1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,610 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai 2 00:00:05,610 --> 00:00:13,160 Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara' 3 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:23,539 Mijina idan na tuna shi sai na tuna makomarsa 4 00:00:23,539 --> 00:00:28,140 Bayan mace ta farko ta gama bayanin mijinta 5 00:00:28,140 --> 00:00:30,339 Juyin na biyu ne 6 00:00:30,339 --> 00:00:31,839 Sai ta ce 7 00:00:31,839 --> 00:00:34,539 Mijina, ba na raba labarinsa 8 00:00:34,539 --> 00:00:37,539 Ina tsoron kar in bar shi ya tafi 9 00:00:37,539 --> 00:00:41,829 Idan na tuna shi sai in tuna da ladarsa da ladarsa 10 00:00:41,829 --> 00:00:46,329 Kungiyar ta yi alkawarin ambaton duk sharuddan mijinta 11 00:00:46,329 --> 00:00:49,829 Amma ta rude tsakanin abubuwa biyu 12 00:00:49,829 --> 00:00:51,329 Na farko 13 00:00:51,329 --> 00:00:57,329 Ta yi alkawarin ba za ta boye wa mijinta komai ba 14 00:00:57,329 --> 00:00:58,829 Na biyu 15 00:00:58,829 --> 00:01:03,329 Ta tsani kiyayyar mijinta da zancensa 16 00:01:03,329 --> 00:01:05,359 Dalilin wannan rudani 17 00:01:05,859 --> 00:01:09,859 Tsoron abinda zai fad'a mishi ne ta fad'a mishi 18 00:01:09,859 --> 00:01:11,859 Abu biyu take tsoro 19 00:01:11,859 --> 00:01:13,359 Na farko 20 00:01:13,359 --> 00:01:15,359 Don yin magana game da shi na dogon lokaci 21 00:01:15,359 --> 00:01:19,420 Ku tuna da dukkan laifofinsa na bayyane da na ɓoye 22 00:01:19,420 --> 00:01:21,920 Al-Asbahani Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 23 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,920 Sai ta ce, "Ba na watsa labarinsa." 24 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,920 Wato ba na buga labarai game da shi 25 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,920 Ina tsoron kar in bar shi ya tafi 26 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:33,420 Wato ban bar komai nasa a baya ba 27 00:01:33,420 --> 00:01:38,049 Wahalhalu da mummuna lahani ne 28 00:01:38,049 --> 00:01:41,049 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 29 00:01:41,049 --> 00:01:44,049 Ta ce, "Ba na watsa labarinsa." 30 00:01:44,049 --> 00:01:46,049 Ina jin tsoro ba zan bar shi ba 31 00:01:46,049 --> 00:01:48,049 Wato a bar maganarsa 32 00:01:48,049 --> 00:01:51,549 Kuma ya koma ga labari 33 00:01:51,549 --> 00:01:54,549 Wato saboda tsayinsa da yawansa 34 00:01:54,549 --> 00:01:58,049 Idan na fara shi, ba zan iya gamawa ba 35 00:01:58,049 --> 00:02:04,489 Wannan yana nufin cewa rashin amfanin wannan mutum yana da yawa sosai 36 00:02:04,489 --> 00:02:06,989 Wasu sun fi wasu muni 37 00:02:06,989 --> 00:02:10,250 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 38 00:02:10,250 --> 00:02:15,250 Wato idan aka gaya min wani kuskurensa da gazawarsa 39 00:02:15,250 --> 00:02:19,250 Ya kai ga ambaton wani abu dabam har ma da muni 40 00:02:19,250 --> 00:02:25,250 Sahabbanta sun yi alkawarin ba za su boye musu ko daya daga cikin halayensa ba 41 00:02:25,250 --> 00:02:29,250 Ta tsani abinda ta kulla da su 42 00:02:29,250 --> 00:02:33,250 Ta je ta rufawa mijinta asiri domin suna da yawa 43 00:02:33,750 --> 00:02:36,750 Ba ka so ka ambaci wasu ba tare da wasu ba 44 00:02:36,750 --> 00:02:41,750 Idan kuma ta fadi wani abu sai ya sa a ambaci wani 45 00:02:41,750 --> 00:02:44,750 Ta fara ganin ciki 46 00:02:44,750 --> 00:02:50,550 Haka nan maganarta ta nuna zuciyarta cike da shi 47 00:02:50,550 --> 00:02:57,550 Ba ta yi magana da kowa ba a gaban wannan majalisa game da damuwarta da mijinta 48 00:02:57,550 --> 00:03:00,050 Wannan yana daya daga cikin kurakuran mata 49 00:03:00,050 --> 00:03:03,050 Suna ɗaukar damuwar su kaɗai 50 00:03:03,050 --> 00:03:06,050 Idan matsalar ta yi girma, gudu 51 00:03:06,050 --> 00:03:09,050 Ya zama da wahala a magance matsalar 52 00:03:09,050 --> 00:03:13,240 Nasiha ga masu wannan hali 53 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:17,240 Don komawa ga wanda ya ba ta shawarar magance matsalolinta 54 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,240 Waɗanda ka amince da su mutanen kirki ne masu adalci 55 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:24,240 Daga malamai, masu wa'azi, ko masu kawo gyara 56 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:29,240 Bai isa ta watsa mata damuwarta ba 57 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,240 Basu da wata shawara gareta 58 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:36,370 Maimakon haka, yana da haɗari wajen yada yanayin rayuwar aure tsakanin mata 59 00:03:36,370 --> 00:03:42,370 Wadanda ba a san su da iliminsu, adalci, ko iya magance matsaloli ba 60 00:03:42,370 --> 00:03:44,370 Domin yada wadannan al'amura garesu 61 00:03:44,370 --> 00:03:47,370 Yana iya haɗa matsalar 62 00:03:47,370 --> 00:03:50,370 Kuma zuciyarki taji dadin mijinki 63 00:03:50,370 --> 00:03:52,370 Domin tana iya wahala kamar ku 64 00:03:52,370 --> 00:03:55,370 Yana ƙara damuwa akan damuwar su 65 00:03:55,370 --> 00:03:58,370 Wataƙila kuna magana ne game da dukan maza 66 00:03:58,370 --> 00:04:00,370 Ta siffanta su da azzalumai 67 00:04:00,370 --> 00:04:03,370 Don haka ka ba da zuciyarka ga su duka 68 00:04:03,370 --> 00:04:07,659 Abu na biyu da wannan matar ke tsoro 69 00:04:07,659 --> 00:04:09,719 saki ne 70 00:04:09,719 --> 00:04:12,719 Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 71 00:04:12,719 --> 00:04:17,720 Ma’ana idan ta bayyana halin da mijinta yake ciki, sai ta fadi aibunsa 72 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,720 Kuma idan kun yi haka 73 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,720 Tana tsoron barinsa 74 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:26,720 Ta tsani ya rabu da alakar dake tsakaninsu 75 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,970 Tsoron saki 76 00:04:29,970 --> 00:04:31,970 Yana da ma'anoni da dama 77 00:04:31,970 --> 00:04:35,970 Abu mafi mahimmanci shine tana son shi kuma ta ƙi barin shi 78 00:04:35,970 --> 00:04:38,970 Wannan shi ne abin da Al-Qurtubi ya ce 79 00:04:38,970 --> 00:04:41,970 Alakar da ke tsakaninsu ita ce alakar soyayya 80 00:04:41,970 --> 00:04:44,970 Tare da duk halayen da ake zargi 81 00:04:44,970 --> 00:04:46,970 Sai dai tana sonsa 82 00:04:46,970 --> 00:04:52,100 Wasu ƙila ba za su iya fahimtar wannan ma'auni mai wahala ba 83 00:04:52,100 --> 00:04:55,100 Soyayya da munanan halaye 84 00:04:55,100 --> 00:04:58,100 Domin ba mu fahimci mata da yanayinsu ba 85 00:04:58,100 --> 00:05:00,100 Da kuma yadda take tunani 86 00:05:00,100 --> 00:05:06,290 Wasu mazan ba za su gane tsananin son da matan su ke yi musu ba 87 00:05:06,290 --> 00:05:08,290 Babban abin da aka makala gare su 88 00:05:08,290 --> 00:05:12,290 Ko dai saboda sun shagaltu da rayuwarsu 89 00:05:12,290 --> 00:05:15,290 Ko kuma a rayuwa ta zahiri da samun abin rayuwa 90 00:05:15,290 --> 00:05:19,290 Ko ta hanyar rashin tunani game da batun kwata-kwata 91 00:05:19,290 --> 00:05:22,540 Na asali, maza masu daraja 92 00:05:22,540 --> 00:05:26,540 Cewa mata ba sa son saki ko son saki 93 00:05:26,540 --> 00:05:29,540 Ko da kun tambaye shi a lokacin matsaloli 94 00:05:29,540 --> 00:05:33,540 Yanayin fushi yana sa komai ya yiwu 95 00:05:33,540 --> 00:05:37,540 Domin mai fushi bai san me zai ce ba 96 00:05:37,540 --> 00:05:40,540 Wannan ba yana nufin ya kai mutum ba 97 00:05:40,540 --> 00:05:42,540 Domin amfanuwa da soyayyar mace gareka 98 00:05:42,540 --> 00:05:48,540 Don haka ku ci gaba da cutar da ita da halayen da ba ta so a cikin ku 99 00:05:48,540 --> 00:05:50,540 A'a, mafi hikimar mutane 100 00:05:50,540 --> 00:05:54,540 Wanda ya saka hannun jari a kan gaskiyar na kusa da shi wajen sukar sa 101 00:05:54,540 --> 00:05:57,800 Ta hanyar canza munanan halayensa 102 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:02,800 Matar tana tsoron abin da mijinta zai ce mata 103 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:04,800 Wani fa'ida mai mahimmanci 104 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:09,800 Yana tunanin sakamakon abubuwa kafin aiwatar da su 105 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:15,829 Wannan yana nuna cewa wannan mace ta biyu tana da hankali sosai 106 00:06:15,829 --> 00:06:18,829 Tana tunanin sakamakon abubuwa 107 00:06:18,829 --> 00:06:22,829 Kuka mai nisa daga gaugawar zargi 108 00:06:22,829 --> 00:06:25,829 Wanda zai iya lalata mata rayuwa a gaba 109 00:06:25,829 --> 00:06:27,829 Zuciyarta cike da nadama 110 00:06:27,829 --> 00:06:30,829 Tayi nadama a baya 111 00:06:30,829 --> 00:06:36,120 Haka kuma halin wannan mata yana nuna haquri da mijinta 112 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,120 Ta kyautata masa 113 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:43,120 Ba zato ba tsammani mutum ya kasance yana da irin wannan munanan ɗabi'u 114 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,120 Ya hadu da wata mace mai halinsa 115 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,120 Sannan baya sake ta 116 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,220 Kamar yadda kalaman wannan mata suka nuna 117 00:06:50,220 --> 00:06:54,220 Dole ne ta kame harshenta yayin magana game da mijinta 118 00:06:54,220 --> 00:06:59,250 Kame harshe yana daga cikin manya-manyan dabi'u masu tseratar da mutum daga wuta 119 00:06:59,250 --> 00:07:03,250 Yana nuna babban matakin dalili da tunani 120 00:07:03,250 --> 00:07:07,250 Kafin ba da jawabi da magana 121 00:07:07,250 --> 00:07:12,250 Wanda ke da daidaito da kamun kai kawai za su iya tunanin hakan 122 00:07:12,250 --> 00:07:16,250 Musamman idan ta yi 123 00:07:16,250 --> 00:07:19,310 Wannan mace ce mai hakuri, mai hankali 124 00:07:19,310 --> 00:07:22,310 Ka yi tunanin sakamakon abubuwa 125 00:07:22,310 --> 00:07:25,310 Tana da iya sarrafa harshenta 126 00:07:25,310 --> 00:07:28,310 Mai kiyaye sirrin mijinta 127 00:07:28,310 --> 00:07:30,310 Kuma aibunsa a boye yake 128 00:07:30,310 --> 00:07:34,379 Amma wani miji da ya boye ya same ta 129 00:07:34,379 --> 00:07:36,379 Kyakkyawan mu'amala da mutane 130 00:07:36,379 --> 00:07:39,379 Ba a kula da shi sosai a cikin gidan 131 00:07:39,379 --> 00:07:42,379 Lalacewarsa suna da yawa 132 00:07:42,379 --> 00:07:45,379 Cutarwarsa tana ga iyalansa ne kawai 133 00:07:46,730 --> 00:07:49,730 Alkali Ayyab, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 134 00:07:49,730 --> 00:07:51,730 Kuma ina gani, kuma Allah ne mafi sani 135 00:07:51,730 --> 00:07:54,730 Da alama an boye 136 00:07:54,730 --> 00:07:56,730 Amsa Albat 137 00:07:56,730 --> 00:07:58,730 Bata son yaga murfinsa 138 00:07:58,730 --> 00:08:00,730 Idan kuma tayi magana 139 00:08:00,730 --> 00:08:03,730 Abin da sahabbanta suka yi ittifaqi a kai 140 00:08:03,730 --> 00:08:06,730 Ya bayyana munin sa na boye 141 00:08:06,730 --> 00:08:08,730 Ta kasance cikin mummunan hali 142 00:08:08,730 --> 00:08:11,730 Babban damuwarta gareshi shine abinda bai bayyana a baya ba 143 00:08:11,730 --> 00:08:15,730 Amma ko ta daga hannu ba ta ayyana shi ba 144 00:08:15,730 --> 00:08:17,730 Kun yi bayani da kyau sosai 145 00:08:17,730 --> 00:08:19,730 An watsa shi 146 00:08:19,730 --> 00:08:21,730 Idan kuma ta ce bana watsawa 147 00:08:21,730 --> 00:08:27,300 Dole ne tushen ya fitar da numfashi 148 00:08:27,300 --> 00:08:30,300 Wa ya albarkaci mace mai hankali? 149 00:08:30,300 --> 00:08:35,299 Bai dace ya ci gaba da kuskurensa wajen mu'amala da ita ba 150 00:08:35,299 --> 00:08:39,299 Ni'ima ce daga Allah Ta'ala a gare shi 151 00:08:39,299 --> 00:08:41,299 Kuna buƙatar godiya 152 00:08:41,299 --> 00:08:44,299 Yin godiya ga alheri yana farawa da canza rai 153 00:08:44,299 --> 00:08:46,299 Da kuma sadaukar da kai ga gaskiya 154 00:08:46,299 --> 00:08:49,580 Kuma ku samar da kyawawan halaye 155 00:08:49,580 --> 00:08:52,580 Ina shawartar maza da su yi aiki da wannan hadisin 156 00:08:52,580 --> 00:08:56,580 Yin koyi da Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 157 00:08:56,580 --> 00:09:00,580 Ya bi misalinsa a sha’aninsa da iyalinsa 158 00:09:00,580 --> 00:09:03,679 An kar~o daga Aisha – Allah Ya yarda da ita ta ce 159 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:07,679 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce 160 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,679 Mafificinku shine mafi alheri ga iyalansa 161 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,679 Ni ne mafi alherin ku ga iyalina 162 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:15,679 Tirmizi ne ya ruwaito shi 163 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:19,000 Ibn Battar Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 164 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:24,000 Wannan yana nuna a fili cewa abin da yake mafi alheri ga mutum kuma mai kyau a gare shi 165 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:28,000 Ka yi hakuri da cutarwar iyalansa, ka rufe musu ido 166 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:33,000 Da kuma gafarar cutarwar da yake fama da su a kansa 167 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:36,000 Ba tare da abin da ke cikin zatin Allah ba 168 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:40,000 Wannan kuwa saboda abin da Umar Allah Ya yarda da shi ya ambata 169 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:43,000 An ruwaito daga Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 170 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:51,000 Na haquri da sharrin da ya same shi daga Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 171 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:54,000 Kuma ya ba shi, ya bar masa su 172 00:09:54,000 --> 00:10:00,159 Kuma ba a maganar cewa Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya azabtar da su a kan haka 173 00:10:00,159 --> 00:10:08,190 A’a, ya ce Umar shi ne ya yi musu nasiha a kan haka, maimakon Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi. 174 00:10:08,190 --> 00:10:14,190 Kuma kamar yadda Umar ya ambata, halittar Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 175 00:10:14,190 --> 00:10:16,190 Labari ya ci gaba a kansa 176 00:10:16,190 --> 00:10:21,190 Shin akwai wani kamarsa wanda ya yi makokin al'ummarsa, tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi? 177 00:10:21,190 --> 00:10:24,509 Ibn Usaimin Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 178 00:10:24,509 --> 00:10:26,509 Wannan shine mafi kyawun mutane 179 00:10:26,509 --> 00:10:28,509 Shi ne mafi alheri ga iyalinsa 180 00:10:28,509 --> 00:10:30,509 Idan akwai alheri a cikin ku 181 00:10:30,509 --> 00:10:33,509 Don haka kiyaye shi tare da mutanen da ke kusa da ku 182 00:10:33,509 --> 00:10:37,509 Bari shi ne farkon wanda zai amfana da wannan alheri 183 00:10:37,509 --> 00:10:40,509 Wannan shi ne akasin abin da wasu suke yi a yau 184 00:10:40,509 --> 00:10:43,509 Sai ka ga yana da mugun hali ga iyalinsa 185 00:10:43,509 --> 00:10:45,509 Kyakkyawan ɗabi'a tare da wasu 186 00:10:45,509 --> 00:10:48,509 Wannan kuskure ne babba 187 00:10:48,509 --> 00:10:51,509 Iyalin ku sun fi cancanta da kyawawan halaye 188 00:10:51,509 --> 00:10:53,539 Ka kasance da kyawawan halaye da su 189 00:10:53,539 --> 00:10:57,539 Domin su ne suke tare da ku dare da rana 190 00:10:57,539 --> 00:10:59,539 A asirce da bayyane 191 00:10:59,539 --> 00:11:01,539 Idan wani abu ya same ku 192 00:11:01,539 --> 00:11:03,539 Sun ji rauni tare da ku 193 00:11:03,539 --> 00:11:05,539 Idan ka yarda, za su yi tafiya tare da kai 194 00:11:05,539 --> 00:11:08,610 Idan kun yi baƙin ciki, za su yi baƙin ciki tare da ku 195 00:11:08,610 --> 00:11:13,610 Maganin ku da su ya kamata ya fi yadda kuke yi da baƙi 196 00:11:13,610 --> 00:11:19,429 Mafi kyawun mutane sune mafi kyau ga iyalansu 197 00:11:19,429 --> 00:11:22,429 Yaya kai mai girma da iyalinka? 198 00:11:22,429 --> 00:11:26,429 Wane iri kake tare da matarka? 199 00:11:26,429 --> 00:11:31,289 Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah 200 00:11:31,289 --> 00:11:35,289 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai