1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:08,240 Men's types 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:16,410 In the hadith of Umm Zara’ 4 00:00:16,410 --> 00:00:20,410 Did Zara's mother ask for a divorce from her husband? 5 00:00:20,410 --> 00:00:26,649 Umm Zar’a’s summary of her divorce story 6 00:00:26,649 --> 00:00:30,649 It made some people search for the real reason for divorce 7 00:00:30,649 --> 00:00:33,780 Why was he not convinced by contemplating the hadith? 8 00:00:33,780 --> 00:00:38,780 The reason for the divorce is only what Umm Zaraa briefly said 9 00:00:38,780 --> 00:00:43,780 He married her and divorced her for several reasons 10 00:00:43,780 --> 00:00:47,780 Among them is that the Arabs were known for polygamy 11 00:00:47,780 --> 00:00:52,780 It is not surprising that Abu Zara married more than his wife 12 00:00:52,780 --> 00:00:58,810 Among them is that a man does not lack money or the potential for marriage 13 00:00:58,810 --> 00:01:02,810 What makes him resort to divorce directly? 14 00:01:02,810 --> 00:01:07,900 Among them is that we know that it is the nature of women 15 00:01:07,900 --> 00:01:12,900 To hide some facts when she wants to defend herself 16 00:01:12,900 --> 00:01:16,900 By changing some facts or at least concealing them 17 00:01:16,900 --> 00:01:21,900 We saw examples of this in a previous episode 18 00:01:21,900 --> 00:01:25,030 What is the real reason for her divorce? 19 00:01:25,030 --> 00:01:30,129 Firstly, the mother of Zara is no different from the women of the worlds 20 00:01:30,129 --> 00:01:34,129 She hates her husband marrying her 21 00:01:34,129 --> 00:01:37,129 This hatred is innate in women 22 00:01:37,129 --> 00:01:40,129 The woman loves to be alone with her husband 23 00:01:40,129 --> 00:01:43,129 The fire of jealousy boils in her heart 24 00:01:43,129 --> 00:01:46,129 When she knew that he married her 25 00:01:46,129 --> 00:01:49,319 This natural, innate hatred 26 00:01:49,319 --> 00:01:54,319 It differs from hatred of God’s rule in that polygamy is permissible 27 00:01:54,319 --> 00:01:56,319 She does not sin 28 00:01:56,319 --> 00:01:59,319 Unlike those who hate God's rule 29 00:01:59,319 --> 00:02:02,319 This may be said 30 00:02:02,319 --> 00:02:05,319 Until her work is thwarted and she enters the fire 31 00:02:05,319 --> 00:02:07,319 God Almighty said 32 00:02:07,319 --> 00:02:11,319 That is because they hated what God revealed 33 00:02:11,319 --> 00:02:13,319 So he thwarted their actions 34 00:02:13,319 --> 00:02:16,319 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 35 00:02:16,319 --> 00:02:19,319 That is, they do not want him or love him 36 00:02:19,319 --> 00:02:21,319 So he thwarted their actions 37 00:02:21,319 --> 00:02:25,150 It is no wonder that you hate Umm Zara 38 00:02:25,150 --> 00:02:28,150 That her husband should marry her 39 00:02:28,150 --> 00:02:31,280 Secondly, what is expected of women 40 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:34,280 If her husband marries her 41 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,280 To have a reaction to his marriage 42 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:39,280 This reaction 43 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,280 It varies from one woman to another 44 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,280 According to the woman's faith and attachment 45 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,280 And the intensity of her love for her husband 46 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:49,469 This reaction 47 00:02:49,469 --> 00:02:51,469 It has several pictures 48 00:02:51,469 --> 00:02:54,469 Including complete rejection of the topic 49 00:02:54,469 --> 00:02:56,469 This might drag her down 50 00:02:56,469 --> 00:02:58,469 Either to claim 51 00:02:58,469 --> 00:03:00,469 Divorce this wife 52 00:03:00,469 --> 00:03:02,469 Or by divorcing her 53 00:03:02,469 --> 00:03:05,469 Including extreme sadness 54 00:03:05,469 --> 00:03:07,469 The husband does not accept it 55 00:03:07,469 --> 00:03:09,469 He described it as treason 56 00:03:09,469 --> 00:03:12,539 Including sadness and pain 57 00:03:12,539 --> 00:03:15,539 With satisfaction with God’s will and destiny 58 00:03:15,539 --> 00:03:17,539 Then try to calm yourself down 59 00:03:17,539 --> 00:03:19,539 To the satisfaction of God 60 00:03:19,539 --> 00:03:22,539 And other behaviour 61 00:03:22,539 --> 00:03:25,539 The first picture is contrary to Sharia law 62 00:03:25,539 --> 00:03:27,539 He forbids it 63 00:03:27,539 --> 00:03:29,729 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him 64 00:03:29,729 --> 00:03:32,729 On the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 65 00:03:32,729 --> 00:03:35,729 He said it is not permissible for a woman 66 00:03:35,729 --> 00:03:37,729 She asks about her sister's divorce 67 00:03:37,729 --> 00:03:39,729 To throw up her newspaper 68 00:03:39,729 --> 00:03:42,729 For she has what is destined for her 69 00:03:42,729 --> 00:03:44,729 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 70 00:03:44,729 --> 00:03:47,819 Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said 71 00:03:47,819 --> 00:03:49,819 It is forbidden for women 72 00:03:49,819 --> 00:03:51,819 And wrapping it up 73 00:03:51,819 --> 00:03:53,819 Doesn't she ask about her sister's divorce? 74 00:03:53,819 --> 00:03:56,819 And be satisfied with what God has divided for her 75 00:03:56,819 --> 00:03:59,949 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 76 00:03:59,949 --> 00:04:01,949 Saying it is not permissible 77 00:04:01,949 --> 00:04:03,949 It is apparent that this is prohibited 78 00:04:03,949 --> 00:04:07,550 It is not permissible for her 79 00:04:07,550 --> 00:04:09,550 To make a condition of her husband 80 00:04:09,550 --> 00:04:11,550 To divorce his second wife 81 00:04:11,550 --> 00:04:13,550 If he wants you to return to him 82 00:04:13,550 --> 00:04:15,550 Or stay with him 83 00:04:15,550 --> 00:04:17,620 The prohibition was also stated 84 00:04:17,620 --> 00:04:19,620 About filing for divorce 85 00:04:19,620 --> 00:04:21,740 Without a legitimate reason 86 00:04:21,740 --> 00:04:23,740 On the authority of Thawban, may God be pleased with him 87 00:04:23,740 --> 00:04:25,740 He said 88 00:04:25,740 --> 00:04:27,740 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 89 00:04:27,740 --> 00:04:29,740 Any woman 90 00:04:29,740 --> 00:04:31,740 She asked her husband for a divorce 91 00:04:31,740 --> 00:04:33,740 Nothing wrong with that 92 00:04:33,740 --> 00:04:35,740 It is forbidden for her 93 00:04:35,740 --> 00:04:37,899 The smell of heaven 94 00:04:37,899 --> 00:04:40,129 Narrated by Abu Dawood 95 00:04:40,129 --> 00:04:42,129 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 96 00:04:42,129 --> 00:04:44,129 And in it that 97 00:04:44,129 --> 00:04:46,129 The news contained is intimidating 98 00:04:46,129 --> 00:04:48,129 Women requesting divorce 99 00:04:48,129 --> 00:04:50,129 Her husband carried 100 00:04:50,129 --> 00:04:52,129 On if not 101 00:04:52,129 --> 00:04:54,129 He accepted that for a hadith 102 00:04:54,129 --> 00:04:57,629 Thouban 103 00:04:57,629 --> 00:04:59,629 A man's marriage to his wife 104 00:04:59,629 --> 00:05:01,629 She is not permitted to ask for a divorce 105 00:05:01,629 --> 00:05:03,629 And it doesn't count 106 00:05:03,629 --> 00:05:05,629 Permissible legal reasons 107 00:05:05,629 --> 00:05:07,660 For divorce 108 00:05:07,660 --> 00:05:09,660 Ibn Uthaymeen, may God have mercy on him, said 109 00:05:09,660 --> 00:05:11,660 Even if the first one revolted against him 110 00:05:11,660 --> 00:05:13,660 He does not have to divorce her 111 00:05:13,660 --> 00:05:15,660 Because the original 112 00:05:15,660 --> 00:05:17,660 That the first wife does not have 113 00:05:17,660 --> 00:05:19,660 He prevented him from marrying 114 00:05:19,660 --> 00:05:21,660 Don't force him to do that 115 00:05:21,660 --> 00:05:23,660 She has no right either 116 00:05:23,660 --> 00:05:25,660 To ask for divorce if he is not divorced 117 00:05:25,660 --> 00:05:27,980 The new wife 118 00:05:27,980 --> 00:05:29,980 Abdul Aziz Al-Rajhi said 119 00:05:29,980 --> 00:05:31,980 And it is not right 120 00:05:31,980 --> 00:05:33,980 A woman may ask for a divorce from 121 00:05:33,980 --> 00:05:35,980 Her husband if he marries her 122 00:05:35,980 --> 00:05:39,550 As for the second picture 123 00:05:39,550 --> 00:05:41,550 It is not acceptable 124 00:05:41,550 --> 00:05:43,550 The husband described him as a traitor 125 00:05:43,550 --> 00:05:45,550 This is a different description 126 00:05:45,550 --> 00:05:47,550 True, the man 127 00:05:47,550 --> 00:05:49,550 He didn't even commit a crime 128 00:05:49,550 --> 00:05:51,550 It is said that he betrayed the trust 129 00:05:51,550 --> 00:05:53,550 But I do something 130 00:05:53,550 --> 00:05:55,579 God allowed it for him 131 00:05:55,579 --> 00:05:57,579 But these phrases 132 00:05:57,579 --> 00:05:59,579 We took it from the secular West 133 00:05:59,579 --> 00:06:01,579 And we promoted it 134 00:06:01,579 --> 00:06:03,579 In films and series 135 00:06:03,579 --> 00:06:05,579 Until I drank it some 136 00:06:05,579 --> 00:06:08,029 Sick hearts 137 00:06:08,029 --> 00:06:10,029 What reaction do we expect? 138 00:06:10,029 --> 00:06:12,029 From the mother planted and led to 139 00:06:12,029 --> 00:06:14,220 Her divorce 140 00:06:14,220 --> 00:06:16,220 As for the second and third pictures 141 00:06:16,220 --> 00:06:18,220 For reaction 142 00:06:18,220 --> 00:06:20,220 We don't expect it 143 00:06:20,220 --> 00:06:22,379 Even there is a divorce 144 00:06:22,379 --> 00:06:24,379 The first picture remains 145 00:06:24,379 --> 00:06:26,379 For reaction 146 00:06:26,379 --> 00:06:28,379 Did you ask for it or did you plant it? 147 00:06:28,379 --> 00:06:30,379 From my father, he wanted to divorce her 148 00:06:30,379 --> 00:06:32,379 He divorced her after her insistence 149 00:06:32,379 --> 00:06:34,509 He came in 150 00:06:34,509 --> 00:06:36,509 Dictionary of Sheikh Ibn al-Arabi 151 00:06:36,509 --> 00:06:38,509 And the dictionary of Sheikh bin Asakir 152 00:06:38,509 --> 00:06:40,509 A narration of the hadith 153 00:06:40,509 --> 00:06:42,509 Brief in it 154 00:06:42,509 --> 00:06:44,639 The reason for her divorce 155 00:06:44,639 --> 00:06:46,639 On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 156 00:06:46,639 --> 00:06:48,639 She said: The Messenger of God said 157 00:06:48,639 --> 00:06:50,639 May God bless him and grant him peace 158 00:06:50,639 --> 00:06:52,639 Would you like me to be? 159 00:06:52,639 --> 00:06:54,639 You are like a father sowing a mother 160 00:06:54,639 --> 00:06:56,639 Transplant she said 161 00:06:56,639 --> 00:06:58,639 He was a man with a nickname 162 00:06:58,639 --> 00:07:00,639 Abu Zara and his wife 163 00:07:00,639 --> 00:07:02,639 Or he planted it and it improved 164 00:07:02,639 --> 00:07:04,639 To her and she says 165 00:07:04,639 --> 00:07:06,639 Be good to me, Abu 166 00:07:06,639 --> 00:07:08,639 Plant and clothe Abu 167 00:07:08,639 --> 00:07:10,639 He planted and fed me Abu 168 00:07:10,639 --> 00:07:12,639 He planted and my father honored me 169 00:07:12,639 --> 00:07:14,639 Planting and such 170 00:07:14,639 --> 00:07:16,639 Of speech is a movie 171 00:07:16,639 --> 00:07:18,639 He said it or planted 172 00:07:18,639 --> 00:07:20,639 Until he divorced her 173 00:07:20,639 --> 00:07:22,639 So Umm Zar’ married 174 00:07:22,639 --> 00:07:24,639 A man, so he honored her too 175 00:07:24,639 --> 00:07:26,639 And she was saying 176 00:07:26,639 --> 00:07:28,639 He honored me and gave me 177 00:07:28,639 --> 00:07:30,639 And similar words 178 00:07:30,639 --> 00:07:32,639 She says at the end of that 179 00:07:32,639 --> 00:07:34,639 Even if he collects that 180 00:07:34,639 --> 00:07:36,639 Everything is filled 181 00:07:36,639 --> 00:07:38,639 The smallest bowl is for my father 182 00:07:38,639 --> 00:07:41,019 Plant this novel 183 00:07:41,019 --> 00:07:43,019 Even if it has weakness 184 00:07:43,019 --> 00:07:45,019 In its chain of transmission 185 00:07:45,019 --> 00:07:47,019 He can enjoy it 186 00:07:47,019 --> 00:07:49,019 In finding out the reason for my father's divorce 187 00:07:49,019 --> 00:07:51,019 Plant her 188 00:07:51,019 --> 00:07:53,019 He urged her to divorce him 189 00:07:53,019 --> 00:07:55,019 And this is what 190 00:07:55,019 --> 00:07:57,019 The soul tends toward it 191 00:07:57,019 --> 00:08:00,500 And God knows best 192 00:08:00,500 --> 00:08:02,500 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 193 00:08:02,500 --> 00:08:04,500 Thank God 194 00:08:04,500 --> 00:08:06,500 Lord of the worlds