WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:16.980 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 00:00:16.980 --> 00:00:23.219 Hitting a woman has a reaction 00:00:23.219 --> 00:00:28.219 In the previous talk, I discussed the first point related to multiplication 00:00:28.219 --> 00:00:32.219 It is the legitimacy of hitting, but it is preferable to avoid it 00:00:32.219 --> 00:00:35.219 Now for the second point 00:00:35.219 --> 00:00:39.539 When spanking is an educational means 00:00:39.539 --> 00:00:42.539 Multiplication is an educational method 00:00:42.539 --> 00:00:46.539 The Qur’an stipulates it in treating a disobedient wife 00:00:46.539 --> 00:00:49.539 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stipulated it 00:00:49.539 --> 00:00:52.539 In raising a child to pray 00:00:52.539 --> 00:00:55.670 If he reaches ten and does not pray 00:00:55.670 --> 00:00:58.670 This beating is of no use unless it is 00:00:58.670 --> 00:01:01.670 According to the legal conditions in how to multiply 00:01:01.670 --> 00:01:04.829 And when to use it 00:01:04.829 --> 00:01:07.829 And when if the man violates the conditions of this method 00:01:07.829 --> 00:01:10.829 In disciplining his wife 00:01:10.829 --> 00:01:13.829 No benefit is expected from it 00:01:13.829 --> 00:01:16.829 Rather, what is expected is the woman's reaction 00:01:16.829 --> 00:01:20.019 Contrary to what a man wants and hopes for 00:01:20.019 --> 00:01:23.019 The man faces two situations 00:01:23.019 --> 00:01:26.019 The first case is to commit 00:01:26.019 --> 00:01:29.019 What the Sharia commands regarding how to strike 00:01:29.019 --> 00:01:32.019 And the stage in which it is used 00:01:32.019 --> 00:01:35.019 These are the methods that precede beating 00:01:35.019 --> 00:01:38.019 From biting and abandonment 00:01:38.019 --> 00:01:41.019 If the woman continues in her disobedience 00:01:41.019 --> 00:01:44.019 Although it is better not to resort to beating 00:01:44.019 --> 00:01:47.019 Following the example of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:47.019 --> 00:01:50.019 As in the hadith of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:01:50.019 --> 00:01:53.019 She said: He did not hit the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:53.019 --> 00:01:56.019 Nothing in his hand 00:01:56.019 --> 00:01:59.019 Neither a woman nor a servant 00:01:59.019 --> 00:02:02.019 Unless he strives for the sake of God 00:02:02.019 --> 00:02:05.019 Nothing ever happens to him, so he takes revenge 00:02:05.019 --> 00:02:08.020 From its owner unless he violates it 00:02:08.020 --> 00:02:11.020 Something that God has forbidden, so he will take revenge 00:02:11.020 --> 00:02:14.020 God Almighty narrated it 00:02:14.020 --> 00:02:17.120 Muslim said Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him 00:02:17.120 --> 00:02:20.120 In which he beats the wife and the servant 00:02:20.120 --> 00:02:23.120 And animals, even if it is permissible for good manners 00:02:23.120 --> 00:02:26.979 So leaving it is better 00:02:26.979 --> 00:02:29.979 As for the woman’s reaction to this good husband 00:02:29.979 --> 00:02:32.979 In two cases 00:02:32.979 --> 00:02:35.979 The first is if she is righteous and sane 00:02:35.979 --> 00:02:38.979 Fear God Almighty 00:02:38.979 --> 00:02:41.979 She is expected to come back to her senses 00:02:41.979 --> 00:02:44.979 She obeys her husband and abandons disobedience 00:02:44.979 --> 00:02:47.979 The second is to continue in disobedience 00:02:47.979 --> 00:02:50.979 Even with the beating 00:02:50.979 --> 00:02:53.979 This may be for two reasons 00:02:53.979 --> 00:02:56.979 The first reason is that she hates him 00:02:56.979 --> 00:02:59.979 Forced to stay with him 00:02:59.979 --> 00:03:02.979 Pressured on her by those around her 00:03:02.979 --> 00:03:05.979 From her family and friends 00:03:05.979 --> 00:03:08.979 She was oppressed and had no one to stand with her 00:03:08.979 --> 00:03:11.979 Although Sharia law gives her the right to divorce 00:03:11.979 --> 00:03:14.979 So she ransomes herself for what he gave her 00:03:14.979 --> 00:03:17.979 From dowry and remove herself 00:03:17.979 --> 00:03:20.979 As in the story of Thabit bin Qais’ woman 00:03:21.979 --> 00:03:24.979 On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both 00:03:24.979 --> 00:03:27.979 He said that the wife of Thabit bin Qais came 00:03:27.979 --> 00:03:30.979 To the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:30.979 --> 00:03:33.979 She said, O Messenger of God 00:03:33.979 --> 00:03:36.979 I don't blame Thabet 00:03:36.979 --> 00:03:39.979 In religion and morals 00:03:39.979 --> 00:03:42.979 But I can't stand it 00:03:42.979 --> 00:03:45.979 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:03:45.979 --> 00:03:48.979 So you give him a garden 00:03:49.979 --> 00:03:53.020 She said yes. Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:03:53.020 --> 00:03:56.080 If the woman has reasons 00:03:56.080 --> 00:03:59.080 Legitimacy of divorce 00:03:59.080 --> 00:04:02.080 She may request to remove herself 00:04:02.080 --> 00:04:05.080 A rational man must accept the ransom from her 00:04:05.080 --> 00:04:08.300 He does not force her into a life she does not want 00:04:08.300 --> 00:04:11.300 The second reason is to be a woman 00:04:11.300 --> 00:04:14.300 Influenced by feminist thought 00:04:14.300 --> 00:04:17.300 Which calls her to rebel against the man 00:04:17.300 --> 00:04:20.300 And on the teachings of Islam 00:04:20.300 --> 00:04:23.300 And give her absolute freedom 00:04:23.300 --> 00:04:26.300 In disposing of everything she desires 00:04:26.300 --> 00:04:29.500 Humiliating the man and bringing down his personality 00:04:29.500 --> 00:04:32.500 The will is for the man 00:04:32.500 --> 00:04:35.500 To use divine guidance 00:04:35.500 --> 00:04:38.500 In dealing with this type of women 00:04:38.500 --> 00:04:41.529 Which was stated in the Almighty’s saying 00:04:41.529 --> 00:04:44.529 O you who believe 00:04:45.529 --> 00:04:48.529 Do not hesitate to go 00:04:48.529 --> 00:04:51.529 With some of what you have given them 00:04:51.529 --> 00:04:54.529 Unless they commit a clear indecency 00:04:54.529 --> 00:04:57.689 Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:57.689 --> 00:05:00.689 It is not permissible for a man to force a woman 00:05:00.689 --> 00:05:03.689 To prevent it and restrict it 00:05:03.689 --> 00:05:06.689 So give him some dowry 00:05:06.689 --> 00:05:09.689 Not to hit her for that 00:05:09.689 --> 00:05:12.689 But if it is clearly obscene 00:05:12.689 --> 00:05:15.689 He had the right to force her to ransom him 00:05:15.689 --> 00:05:18.689 He may hit her 00:05:18.689 --> 00:05:21.689 This is between man and God 00:05:21.689 --> 00:05:25.259 What immorality is permissible for a man? 00:05:25.259 --> 00:05:28.259 To force her to ask for divorce 00:05:28.259 --> 00:05:31.389 And return the dowry 00:05:31.389 --> 00:05:34.389 Ibn Jarir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:05:34.389 --> 00:05:37.389 The first thing that was said about the interpretation of his saying 00:05:37.389 --> 00:05:40.389 Unless they commit a clear indecency 00:05:40.389 --> 00:05:43.389 It means every obscenity 00:05:43.389 --> 00:05:46.389 With her tongue on her husband 00:05:46.389 --> 00:05:49.389 He allowed him to weigh her vagina 00:05:49.389 --> 00:05:52.389 This is because God Gilth Naah 00:05:52.389 --> 00:05:55.389 What he said 00:05:55.389 --> 00:05:58.389 Unless they commit a clear indecency 00:05:58.389 --> 00:06:01.389 Every obscenity is clearly visible 00:06:01.389 --> 00:06:05.189 And the corruption of women’s religion with feminist ideas 00:06:05.189 --> 00:06:08.189 It is more severe for a jealous man 00:06:09.189 --> 00:06:12.189 Feminist thought 00:06:12.189 --> 00:06:15.189 It calls on women to rebel against men 00:06:15.189 --> 00:06:18.189 All kinds of pictures 00:06:18.189 --> 00:06:21.189 He invites her to go out wearing perfume 00:06:21.189 --> 00:06:24.189 He also invites her to mingle with men 00:06:24.189 --> 00:06:27.189 In businesses, cafes, parties, etc 00:06:27.189 --> 00:06:30.259 Even if the husband does not agree to that 00:06:30.259 --> 00:06:33.259 The second case 00:06:33.259 --> 00:06:36.259 A man exceeds the legal limits in hitting 00:06:36.259 --> 00:06:39.259 He beats the woman severely 00:06:39.259 --> 00:06:42.259 This violates the order of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:42.259 --> 00:06:45.259 The woman's reaction 00:06:45.259 --> 00:06:48.259 In this case 00:06:48.259 --> 00:06:51.259 To seek divorce due to the harm befalling her 00:06:51.259 --> 00:06:54.480 From this pair 00:06:54.480 --> 00:06:57.480 But the fear is what this woman's reaction will be 00:06:57.480 --> 00:07:00.480 In a direction contrary to the law 00:07:00.480 --> 00:07:03.480 Because of this violent husband in his treatment of her 00:07:04.480 --> 00:07:07.480 She attributes her husband's wrongdoing to Islam 00:07:07.480 --> 00:07:10.480 And misguided people seize it 00:07:10.480 --> 00:07:13.480 An advocate of destroying families 00:07:13.480 --> 00:07:16.480 To make it an example of preventing hitting women 00:07:16.480 --> 00:07:19.480 Totally 00:07:19.480 --> 00:07:22.480 And the call to adhere to what came from the West 00:07:22.480 --> 00:07:25.769 From the law of violence and others 00:07:25.769 --> 00:07:28.769 Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said 00:07:28.769 --> 00:07:31.769 Some imitators of the Frankish are arrogant 00:07:32.769 --> 00:07:35.769 They make it permissible for us to beat a disobedient woman 00:07:35.769 --> 00:07:38.769 They are not arrogant that you should rise up and rise above him 00:07:38.769 --> 00:07:41.769 So she makes him, the head of the house, a subordinate 00:07:41.769 --> 00:07:44.769 But despised 00:07:44.769 --> 00:07:47.769 She insists on her disobedience 00:07:47.769 --> 00:07:50.769 So that you do not relent to his bites and advice 00:07:50.769 --> 00:07:53.769 And do not care about his turning away or abandoning him 00:07:53.769 --> 00:07:56.769 I do not know how they treat these naughty people 00:07:56.769 --> 00:07:59.769 And what they advise their husbands 00:08:00.769 --> 00:08:03.899 Perhaps they imagine a weak, skinny woman 00:08:03.899 --> 00:08:06.899 Polite and polite 00:08:06.899 --> 00:08:09.899 She wants a man who is arrogant and arrogant 00:08:09.899 --> 00:08:12.899 He feeds his whip from her tender flesh 00:08:12.899 --> 00:08:15.899 He gives him some of her foul blood to drink 00:08:15.899 --> 00:08:18.899 He claims that God Almighty allowed him 00:08:18.899 --> 00:08:21.899 Such a beating 00:08:21.899 --> 00:08:24.899 And if she commits a crime and commits a crime against her, there is no sin 00:08:24.899 --> 00:08:27.899 As many hard-hearted people fall 00:08:27.899 --> 00:08:30.899 He is a hard-hearted person with a petrified nature 00:08:30.899 --> 00:08:33.899 God forbid that He would permit such injustice 00:08:33.899 --> 00:08:36.960 Or accept it 00:08:36.960 --> 00:08:39.960 One of the men is Al-Ja'thari Al-Jawwad 00:08:39.960 --> 00:08:42.960 Who oppresses women through pure aggression 00:08:42.960 --> 00:08:45.960 Examples of them were mentioned in the will 00:08:45.960 --> 00:08:48.960 There are many hadiths about women 00:08:48.960 --> 00:08:51.960 And what it brought will come to them 00:08:51.960 --> 00:08:55.120 Verse of arbitration 00:08:55.120 --> 00:08:57.120 It is from women 00:08:57.120 --> 00:09:00.120 Al-Fawarek Al-Manasheesh Al-Mufsilat 00:09:00.120 --> 00:09:03.120 Those who hate their husbands 00:09:03.120 --> 00:09:06.120 And they will cover their hands against them 00:09:06.120 --> 00:09:09.120 They rebel against them arrogantly and stubbornly 00:09:09.120 --> 00:09:12.120 And it costs them money they cannot afford 00:09:12.120 --> 00:09:15.149 What corruption occurs on earth? 00:09:15.149 --> 00:09:18.149 If it is permissible for a pious and virtuous man 00:09:18.149 --> 00:09:21.149 To reduce the arrogance of one of them 00:09:21.149 --> 00:09:24.149 She is astonished by the outburst of her arrogance 00:09:24.149 --> 00:09:27.149 Baqi hits her hand with it 00:09:27.149 --> 00:09:30.340 Or a palm that falls on her neck 00:09:30.340 --> 00:09:33.340 Many of their imams were Franks 00:09:33.340 --> 00:09:36.340 They beat their educated, polite women 00:09:36.340 --> 00:09:39.340 And the naked women 00:09:39.340 --> 00:09:42.340 Slanted slants 00:09:42.340 --> 00:09:45.340 According to this, their wise men and scholars 00:09:45.340 --> 00:09:48.340 And their kings and princes 00:09:48.340 --> 00:09:51.340 It is a necessity that a gallon cannot do without 00:09:51.340 --> 00:09:54.340 In honor of those educated women 00:09:54.340 --> 00:09:57.340 How do you condemn its permissibility out of necessity? 00:09:57.340 --> 00:10:00.340 In a general religion for Bedouins and urbanites 00:10:00.340 --> 00:10:03.340 From all types of people 00:10:03.340 --> 00:10:07.080 So alert my dear brother-in-law 00:10:07.080 --> 00:10:10.080 In the consequences of your actions with your wife 00:10:10.080 --> 00:10:13.080 You must be wise in dealing with your problems 00:10:13.080 --> 00:10:16.080 And consult the people of knowledge 00:10:16.080 --> 00:10:19.080 There is nothing better than advice 00:10:19.080 --> 00:10:22.909 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:10:22.909 --> 00:10:25.909 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds