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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’

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Malik's husband and Malik

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The tenth woman heard others praise their husbands for their generosity and generosity

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Especially the ninth woman

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She wanted to be proud of her husband's generosity

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You elevate and glorify him

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She said proudly

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My husband is your owner and what is yours

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What's better than that?

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He has many blessed camels

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Few theatres

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And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar

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I am sure that they are your threat

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Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said

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And say ten o'clock

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My husband is your owner and what is yours

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This is veneration for her husband

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It is as God Almighty says

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And the companions of the right are what are the companions of the right

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And he said

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Attach it

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What's next?

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And say it

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What's better than that?

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That is, it is better than I can describe it

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Because of the fame of his virtue and abundance of goodness

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Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said

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It has the meaning of glorification and exaggeration

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And its truth

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So what is yours and what is it?

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That is, anything is

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How great, great, and honorable He is

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Malik's saying is better than that

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Increase in exaltation

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And an explanation of some vagueness

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And it is better than what I am referring to

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Of praise and kind remembrance

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Or more than I think about it

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I will be happy and proud

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When you meditate, honorable man

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This is a compliment from a woman

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She realizes that she loves him very much

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And proud of it among women

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She glorifies him and praises him

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You may be wondering

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What made her love him?

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This great love

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Although she is praising him here

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She didn't mention anything

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It concerns his relationship with her

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Yes, that's flattering

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He hides his good behavior behind him

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From her husband to her

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This deal is very large

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She even hid it from them

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She simply praised him

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In his relationship with people

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To realize my brother, the honorable man

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The depth of this woman's intelligence

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Who made a covenant with the women with her

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They should not conceal anything from their husbands

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So I mentioned one aspect to them

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In an exaggeratedly flattering way

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To distract them from mentioning details

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Which you don't want to show

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From his relationship with her

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I turned their attention

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To one side of his life

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It is hospitality

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And I explained it

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And she was so creative

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This is for you to learn, my dear brother-in-law

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That women have the power

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To change the truth

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Or ignore it

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In a way he doesn't have it

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The cleverness of men

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Without falling into a lie

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And if you want to realize this meaning

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Consider this verse with me

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And the story I will tell next

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As for the verse

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It is in the story of Joseph, peace be upon him

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With my dear woman

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God Almighty said

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And stay ahead of the door

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I took his shirt from behind

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And a thousand, sir, at the door

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She said: What is the recompense for those who wish harm upon your family?

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Except that he will be imprisoned or painfully tormented

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She did not explicitly accuse Joseph, peace be upon him

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But she misled her husband

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That Joseph, peace be upon him

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He wanted it bad

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But God failed her and exposed her

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So her master realized

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She manipulates words

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To change the truth

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God Almighty said

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When he saw that his shirt was torn from his back

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He said it was your plot

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Your plot is great

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And do not think, dear husband

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That women manipulate words

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With men only

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Even with women

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And consider the words of God Almighty

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In the exact same way as the story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz

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Women in the city said

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The dear woman is haunted

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Her boy about himself

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She was passionate about love

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We see it in clear error

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When I heard about their deception

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sent to them

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The question here

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Does deception hear?

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You only hear the sayings and the news

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But God called their words deception

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Because they wanted something other than what he said

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They wanted to look at this

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Who had her passion for love

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When she heard their article

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I realized they were deceiving her

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As for the story

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It is an incident that happened before the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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The woman spoke

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True words about her husband

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In her complaint against him

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On the authority of Abu Saeed, may God be pleased with him, he said

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A woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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And we are with him

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And she said

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O Messenger of God

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My husband is Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal

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He hits me if I pray

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It breaks my fast if I fast

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He does not pray the dawn prayer

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Until the sun rises

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He said

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Describe him

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He said

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So ask him what she said

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And he said

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O Messenger of God

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As for her saying, “It hits me when I pray.”

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She recites two surahs and I have finished it

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He said

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And he said

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If it were one Surah, it would be enough for the people

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As for what she said, it breaks my fast

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She knocks and fasts

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I am a young man, so I cannot be patient

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The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that day

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A woman should not fast without her husband’s permission

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As for what she said

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I don't pray until the sun rises

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We are the people of a household that has been known to us

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We hardly wake up until the sun rises

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He said

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If you wake up, pray

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Narrated by Abu Dawood

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She didn't lie to him

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But she hid the truth

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In important terms

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That it was the husband's fault

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The tenth woman praised her husband for his generosity

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He described the way he honored the guest

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And prepare for it before it comes

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And she said

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He has many blessed camels

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Few theatres

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And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar

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I am sure that they are your threat

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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said

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She says

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He only directs them to go out during the day

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But they are blessed with its annihilation

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If a guest stays there

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Camels were not absent from him

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But she was in his presence

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He reads it from its milk and meat

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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said

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She described her husband as generous and hospitable

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And prepare for the guests

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And exaggeration in their righteousness and honor

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The Arabs were competing to honor the guest

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Because they see it as a virtue

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For which the man is praised

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If you think about the honorable brother-in-law

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If you find that more than one woman

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Who sat on this council?

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She described her husband as generous

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But the way to honor guests

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And prepare for them

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It varies from one man to another

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The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was praised

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Generosity, he said

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God is generous and loves generosity

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Jawad loves generosity

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His Excellency loves morals

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And he hates her foolishness

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Narrated by Al-Kharaiti in ethics

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Abu Hatem spoke

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In Al-Basti, may God have mercy on him, for generosity

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In his book Rawdat al-Uqlaa

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And the outing of the virtuous

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In long words

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These are some excerpts from it

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Gather people of experience for eternity

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And people of virtue in religion

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And those who desire the beautiful

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It is the best man's possession

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For himself in this world

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And what is saved for her in Al-Aqaba

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It is necessary to be generous

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Because generosity improves memory

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Fate is honored

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Generous people should not be spiteful

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Nor envious

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Nor gloating

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Nor a transgressor

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And I don't forget

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Nor Lahia

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Nor immoral people

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Nor proud

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Nor a liar

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And I'm not bored

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And he does not cut his sword

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He does not harm his brothers

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Preservation is not lost

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And it does not dry up in Wydad

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He gives to those who do not expect

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He who does not fear believes

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And he pardons his fate

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He arrives on behalf of his flock

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The generous Mahmoud influenced the world

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Work sick in Aqaba

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He is loved by both the relative and the storyteller

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It is familiar to the dissatisfied and the satisfied

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Enemies and meanness leave him

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He is accompanied by wise and honorable people

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If these are the characteristics of the generous

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With people in general

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How will she be with his wife?

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Which he chose to be

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Your companion in life

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Helped to honor the guest

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Exaggerating in her praise of her husband's generosity

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Dear brother-in-law

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How do you find yourself being generous with your wife?

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And how satisfied she is

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About your spending on it

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Do you consider yourself generous?

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We will continue in an upcoming meeting

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God willing

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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds