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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

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Men's types

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In the hadith of Umm Zara’

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Did Zara's mother ask for a divorce from her husband?

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Umm Zar’a’s summary of her divorce story

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It made some people search for the real reason for divorce

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Why was he not convinced by contemplating the hadith?

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The reason for the divorce is only what Umm Zaraa briefly said

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He married her and divorced her for several reasons

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Among them is that the Arabs were known for polygamy

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It is not surprising that Abu Zara married more than his wife

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Among them is that a man does not lack money or the potential for marriage

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What makes him resort to divorce directly?

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Among them is that we know that it is the nature of women

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To hide some facts when she wants to defend herself

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By changing some facts or at least concealing them

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We saw examples of this in a previous episode

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What is the real reason for her divorce?

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Firstly, the mother of Zara is no different from the women of the worlds

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She hates her husband marrying her

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This hatred is innate in women

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The woman loves to be alone with her husband

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The fire of jealousy boils in her heart

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When she knew that he married her

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This natural, innate hatred

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It differs from hatred of God’s rule in that polygamy is permissible

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She does not sin

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Unlike those who hate God's rule

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This may be said

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Until her work is thwarted and she enters the fire

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God Almighty said

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That is because they hated what God revealed

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So he thwarted their actions

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Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said

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That is, they do not want him or love him

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So he thwarted their actions

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It is no wonder that you hate Umm Zara

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That her husband should marry her

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Secondly, what is expected of women

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If her husband marries her

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To have a reaction to his marriage

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This reaction

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It varies from one woman to another

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According to the woman's faith and attachment

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And the intensity of her love for her husband

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This reaction

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It has several pictures

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Including complete rejection of the topic

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This might drag her down

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Either to claim

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Divorce this wife

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Or by divorcing her

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Including extreme sadness

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The husband does not accept it

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He described it as treason

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Including sadness and pain

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With satisfaction with God’s will and destiny

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Then try to calm yourself down

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To the satisfaction of God

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And other behaviour

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The first picture is contrary to Sharia law

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He forbids it

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On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him

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On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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He said it is not permissible for a woman

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She asks about her sister's divorce

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To throw up her newspaper

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For she has what is destined for her

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Narrated by Al-Bukhari

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Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said

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It is forbidden for women

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And wrapping it up

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Doesn't she ask about her sister's divorce?

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And be satisfied with what God has divided for her

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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said

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Saying it is not permissible

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It is apparent that this is prohibited

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It is not permissible for her

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To make a condition of her husband

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To divorce his second wife

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If he wants you to return to him

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Or stay with him

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The prohibition was also stated

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About filing for divorce

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Without a legitimate reason

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On the authority of Thawban, may God be pleased with him

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He said

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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said

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Any woman

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She asked her husband for a divorce

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Nothing wrong with that

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It is forbidden for her

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The smell of heaven

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Narrated by Abu Dawood

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Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said

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And in it that

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The news contained is intimidating

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Women requesting divorce

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Her husband carried

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On if not

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He accepted that for a hadith

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Thouban

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A man's marriage to his wife

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She is not permitted to ask for a divorce

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And it doesn't count

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Permissible legal reasons

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For divorce

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Ibn Uthaymeen, may God have mercy on him, said

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Even if the first one revolted against him

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He does not have to divorce her

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Because the original

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That the first wife does not have

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He prevented him from marrying

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Don't force him to do that

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She has no right either

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To ask for divorce if he is not divorced

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The new wife

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Abdul Aziz Al-Rajhi said

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And it is not right

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A woman may ask for a divorce from

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Her husband if he marries her

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As for the second picture

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It is not acceptable

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The husband described him as a traitor

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This is a different description

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True, the man

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He didn't even commit a crime

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It is said that he betrayed the trust

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But I do something

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God allowed it for him

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But these phrases

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We took it from the secular West

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And we promoted it

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In films and series

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Until I drank it some

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Sick hearts

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What reaction do we expect?

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From the mother planted and led to

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Her divorce

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As for the second and third pictures

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For reaction

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We don't expect it

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Even there is a divorce

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The first picture remains

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For reaction

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Did you ask for it or did you plant it?

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From my father, he wanted to divorce her

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He divorced her after her insistence

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He came in

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Dictionary of Sheikh Ibn al-Arabi

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And the dictionary of Sheikh bin Asakir

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A narration of the hadith

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Brief in it

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The reason for her divorce

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On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her

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She said: The Messenger of God said

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May God bless him and grant him peace

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Would you like me to be?

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You are like a father sowing a mother

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Transplant she said

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He was a man with a nickname

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Abu Zara and his wife

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Or he planted it and it improved

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To her and she says

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Be good to me, Abu

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Plant and clothe Abu

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He planted and fed me Abu

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He planted and my father honored me

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Planting and such

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Of speech is a movie

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He said it or planted

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Until he divorced her

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So Umm Zar’ married

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A man, so he honored her too

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And she was saying

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He honored me and gave me

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And similar words

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She says at the end of that

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Even if he collects that

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Everything is filled

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The smallest bowl is for my father

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Plant this novel

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Even if it has weakness

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In its chain of transmission

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He can enjoy it

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In finding out the reason for my father's divorce

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Plant her

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He urged her to divorce him

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And this is what

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The soul tends toward it

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And God knows best

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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing

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Thank God

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Lord of the worlds