WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:11.210 Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara' 00:00:16.920 --> 00:00:20.920 Kuna yarda da mace lokacin da take magana game da mijinta? 00:00:20.920 --> 00:00:27.320 Amsar wannan tambayar na iya zama abin mamaki ga maza 00:00:27.320 --> 00:00:31.320 Amma an sani ga mata gaba ɗaya 00:00:31.320 --> 00:00:34.320 Ko da mun boye wa maza 00:00:34.320 --> 00:00:36.420 Halin mata ne 00:00:36.420 --> 00:00:39.420 Boye wasu halayenta ga maza 00:00:39.420 --> 00:00:43.420 Ko da kuwa wannan dabi'ar ta kasance a gare ta 00:00:43.420 --> 00:00:45.579 Da fatan, mai daraja 00:00:45.579 --> 00:00:48.579 Cewar Aisha Allah ya kara mata yarda 00:00:48.579 --> 00:00:50.579 A cikin hadisin Anas bin Malik 00:00:50.579 --> 00:00:52.609 Lokacin da ya ce 00:00:52.609 --> 00:00:56.609 Ummu salim tazo wajen Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 00:00:56.609 --> 00:00:58.609 Ta ce da shi 00:00:58.609 --> 00:01:00.609 Kuma Aisha na tare dashi 00:01:00.609 --> 00:01:02.609 Ya Manzon Allah 00:01:02.609 --> 00:01:05.609 Mace tana ganin abin da mutum yake gani a mafarki 00:01:05.609 --> 00:01:09.609 Daga kanta take ganin abin da mutum yake gani daga kansa 00:01:09.609 --> 00:01:11.609 Aisha tace 00:01:11.609 --> 00:01:13.609 Ya uwar Salim 00:01:13.609 --> 00:01:16.640 Mata sun fallasa hannun damanku 00:01:16.640 --> 00:01:18.640 Yace da Aisha 00:01:18.640 --> 00:01:20.640 Maimakon haka, ka ɗaga hannun damanka 00:01:20.640 --> 00:01:22.640 Ee 00:01:22.640 --> 00:01:24.640 Wanka tayi ma Ummu salim 00:01:24.640 --> 00:01:26.640 Idan ta ga haka 00:01:26.640 --> 00:01:28.700 Muslim ne ya ruwaito shi 00:01:28.700 --> 00:01:31.700 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 00:01:31.700 --> 00:01:33.700 Bayanin Aisha ga Ummu Salim 00:01:33.700 --> 00:01:35.700 An fallasa mata 00:01:35.700 --> 00:01:37.700 Wato wasu asirinsu ya tonu 00:01:37.700 --> 00:01:40.700 Da abin da ya boye daga bukatarsa ga maza 00:01:40.700 --> 00:01:42.700 Da ganin rigar mafarki 00:01:42.700 --> 00:01:45.799 Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 00:01:45.799 --> 00:01:50.799 Wannan yana nuni da cewa dabi'arsu ce su boye irin wadannan abubuwa 00:01:50.799 --> 00:01:54.049 Uwar muminai 00:01:54.049 --> 00:01:58.049 Na tsani maza su san cewa mata suna sha'awar maza 00:01:58.049 --> 00:02:02.049 Kuma yana faruwa da wani mutum a cikin barci 00:02:02.049 --> 00:02:07.049 Domin wannan abu ne da mata suka saba jin kunyarsa 00:02:07.049 --> 00:02:11.110 Don haka bai dace mutum ya nemi matarsa ba 00:02:11.110 --> 00:02:13.110 Ayyana sha'awarta akan hakan 00:02:13.110 --> 00:02:16.110 Yayin da yake bayyana sha'awar sa gare ta 00:02:16.110 --> 00:02:21.110 Domin wannan bukata ta sabawa dabi’ar mace da kunya 00:02:21.110 --> 00:02:24.110 Zagi da jaraba sun ishe ta 00:02:24.110 --> 00:02:27.110 Da gaggawar amsawa mijinta 00:02:27.110 --> 00:02:29.240 Tambayar kuma 00:02:30.240 --> 00:02:34.240 Kuna yarda da mace lokacin da take magana game da mijinta? 00:02:34.240 --> 00:02:37.240 Kafin amsa wannan tambayar 00:02:37.240 --> 00:02:43.500 Muna bukatar mu san yanayin yadda mace take kallon mijinta 00:02:43.500 --> 00:02:46.500 Al-Tahir bin Ashour Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 00:02:46.500 --> 00:02:50.500 Mata suna matukar sha'awar jarumtar maza 00:02:50.500 --> 00:02:54.500 Domin karfinta bai kai abin da maza suke iyawa ba 00:02:54.500 --> 00:02:58.500 Domin yana ganin jarumtar miji da dangi 00:02:58.500 --> 00:03:02.500 Abin da ke kwantar mata da hankali game da munin hare-hare da hare-hare 00:03:02.500 --> 00:03:08.319 Wannan shi ne abin da mace ke so ga mijinta a baya 00:03:08.319 --> 00:03:13.319 Shin an sami wani canji a cikin wannan yanayin a tsawon lokaci? 00:03:13.319 --> 00:03:17.349 Haka ne, wannan ilhami ta canza ga wasu mata 00:03:17.349 --> 00:03:22.349 Saboda canjin al'adun al'umma da al'adun mata 00:03:22.349 --> 00:03:25.349 Kuma ganinta game da maza ya canza 00:03:25.349 --> 00:03:29.349 Wato ko mutumin nan da ne ko kuma ɗan'uwa 00:03:29.349 --> 00:03:32.509 Ko miji ko waliyyi 00:03:32.509 --> 00:03:35.509 Wadanne irin tunani ne aka cusa mata a yau? 00:03:35.509 --> 00:03:40.509 Kamar dole ne ta kasance mai zaman kanta ta kudi daga namiji 00:03:40.509 --> 00:03:44.509 Kuma don yin aiki a kowane aiki don karɓar kuɗi 00:03:44.509 --> 00:03:47.509 Kuma ra’ayin ‘yanci yana buƙatar a ƙi shi 00:03:47.509 --> 00:03:51.509 Mutumin yana sarrafa ta ta kowace hanya 00:03:51.509 --> 00:03:55.509 Tana da cikakken 'yanci a cikin dukkan ayyukanta 00:03:55.509 --> 00:03:58.509 Ba tare da maganar mutumin ba 00:03:58.509 --> 00:04:02.509 Kuma dole ne ta yi tawaye ga waliyyan maza 00:04:02.509 --> 00:04:04.509 Don ta zama waliyyi da kanta 00:04:04.509 --> 00:04:09.509 Duk wannan da sauran ra'ayoyin suna yaduwa tsakanin mata 00:04:09.509 --> 00:04:13.509 Ya canza tunanin mata game da maza 00:04:13.509 --> 00:04:16.670 Ina mamaki bayan wannan al'ada 00:04:16.670 --> 00:04:19.670 Me mace ke so a cikin namiji? 00:04:19.670 --> 00:04:22.670 Da abin da za ku yi alfahari da shi a cikin mata 00:04:22.670 --> 00:04:26.089 Ya haifar mana da al'adun Intanet 00:04:26.089 --> 00:04:29.089 Kuma social media 00:04:29.089 --> 00:04:32.089 Wani sabon salo da mata ke so a wajen miji 00:04:32.089 --> 00:04:35.089 Salon shahara ne 00:04:35.089 --> 00:04:38.089 Da kuma mashahuran da ke fitowa a wadannan kafafen yada labarai 00:04:38.089 --> 00:04:40.089 Da kyau 00:04:40.089 --> 00:04:42.089 Sabanin gaskiya da gaskiya 00:04:42.089 --> 00:04:45.180 Ana sawa mata 00:04:45.180 --> 00:04:49.180 Idan mace ta auri irin wadannan mashahuran 00:04:49.180 --> 00:04:52.279 Na gano gaskiya mai daci 00:04:52.279 --> 00:04:55.279 Anan tambayar zata sake zuwa 00:04:55.279 --> 00:04:59.279 Kuna yarda da mace lokacin da take magana game da mijinta? 00:04:59.279 --> 00:05:02.410 Hujjar hadisi ko shuka 00:05:02.410 --> 00:05:05.410 Amma mata ba su yarda da mu ba 00:05:05.410 --> 00:05:08.410 Idan muna magana akan mazajensu 00:05:08.410 --> 00:05:11.410 Saboda haka, mun yi alkawari da kwangila 00:05:11.410 --> 00:05:14.410 Kada su boyewa mazajensu komai 00:05:14.410 --> 00:05:17.410 Domin cikakken iliminsu 00:05:17.410 --> 00:05:20.410 Mace ba ta yarda da zancen mijinta ba 00:05:20.410 --> 00:05:23.410 Kuma kuna ƙoƙarin nuna shi 00:05:23.410 --> 00:05:26.410 A cikin mafi kyawun hotonsa a gaban mata 00:05:26.410 --> 00:05:29.410 Don yin alfahari da su 00:05:29.410 --> 00:05:32.410 Ko da yake tana iya zama da shi cikin tsananin rashin adalci da rashin tausayi 00:05:32.410 --> 00:05:35.410 Amma a gaban mata ne 00:05:35.410 --> 00:05:38.540 Nuna in ba haka ba 00:05:38.540 --> 00:05:41.540 Musamman idan macen tana da matar aure 00:05:41.540 --> 00:05:44.540 Ta yiwu ta gamsu da mijinta 00:05:44.540 --> 00:05:47.759 Don yaji mata 00:05:47.759 --> 00:05:50.759 Akan Asmaa Allah ya kara mata yarda 00:05:50.759 --> 00:05:53.759 Sai wata mata ta ce, ya Manzon Allah 00:05:53.759 --> 00:05:56.759 Ina da mata 00:05:56.759 --> 00:05:59.759 Shin laifina ne idan na gamsu da mijina? 00:05:59.759 --> 00:06:02.759 Banda wanda ya bani 00:06:02.759 --> 00:06:05.759 Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya ce 00:06:05.759 --> 00:06:08.759 Mai gamsuwa da abin da ba a bayar ba 00:06:08.759 --> 00:06:11.819 Tufana na karya ne 00:06:12.819 --> 00:06:15.889 Wanda ya koshi shine mai nuna gamsuwa 00:06:15.889 --> 00:06:19.019 Kuma bai cika ba 00:06:19.019 --> 00:06:22.019 Abin da ake nufi a nan shi ne ya bayyana 00:06:22.019 --> 00:06:25.019 Ya samu kyawunta 00:06:25.019 --> 00:06:28.019 Kuma hakan baya faruwa 00:06:28.019 --> 00:06:31.019 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya lissafta yin ta 00:06:31.019 --> 00:06:34.180 Na haramtattun maganganun karya 00:06:34.180 --> 00:06:37.180 Amma yana kyamar hakan ga mata 00:06:37.180 --> 00:06:40.180 Domin yana shiga tsakanin macen 00:06:40.180 --> 00:06:43.180 Kamar sihirin da ke raba mutum 00:06:43.180 --> 00:06:46.500 Da matarsa 00:06:46.500 --> 00:06:49.500 Amma ko da wannan gaskiya ne 00:06:49.500 --> 00:06:52.500 Al'adar al'umma ta yi tasiri a kansa 00:06:52.500 --> 00:06:55.500 Mata yau ba a yabawa 00:06:55.500 --> 00:06:58.500 Da ƙarfi da ƙarfin hali na mutum 00:06:58.500 --> 00:07:01.500 Da kuma karfinsa a yaƙe-yaƙe 00:07:01.500 --> 00:07:04.500 A'a, ta yi fahariya game da girman ikonta 00:07:04.500 --> 00:07:07.500 Akan maza da sauran abubuwa 00:07:07.500 --> 00:07:10.500 Allah ya jikan mata salihai 00:07:10.500 --> 00:07:13.850 Akwai sauran tasiri 00:07:13.850 --> 00:07:16.850 A bayanin mace akan mijinta 00:07:16.850 --> 00:07:19.850 Kamar yanayin da kuke ciki 00:07:19.850 --> 00:07:22.850 Idan yanayi ne mai kyau 00:07:22.850 --> 00:07:25.850 Ta nuna wa mijinta ya zama adali 00:07:25.850 --> 00:07:28.850 Ko da a cikin yanayi mai ban sha'awa ne 00:07:28.850 --> 00:07:31.850 Ta nuna wa mijinta cewa yana da kyauta 00:07:31.850 --> 00:07:34.850 Wanda baya amsa bukatarta 00:07:34.850 --> 00:07:37.850 Matansa sukan kame mazajensu 00:07:37.850 --> 00:07:40.850 Ta nuna karfinta 00:07:40.850 --> 00:07:43.939 A cikin iko da shi 00:07:43.939 --> 00:07:46.939 Hakanan ya shafi gamsuwa da fushi 00:07:46.939 --> 00:07:49.939 Idan ta gamsu sai ta daga shi zuwa sama 00:07:49.939 --> 00:07:52.939 Ko haushi taji sai ta sa shi 00:07:52.939 --> 00:07:56.100 A kasan 'yan iska biyu 00:07:56.100 --> 00:07:59.100 Kuma kada ku kubuta daga wannan annoba 00:07:59.100 --> 00:08:02.100 Sai salihai kuma muminai 00:08:02.100 --> 00:08:05.100 Ni kuma na kara dagula mata hakan 00:08:05.100 --> 00:08:08.100 Uwar Muminai A’isha, Allah Ya yarda da ita 00:08:08.100 --> 00:08:11.329 An kar~o daga Aisha – Allah Ya yarda da ita 00:08:11.329 --> 00:08:14.329 Sai ta ce: Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya gaya mini 00:08:14.329 --> 00:08:17.329 Na sani 00:08:17.329 --> 00:08:20.329 Idan kun gamsu da ni 00:08:20.329 --> 00:08:23.329 Kuma idan kun yi fushi da ni 00:08:23.329 --> 00:08:26.329 Tace to nace yaya kasan haka? 00:08:26.329 --> 00:08:29.329 Ya ce: "Idan kun kasance." 00:08:29.329 --> 00:08:32.330 Idan kun gamsu da ni 00:08:32.330 --> 00:08:35.330 Kun ce, "A'a, Na rantse da Ubangijin Muhammadu." 00:08:35.330 --> 00:08:38.330 Kuma idan kun yi fushi da ni 00:08:38.330 --> 00:08:41.330 Na ce, "A'a, ta wurin Ubangijin Ibrahim." 00:08:41.330 --> 00:08:44.389 Ta ce na ce 00:08:44.389 --> 00:08:47.389 Na'am, Wallahi ya Manzon Allah 00:08:47.389 --> 00:08:50.490 Na bar sunan ku a baya 00:08:50.490 --> 00:08:53.740 Bukhari ne ya ruwaito shi 00:08:53.740 --> 00:08:56.740 Matar imani 00:08:56.740 --> 00:08:59.740 Ya zo a cikin hadisin Alsi bin Malik 00:08:59.740 --> 00:09:02.740 An ruwaito daga Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama cewa 00:09:02.740 --> 00:09:05.740 Ya ce mutum uku ne suka mutu 00:09:05.740 --> 00:09:08.740 Karancin biyayya ne 00:09:08.740 --> 00:09:11.740 Kuma ana bin sha'awarsa 00:09:11.740 --> 00:09:14.740 Kuma sha'awar mutum ga kansa yana da kyau 00:09:14.740 --> 00:09:17.740 Kuma ceto uku 00:09:17.740 --> 00:09:20.740 Adalci cikin gamsuwa da fushi 00:09:20.740 --> 00:09:23.740 Niyya tana cikin arziki da talauci 00:09:24.740 --> 00:09:27.779 Al-Tabarani ne ya rawaito a cikin Al-Awsat 00:09:27.779 --> 00:09:30.940 Ta himmatu wajen yin adalci 00:09:30.940 --> 00:09:33.940 Maganar mijinta 00:09:33.940 --> 00:09:36.940 Kuma kada ku raina shi, da gaske 00:09:36.940 --> 00:09:39.940 Haka kuma baya daukaka shi sama da matsayinsa 00:09:39.940 --> 00:09:42.940 Kuma kada ku ce yana da wani daraja 00:09:42.940 --> 00:09:45.940 Abin da ba shi da shi 00:09:45.940 --> 00:09:49.289 Kuma kada ku yi lahani a cikinsa 00:09:49.289 --> 00:09:52.289 Idan akwai rashin jin daɗi, abin da ba ya cikinsa 00:09:52.289 --> 00:09:55.289 Me kike son mijinki? 00:09:55.289 --> 00:09:59.789 Kuma me kuke so game da shi? 00:09:59.789 --> 00:10:02.789 Zamu cigaba a taro na gaba insha Allah 00:10:02.789 --> 00:10:05.789 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai