1 00:00:00,020 --> 00:00:03,419 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,419 --> 00:00:16,769 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zurrah 3 00:00:16,769 --> 00:00:21,570 Take your time, so-and-so, don't break the bottle. 4 00:00:21,570 --> 00:00:29,640 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, likened the woman to a glass bottle 5 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:34,039 The nature of glass is that it breaks quickly 6 00:00:34,039 --> 00:00:37,439 He ordered the men to be considerate and gentle 7 00:00:37,539 --> 00:00:42,340 It was mentioned in the hadith of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, that he said: 8 00:00:42,340 --> 00:00:48,140 The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, had a sharp tongue called Anjshah 9 00:00:48,140 --> 00:00:50,539 He had a good voice 10 00:00:50,539 --> 00:00:54,240 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to him 11 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:59,039 Be careful, Anjesha, don't break the bottle. 12 00:00:59,039 --> 00:01:00,939 Qatada said 13 00:01:00,939 --> 00:01:03,640 It means the weakness of women 14 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,189 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 15 00:01:06,290 --> 00:01:08,989 Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said 16 00:01:08,989 --> 00:01:12,390 Because when the camels move with their horseshoes 17 00:01:12,390 --> 00:01:14,390 And increase her walking with it 18 00:01:14,390 --> 00:01:16,790 They are afraid of falling 19 00:01:16,790 --> 00:01:21,189 This will cause them to break, which happens to bottles 20 00:01:22,689 --> 00:01:28,189 Rather, it is just the rapid movement of the camels and the frequent shaking while they are on top of it 21 00:01:28,189 --> 00:01:33,180 It makes her tired and hurts her body even without falling 22 00:01:33,180 --> 00:01:36,579 Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said 23 00:01:36,579 --> 00:01:39,280 It means the weakness of women 24 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,579 He likened them to bottles 25 00:01:41,579 --> 00:01:43,579 Because they are quickly affected 26 00:01:43,579 --> 00:01:45,579 And because they don't flog 27 00:01:45,579 --> 00:01:50,780 There was a fear that some of them would fall due to the intensity and speed of the traffic 28 00:01:50,780 --> 00:01:54,579 Or they suffer from excessive movement and disturbance 29 00:01:54,579 --> 00:01:58,079 Which is about speed and urgency 30 00:01:58,079 --> 00:02:03,920 There is another meaning referred to by Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him 31 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:05,120 And he said 32 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,120 He likened them to her because of their weak resolve 33 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:11,120 Bottles break quickly 34 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,120 Angsha was chasing them 35 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:18,120 He recites from the qarid and rajaz something that contains Shabib 36 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,620 He was not sure that he would tempt them 37 00:02:20,620 --> 00:02:23,120 Or their hearts will fall 38 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,120 So he ordered him to stop doing that 39 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:30,830 A woman is as tender-hearted as a bottle 40 00:02:30,830 --> 00:02:33,830 The bitter word breaks it 41 00:02:33,830 --> 00:02:39,830 If a woman cannot tolerate a hurtful word because of the tenderness of her heart 42 00:02:39,830 --> 00:02:43,830 How can she tolerate someone hitting her body and face? 43 00:02:43,830 --> 00:02:45,830 He twists her arm 44 00:02:45,830 --> 00:02:49,050 As if in a wrestling ring 45 00:02:49,050 --> 00:02:53,050 And whoever wants to follow the example of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 46 00:02:53,050 --> 00:02:55,050 In his treatment of his wife 47 00:02:55,050 --> 00:02:58,240 Consider this hadith 48 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,240 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said 49 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,240 What the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, struck 50 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,240 Nothing in his hand 51 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,240 No woman or servant 52 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,240 Unless he strives for the sake of God 53 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:17,340 He never did anything to him and he took revenge on its owner 54 00:03:17,340 --> 00:03:21,340 Unless something of God’s prohibitions is violated 55 00:03:21,340 --> 00:03:24,340 So he avenges God Almighty 56 00:03:24,340 --> 00:03:26,500 Narrated by Muslim 57 00:03:26,500 --> 00:03:28,500 Consider the honorable brother-in-law 58 00:03:28,500 --> 00:03:32,599 What is in this biography of the morals of prophecy? 59 00:03:32,599 --> 00:03:35,599 He never hit with his hand 60 00:03:35,599 --> 00:03:37,659 He did not avenge himself 61 00:03:37,659 --> 00:03:41,819 This is the prophetic wisdom in dealing 62 00:03:41,819 --> 00:03:45,819 A man's haste in dealing with his wife by beating him 63 00:03:45,819 --> 00:03:49,819 Glory be to the lack of wisdom and reason 64 00:03:49,819 --> 00:03:51,819 Even if you think about it a little 65 00:03:51,819 --> 00:03:54,819 He would have found that there were solutions before multiplication 66 00:03:54,819 --> 00:03:58,819 He dealt with the matter in a better and more effective way 67 00:03:58,819 --> 00:04:03,819 But it is haste combined with anger and self-defense 68 00:04:03,819 --> 00:04:08,169 Given the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 69 00:04:08,169 --> 00:04:10,169 In his advice to his friends 70 00:04:10,169 --> 00:04:13,169 In the way they deal with their wives 71 00:04:13,169 --> 00:04:17,170 We find that it guides them to kindness and good relations 72 00:04:17,170 --> 00:04:19,170 Shows that multiplication 73 00:04:19,170 --> 00:04:23,170 Although it is permitted in certain cases with controls 74 00:04:23,170 --> 00:04:26,170 It is neither the first nor the best solution 75 00:04:26,170 --> 00:04:29,170 Which the rational man begins with 76 00:04:29,170 --> 00:04:33,269 Here, my dear husband, are some hadiths 77 00:04:33,269 --> 00:04:37,490 On the authority of Muawiyah Al-Qushayri, may God be pleased with him, he said: 78 00:04:37,490 --> 00:04:39,490 I said, O Messenger of God 79 00:04:39,490 --> 00:04:43,490 Our wives are what we take from them and what we leave behind 80 00:04:43,490 --> 00:04:47,490 He said: Bring your tillage if you grow up 81 00:04:47,490 --> 00:04:49,490 And feed her if she is fed 82 00:04:49,490 --> 00:04:52,490 Pussy her if she is clothed 83 00:04:52,490 --> 00:04:55,490 Do not make an ugly face or hit 84 00:04:55,490 --> 00:04:58,519 Narrated by Abu Dawood 85 00:04:58,519 --> 00:05:01,519 He forbade him from hitting and from speaking 86 00:05:01,519 --> 00:05:03,519 May God make your face ugly 87 00:05:03,519 --> 00:05:06,649 It is worth contemplating this prohibition 88 00:05:06,649 --> 00:05:09,649 The man approaches the woman 89 00:05:09,649 --> 00:05:12,649 After looking at her face and admiring it 90 00:05:12,649 --> 00:05:17,649 How can we find an ugly face that we choose by ourselves and desire? 91 00:05:17,649 --> 00:05:20,649 He spent money in order to marry him 92 00:05:20,649 --> 00:05:25,879 The prohibition of ugliness indicates the prohibition of insult and humiliation 93 00:05:25,879 --> 00:05:28,879 And that generous one 94 00:05:28,879 --> 00:05:31,879 It may be more severe than beating 95 00:05:31,879 --> 00:05:35,879 Because it penetrates the heart and its effects remain 96 00:05:35,879 --> 00:05:39,970 This is the perfection of his guidance, may God bless him and grant him peace 97 00:05:39,970 --> 00:05:41,970 In the house calendar 98 00:05:41,970 --> 00:05:44,970 On the basis of dignity and good relations 99 00:05:44,970 --> 00:05:48,389 No to insult and contempt 100 00:05:48,389 --> 00:05:52,389 In the long hadith of Laqit bin Sabra, he said: 101 00:05:52,389 --> 00:05:54,389 I said, O Messenger of God 102 00:05:54,389 --> 00:05:58,389 There is a woman and there is something on her tongue 103 00:05:58,389 --> 00:06:00,389 It means obscenity 104 00:06:00,389 --> 00:06:03,389 He then divorced her 105 00:06:03,389 --> 00:06:06,389 He said: I said, O Messenger of God 106 00:06:06,389 --> 00:06:09,389 She has a companion, and she has a son 107 00:06:09,389 --> 00:06:12,389 He said, "Give her a pass." 108 00:06:12,389 --> 00:06:14,389 He says preach to her 109 00:06:14,389 --> 00:06:17,389 If good is enough for her, she will do it 110 00:06:17,389 --> 00:06:21,389 And do not hit your weak one the way you hit your illiterate one 111 00:06:21,389 --> 00:06:24,639 Narrated by Abu Dawood 112 00:06:24,639 --> 00:06:26,639 Al-Khattabi, may God have mercy on him, said 113 00:06:26,639 --> 00:06:28,639 And say 114 00:06:28,639 --> 00:06:31,639 Do not hit your weak woman the way you hit your illiterate one 115 00:06:31,639 --> 00:06:34,639 The weak woman is the woman 116 00:06:34,639 --> 00:06:36,639 She was named Daeina 117 00:06:36,639 --> 00:06:38,639 Because they give birth with the husband 118 00:06:38,639 --> 00:06:40,639 And it is transmitted by his transmission 119 00:06:40,639 --> 00:06:43,639 There is nothing in this that prevents them from being beaten 120 00:06:43,639 --> 00:06:47,639 Or it is forbidden to husbands when they need it 121 00:06:47,639 --> 00:06:51,639 God Almighty has permitted this in His saying 122 00:06:51,639 --> 00:06:56,639 So admonish them, leave them in their beds, and beat them 123 00:06:56,639 --> 00:06:59,639 Rather, it is forbidden to excuse beating 124 00:06:59,639 --> 00:07:01,639 He also attacks the Mamluks 125 00:07:01,639 --> 00:07:04,639 In the customs of those who are permitted to be beaten 126 00:07:04,639 --> 00:07:07,639 He uses bad qualities in them 127 00:07:07,639 --> 00:07:10,639 He was represented by beating the Mamluks 128 00:07:10,639 --> 00:07:12,639 It is not permissible to beat them 129 00:07:12,639 --> 00:07:17,639 Rather, this was mentioned in the form of censure for their actions 130 00:07:17,639 --> 00:07:20,639 And he forbade him from imitating it 131 00:07:20,639 --> 00:07:26,480 On the authority of Iyas bin Abdullah bin Abi Dhubab, may God be pleased with him, he said 132 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:30,480 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 133 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:33,509 Do not hit God's servants 134 00:07:33,509 --> 00:07:38,509 Then Omar came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said 135 00:07:38,509 --> 00:07:41,509 The women raged against their husbands 136 00:07:41,509 --> 00:07:43,509 So he took the liberty of hitting them 137 00:07:43,509 --> 00:07:49,509 So many women went around the family of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 138 00:07:49,509 --> 00:07:51,509 They complain about their husbands 139 00:07:51,509 --> 00:07:54,509 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 140 00:07:54,509 --> 00:07:58,509 Many women visited the family of Muhammad 141 00:07:58,509 --> 00:08:00,509 They complain about their husbands 142 00:08:00,509 --> 00:08:03,509 These are not your choices 143 00:08:03,509 --> 00:08:05,509 Narrated by Abu Dawood 144 00:08:05,509 --> 00:08:08,569 Al-Khattabi, may God have mercy on him, said 145 00:08:08,569 --> 00:08:10,569 He said: They are afraid 146 00:08:10,569 --> 00:08:14,569 It means bad behavior and daring towards husbands 147 00:08:14,569 --> 00:08:16,569 Its meaning is this 148 00:08:16,569 --> 00:08:19,569 They were seduced by their husbands 149 00:08:19,569 --> 00:08:22,569 They underestimated their rights 150 00:08:22,569 --> 00:08:24,829 And in the hadith of jurisprudence 151 00:08:24,829 --> 00:08:28,829 Beating women to prevent marriage rights is permissible 152 00:08:28,829 --> 00:08:31,829 However, the beating was not severe 153 00:08:31,829 --> 00:08:35,889 It explains that it is necessary to be patient with their bad morals 154 00:08:35,889 --> 00:08:39,889 Avoiding what is best among them 155 00:08:39,889 --> 00:08:42,990 Al-Tibi, may God have mercy on him, said 156 00:08:42,990 --> 00:08:44,990 He denied them charity 157 00:08:44,990 --> 00:08:48,990 They were not patient and could not bear to hurt her 158 00:08:48,990 --> 00:08:53,080 Do you want my dear husband brother? 159 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:55,080 To be deprived of charity 160 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,080 Because of your lack of patience with a woman of your choice 161 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,080 I lived with her for years 162 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,080 She gave birth to sons and daughters 163 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:06,330 On the authority of Suleiman bin Omar bin Al-Ahwas 164 00:09:06,330 --> 00:09:11,330 He said: My father told me that he witnessed the Farewell Pilgrimage 165 00:09:11,330 --> 00:09:14,330 With the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 166 00:09:14,330 --> 00:09:17,330 He thanked and praised God 167 00:09:17,330 --> 00:09:19,330 He mentioned and bit 168 00:09:19,330 --> 00:09:21,330 He mentioned a story in the hadith 169 00:09:21,330 --> 00:09:26,330 He said, “Be careful with women.” 170 00:09:26,330 --> 00:09:29,330 They are your helpers 171 00:09:29,330 --> 00:09:33,330 You have nothing else from them 172 00:09:33,330 --> 00:09:37,330 Unless they commit a clear indecency 173 00:09:37,330 --> 00:09:40,330 If they do so, leave them alone in their beds 174 00:09:40,330 --> 00:09:44,330 And beat them not badly 175 00:09:44,330 --> 00:09:49,330 If they obey you, do not seek a way against them 176 00:09:49,330 --> 00:09:51,460 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 177 00:09:51,460 --> 00:09:54,460 Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said 178 00:09:54,460 --> 00:09:57,460 They are your helpers 179 00:09:57,460 --> 00:10:00,460 Plural of Aaniyah while she is a captive 180 00:10:00,460 --> 00:10:02,460 And the captive sufferer 181 00:10:02,460 --> 00:10:06,460 This is because she is imprisoned for her husband’s right 182 00:10:06,460 --> 00:10:11,610 A woman is like a captive to her husband 183 00:10:11,610 --> 00:10:14,610 You cannot leave without his command 184 00:10:14,610 --> 00:10:18,610 She cannot marry because she is under his obligation 185 00:10:18,610 --> 00:10:22,610 It is his private property that he does not share with anyone else 186 00:10:22,610 --> 00:10:26,610 The great prophetic commandment is: 187 00:10:26,610 --> 00:10:29,610 Beware of women 188 00:10:30,610 --> 00:10:32,610 Are you the honorable brother-in-law? 189 00:10:32,610 --> 00:10:35,610 One who treats his wife well 190 00:10:35,610 --> 00:10:38,610 I ask God that it be so 191 00:10:38,610 --> 00:10:40,610 I seek refuge in God that it does not happen 192 00:10:40,610 --> 00:10:43,610 Of whom she said the seventh 193 00:10:43,610 --> 00:10:45,610 Every alternative has a disease 194 00:10:45,610 --> 00:10:47,610 Shajak or Falak 195 00:10:47,610 --> 00:10:52,240 Or collect all yours 196 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:55,240 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 197 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:58,240 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds