In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’
Malik's husband and Malik
The tenth woman heard others praise their husbands for their generosity and generosity
Especially the ninth woman
She wanted to be proud of her husband's generosity
You elevate and glorify him
She said proudly
My husband is your owner and what is yours
What's better than that?
He has many blessed camels
Few theatres
And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar
I am sure that they are your threat
Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said
And say ten o'clock
My husband is your owner and what is yours
This is veneration for her husband
It is as God Almighty says
And the companions of the right are what are the companions of the right
And he said
Attach it
What's next?
And say it
What's better than that?
That is, it is better than I can describe it
Because of the fame of his virtue and abundance of goodness
Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said
It has the meaning of glorification and exaggeration
And its truth
So what is yours and what is it?
That is, anything is
How great, great, and honorable He is
Malik's saying is better than that
Increase in exaltation
And an explanation of some vagueness
And it is better than what I am referring to
Of praise and kind remembrance
Or more than I think about it
I will be happy and proud
When you meditate, honorable man
This is a compliment from a woman
She realizes that she loves him very much
And proud of it among women
She glorifies him and praises him
You may be wondering
What made her love him?
This great love
Although she is praising him here
She didn't mention anything
It concerns his relationship with her
Yes, that's flattering
He hides his good behavior behind him
From her husband to her
This deal is very large
She even hid it from them
She simply praised him
In his relationship with people
To realize my brother, the honorable man
The depth of this woman's intelligence
Who made a covenant with the women with her
They should not conceal anything from their husbands
So I mentioned one aspect to them
In an exaggeratedly flattering way
To distract them from mentioning details
Which you don't want to show
From his relationship with her
I turned their attention
To one side of his life
It is hospitality
And I explained it
And she was so creative
This is for you to learn, my dear brother-in-law
That women have the power
To change the truth
Or ignore it
In a way he doesn't have it
The cleverness of men
Without falling into a lie
And if you want to realize this meaning
Consider this verse with me
And the story I will tell next
As for the verse
It is in the story of Joseph, peace be upon him
With my dear woman
God Almighty said
And stay ahead of the door
I took his shirt from behind
And a thousand, sir, at the door
She said: What is the recompense for those who wish harm upon your family?
Except that he will be imprisoned or painfully tormented
She did not explicitly accuse Joseph, peace be upon him
But she misled her husband
That Joseph, peace be upon him
He wanted it bad
But God failed her and exposed her
So her master realized
She manipulates words
To change the truth
God Almighty said
When he saw that his shirt was torn from his back
He said it was your plot
Your plot is great
And do not think, dear husband
That women manipulate words
With men only
Even with women
And consider the words of God Almighty
In the exact same way as the story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz
Women in the city said
The dear woman is haunted
Her boy about himself
She was passionate about love
We see it in clear error
When I heard about their deception
sent to them
The question here
Does deception hear?
You only hear the sayings and the news
But God called their words deception
Because they wanted something other than what he said
They wanted to look at this
Who had her passion for love
When she heard their article
I realized they were deceiving her
As for the story
It is an incident that happened before the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
The woman spoke
True words about her husband
In her complaint against him
On the authority of Abu Saeed, may God be pleased with him, he said
A woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
And we are with him
And she said
O Messenger of God
My husband is Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal
He hits me if I pray
It breaks my fast if I fast
He does not pray the dawn prayer
Until the sun rises
He said
Describe him
He said
So ask him what she said
And he said
O Messenger of God
As for her saying, “It hits me when I pray.”
She recites two surahs and I have finished it
He said
And he said
If it were one Surah, it would be enough for the people
As for what she said, it breaks my fast
She knocks and fasts
I am a young man, so I cannot be patient
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that day
A woman should not fast without her husband’s permission
As for what she said
I don't pray until the sun rises
We are the people of a household that has been known to us
We hardly wake up until the sun rises
He said
If you wake up, pray
Narrated by Abu Dawood
She didn't lie to him
But she hid the truth
In important terms
That it was the husband's fault
The tenth woman praised her husband for his generosity
He described the way he honored the guest
And prepare for it before it comes
And she said
He has many blessed camels
Few theatres
And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar
I am sure that they are your threat
Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said
She says
He only directs them to go out during the day
But they are blessed with its annihilation
If a guest stays there
Camels were not absent from him
But she was in his presence
He reads it from its milk and meat
Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said
She described her husband as generous and hospitable
And prepare for the guests
And exaggeration in their righteousness and honor
The Arabs were competing to honor the guest
Because they see it as a virtue
For which the man is praised
If you think about the honorable brother-in-law
If you find that more than one woman
Who sat on this council?
She described her husband as generous
But the way to honor guests
And prepare for them
It varies from one man to another
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was praised
Generosity, he said
God is generous and loves generosity
Jawad loves generosity
His Excellency loves morals
And he hates her foolishness
Narrated by Al-Kharaiti in ethics
Abu Hatem spoke
In Al-Basti, may God have mercy on him, for generosity
In his book Rawdat al-Uqlaa
And the outing of the virtuous
In long words
These are some excerpts from it
Gather people of experience for eternity
And people of virtue in religion
And those who desire the beautiful
It is the best man's possession
For himself in this world
And what is saved for her in Al-Aqaba
It is necessary to be generous
Because generosity improves memory
Fate is honored
Generous people should not be spiteful
Nor envious
Nor gloating
Nor a transgressor
And I don't forget
Nor Lahia
Nor immoral people
Nor proud
Nor a liar
And I'm not bored
And he does not cut his sword
He does not harm his brothers
Preservation is not lost
And it does not dry up in Wydad
He gives to those who do not expect
He who does not fear believes
And he pardons his destiny
He arrives on behalf of his flock
The generous Mahmoud influenced the world
Work sick in Aqaba
He is loved by both the relative and the storyteller
It is familiar to the dissatisfied and the satisfied
Enemies and meanness leave him
He is accompanied by wise and honorable people
If these are the characteristics of the generous
With people in general
How will she be with his wife?
Which he chose to be
Your companion in life
Helped to honor the guest
Exaggerating in her praise of her husband's generosity
Dear brother-in-law
How do you find yourself being generous with your wife?
And how satisfied she is
About your spending on it
Do you consider yourself generous?
We will continue in an upcoming meeting
God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds