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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’

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My husband, if he enters, a leopard, and if a lion comes out

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This is another type of man who has good qualities and beautiful qualities

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They refrain from being preoccupied with small matters and details

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This fifth woman describes him and says:

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My husband, if he enters, a leopard, and if a lion comes out

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He is not asked about what he promised

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Judge Ayyad, may God have mercy on him, said

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She described him as having a generous nature

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Pride of determination, good ten

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Soften the side in his home

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He does not check how much of his money is gone

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He does not look to the side of the house

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He does not ask for what was lost from him and what he was promised

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Of food or food and the like

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He is not asked about it due to his generosity

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And the breadth of his heart

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It is as if he is awake, asleep, or oblivious to it

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I likened him to a leopard for that reason

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This quality is one of the noblest morals

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It has been said

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The wise, intelligent, and negligent person

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Then she also described him as brave

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If he goes out to the people and starts war

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It is as if he is the lion that every lion fears

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This type of men

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He combined beautiful qualities and good morals

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The first one

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That he interacts inside the house with his family

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It differs from his dealings outside the home with people

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His interactions inside the house with his family

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It has gentleness and mercy

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And treat him outside the home

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It has strength and courage

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This means that this type of men

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He has the ability to differentiate

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Show the way men are treated

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And the treatment of women and children

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He is a brave and courageous man

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People think highly of him

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Enemies fear him

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This is commendable courage

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Women love it

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Because she feels safe

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With the strong man

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And she likes to be proud of that

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Unlike the one who insults her husband

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Outside his home and tortured

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He does not have a strong personality

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outside the house

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The woman is with him

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She is experiencing severe suffering

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And read if you want

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The story of women's suffering

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In the time of Moses

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Which I wrote last Ramadan

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To realize what a woman was like

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She suffers humiliation

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Pharaoh for men

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Also this tough guy

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Not used

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Such strength and courage

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Inside the house

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But it is used

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With his gentle family

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And compassion in dealing

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This way he wins their hearts

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Omar said

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Three men

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And there are three women

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Soft, friendly and affectionate

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Help its people forever

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It does not mean eternity

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On its people

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You rarely find it

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And a pot woman

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Do not give birth more than once

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Boys

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And the third

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Gl lice

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God places it on the neck of whomever He wishes

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So if he wants

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To remove it

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And the men are three

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A chaste man

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Easy for me

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He has an opinion and advice

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If an order comes down to it

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Come from his opinion

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Matters have their sources

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A man who has no opinion

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If an order comes down to it

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I seek advice and opinion

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So he settled on his opinion

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And a confused, miserable man

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He is not mature

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He does not obey a guide

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And that kind of guy

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Praiseworthy on the tongue of our noble Prophet

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May God bless him and grant him peace

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In more than one conversation

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From her

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On the authority of Ibn Masoud

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May God be pleased with him

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On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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He said: It is forbidden

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On fire all

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Easy for me

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Easy close

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Narrated by Ibn Hubam

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Use gentleness and gentleness

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In dealing with the family

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Ten for the good that

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God wanted it for them

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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her

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she said

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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

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If God wants

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Glory be to Him and His family

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Good house

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Show them kindness

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Narrated by Ahmed

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Al-Ghazzari, may God have mercy on him, said

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Know that kindness is praiseworthy

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And its opposite

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Violence and intensity

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Violence is the result of anger and anger

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Gentleness and gentleness

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The result of good character

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And safety

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The cause of the intensity may be anger

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And it may be

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It is caused by extreme caution

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And takeover

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So that it astonishes contemplation

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It is prevented from being confirmed

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Kindness in matters is a fruit

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Only good morals will result in it

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He does not have good manners

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Except by adjusting the power

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Anger

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Human life is not sweet

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Except with kindness

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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her

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That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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He said

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There was no gentleness in anything

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He has become an adulterer

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And do not isolate him

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Except for him

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Narrated by Ahmed

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As for the man who deals well

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With people outside the home

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He treats people badly

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This is not who

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Men's choice

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In fact, this is reprehensible in Islam

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And contrary to my guidance

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Mr. Al-Anam

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Our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace

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Which

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He said

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The best of you is the best to his family

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I am the best of you to my family

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Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi

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And who used his power

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On weak women

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And the children are with him

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Rajban is afraid

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Shaky personality outside the house

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He is one of the worst

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Men

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The second matter is one of the attributes

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The beauty of this man

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Which the fifth woman described

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By saying it

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He is not asked about what he promised

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Abu Obaid said

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Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him

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Which she wanted

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He's not checking what's gone

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From his money

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I don't have the house or anything in it

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It's like he's awake

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About that

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This is evidenced by what she said

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He does not ask what

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Covenant

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You mean what I had before

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Ibn Hajar said

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Al-Haitami, may God have mercy on him

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What is meant is

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Forgetting what you lost

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Women do what they should

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His pledge is honorable

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And a dream

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This neglect is a characteristic of great souls

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Abu Hatem said

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I spoke to Othman

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Bin Zaida

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He was one of the servants

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He said: Wellness is ten

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parts

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Nine of them are overlooked

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And he spoke

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Scientists ignore

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They advised kings and presidents about it

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In their dealings with their people

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It is so

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What Ibn Azraq said

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First issue

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Al-Jahiz said

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It is the king's morals

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Ignoring what is not reprehensible

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In the king

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Money doesn't hurt

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And he does not lose pride

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It increases in splendor

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And so it was a biography

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The Sassanians and others

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The Arabs said

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Honor overlooked

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He said

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A fool is not a master

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In his people

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But the master of his people is the one who ignores him

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I said

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And you don't find it

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Someone neglects his money

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If he comes out

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And about pledging allegiance to him if he is absent

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As for litigation, it is an understatement

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Unless you find it in your heart

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He has virtue and majesty

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You can't

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Push it

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The second issue

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He must have extra intelligence

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I take this creation

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Why is he so clever?

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Until it happens

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He has the gentleness he is commanded to do

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The third issue

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Of the wise words

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In this description

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Maximize your destinies

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By ignoring

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Whatever Karim investigated, he crushed it

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Didn't you hear?

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God Almighty said

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He knew some of it

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And turn away from each other

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That generosity and generosity

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Leave the reaping

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And abandon the search for the interior of the unseen

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Refraining from mentioning faults

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Also from

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All the virtues

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Page about reprimand

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And honor the generous

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And the skin in the encounter

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He returned the greeting

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And ignoring the mistake of the ignorant

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Whoever stressed the group

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And whoever is lax, he becomes accustomed to it

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And if

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This is the morals of kings

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Which he advised

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To stabilize their rule

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You, man

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Whether or not you ignore it

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About your household

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Understand your subjects

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And you are like a king among them

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Life is not right for you

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With your wife

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Except by ignoring

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About some of her mistakes

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What did Karim investigate?

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Never his right

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God willing

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Thank God

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Lord of the worlds