1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:11,210 Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara' 3 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:20,920 Kuna yarda da mace lokacin da take magana game da mijinta? 4 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:27,320 Amsar wannan tambayar na iya zama abin mamaki ga maza 5 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:31,320 Amma an sani ga mata gaba ɗaya 6 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,320 Ko da mun boye wa maza 7 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,420 Halin mata ne 8 00:00:36,420 --> 00:00:39,420 Boye wasu halayenta ga maza 9 00:00:39,420 --> 00:00:43,420 Ko da kuwa wannan dabi'ar ta kasance a gare ta 10 00:00:43,420 --> 00:00:45,579 Da fatan, mai daraja 11 00:00:45,579 --> 00:00:48,579 Cewar Aisha Allah ya kara mata yarda 12 00:00:48,579 --> 00:00:50,579 A cikin hadisin Anas bin Malik 13 00:00:50,579 --> 00:00:52,609 Lokacin da ya ce 14 00:00:52,609 --> 00:00:56,609 Ummu salim tazo wajen Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 15 00:00:56,609 --> 00:00:58,609 Ta ce da shi 16 00:00:58,609 --> 00:01:00,609 Kuma Aisha na tare dashi 17 00:01:00,609 --> 00:01:02,609 Ya Manzon Allah 18 00:01:02,609 --> 00:01:05,609 Mace tana ganin abin da mutum yake gani a mafarki 19 00:01:05,609 --> 00:01:09,609 Daga kanta take ganin abin da mutum yake gani daga kansa 20 00:01:09,609 --> 00:01:11,609 Aisha tace 21 00:01:11,609 --> 00:01:13,609 Ya uwar Salim 22 00:01:13,609 --> 00:01:16,640 Mata sun fallasa hannun damanku 23 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,640 Yace da Aisha 24 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,640 Maimakon haka, ka ɗaga hannun damanka 25 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,640 Ee 26 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:24,640 Wanka tayi ma Ummu salim 27 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:26,640 Idan ta ga haka 28 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,700 Muslim ne ya ruwaito shi 29 00:01:28,700 --> 00:01:31,700 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 30 00:01:31,700 --> 00:01:33,700 Bayanin Aisha ga Ummu Salim 31 00:01:33,700 --> 00:01:35,700 An fallasa mata 32 00:01:35,700 --> 00:01:37,700 Wato wasu asirinsu ya tonu 33 00:01:37,700 --> 00:01:40,700 Da abin da ya boye daga bukatarsa ga maza 34 00:01:40,700 --> 00:01:42,700 Da ganin rigar mafarki 35 00:01:42,700 --> 00:01:45,799 Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 36 00:01:45,799 --> 00:01:50,799 Wannan yana nuni da cewa dabi'arsu ce su boye irin wadannan abubuwa 37 00:01:50,799 --> 00:01:54,049 Uwar muminai 38 00:01:54,049 --> 00:01:58,049 Na tsani maza su san cewa mata suna sha'awar maza 39 00:01:58,049 --> 00:02:02,049 Kuma yana faruwa da wani mutum a cikin barci 40 00:02:02,049 --> 00:02:07,049 Domin wannan abu ne da mata suka saba jin kunyarsa 41 00:02:07,049 --> 00:02:11,110 Don haka bai dace mutum ya nemi matarsa ba 42 00:02:11,110 --> 00:02:13,110 Ayyana sha'awarta akan hakan 43 00:02:13,110 --> 00:02:16,110 Yayin da yake bayyana sha'awar sa gare ta 44 00:02:16,110 --> 00:02:21,110 Domin wannan bukata ta sabawa dabi’ar mace da kunya 45 00:02:21,110 --> 00:02:24,110 Zagi da jaraba sun ishe ta 46 00:02:24,110 --> 00:02:27,110 Da gaggawar amsawa mijinta 47 00:02:27,110 --> 00:02:29,240 Tambayar kuma 48 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:34,240 Kuna yarda da mace lokacin da take magana game da mijinta? 49 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,240 Kafin amsa wannan tambayar 50 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:43,500 Muna bukatar mu san yanayin yadda mace take kallon mijinta 51 00:02:43,500 --> 00:02:46,500 Al-Tahir bin Ashour Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 52 00:02:46,500 --> 00:02:50,500 Mata suna matukar sha'awar jarumtar maza 53 00:02:50,500 --> 00:02:54,500 Domin karfinta bai kai abin da maza suke iyawa ba 54 00:02:54,500 --> 00:02:58,500 Domin yana ganin jarumtar miji da dangi 55 00:02:58,500 --> 00:03:02,500 Abin da ke kwantar mata da hankali game da munin hare-hare da hare-hare 56 00:03:02,500 --> 00:03:08,319 Wannan shi ne abin da mace ke so ga mijinta a baya 57 00:03:08,319 --> 00:03:13,319 Shin an sami wani canji a cikin wannan yanayin a tsawon lokaci? 58 00:03:13,319 --> 00:03:17,349 Haka ne, wannan ilhami ta canza ga wasu mata 59 00:03:17,349 --> 00:03:22,349 Saboda canjin al'adun al'umma da al'adun mata 60 00:03:22,349 --> 00:03:25,349 Kuma ganinta game da maza ya canza 61 00:03:25,349 --> 00:03:29,349 Wato ko mutumin nan da ne ko kuma ɗan'uwa 62 00:03:29,349 --> 00:03:32,509 Ko miji ko waliyyi 63 00:03:32,509 --> 00:03:35,509 Wadanne irin tunani ne aka cusa mata a yau? 64 00:03:35,509 --> 00:03:40,509 Kamar dole ne ta kasance mai zaman kanta ta kudi daga namiji 65 00:03:40,509 --> 00:03:44,509 Kuma don yin aiki a kowane aiki don karɓar kuɗi 66 00:03:44,509 --> 00:03:47,509 Kuma ra’ayin ‘yanci yana buƙatar a ƙi shi 67 00:03:47,509 --> 00:03:51,509 Mutumin yana sarrafa ta ta kowace hanya 68 00:03:51,509 --> 00:03:55,509 Tana da cikakken 'yanci a cikin dukkan ayyukanta 69 00:03:55,509 --> 00:03:58,509 Ba tare da maganar mutumin ba 70 00:03:58,509 --> 00:04:02,509 Kuma dole ne ta yi tawaye ga waliyyan maza 71 00:04:02,509 --> 00:04:04,509 Don ta zama waliyyi da kanta 72 00:04:04,509 --> 00:04:09,509 Duk wannan da sauran ra'ayoyin suna yaduwa tsakanin mata 73 00:04:09,509 --> 00:04:13,509 Ya canza tunanin mata game da maza 74 00:04:13,509 --> 00:04:16,670 Ina mamaki bayan wannan al'ada 75 00:04:16,670 --> 00:04:19,670 Me mace ke so a cikin namiji? 76 00:04:19,670 --> 00:04:22,670 Da abin da za ku yi alfahari da shi a cikin mata 77 00:04:22,670 --> 00:04:26,089 Ya haifar mana da al'adun Intanet 78 00:04:26,089 --> 00:04:29,089 Kuma social media 79 00:04:29,089 --> 00:04:32,089 Wani sabon salo da mata ke so a wajen miji 80 00:04:32,089 --> 00:04:35,089 Salon shahara ne 81 00:04:35,089 --> 00:04:38,089 Da kuma mashahuran da ke fitowa a wadannan kafafen yada labarai 82 00:04:38,089 --> 00:04:40,089 Da kyau 83 00:04:40,089 --> 00:04:42,089 Sabanin gaskiya da gaskiya 84 00:04:42,089 --> 00:04:45,180 Ana sawa mata 85 00:04:45,180 --> 00:04:49,180 Idan mace ta auri irin wadannan mashahuran 86 00:04:49,180 --> 00:04:52,279 Na gano gaskiya mai daci 87 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,279 Anan tambayar zata sake zuwa 88 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:59,279 Kuna yarda da mace lokacin da take magana game da mijinta? 89 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,410 Hujjar hadisi ko shuka 90 00:05:02,410 --> 00:05:05,410 Amma mata ba su yarda da mu ba 91 00:05:05,410 --> 00:05:08,410 Idan muna magana akan mazajensu 92 00:05:08,410 --> 00:05:11,410 Saboda haka, mun yi alkawari da kwangila 93 00:05:11,410 --> 00:05:14,410 Kada su boyewa mazajensu komai 94 00:05:14,410 --> 00:05:17,410 Domin cikakken iliminsu 95 00:05:17,410 --> 00:05:20,410 Mace ba ta yarda da zancen mijinta ba 96 00:05:20,410 --> 00:05:23,410 Kuma kuna ƙoƙarin nuna shi 97 00:05:23,410 --> 00:05:26,410 A cikin mafi kyawun hotonsa a gaban mata 98 00:05:26,410 --> 00:05:29,410 Don yin alfahari da su 99 00:05:29,410 --> 00:05:32,410 Ko da yake tana iya zama da shi cikin tsananin rashin adalci da rashin tausayi 100 00:05:32,410 --> 00:05:35,410 Amma a gaban mata ne 101 00:05:35,410 --> 00:05:38,540 Nuna in ba haka ba 102 00:05:38,540 --> 00:05:41,540 Musamman idan macen tana da matar aure 103 00:05:41,540 --> 00:05:44,540 Ta yiwu ta gamsu da mijinta 104 00:05:44,540 --> 00:05:47,759 Don yaji mata 105 00:05:47,759 --> 00:05:50,759 Akan Asmaa Allah ya kara mata yarda 106 00:05:50,759 --> 00:05:53,759 Sai wata mata ta ce, ya Manzon Allah 107 00:05:53,759 --> 00:05:56,759 Ina da mata 108 00:05:56,759 --> 00:05:59,759 Shin laifina ne idan na gamsu da mijina? 109 00:05:59,759 --> 00:06:02,759 Banda wanda ya bani 110 00:06:02,759 --> 00:06:05,759 Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya ce 111 00:06:05,759 --> 00:06:08,759 Mai gamsuwa da abin da ba a bayar ba 112 00:06:08,759 --> 00:06:11,819 Tufana na karya ne 113 00:06:12,819 --> 00:06:15,889 Wanda ya koshi shine mai nuna gamsuwa 114 00:06:15,889 --> 00:06:19,019 Kuma bai cika ba 115 00:06:19,019 --> 00:06:22,019 Abin da ake nufi a nan shi ne ya bayyana 116 00:06:22,019 --> 00:06:25,019 Ya samu kyawunta 117 00:06:25,019 --> 00:06:28,019 Kuma hakan baya faruwa 118 00:06:28,019 --> 00:06:31,019 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya lissafta yin ta 119 00:06:31,019 --> 00:06:34,180 Na haramtattun maganganun karya 120 00:06:34,180 --> 00:06:37,180 Amma yana kyamar hakan ga mata 121 00:06:37,180 --> 00:06:40,180 Domin yana shiga tsakanin macen 122 00:06:40,180 --> 00:06:43,180 Kamar sihirin da ke raba mutum 123 00:06:43,180 --> 00:06:46,500 Da matarsa 124 00:06:46,500 --> 00:06:49,500 Amma ko da wannan gaskiya ne 125 00:06:49,500 --> 00:06:52,500 Al'adar al'umma ta yi tasiri a kansa 126 00:06:52,500 --> 00:06:55,500 Mata yau ba a yabawa 127 00:06:55,500 --> 00:06:58,500 Da ƙarfi da ƙarfin hali na mutum 128 00:06:58,500 --> 00:07:01,500 Da kuma karfinsa a yaƙe-yaƙe 129 00:07:01,500 --> 00:07:04,500 A'a, ta yi fahariya game da girman ikonta 130 00:07:04,500 --> 00:07:07,500 Akan maza da sauran abubuwa 131 00:07:07,500 --> 00:07:10,500 Allah ya jikan mata salihai 132 00:07:10,500 --> 00:07:13,850 Akwai sauran tasiri 133 00:07:13,850 --> 00:07:16,850 A bayanin mace akan mijinta 134 00:07:16,850 --> 00:07:19,850 Kamar yanayin da kuke ciki 135 00:07:19,850 --> 00:07:22,850 Idan yanayi ne mai kyau 136 00:07:22,850 --> 00:07:25,850 Ta nuna wa mijinta ya zama adali 137 00:07:25,850 --> 00:07:28,850 Ko da a cikin yanayi mai ban sha'awa ne 138 00:07:28,850 --> 00:07:31,850 Ta nuna wa mijinta cewa yana da kyauta 139 00:07:31,850 --> 00:07:34,850 Wanda baya amsa bukatarta 140 00:07:34,850 --> 00:07:37,850 Matansa sukan kame mazajensu 141 00:07:37,850 --> 00:07:40,850 Ta nuna karfinta 142 00:07:40,850 --> 00:07:43,939 A cikin iko da shi 143 00:07:43,939 --> 00:07:46,939 Hakanan ya shafi gamsuwa da fushi 144 00:07:46,939 --> 00:07:49,939 Idan ta gamsu sai ta daga shi zuwa sama 145 00:07:49,939 --> 00:07:52,939 Ko haushi taji sai ta sa shi 146 00:07:52,939 --> 00:07:56,100 A kasan 'yan iska biyu 147 00:07:56,100 --> 00:07:59,100 Kuma kada ku kubuta daga wannan annoba 148 00:07:59,100 --> 00:08:02,100 Sai salihai kuma muminai 149 00:08:02,100 --> 00:08:05,100 Ni kuma na kara dagula mata hakan 150 00:08:05,100 --> 00:08:08,100 Uwar Muminai A’isha, Allah Ya yarda da ita 151 00:08:08,100 --> 00:08:11,329 An kar~o daga Aisha – Allah Ya yarda da ita 152 00:08:11,329 --> 00:08:14,329 Sai ta ce: Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya gaya mini 153 00:08:14,329 --> 00:08:17,329 Na sani 154 00:08:17,329 --> 00:08:20,329 Idan kun gamsu da ni 155 00:08:20,329 --> 00:08:23,329 Kuma idan kun yi fushi da ni 156 00:08:23,329 --> 00:08:26,329 Tace to nace yaya kasan haka? 157 00:08:26,329 --> 00:08:29,329 Ya ce: "Idan kun kasance." 158 00:08:29,329 --> 00:08:32,330 Idan kun gamsu da ni 159 00:08:32,330 --> 00:08:35,330 Kun ce, "A'a, Na rantse da Ubangijin Muhammadu." 160 00:08:35,330 --> 00:08:38,330 Kuma idan kun yi fushi da ni 161 00:08:38,330 --> 00:08:41,330 Na ce, "A'a, ta wurin Ubangijin Ibrahim." 162 00:08:41,330 --> 00:08:44,389 Ta ce na ce 163 00:08:44,389 --> 00:08:47,389 Na'am, Wallahi ya Manzon Allah 164 00:08:47,389 --> 00:08:50,490 Na bar sunan ku a baya 165 00:08:50,490 --> 00:08:53,740 Bukhari ne ya ruwaito shi 166 00:08:53,740 --> 00:08:56,740 Matar imani 167 00:08:56,740 --> 00:08:59,740 Ya zo a cikin hadisin Alsi bin Malik 168 00:08:59,740 --> 00:09:02,740 An ruwaito daga Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama cewa 169 00:09:02,740 --> 00:09:05,740 Ya ce mutum uku ne suka mutu 170 00:09:05,740 --> 00:09:08,740 Karancin biyayya ne 171 00:09:08,740 --> 00:09:11,740 Kuma ana bin sha'awarsa 172 00:09:11,740 --> 00:09:14,740 Kuma sha'awar mutum ga kansa yana da kyau 173 00:09:14,740 --> 00:09:17,740 Kuma ceto uku 174 00:09:17,740 --> 00:09:20,740 Adalci cikin gamsuwa da fushi 175 00:09:20,740 --> 00:09:23,740 Niyya tana cikin arziki da talauci 176 00:09:24,740 --> 00:09:27,779 Al-Tabarani ne ya rawaito a cikin Al-Awsat 177 00:09:27,779 --> 00:09:30,940 Ta himmatu wajen yin adalci 178 00:09:30,940 --> 00:09:33,940 Maganar mijinta 179 00:09:33,940 --> 00:09:36,940 Kuma kada ku raina shi, da gaske 180 00:09:36,940 --> 00:09:39,940 Haka kuma baya daukaka shi sama da matsayinsa 181 00:09:39,940 --> 00:09:42,940 Kuma kada ku ce yana da wani daraja 182 00:09:42,940 --> 00:09:45,940 Abin da ba shi da shi 183 00:09:45,940 --> 00:09:49,289 Kuma kada ku yi lahani a cikinsa 184 00:09:49,289 --> 00:09:52,289 Idan akwai rashin jin daɗi, abin da ba ya cikinsa 185 00:09:52,289 --> 00:09:55,289 Me kike son mijinki? 186 00:09:55,289 --> 00:09:59,789 Kuma me kuke so game da shi? 187 00:09:59,789 --> 00:10:02,789 Zamu cigaba a taro na gaba insha Allah 188 00:10:02,789 --> 00:10:05,789 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai