1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,399 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,399 --> 00:00:13,199 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 3 00:00:13,199 --> 00:00:23,399 Malik's husband and Malik 4 00:00:23,399 --> 00:00:29,800 The tenth woman heard others praise their husbands for their generosity and generosity 5 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:32,500 Especially the ninth woman 6 00:00:32,500 --> 00:00:35,600 She wanted to be proud of her husband's generosity 7 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,399 You elevate and glorify him 8 00:00:38,399 --> 00:00:40,399 She said proudly 9 00:00:40,399 --> 00:00:43,399 My husband is your owner and what is yours 10 00:00:43,399 --> 00:00:46,100 What's better than that? 11 00:00:46,100 --> 00:00:49,100 He has many blessed camels 12 00:00:49,100 --> 00:00:51,200 Few theatres 13 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,000 And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar 14 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:57,570 I am sure that they are your threat 15 00:00:57,570 --> 00:01:00,969 Abu Abbas Al-Qurtubi, may God have mercy on him, said 16 00:01:00,969 --> 00:01:02,670 And say ten o'clock 17 00:01:02,670 --> 00:01:05,870 My husband is your owner and what is yours 18 00:01:05,870 --> 00:01:08,269 This is veneration for her husband 19 00:01:08,269 --> 00:01:11,069 It is as God Almighty says 20 00:01:11,069 --> 00:01:14,769 And the companions of the right are what are the companions of the right 21 00:01:14,769 --> 00:01:16,069 And he said 22 00:01:16,069 --> 00:01:18,469 Attach it 23 00:01:18,469 --> 00:01:21,370 What's next? 24 00:01:21,370 --> 00:01:23,200 And say it 25 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,599 What's better than that? 26 00:01:25,599 --> 00:01:28,500 That is, it is better than I can describe it 27 00:01:28,500 --> 00:01:31,599 Because of the fame of his virtue and abundance of goodness 28 00:01:31,599 --> 00:01:34,760 Ibn al-Mulqin, may God have mercy on him, said 29 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,959 It has the meaning of glorification and exaggeration 30 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:39,459 And its truth 31 00:01:39,459 --> 00:01:41,959 So what is yours and what is it? 32 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,159 That is, anything is 33 00:01:44,159 --> 00:01:47,560 How great, great, and honorable He is 34 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,959 Malik's saying is better than that 35 00:01:50,959 --> 00:01:52,959 Increase in exaltation 36 00:01:52,959 --> 00:01:55,560 And an explanation of some vagueness 37 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,260 And it is better than what I am referring to 38 00:01:58,260 --> 00:02:00,659 Of praise and kind remembrance 39 00:02:00,659 --> 00:02:03,159 Or more than I think about it 40 00:02:03,159 --> 00:02:06,790 I will be happy and proud 41 00:02:06,790 --> 00:02:09,289 When you meditate, honorable man 42 00:02:09,289 --> 00:02:11,689 This is a compliment from a woman 43 00:02:11,689 --> 00:02:14,990 She realizes that she loves him very much 44 00:02:14,990 --> 00:02:17,389 And proud of it among women 45 00:02:17,389 --> 00:02:20,219 She glorifies him and praises him 46 00:02:20,219 --> 00:02:22,219 You may be wondering 47 00:02:22,219 --> 00:02:24,020 What made her love him? 48 00:02:24,020 --> 00:02:26,020 This great love 49 00:02:26,020 --> 00:02:28,719 Although she is praising him here 50 00:02:28,719 --> 00:02:30,020 She didn't mention anything 51 00:02:30,020 --> 00:02:33,120 It concerns his relationship with her 52 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,419 Yes, that's flattering 53 00:02:35,419 --> 00:02:37,719 He hides his good behavior behind him 54 00:02:37,719 --> 00:02:39,620 From her husband to her 55 00:02:39,620 --> 00:02:42,319 This deal is very large 56 00:02:42,319 --> 00:02:45,120 She even hid it from them 57 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,020 She simply praised him 58 00:02:47,020 --> 00:02:49,849 In his relationship with people 59 00:02:49,849 --> 00:02:52,250 To realize my brother, the honorable man 60 00:02:52,250 --> 00:02:54,750 The depth of this woman's intelligence 61 00:02:54,750 --> 00:02:57,550 Who made a covenant with the women with her 62 00:02:57,550 --> 00:03:01,650 They should not conceal anything from their husbands 63 00:03:01,650 --> 00:03:04,050 So I mentioned one aspect to them 64 00:03:04,050 --> 00:03:07,449 In an exaggeratedly flattering way 65 00:03:07,449 --> 00:03:09,650 To distract them from mentioning details 66 00:03:09,650 --> 00:03:11,750 Which you don't want to show 67 00:03:11,750 --> 00:03:14,469 From his relationship with her 68 00:03:14,469 --> 00:03:16,069 I turned their attention 69 00:03:16,069 --> 00:03:18,770 To one side of his life 70 00:03:18,770 --> 00:03:20,969 It is hospitality 71 00:03:20,969 --> 00:03:22,270 And I explained it 72 00:03:22,270 --> 00:03:25,199 And she was so creative 73 00:03:25,199 --> 00:03:28,099 This is for you to learn, my dear brother-in-law 74 00:03:28,099 --> 00:03:30,199 That women have the power 75 00:03:31,199 --> 00:03:34,400 To change the truth 76 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,199 Or ignore it 77 00:03:36,199 --> 00:03:38,099 In a way he doesn't have it 78 00:03:38,099 --> 00:03:39,800 The cleverness of men 79 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,669 Without falling into a lie 80 00:03:42,669 --> 00:03:45,569 And if you want to realize this meaning 81 00:03:45,569 --> 00:03:47,669 Consider this verse with me 82 00:03:47,669 --> 00:03:51,430 And the story I will tell next 83 00:03:51,430 --> 00:03:52,830 As for the verse 84 00:03:52,830 --> 00:03:55,330 It is in the story of Joseph, peace be upon him 85 00:03:55,330 --> 00:03:57,430 With my dear woman 86 00:03:57,430 --> 00:03:59,129 God Almighty said 87 00:03:59,129 --> 00:04:00,530 And stay ahead of the door 88 00:04:00,530 --> 00:04:03,530 I took his shirt from behind 89 00:04:03,530 --> 00:04:06,830 And a thousand, sir, at the door 90 00:04:06,830 --> 00:04:11,129 She said: What is the recompense for those who wish harm upon your family? 91 00:04:11,129 --> 00:04:15,620 Except that he will be imprisoned or painfully tormented 92 00:04:15,620 --> 00:04:19,720 She did not explicitly accuse Joseph, peace be upon him 93 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,720 But she misled her husband 94 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,519 That Joseph, peace be upon him 95 00:04:23,519 --> 00:04:25,720 He wanted it bad 96 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,120 But God failed her and exposed her 97 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:30,519 So her master realized 98 00:04:30,519 --> 00:04:32,519 She manipulates words 99 00:04:32,519 --> 00:04:34,720 To change the truth 100 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:36,519 God Almighty said 101 00:04:36,519 --> 00:04:40,420 When he saw that his shirt was torn from his back 102 00:04:40,420 --> 00:04:44,120 He said it was your plot 103 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:47,410 Your plot is great 104 00:04:47,410 --> 00:04:49,910 And do not think, dear husband 105 00:04:49,910 --> 00:04:52,310 That women manipulate words 106 00:04:52,310 --> 00:04:54,110 With men only 107 00:04:54,110 --> 00:04:56,709 Even with women 108 00:04:56,709 --> 00:04:58,610 And consider the words of God Almighty 109 00:04:58,610 --> 00:05:02,410 In the exact same way as the story of Joseph and the wife of Al-Aziz 110 00:05:02,410 --> 00:05:04,810 Women in the city said 111 00:05:04,810 --> 00:05:06,709 The dear woman is haunted 112 00:05:06,709 --> 00:05:09,009 Her boy about himself 113 00:05:09,009 --> 00:05:11,410 She was passionate about love 114 00:05:11,410 --> 00:05:15,509 We see it in clear error 115 00:05:15,509 --> 00:05:18,209 When I heard about their deception 116 00:05:18,209 --> 00:05:20,990 sent to them 117 00:05:20,990 --> 00:05:22,589 The question here 118 00:05:22,589 --> 00:05:24,889 Does deception hear? 119 00:05:24,889 --> 00:05:27,889 You only hear the sayings and the news 120 00:05:27,889 --> 00:05:31,490 But God called their words deception 121 00:05:31,490 --> 00:05:35,790 Because they wanted something other than what he said 122 00:05:35,790 --> 00:05:38,089 They wanted to look at this 123 00:05:38,089 --> 00:05:40,889 Who had her passion for love 124 00:05:40,889 --> 00:05:43,889 When she heard their article 125 00:05:43,889 --> 00:05:47,610 I realized they were deceiving her 126 00:05:47,610 --> 00:05:49,009 As for the story 127 00:05:49,009 --> 00:05:54,009 It is an incident that happened before the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 128 00:05:54,009 --> 00:05:55,509 The woman spoke 129 00:05:55,509 --> 00:05:57,910 True words about her husband 130 00:05:57,910 --> 00:06:00,300 In her complaint against him 131 00:06:00,300 --> 00:06:03,699 On the authority of Abu Saeed, may God be pleased with him, he said 132 00:06:03,699 --> 00:06:07,300 A woman came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 133 00:06:07,300 --> 00:06:08,800 And we are with him 134 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,100 And she said 135 00:06:10,100 --> 00:06:11,899 O Messenger of God 136 00:06:11,899 --> 00:06:14,300 My husband is Safwan bin Al-Mu'tal 137 00:06:14,300 --> 00:06:16,500 He hits me if I pray 138 00:06:16,500 --> 00:06:18,899 It breaks my fast if I fast 139 00:06:18,899 --> 00:06:21,000 He does not pray the dawn prayer 140 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,500 Until the sun rises 141 00:06:23,500 --> 00:06:24,500 He said 142 00:06:24,500 --> 00:06:26,500 Describe him 143 00:06:26,500 --> 00:06:27,500 He said 144 00:06:27,500 --> 00:06:29,899 So ask him what she said 145 00:06:29,899 --> 00:06:31,100 And he said 146 00:06:31,100 --> 00:06:32,699 O Messenger of God 147 00:06:32,699 --> 00:06:36,300 As for her saying, “It hits me when I pray.” 148 00:06:36,300 --> 00:06:40,300 She recites two surahs and I have finished it 149 00:06:40,300 --> 00:06:41,300 He said 150 00:06:41,300 --> 00:06:42,500 And he said 151 00:06:42,500 --> 00:06:46,699 If it were one Surah, it would be enough for the people 152 00:06:46,699 --> 00:06:49,699 As for what she said, it breaks my fast 153 00:06:49,699 --> 00:06:52,199 She knocks and fasts 154 00:06:52,199 --> 00:06:55,699 I am a young man, so I cannot be patient 155 00:06:55,899 --> 00:06:59,899 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said that day 156 00:06:59,899 --> 00:07:03,899 A woman should not fast without her husband’s permission 157 00:07:03,899 --> 00:07:05,899 As for what she said 158 00:07:05,899 --> 00:07:08,899 I don't pray until the sun rises 159 00:07:08,899 --> 00:07:12,899 We are the people of a household that has been known to us 160 00:07:12,899 --> 00:07:16,899 We hardly wake up until the sun rises 161 00:07:16,899 --> 00:07:17,899 He said 162 00:07:17,899 --> 00:07:20,899 If you wake up, pray 163 00:07:20,899 --> 00:07:22,930 Narrated by Abu Dawood 164 00:07:22,930 --> 00:07:24,930 She didn't lie to him 165 00:07:25,129 --> 00:07:27,129 But she hid the truth 166 00:07:27,129 --> 00:07:29,129 In important terms 167 00:07:29,129 --> 00:07:31,129 That it was the husband's fault 168 00:07:31,129 --> 00:07:35,259 The tenth woman praised her husband for his generosity 169 00:07:35,259 --> 00:07:38,259 He described the way he honored the guest 170 00:07:38,259 --> 00:07:41,259 And prepare for it before it comes 171 00:07:41,259 --> 00:07:42,259 And she said 172 00:07:42,259 --> 00:07:45,259 He has many blessed camels 173 00:07:45,259 --> 00:07:47,259 Few theatres 174 00:07:47,259 --> 00:07:50,259 And if we hear the voice of Al-Mizhar 175 00:07:50,259 --> 00:07:53,740 I am sure that they are your threat 176 00:07:53,939 --> 00:07:56,939 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said 177 00:07:56,939 --> 00:07:57,939 She says 178 00:07:57,939 --> 00:08:02,939 He only directs them to go out during the day 179 00:08:02,939 --> 00:08:05,939 But they are blessed with its annihilation 180 00:08:05,939 --> 00:08:07,939 If a guest stays there 181 00:08:07,939 --> 00:08:10,939 Camels were not absent from him 182 00:08:10,939 --> 00:08:12,939 But she was in his presence 183 00:08:12,939 --> 00:08:15,939 He reads it from its milk and meat 184 00:08:15,939 --> 00:08:20,100 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 185 00:08:20,300 --> 00:08:24,300 She described her husband as generous and hospitable 186 00:08:24,300 --> 00:08:26,300 And prepare for the guests 187 00:08:26,300 --> 00:08:31,290 And exaggeration in their righteousness and honor 188 00:08:31,290 --> 00:08:35,289 The Arabs were competing to honor the guest 189 00:08:35,289 --> 00:08:37,289 Because they see it as a virtue 190 00:08:37,289 --> 00:08:40,389 For which the man is praised 191 00:08:40,389 --> 00:08:42,389 If you think about the honorable brother-in-law 192 00:08:42,389 --> 00:08:45,389 If you find that more than one woman 193 00:08:45,389 --> 00:08:47,389 Who sat on this council? 194 00:08:47,389 --> 00:08:50,389 She described her husband as generous 195 00:08:50,389 --> 00:08:52,389 But the way to honor guests 196 00:08:52,389 --> 00:08:54,389 And prepare for them 197 00:08:54,389 --> 00:08:57,389 It varies from one man to another 198 00:08:57,389 --> 00:09:00,389 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was praised 199 00:09:00,389 --> 00:09:02,389 Generosity, he said 200 00:09:02,389 --> 00:09:05,389 God is generous and loves generosity 201 00:09:05,389 --> 00:09:08,389 Jawad loves generosity 202 00:09:08,389 --> 00:09:10,389 His Excellency loves morals 203 00:09:10,389 --> 00:09:13,389 And he hates her foolishness 204 00:09:13,389 --> 00:09:16,549 Narrated by Al-Kharaiti in ethics 205 00:09:16,549 --> 00:09:18,549 Abu Hatem spoke 206 00:09:18,549 --> 00:09:21,549 In Al-Basti, may God have mercy on him, for generosity 207 00:09:21,549 --> 00:09:24,549 In his book Rawdat al-Uqlaa 208 00:09:24,549 --> 00:09:26,549 And the outing of the virtuous 209 00:09:26,549 --> 00:09:28,549 In long words 210 00:09:28,549 --> 00:09:30,740 These are some excerpts from it 211 00:09:30,740 --> 00:09:33,740 Gather people of experience for eternity 212 00:09:33,740 --> 00:09:35,740 And people of virtue in religion 213 00:09:35,740 --> 00:09:37,740 And those who desire the beautiful 214 00:09:37,740 --> 00:09:39,740 It is the best man's possession 215 00:09:39,740 --> 00:09:41,740 For himself in this world 216 00:09:41,740 --> 00:09:44,740 And what is saved for her in Al-Aqaba 217 00:09:44,740 --> 00:09:46,740 It is necessary to be generous 218 00:09:47,740 --> 00:09:49,740 Because generosity improves memory 219 00:09:49,740 --> 00:09:51,740 Fate is honored 220 00:09:51,740 --> 00:09:54,120 Generous people should not be spiteful 221 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,120 Nor envious 222 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:57,120 Nor gloating 223 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,120 Nor a transgressor 224 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:00,120 And I don't forget 225 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,120 Nor Lahia 226 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:03,120 Nor immoral people 227 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:04,120 Nor proud 228 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:05,120 Nor a liar 229 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,120 And I'm not bored 230 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,120 And he does not cut his sword 231 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:11,120 He does not harm his brothers 232 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:13,120 Preservation is not lost 233 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,120 And it does not dry up in Wydad 234 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,120 He gives to those who do not expect 235 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,120 He who does not fear believes 236 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,120 And he pardons his fate 237 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,120 He arrives on behalf of his flock 238 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:26,509 The generous Mahmoud influenced the world 239 00:10:26,509 --> 00:10:29,509 Work sick in Aqaba 240 00:10:29,509 --> 00:10:31,509 He is loved by both the relative and the storyteller 241 00:10:31,509 --> 00:10:34,509 It is familiar to the dissatisfied and the satisfied 242 00:10:34,509 --> 00:10:37,509 Enemies and meanness leave him 243 00:10:37,509 --> 00:10:41,509 He is accompanied by wise and honorable people 244 00:10:41,509 --> 00:10:45,600 If these are the characteristics of the generous 245 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:47,600 With people in general 246 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:49,600 How will she be with his wife? 247 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:51,600 Which he chose to be 248 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,600 Your companion in life 249 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:56,600 Helped to honor the guest 250 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:59,600 Exaggerating in her praise of her husband's generosity 251 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:03,080 Dear brother-in-law 252 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:06,080 How do you find yourself being generous with your wife? 253 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,080 And how satisfied she is 254 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,080 About your spending on it 255 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,080 Do you consider yourself generous? 256 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:15,879 We will continue in an upcoming meeting 257 00:11:15,879 --> 00:11:17,879 God willing 258 00:11:17,879 --> 00:11:20,879 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds