819 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 152 00:07:41,819 --> 00:07:44,720 Ya cika duk abin da na kwatanta 153 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,120 Mummunan halaye da munanan halaye 154 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,420 Kuma ba ta tsira daga cutarwa ko cutarwa 155 00:07:50,420 --> 00:07:54,720 Bugu da ƙari, abin zargi ne ga mata da mutane 156 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:57,519 Kuma ta yi hattara da kamfaninsa 157 00:07:57,519 --> 00:07:59,720 Ban amince da kaina ba 158 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,519 Kuma babu kwanciyar hankali gare shi 159 00:08:02,519 --> 00:08:05,920 Tsammanin cutarwarsa ko rabuwarsa 160 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:09,319 Tana tare da shi kamar yana gefe guda 161 00:08:09,319 --> 00:08:11,620 Na tsoro da taka tsantsan 162 00:08:11,620 --> 00:08:14,920 Rashin kwanciyar hankali da kwanciyar hankali 163 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:16,920 Larabawa suka ce wane ne 164 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,720 Mai hankali da rashin kwanciyar hankali 165 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,519 Kamar mashin mashi ne 166 00:08:22,519 --> 00:08:24,519 Kamar gefen takobi 167 00:08:24,519 --> 00:08:28,420 Kamar ƙahon barewa 168 00:08:28,420 --> 00:08:30,420 Wani lamari mai mahimmanci ga mata 169 00:08:30,420 --> 00:08:32,419 A rayuwar aurenta 170 00:08:32,419 --> 00:08:36,620 Don jin kwanciyar hankali da kwanciyar hankali tare da mijinta 171 00:08:36,620 --> 00:08:39,019 Wannan matar bata san tsaro ba 172 00:08:39,019 --> 00:08:40,720 Kuma ba kwanciyar hankali 173 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,620 Domin mijin baya karbar maganarta 174 00:08:43,620 --> 00:08:47,019 Yayi mata barazanar saki idan tayi magana 175 00:08:47,019 --> 00:08:51,240 Idan ta yi shiru za ta zauna da shi cikin shakku 176 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:52,740 Kuma Allah Ta'ala 177 00:08:52,740 --> 00:08:54,740 Ya hana maza cutar da mata 178 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,840 Ta hanyar dakatar da shi a rayuwar aure 179 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,840 Ita ba matar aure ba ce kuma ba ta rabu ba 180 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,840 Sai ya ce 181 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:08,840 Kuma ba za ku iya yi wa mata adalci ba, ko da kun yi ƙoƙari. 182 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:15,159 Don haka kada ku karkata gaba daya, har ku bar shi a rataye 183 00:09:15,159 --> 00:09:17,159 Al-Saadi Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 184 00:09:17,159 --> 00:09:20,159 Idan matar ta bar mijinta 185 00:09:20,159 --> 00:09:22,159 Abin da ta kamata 186 00:09:22,259 --> 00:09:25,259 Ta zama kamar wadda aka rataye ba ta da miji 187 00:09:25,259 --> 00:09:28,259 Ta huta ta shirya aure 188 00:09:28,259 --> 00:09:32,259 Ba ta da mijin da zai iya biyan mata hakkinta 189 00:09:34,159 --> 00:09:37,159 Maganar matar tana matukar goyan bayanta 190 00:09:37,159 --> 00:09:43,159 Domin rayuwar aure ta ginu ne a kan alakar shari'a tsakanin ma'aurata 191 00:09:43,159 --> 00:09:47,159 Idan mijin ya kasa kiyaye macen 192 00:09:47,159 --> 00:09:49,159 Yana nuna mata jaraba 193 00:09:49,159 --> 00:09:52,159 Musamman a irin wannan lokaci 194 00:09:52,259 --> 00:09:57,259 A cikin abin da mata suke hulɗa da maza a cikin ayyuka da yawa 195 00:09:57,259 --> 00:10:00,450 Maganar mace ta uku ta nuna 196 00:10:00,450 --> 00:10:04,450 Duk da haka, tana son mijinta kuma ba ta son wani 197 00:10:04,450 --> 00:10:06,450 Domin idan ta kyamace ta 198 00:10:06,450 --> 00:10:10,450 Da na yi magana na nuna laifinsa don ya sake ta 199 00:10:10,450 --> 00:10:14,450 Amma ta gwammace ta yi shiru ba ta yi magana ba 200 00:10:14,450 --> 00:10:17,450 Ko da yake shi ma ya halatta 201 00:10:17,450 --> 00:10:19,450 Domin zai kasance a dakatar 202 00:10:19,549 --> 00:10:25,549 Ba ta samun daga rayuwar aure abin da wasu mata suke samu 203 00:10:25,549 --> 00:10:27,549 Sai dai da wuya 204 00:10:27,549 --> 00:10:32,809 Sai dai ta zabi zama da shi saboda son da take masa 205 00:10:32,809 --> 00:10:36,809 Shin namiji zai iya yaba wannan soyayyar da mace take masa? 206 00:10:36,809 --> 00:10:39,809 Da tsananin cin mutuncin da yayi mata 207 00:10:39,809 --> 00:10:43,809 Shin zai sake duba salon rayuwarsa da matarsa? 208 00:10:43,809 --> 00:10:49,500 Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah 209 00:10:49,500 --> 00:10:52,600 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai