1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,399 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,399 --> 00:00:13,160 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 3 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:22,309 My husband, if he enters, a leopard, and if a lion comes out 4 00:00:22,309 --> 00:00:31,710 This is another type of man who has good qualities and beautiful qualities 5 00:00:31,710 --> 00:00:36,710 They refrain from being preoccupied with small matters and details 6 00:00:36,939 --> 00:00:40,939 This fifth woman describes him and says: 7 00:00:40,939 --> 00:00:44,939 My husband, if he enters, a leopard, and if a lion comes out 8 00:00:44,939 --> 00:00:48,200 He is not asked about what he promised 9 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,200 Judge Ayyad, may God have mercy on him, said 10 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,200 She described him as having a generous nature 11 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,200 Pride of determination, good ten 12 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,200 Soften the side in his home 13 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:02,200 He does not check how much of his money is gone 14 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,200 He does not look to the side of the house 15 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,400 He does not ask for what was lost from him and what he was promised 16 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,400 Of food or food and the like 17 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,400 He is not asked about it due to his generosity 18 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,400 And the breadth of his heart 19 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,400 It is as if he is awake, asleep, or oblivious to it 20 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,400 I likened him to a leopard for that reason 21 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:26,400 This quality is one of the noblest morals 22 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:28,400 It has been said 23 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:32,530 The wise, intelligent, and negligent person 24 00:01:32,730 --> 00:01:35,730 Then she also described him as brave 25 00:01:35,730 --> 00:01:38,730 If he goes out to the people and starts war 26 00:01:38,730 --> 00:01:42,730 It is as if he is the lion that every lion fears 27 00:01:42,730 --> 00:01:47,230 This type of men 28 00:01:47,230 --> 00:01:50,230 He combined beautiful qualities and good morals 29 00:01:50,230 --> 00:01:52,230 The first one 30 00:01:52,230 --> 00:01:55,230 That he interacts inside the house with his family 31 00:01:55,230 --> 00:01:59,230 It differs from his dealings outside the home with people 32 00:01:59,230 --> 00:02:02,230 His interactions inside the house with his family 33 00:02:02,430 --> 00:02:04,430 It has gentleness and mercy 34 00:02:04,430 --> 00:02:06,430 And treat him outside the home 35 00:02:06,430 --> 00:02:09,500 It has strength and courage 36 00:02:09,500 --> 00:02:12,500 This means that this type of men 37 00:02:12,500 --> 00:02:15,500 He has the ability to differentiate 38 00:02:15,500 --> 00:02:17,500 Show the way men are treated 39 00:02:17,500 --> 00:02:20,500 And the treatment of women and children 40 00:02:20,500 --> 00:02:23,500 He is a brave and courageous man 41 00:02:23,500 --> 00:02:26,500 People think highly of him 42 00:02:26,500 --> 00:02:28,530 Enemies fear him 43 00:02:28,530 --> 00:02:30,530 This is commendable courage 44 00:02:30,729 --> 00:02:32,729 Women love it 45 00:02:32,729 --> 00:02:34,729 Because she feels safe 46 00:02:34,729 --> 00:02:36,729 With the strong man 47 00:02:36,729 --> 00:02:38,729 And she likes to be proud of that 48 00:02:38,729 --> 00:02:40,729 Unlike the one who insults her husband 49 00:02:40,729 --> 00:02:42,729 Outside his home and tortured 50 00:02:42,729 --> 00:02:44,729 He does not have a strong personality 51 00:02:44,729 --> 00:02:46,729 outside the house 52 00:02:46,729 --> 00:02:48,729 The woman is with him 53 00:02:48,729 --> 00:02:50,729 She is experiencing severe suffering 54 00:02:50,729 --> 00:02:52,729 And read if you want 55 00:02:52,729 --> 00:02:54,729 The story of women's suffering 56 00:02:54,729 --> 00:02:56,729 In the time of Moses 57 00:02:56,729 --> 00:02:58,729 Which I wrote last Ramadan 58 00:02:58,930 --> 00:03:00,930 To realize what a woman was like 59 00:03:00,930 --> 00:03:02,930 She suffers humiliation 60 00:03:02,930 --> 00:03:05,150 Pharaoh for men 61 00:03:05,150 --> 00:03:07,150 Also this tough guy 62 00:03:07,150 --> 00:03:09,150 Not used 63 00:03:09,150 --> 00:03:11,150 Such strength and courage 64 00:03:11,150 --> 00:03:13,150 Inside the house 65 00:03:13,150 --> 00:03:15,150 But it is used 66 00:03:15,150 --> 00:03:17,150 With his gentle family 67 00:03:17,150 --> 00:03:19,150 And compassion in dealing 68 00:03:19,150 --> 00:03:21,150 This way he wins their hearts 69 00:03:21,150 --> 00:03:23,150 Omar said 70 00:03:23,150 --> 00:03:25,150 Three men 71 00:03:25,150 --> 00:03:27,180 And there are three women 72 00:03:28,180 --> 00:03:30,180 Soft, friendly and affectionate 73 00:03:30,180 --> 00:03:32,180 Help its people forever 74 00:03:32,180 --> 00:03:34,180 It does not mean eternity 75 00:03:34,180 --> 00:03:36,180 On its people 76 00:03:36,180 --> 00:03:38,180 You rarely find it 77 00:03:38,180 --> 00:03:40,180 And a pot woman 78 00:03:40,180 --> 00:03:42,180 Do not give birth more than once 79 00:03:42,180 --> 00:03:44,219 Boys 80 00:03:44,219 --> 00:03:46,219 And the third 81 00:03:46,219 --> 00:03:48,219 Gl lice 82 00:03:48,219 --> 00:03:50,219 God places it on the neck of whomever He wishes 83 00:03:50,219 --> 00:03:52,219 So if he wants 84 00:03:52,219 --> 00:03:54,310 To remove it 85 00:03:54,310 --> 00:03:56,310 And the men are three 86 00:03:56,310 --> 00:03:58,310 A chaste man 87 00:03:58,310 --> 00:04:00,310 Easy for me 88 00:04:00,310 --> 00:04:02,310 He has an opinion and advice 89 00:04:02,310 --> 00:04:04,310 If an order comes down to it 90 00:04:04,310 --> 00:04:06,310 Come from his opinion 91 00:04:06,310 --> 00:04:08,310 Matters have their sources 92 00:04:08,310 --> 00:04:10,310 A man who has no opinion 93 00:04:10,310 --> 00:04:12,310 If an order comes down to it 94 00:04:12,310 --> 00:04:14,310 I seek advice and opinion 95 00:04:14,310 --> 00:04:16,410 So he settled on his opinion 96 00:04:16,410 --> 00:04:18,410 And a confused, miserable man 97 00:04:18,410 --> 00:04:20,410 He is not mature 98 00:04:20,410 --> 00:04:22,410 He does not obey a guide 99 00:04:22,410 --> 00:04:25,980 And that kind of guy 100 00:04:25,980 --> 00:04:27,980 Praiseworthy on the tongue of our noble Prophet 101 00:04:27,980 --> 00:04:29,980 May God bless him and grant him peace 102 00:04:29,980 --> 00:04:31,980 In more than one conversation 103 00:04:31,980 --> 00:04:33,980 From her 104 00:04:33,980 --> 00:04:35,980 On the authority of Ibn Masoud 105 00:04:35,980 --> 00:04:37,980 May God be pleased with him 106 00:04:37,980 --> 00:04:39,980 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 107 00:04:39,980 --> 00:04:41,980 He said: It is forbidden 108 00:04:41,980 --> 00:04:43,980 On fire all 109 00:04:43,980 --> 00:04:45,980 Easy for me 110 00:04:45,980 --> 00:04:47,980 Easy close 111 00:04:47,980 --> 00:04:50,300 Narrated by Ibn Hubam 112 00:04:50,300 --> 00:04:52,300 Use gentleness and gentleness 113 00:04:52,300 --> 00:04:54,300 In dealing with the family 114 00:04:54,300 --> 00:04:56,300 Ten for the good that 115 00:04:56,300 --> 00:04:58,329 God wanted it for them 116 00:04:58,329 --> 00:05:00,329 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 117 00:05:00,329 --> 00:05:02,329 she said 118 00:05:02,329 --> 00:05:04,329 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 119 00:05:04,329 --> 00:05:06,329 If God wants 120 00:05:06,329 --> 00:05:08,329 Glory be to Him and His family 121 00:05:08,329 --> 00:05:10,329 Good house 122 00:05:10,329 --> 00:05:12,329 Show them kindness 123 00:05:12,329 --> 00:05:14,360 Narrated by Ahmed 124 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:16,360 Al-Ghazzari, may God have mercy on him, said 125 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,360 Know that kindness is praiseworthy 126 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,360 And its opposite 127 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,360 Violence and intensity 128 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,360 Violence is the result of anger and anger 129 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,360 Gentleness and gentleness 130 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,360 The result of good character 131 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,360 And safety 132 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,360 The cause of the intensity may be anger 133 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,360 And it may be 134 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,360 It is caused by extreme caution 135 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:38,360 And takeover 136 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,360 So that it astonishes contemplation 137 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,360 It is prevented from being confirmed 138 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,360 Kindness in matters is a fruit 139 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,360 Only good morals will result in it 140 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,360 He does not have good manners 141 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,360 Except by adjusting the power 142 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:53,449 Anger 143 00:05:53,449 --> 00:05:55,449 Human life is not sweet 144 00:05:55,449 --> 00:05:57,449 Except with kindness 145 00:05:57,449 --> 00:05:59,449 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 146 00:05:59,449 --> 00:06:01,449 That the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 147 00:06:01,449 --> 00:06:03,449 He said 148 00:06:03,449 --> 00:06:05,449 There was no gentleness in anything 149 00:06:05,449 --> 00:06:07,449 He has become an adulterer 150 00:06:07,449 --> 00:06:09,449 And do not isolate him 151 00:06:09,449 --> 00:06:11,509 Except for him 152 00:06:11,509 --> 00:06:13,699 Narrated by Ahmed 153 00:06:13,699 --> 00:06:15,699 As for the man who deals well 154 00:06:15,699 --> 00:06:17,699 With people outside the home 155 00:06:17,699 --> 00:06:19,699 He treats people badly 156 00:06:19,699 --> 00:06:21,699 This is not who 157 00:06:21,699 --> 00:06:23,699 Men's choice 158 00:06:23,699 --> 00:06:25,699 In fact, this is reprehensible in Islam 159 00:06:25,699 --> 00:06:27,699 And contrary to my guidance 160 00:06:27,699 --> 00:06:29,699 Mr. Al-Anam 161 00:06:29,699 --> 00:06:31,699 Our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 162 00:06:31,699 --> 00:06:33,699 Which 163 00:06:33,699 --> 00:06:35,699 He said 164 00:06:35,699 --> 00:06:37,699 The best of you is the best to his family 165 00:06:37,699 --> 00:06:39,699 I am the best of you to my family 166 00:06:39,699 --> 00:06:41,699 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 167 00:06:41,699 --> 00:06:44,019 And who used his power 168 00:06:44,019 --> 00:06:46,019 On weak women 169 00:06:46,019 --> 00:06:48,019 And the children are with him 170 00:06:48,019 --> 00:06:50,019 Rajban is afraid 171 00:06:50,019 --> 00:06:52,019 Shaky personality outside the house 172 00:06:52,019 --> 00:06:54,019 He is one of the worst 173 00:06:54,019 --> 00:06:56,439 Men 174 00:06:56,439 --> 00:06:58,439 The second matter is one of the attributes 175 00:06:58,439 --> 00:07:00,439 The beauty of this man 176 00:07:00,439 --> 00:07:02,439 Which the fifth woman described 177 00:07:02,439 --> 00:07:04,439 By saying it 178 00:07:04,439 --> 00:07:06,540 He is not asked about what he promised 179 00:07:06,540 --> 00:07:08,540 Abu Obaid said 180 00:07:08,540 --> 00:07:10,540 Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him 181 00:07:10,540 --> 00:07:12,540 Which she wanted 182 00:07:12,540 --> 00:07:14,540 He's not checking what's gone 183 00:07:14,540 --> 00:07:16,540 From his money 184 00:07:16,540 --> 00:07:18,540 I don't have the house or anything in it 185 00:07:18,540 --> 00:07:20,540 It's like he's awake 186 00:07:20,540 --> 00:07:22,540 About that 187 00:07:22,540 --> 00:07:24,540 This is evidenced by what she said 188 00:07:24,540 --> 00:07:26,540 He does not ask what 189 00:07:26,540 --> 00:07:28,540 Covenant 190 00:07:28,540 --> 00:07:30,540 You mean what I had before 191 00:07:30,540 --> 00:07:32,660 Ibn Hajar said 192 00:07:32,660 --> 00:07:34,660 Al-Haitami, may God have mercy on him 193 00:07:34,660 --> 00:07:36,660 What is meant is 194 00:07:36,660 --> 00:07:38,660 Forgetting what you lost 195 00:07:38,660 --> 00:07:40,660 Women do what they should 196 00:07:40,660 --> 00:07:42,660 His pledge is honorable 197 00:07:42,660 --> 00:07:45,589 And a dream 198 00:07:45,589 --> 00:07:47,589 This neglect is a characteristic of great souls 199 00:07:47,589 --> 00:07:49,589 Abu Hatem said 200 00:07:49,589 --> 00:07:51,589 I spoke to Othman 201 00:07:51,589 --> 00:07:53,589 Bin Zaida 202 00:07:53,589 --> 00:07:55,589 He was one of the servants 203 00:07:55,589 --> 00:07:57,589 He said: Wellness is ten 204 00:07:57,589 --> 00:07:59,589 parts 205 00:07:59,589 --> 00:08:01,589 Nine of them are overlooked 206 00:08:01,589 --> 00:08:04,649 And he spoke 207 00:08:04,649 --> 00:08:06,649 Scientists ignore 208 00:08:06,649 --> 00:08:08,649 They advised kings and presidents about it 209 00:08:08,649 --> 00:08:10,649 In their dealings with their people 210 00:08:10,649 --> 00:08:12,649 It is so 211 00:08:12,649 --> 00:08:14,649 What Ibn Azraq said 212 00:08:14,649 --> 00:08:16,649 First issue 213 00:08:16,649 --> 00:08:18,649 Al-Jahiz said 214 00:08:18,649 --> 00:08:20,649 It is the king's morals 215 00:08:20,649 --> 00:08:22,649 Ignoring what is not reprehensible 216 00:08:22,649 --> 00:08:24,649 In the king 217 00:08:24,649 --> 00:08:26,649 Money doesn't hurt 218 00:08:26,649 --> 00:08:28,649 And he does not lose pride 219 00:08:28,649 --> 00:08:30,649 It increases in splendor 220 00:08:30,649 --> 00:08:32,649 And so it was a biography 221 00:08:32,649 --> 00:08:34,649 The Sassanians and others 222 00:08:34,649 --> 00:08:36,649 The Arabs said 223 00:08:36,649 --> 00:08:38,649 Honor overlooked 224 00:08:38,649 --> 00:08:40,649 He said 225 00:08:40,649 --> 00:08:42,649 A fool is not a master 226 00:08:42,649 --> 00:08:44,649 In his people 227 00:08:44,649 --> 00:08:46,649 But the master of his people is the one who ignores him 228 00:08:46,649 --> 00:08:48,809 I said 229 00:08:48,809 --> 00:08:50,809 And you don't find it 230 00:08:50,809 --> 00:08:52,809 Someone neglects his money 231 00:08:52,809 --> 00:08:54,809 If he comes out 232 00:08:54,809 --> 00:08:56,809 And about pledging allegiance to him if he is absent 233 00:08:56,809 --> 00:08:58,809 As for litigation, it is an understatement 234 00:08:58,809 --> 00:09:00,809 Unless you find it in your heart 235 00:09:00,809 --> 00:09:02,809 He has virtue and majesty 236 00:09:02,809 --> 00:09:04,809 You can't 237 00:09:04,809 --> 00:09:07,159 Push it 238 00:09:07,159 --> 00:09:09,159 The second issue 239 00:09:09,159 --> 00:09:11,159 He must have extra intelligence 240 00:09:11,159 --> 00:09:13,159 I take this creation 241 00:09:13,159 --> 00:09:15,159 Why is he so clever? 242 00:09:15,159 --> 00:09:17,159 Until it happens 243 00:09:17,159 --> 00:09:19,159 He has the gentleness he is commanded to do 244 00:09:19,159 --> 00:09:21,259 The third issue 245 00:09:21,259 --> 00:09:23,259 Of the wise words 246 00:09:23,259 --> 00:09:25,259 In this description 247 00:09:25,259 --> 00:09:27,259 Maximize your destinies 248 00:09:27,259 --> 00:09:29,350 By ignoring 249 00:09:29,350 --> 00:09:31,350 Whatever Karim investigated, he crushed it 250 00:09:31,350 --> 00:09:33,419 Didn't you hear? 251 00:09:33,419 --> 00:09:35,419 God Almighty said 252 00:09:35,419 --> 00:09:37,419 He knew some of it 253 00:09:37,419 --> 00:09:39,669 And turn away from each other 254 00:09:39,669 --> 00:09:41,669 That generosity and generosity 255 00:09:41,669 --> 00:09:43,669 Leave the reaping 256 00:09:43,669 --> 00:09:45,669 And abandon the search for the interior of the unseen 257 00:09:45,669 --> 00:09:47,669 Refraining from mentioning faults 258 00:09:47,669 --> 00:09:49,669 Also from 259 00:09:49,669 --> 00:09:51,669 All the virtues 260 00:09:51,669 --> 00:09:53,669 Page about reprimand 261 00:09:53,669 --> 00:09:55,669 And honor the generous 262 00:09:55,669 --> 00:09:57,669 And the skin in the encounter 263 00:09:57,669 --> 00:09:59,669 He returned the greeting 264 00:09:59,669 --> 00:10:01,700 And ignoring the mistake of the ignorant 265 00:10:01,700 --> 00:10:03,700 Whoever stressed the group 266 00:10:03,700 --> 00:10:05,700 And whoever is lax, he becomes accustomed to it 267 00:10:05,700 --> 00:10:08,759 And if 268 00:10:08,759 --> 00:10:10,759 This is the morals of kings 269 00:10:10,759 --> 00:10:12,759 Which he advised 270 00:10:12,759 --> 00:10:14,759 To stabilize their rule 271 00:10:14,759 --> 00:10:16,759 You, man 272 00:10:16,759 --> 00:10:18,759 Whether or not you ignore it 273 00:10:18,759 --> 00:10:20,759 About your household 274 00:10:20,759 --> 00:10:22,759 Understand your subjects 275 00:10:22,759 --> 00:10:24,759 And you are like a king among them 276 00:10:24,759 --> 00:10:26,759 Life is not right for you 277 00:10:26,759 --> 00:10:28,759 With your wife 278 00:10:28,759 --> 00:10:30,759 Except by ignoring 279 00:10:30,759 --> 00:10:32,759 About some of her mistakes 280 00:10:32,759 --> 00:10:34,759 What did Karim investigate? 281 00:10:34,759 --> 00:10:38,009 Never his right 282 00:10:38,009 --> 00:10:40,009 God willing 283 00:10:40,009 --> 00:10:42,009 Thank God 284 00:10:42,009 --> 00:10:44,009 Lord of the worlds