1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:16,980 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 3 00:00:16,980 --> 00:00:23,219 Hitting a woman has a reaction 4 00:00:23,219 --> 00:00:28,219 In the previous talk, I discussed the first point related to multiplication 5 00:00:28,219 --> 00:00:32,219 It is the legitimacy of hitting, but it is preferable to avoid it 6 00:00:32,219 --> 00:00:35,219 Now for the second point 7 00:00:35,219 --> 00:00:39,539 When spanking is an educational means 8 00:00:39,539 --> 00:00:42,539 Multiplication is an educational method 9 00:00:42,539 --> 00:00:46,539 The Qur’an stipulates it in treating a disobedient wife 10 00:00:46,539 --> 00:00:49,539 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stipulated it 11 00:00:49,539 --> 00:00:52,539 In raising a child to pray 12 00:00:52,539 --> 00:00:55,670 If he reaches ten and does not pray 13 00:00:55,670 --> 00:00:58,670 This beating is of no use unless it is 14 00:00:58,670 --> 00:01:01,670 According to the legal conditions in how to multiply 15 00:01:01,670 --> 00:01:04,829 And when to use it 16 00:01:04,829 --> 00:01:07,829 And when if the man violates the conditions of this method 17 00:01:07,829 --> 00:01:10,829 In disciplining his wife 18 00:01:10,829 --> 00:01:13,829 No benefit is expected from it 19 00:01:13,829 --> 00:01:16,829 Rather, what is expected is the woman's reaction 20 00:01:16,829 --> 00:01:20,019 Contrary to what a man wants and hopes for 21 00:01:20,019 --> 00:01:23,019 The man faces two situations 22 00:01:23,019 --> 00:01:26,019 The first case is to commit 23 00:01:26,019 --> 00:01:29,019 What the Sharia commands regarding how to strike 24 00:01:29,019 --> 00:01:32,019 And the stage in which it is used 25 00:01:32,019 --> 00:01:35,019 These are the methods that precede beating 26 00:01:35,019 --> 00:01:38,019 From biting and abandonment 27 00:01:38,019 --> 00:01:41,019 If the woman continues in her disobedience 28 00:01:41,019 --> 00:01:44,019 Although it is better not to resort to beating 29 00:01:44,019 --> 00:01:47,019 Following the example of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 30 00:01:47,019 --> 00:01:50,019 As in the hadith of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 31 00:01:50,019 --> 00:01:53,019 She said: He did not hit the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 32 00:01:53,019 --> 00:01:56,019 Nothing in his hand 33 00:01:56,019 --> 00:01:59,019 Neither a woman nor a servant 34 00:01:59,019 --> 00:02:02,019 Unless he strives for the sake of God 35 00:02:02,019 --> 00:02:05,019 Nothing ever happens to him, so he takes revenge 36 00:02:05,019 --> 00:02:08,020 From its owner unless he violates it 37 00:02:08,020 --> 00:02:11,020 Something that God has forbidden, so he will take revenge 38 00:02:11,020 --> 00:02:14,020 God Almighty narrated it 39 00:02:14,020 --> 00:02:17,120 Muslim said Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him 40 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,120 In which he beats the wife and the servant 41 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:23,120 And animals, even if it is permissible for good manners 42 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,979 So leaving it is better 43 00:02:26,979 --> 00:02:29,979 As for the woman’s reaction to this good husband 44 00:02:29,979 --> 00:02:32,979 In two cases 45 00:02:32,979 --> 00:02:35,979 The first is if she is righteous and sane 46 00:02:35,979 --> 00:02:38,979 Fear God Almighty 47 00:02:38,979 --> 00:02:41,979 She is expected to come back to her senses 48 00:02:41,979 --> 00:02:44,979 She obeys her husband and abandons disobedience 49 00:02:44,979 --> 00:02:47,979 The second is to continue in disobedience 50 00:02:47,979 --> 00:02:50,979 Even with the beating 51 00:02:50,979 --> 00:02:53,979 This may be for two reasons 52 00:02:53,979 --> 00:02:56,979 The first reason is that she hates him 53 00:02:56,979 --> 00:02:59,979 Forced to stay with him 54 00:02:59,979 --> 00:03:02,979 Pressured on her by those around her 55 00:03:02,979 --> 00:03:05,979 From her family and friends 56 00:03:05,979 --> 00:03:08,979 She was oppressed and had no one to stand with her 57 00:03:08,979 --> 00:03:11,979 Although Sharia law gives her the right to divorce 58 00:03:11,979 --> 00:03:14,979 So she ransomes herself for what he gave her 59 00:03:14,979 --> 00:03:17,979 From dowry and remove herself 60 00:03:17,979 --> 00:03:20,979 As in the story of Thabit bin Qais’ woman 61 00:03:21,979 --> 00:03:24,979 On the authority of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them both 62 00:03:24,979 --> 00:03:27,979 He said that the wife of Thabit bin Qais came 63 00:03:27,979 --> 00:03:30,979 To the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 64 00:03:30,979 --> 00:03:33,979 She said, O Messenger of God 65 00:03:33,979 --> 00:03:36,979 I don't blame Thabet 66 00:03:36,979 --> 00:03:39,979 In religion and morals 67 00:03:39,979 --> 00:03:42,979 But I can't stand it 68 00:03:42,979 --> 00:03:45,979 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 69 00:03:45,979 --> 00:03:48,979 So you give him a garden 70 00:03:49,979 --> 00:03:53,020 She said yes. Narrated by Al-Bukhari 71 00:03:53,020 --> 00:03:56,080 If the woman has reasons 72 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,080 Legitimacy of divorce 73 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,080 She may request to remove herself 74 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,080 A rational man must accept the ransom from her 75 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,300 He does not force her into a life she does not want 76 00:04:08,300 --> 00:04:11,300 The second reason is to be a woman 77 00:04:11,300 --> 00:04:14,300 Influenced by feminist thought 78 00:04:14,300 --> 00:04:17,300 Which calls her to rebel against the man 79 00:04:17,300 --> 00:04:20,300 And on the teachings of Islam 80 00:04:20,300 --> 00:04:23,300 And give her absolute freedom 81 00:04:23,300 --> 00:04:26,300 In disposing of everything she desires 82 00:04:26,300 --> 00:04:29,500 Humiliating the man and bringing down his personality 83 00:04:29,500 --> 00:04:32,500 The will is for the man 84 00:04:32,500 --> 00:04:35,500 To use divine guidance 85 00:04:35,500 --> 00:04:38,500 In dealing with this type of women 86 00:04:38,500 --> 00:04:41,529 Which was stated in the Almighty’s saying 87 00:04:41,529 --> 00:04:44,529 O you who believe 88 00:04:45,529 --> 00:04:48,529 Do not hesitate to go 89 00:04:48,529 --> 00:04:51,529 With some of what you have given them 90 00:04:51,529 --> 00:04:54,529 Unless they commit a clear indecency 91 00:04:54,529 --> 00:04:57,689 Ibn Taymiyyah, may God have mercy on him, said 92 00:04:57,689 --> 00:05:00,689 It is not permissible for a man to force a woman 93 00:05:00,689 --> 00:05:03,689 To prevent it and restrict it 94 00:05:03,689 --> 00:05:06,689 So give him some dowry 95 00:05:06,689 --> 00:05:09,689 Not to hit her for that 96 00:05:09,689 --> 00:05:12,689 But if it is clearly obscene 97 00:05:12,689 --> 00:05:15,689 He had the right to force her to ransom him 98 00:05:15,689 --> 00:05:18,689 He may hit her 99 00:05:18,689 --> 00:05:21,689 This is between man and God 100 00:05:21,689 --> 00:05:25,259 What immorality is permissible for a man? 101 00:05:25,259 --> 00:05:28,259 To force her to ask for divorce 102 00:05:28,259 --> 00:05:31,389 And return the dowry 103 00:05:31,389 --> 00:05:34,389 Ibn Jarir, may God have mercy on him, said 104 00:05:34,389 --> 00:05:37,389 The first thing that was said about the interpretation of his saying 105 00:05:37,389 --> 00:05:40,389 Unless they commit a clear indecency 106 00:05:40,389 --> 00:05:43,389 It means every obscenity 107 00:05:43,389 --> 00:05:46,389 With her tongue on her husband 108 00:05:46,389 --> 00:05:49,389 He allowed him to weigh her vagina 109 00:05:49,389 --> 00:05:52,389 This is because God Gilth Naah 110 00:05:52,389 --> 00:05:55,389 What he said 111 00:05:55,389 --> 00:05:58,389 Unless they commit a clear indecency 112 00:05:58,389 --> 00:06:01,389 Every obscenity is clearly visible 113 00:06:01,389 --> 00:06:05,189 And the corruption of women’s religion with feminist ideas 114 00:06:05,189 --> 00:06:08,189 It is more severe for a jealous man 115 00:06:09,189 --> 00:06:12,189 Feminist thought 116 00:06:12,189 --> 00:06:15,189 It calls on women to rebel against men 117 00:06:15,189 --> 00:06:18,189 All kinds of pictures 118 00:06:18,189 --> 00:06:21,189 He invites her to go out wearing perfume 119 00:06:21,189 --> 00:06:24,189 He also invites her to mingle with men 120 00:06:24,189 --> 00:06:27,189 In businesses, cafes, parties, etc 121 00:06:27,189 --> 00:06:30,259 Even if the husband does not agree to that 122 00:06:30,259 --> 00:06:33,259 The second case 123 00:06:33,259 --> 00:06:36,259 A man exceeds the legal limits in hitting 124 00:06:36,259 --> 00:06:39,259 He beats the woman severely 125 00:06:39,259 --> 00:06:42,259 This violates the order of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 126 00:06:42,259 --> 00:06:45,259 The woman's reaction 127 00:06:45,259 --> 00:06:48,259 In this case 128 00:06:48,259 --> 00:06:51,259 To seek divorce due to the harm befalling her 129 00:06:51,259 --> 00:06:54,480 From this pair 130 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:57,480 But the fear is what this woman's reaction will be 131 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,480 In a direction contrary to the law 132 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,480 Because of this violent husband in his treatment of her 133 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,480 She attributes her husband's wrongdoing to Islam 134 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,480 And misguided people seize it 135 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,480 An advocate of destroying families 136 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,480 To make it an example of preventing hitting women 137 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,480 Totally 138 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,480 And the call to adhere to what came from the West 139 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:25,769 From the law of violence and others 140 00:07:25,769 --> 00:07:28,769 Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said 141 00:07:28,769 --> 00:07:31,769 Some imitators of the Frankish are arrogant 142 00:07:32,769 --> 00:07:35,769 They make it permissible for us to beat a disobedient woman 143 00:07:35,769 --> 00:07:38,769 They are not arrogant that you should rise up and rise above him 144 00:07:38,769 --> 00:07:41,769 So she makes him, the head of the house, a subordinate 145 00:07:41,769 --> 00:07:44,769 But despised 146 00:07:44,769 --> 00:07:47,769 She insists on her disobedience 147 00:07:47,769 --> 00:07:50,769 So that you do not relent to his bites and advice 148 00:07:50,769 --> 00:07:53,769 And do not care about his turning away or abandoning him 149 00:07:53,769 --> 00:07:56,769 I do not know how they treat these naughty people 150 00:07:56,769 --> 00:07:59,769 And what they advise their husbands 151 00:08:00,769 --> 00:08:03,899 Perhaps they imagine a weak, skinny woman 152 00:08:03,899 --> 00:08:06,899 Polite and polite 153 00:08:06,899 --> 00:08:09,899 She wants a man who is arrogant and arrogant 154 00:08:09,899 --> 00:08:12,899 He feeds his whip from her tender flesh 155 00:08:12,899 --> 00:08:15,899 He gives him some of her foul blood to drink 156 00:08:15,899 --> 00:08:18,899 He claims that God Almighty allowed him 157 00:08:18,899 --> 00:08:21,899 Such a beating 158 00:08:21,899 --> 00:08:24,899 And if she commits a crime and commits a crime against her, there is no sin 159 00:08:24,899 --> 00:08:27,899 As many hard-hearted people fall 160 00:08:27,899 --> 00:08:30,899 He is a hard-hearted person with a petrified nature 161 00:08:30,899 --> 00:08:33,899 God forbid that He would permit such injustice 162 00:08:33,899 --> 00:08:36,960 Or accept it 163 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,960 One of the men is Al-Ja'thari Al-Jawwad 164 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,960 Who oppresses women through pure aggression 165 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,960 Examples of them were mentioned in the will 166 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,960 There are many hadiths about women 167 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,960 And what it brought will come to them 168 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:55,120 Verse of arbitration 169 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,120 It is from women 170 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,120 Al-Fawarek Al-Manasheesh Al-Mufsilat 171 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:03,120 Those who hate their husbands 172 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:06,120 And they will cover their hands against them 173 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,120 They rebel against them arrogantly and stubbornly 174 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,120 And it costs them money they cannot afford 175 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,149 What corruption occurs on earth? 176 00:09:15,149 --> 00:09:18,149 If it is permissible for a pious and virtuous man 177 00:09:18,149 --> 00:09:21,149 To reduce the arrogance of one of them 178 00:09:21,149 --> 00:09:24,149 She is astonished by the outburst of her arrogance 179 00:09:24,149 --> 00:09:27,149 Baqi hits her hand with it 180 00:09:27,149 --> 00:09:30,340 Or a palm that falls on her neck 181 00:09:30,340 --> 00:09:33,340 Many of their imams were Franks 182 00:09:33,340 --> 00:09:36,340 They beat their educated, polite women 183 00:09:36,340 --> 00:09:39,340 And the naked women 184 00:09:39,340 --> 00:09:42,340 Slanted slants 185 00:09:42,340 --> 00:09:45,340 According to this, their wise men and scholars 186 00:09:45,340 --> 00:09:48,340 And their kings and princes 187 00:09:48,340 --> 00:09:51,340 It is a necessity that a gallon cannot do without 188 00:09:51,340 --> 00:09:54,340 In honor of those educated women 189 00:09:54,340 --> 00:09:57,340 How do you condemn its permissibility out of necessity? 190 00:09:57,340 --> 00:10:00,340 In a general religion for Bedouins and urbanites 191 00:10:00,340 --> 00:10:03,340 From all types of people 192 00:10:03,340 --> 00:10:07,080 So alert my dear brother-in-law 193 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:10,080 In the consequences of your actions with your wife 194 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,080 You must be wise in dealing with your problems 195 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:16,080 And consult the people of knowledge 196 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:19,080 There is nothing better than advice 197 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,909 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 198 00:10:22,909 --> 00:10:25,909 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds