WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:06.000 Labarin wahalhalun da mata suka sha a zamanin Annabi Musa, tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 00:00:06.000 --> 00:00:14.869 Rashin lalata shine mafi hatsari ga mata 00:00:14.869 --> 00:00:19.379 Mafi darajan abin da musulmi ya mallaka shi ne addini 00:00:19.379 --> 00:00:23.379 Idan kuma ya yi sakaci da ita, to zai yi hasarar duniya da lahira 00:00:23.379 --> 00:00:27.469 Amma lahira, hasararta sananne ne 00:00:27.469 --> 00:00:29.469 Amma asarar duniya 00:00:29.469 --> 00:00:33.469 Wataƙila ka ruɗe game da wanda Shaiɗan ya faranta masa munanan ayyukansa 00:00:33.469 --> 00:00:37.820 Don haka macen tana tunanin cewa idan ta fita aiki 00:00:37.820 --> 00:00:39.820 A cikin gauraye filayen 00:00:39.820 --> 00:00:41.820 Domin ta taimaki danginta 00:00:41.820 --> 00:00:43.820 Ko tallafawa kanta 00:00:43.820 --> 00:00:45.820 Ko taimaki mijinta 00:00:45.820 --> 00:00:47.820 Da kuma kula da 'ya'yanta 00:00:47.820 --> 00:00:50.820 Ana biyan ta 00:00:50.820 --> 00:00:53.820 Kuma ta yi babban sadaukarwa 00:00:53.820 --> 00:00:55.820 Domin wadannan 00:00:55.820 --> 00:00:58.820 Yakamata al'umma su yaba mata 00:00:58.820 --> 00:01:00.820 Kuma don yabon ta 00:01:00.820 --> 00:01:03.820 Kuma har lada yake mata 00:01:03.820 --> 00:01:07.859 Wannan hadaya ta barata ta wurin aiki gauraye 00:01:07.859 --> 00:01:11.340 Wanda ya sanya mata fadawa cikin wannan cuta 00:01:11.340 --> 00:01:16.340 Wadannan kuskure ne da aka yada a cikin al'ummomi 00:01:16.340 --> 00:01:19.340 Kamar aikin ibada ne 00:01:19.340 --> 00:01:22.340 Suna nufin kowane aiki 00:01:22.340 --> 00:01:24.340 Suna watsi da wannan ibada 00:01:24.340 --> 00:01:27.340 Amma zai zama abin da ya faranta wa Allah rai 00:01:27.340 --> 00:01:29.340 Ba da abin da Allah Ya haramta ba 00:01:29.340 --> 00:01:31.370 Wanda yake cin riba yana aiki 00:01:31.370 --> 00:01:33.370 Shin aikinsa ibada ne? 00:01:33.370 --> 00:01:35.370 Kuma mai rawa yana aiki 00:01:35.370 --> 00:01:38.370 Rawarta ibada ce? 00:01:38.370 --> 00:01:41.370 Ba kowane aiki ba ne ibada 00:01:41.370 --> 00:01:44.530 Yana daga cikin tsare-tsare kan aikin mata a Musulunci 00:01:44.530 --> 00:01:48.530 Don nisantar cudanya da maza 00:01:48.530 --> 00:01:50.530 Idan wannan Gabas ta samu 00:01:50.530 --> 00:01:52.530 An ba ta damar yin aiki 00:01:52.530 --> 00:01:54.530 In ba haka ba, haramun ne a gare ta 00:01:54.530 --> 00:01:58.750 Yar'uwa ki duba wadannan hadisai 00:01:58.750 --> 00:02:02.750 Wanda ke ilmantar da matan al’ummar kasar nan da su nisanci maza 00:02:02.750 --> 00:02:06.750 Kwatanta hakan da abin da ke faruwa a cikin al'ummominmu a yau 00:02:06.750 --> 00:02:09.750 Da kuma fagagen aiki a cikinsa 00:02:09.750 --> 00:02:12.009 Game da Ummu Hamid 00:02:12.009 --> 00:02:15.009 Ta zo wajen Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama 00:02:15.009 --> 00:02:18.009 Sai ta ce, ya Manzon Allah 00:02:18.009 --> 00:02:21.009 Ina son yin addu'a tare da ku 00:02:21.039 --> 00:02:26.039 Ya ce, "Na san kana son yin addu'a tare da ni." 00:02:26.039 --> 00:02:31.039 Yin addu'a a gidanka ya fi maka addu'a a dakinka 00:02:31.039 --> 00:02:36.039 Addu'ar ku a dakinku tafi sallar ku a gidanku 00:02:36.039 --> 00:02:48.139 Yin sallah a gidanku ya fi alheri gare ku da yin salla a masallacin mutanenku 00:02:48.139 --> 00:02:49.330 Yace 00:02:49.330 --> 00:02:51.330 Sai na yi oda 00:02:51.330 --> 00:02:53.330 Aka gina mata masallaci 00:02:53.330 --> 00:02:55.330 A cikin mafi nisa gidanta 00:02:55.330 --> 00:03:01.330 Nan tayi addu'a har ta hadu da Allah Ta'ala 00:03:01.330 --> 00:03:03.360 Ahmed ne ya rawaito 00:03:03.360 --> 00:03:09.550 Idan wannan ya shafi addu'a, an ce yana da kyau a yi addu'a a gida 00:03:09.550 --> 00:03:14.550 Me za a ce da ita idan ta fita aiki gauraye? 00:03:14.550 --> 00:03:19.129 An kar~o daga Abu Asid Al-Ansari Allah Ya yarda da shi 00:03:20.129 --> 00:03:26.129 Sai ya ji Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi yana cewa yana fita daga masallaci 00:03:26.129 --> 00:03:30.129 Mutanen sun cakude da matan a hanya 00:03:30.129 --> 00:03:35.129 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce da matan 00:03:35.129 --> 00:03:40.129 Ku yi makara, domin ba zai yiwu mu cim ma hanyar ba 00:03:40.129 --> 00:03:44.129 Tsaya a gefen hanya 00:03:44.129 --> 00:03:47.189 Matar tana manne da bango 00:03:47.189 --> 00:03:52.189 Rigar ta ma ta makale a bango saboda makale da ita 00:03:52.189 --> 00:03:55.289 Abu Dawuda ya ruwaito 00:03:55.289 --> 00:04:02.639 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi bai yarda da mata suna cudanya da maza a kan titi ba. 00:04:02.639 --> 00:04:09.639 Wanda dole ne ta wuce ta lokacin da ta je ko ta zo daga ko'ina 00:04:09.639 --> 00:04:13.639 Yana daidaita mata hanyar tafiya akan titin jama'a 00:04:13.639 --> 00:04:16.639 Don haka ya yi mata gefen hanya biyu 00:04:16.639 --> 00:04:19.670 Kuma ga mutumin tsakiyar hanya 00:04:19.670 --> 00:04:25.670 To za a iya cewa bai halatta ta gauraya a kan hanyar jama'a ba? 00:04:25.670 --> 00:04:28.670 Ya halatta a gauraya a ofisoshin aiki 00:04:28.670 --> 00:04:33.089 An kar~o daga Abu Hurairah, Allah Ya yarda da shi ya ce 00:04:33.089 --> 00:04:37.089 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce 00:04:37.089 --> 00:04:40.089 Mafi kyawun layuka ga maza sune na farko 00:04:40.089 --> 00:04:42.089 Kuma tir da ita ce karshenta 00:04:42.089 --> 00:04:45.089 Mafi kyawun layuka ga mata sune na ƙarshe 00:04:45.089 --> 00:04:48.089 Mafi munin sa shine na farko 00:04:48.089 --> 00:04:50.120 Muslim ne ya ruwaito shi 00:04:50.120 --> 00:04:52.339 Al-Nawawi, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 00:04:52.339 --> 00:04:58.339 Maimakon haka, ya fi son sahun mata na ƙarshe tare da maza 00:04:58.339 --> 00:05:02.339 Domin sun nisa daga cudanya da ganin maza 00:05:02.339 --> 00:05:08.339 Zuciya takan matse su ne a lokacin da ta ga motsinsu, da jin maganganunsu, da sauransu 00:05:08.339 --> 00:05:12.339 An tozarta matsayinsu na farko da akasin haka 00:05:12.339 --> 00:05:16.540 In ji marubuci Annie Rord 00:05:16.540 --> 00:05:21.540 Domin ’ya’yanmu mata suna aiki a gida a matsayin bayi ko bayi 00:05:21.540 --> 00:05:25.540 Yana da kyau da ƙarancin wahala fiye da sa su aiki a masana'antu 00:05:25.540 --> 00:05:32.540 Inda yarinyar ta zama gurɓata da ƙazanta, hasken rayuwarta ya ɓace har abada 00:05:32.540 --> 00:05:35.540 Da ace kasarmu ta kasance kamar kasashen musulmi 00:05:35.540 --> 00:05:39.540 Ya ƙunshi ladabi, tsafta, da tsabta 00:05:39.540 --> 00:05:44.569 Kuyanga da bawa suna jin daɗin rayuwa 00:05:44.569 --> 00:05:48.569 Ana yi musu kamar yadda ake yiwa yaran gidan 00:05:48.569 --> 00:05:50.569 Alamun ba su da kyau 00:05:50.569 --> 00:05:54.660 Eh abun kunya ne ga kasar turawan 00:05:54.660 --> 00:06:00.660 Don sanya 'ya'yanta mata su zama misali na lalata ta hanyar yawan tarayya da maza 00:06:00.660 --> 00:06:04.660 To me yasa ba za mu bi abin da ya sa yarinya ba 00:06:04.660 --> 00:06:07.660 Ta yi daidai da yanayinta 00:06:07.660 --> 00:06:09.660 Daga yin a gida 00:06:09.660 --> 00:06:12.660 Bar aikin maza ga maza 00:06:12.660 --> 00:06:14.660 Aminci ga mutuncinta 00:06:14.660 --> 00:06:17.730 Wali Allah Al-Dahlawi yace 00:06:17.730 --> 00:06:22.730 Ko kana tunanin namiji zai ga dabi'un mace bare? 00:06:22.730 --> 00:06:24.730 Don haka yana kula da shi 00:06:24.730 --> 00:06:27.730 Kuma ya yi ta hargitsa kango saboda ita 00:06:27.730 --> 00:06:30.730 Menene ra'ayin ku game da wanda ke kadai da ita? 00:06:30.730 --> 00:06:34.730 Ana ganin kyawawan halayensa dare da rana 00:06:34.730 --> 00:06:37.750 Kuma ina tsammanin ke kanwata 00:06:37.750 --> 00:06:42.750 Kun san tabbas haka lamarin yake tare da hada-hadar kasuwanci 00:06:42.750 --> 00:06:45.910 Ibnul Qayyim, Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 00:06:45.910 --> 00:06:50.939 Babu shakka ba da damar mata su haɗu da maza 00:06:50.939 --> 00:06:53.939 Tushen kowace musiba da mugunta 00:06:53.939 --> 00:06:57.939 Yana daga cikin manya-manyan dalilan da suke jawo hukunce-hukuncen jama'a 00:06:57.939 --> 00:07:02.980 Hakanan yana daya daga cikin abubuwan da ke haifar da rashawa a cikin al'amuran jama'a da na sirri 00:07:02.980 --> 00:07:05.980 Maza da mata suna hadawa 00:07:05.980 --> 00:07:08.980 Dalilin yawaitar fasikanci da zina 00:07:08.980 --> 00:07:13.980 Yana daya daga cikin abubuwan da ke haifar da mace-mace da annoba 00:07:13.980 --> 00:07:18.899 Wadannan kalamai ne na matan zamani 00:07:18.899 --> 00:07:24.899 Suna magana akan ni'imar Allah a kansu bayan sun nisanci cudanya da maza 00:07:24.899 --> 00:07:28.189 Dakta Aya ya ce: 00:07:28.189 --> 00:07:32.189 Wahalhalun da na fuskanta na nisantar zamantakewa 00:07:32.189 --> 00:07:36.189 Lokacin da na yanke shawarar barin babban aiki na dindindin 00:07:36.189 --> 00:07:38.189 An zarge ni da hauka 00:07:38.189 --> 00:07:41.189 Na yi watsi da matsayina a cikin al'umma 00:07:41.189 --> 00:07:45.189 Rigimar na kusa da masoyina 00:07:45.189 --> 00:07:50.350 Suna zargina da boye ilimi da rashin fahimtar addini 00:07:50.350 --> 00:07:52.379 Hajar tace 00:07:52.379 --> 00:07:57.379 Yin aiki a kantin magani na jama'a ya wuce nesa da ko'ina 00:07:57.379 --> 00:08:01.379 Dauke yawan fasadi da zalunci a cikin zuciyata 00:08:01.379 --> 00:08:05.379 Wannan ya haɗa da tasiri akan yanayin mata 00:08:05.379 --> 00:08:09.379 Ta hanyar aiwatar da kaya da aikin ajiya 00:08:09.379 --> 00:08:13.379 Da kuma rarraba takardun ma'aikata 00:08:13.379 --> 00:08:17.379 Scratch rayuwa da ke boye gemu 00:08:17.379 --> 00:08:20.379 Shi ke nan sai mutumin ya yi min magana da korafi 00:08:20.379 --> 00:08:23.379 Wanda zai iya zama na sirri 00:08:23.379 --> 00:08:26.379 Ya nemi ya rubuta mata magungunan da suka dace 00:08:26.379 --> 00:08:30.379 Ya hana ni kula da iyalina 00:08:30.379 --> 00:08:34.379 Karkashin hasashen tsawon sa'o'in da aka shafe a wajen gida 00:08:34.379 --> 00:08:38.379 Sai na dawo a gajiye ina jiran barci 00:08:38.379 --> 00:08:44.379 Sannan farkawa da wuri don sake farfado da yanayin mai raɗaɗi 00:08:44.379 --> 00:08:50.639 An haife shi lokacin da ake jin tawaye ga duk abin da zai tilasta mace 00:08:50.639 --> 00:08:54.639 Ko da kuwa yana da alaƙa a kaikaice da aiki 00:08:54.639 --> 00:08:57.639 Kamar yadda suke faɗa, kai na gaskiya 00:08:57.639 --> 00:09:00.639 Hau matakin sana'a 00:09:00.639 --> 00:09:03.639 Dole ne ku kasance da matsayi a cikin al'umma 00:09:03.639 --> 00:09:06.700 A ƙarshe, kuma shine mafi mahimmanci 00:09:06.700 --> 00:09:10.700 Amma an rufe shi da shi don jawo hankali zuwa gare shi 00:09:10.700 --> 00:09:14.700 Yana nisanta zuciyata da Allah kadan da kadan 00:09:14.700 --> 00:09:18.700 Jin shamaki tsakanina da biyayya 00:09:18.700 --> 00:09:21.700 Rashin ƙarfi na da rashin jin daɗi daga wani kusanci 00:09:21.700 --> 00:09:26.700 Bugu da kari ga faruwar da babu makawa na cin zarafi da yawa 00:09:26.700 --> 00:09:29.700 A lokutan aiki iri ɗaya 00:09:29.700 --> 00:09:36.470 Waɗannan su ne wasu misalan wahalar da mata suke sha a yau a cikin gaɓarwar ayyuka 00:09:36.470 --> 00:09:41.500 Amma menene wahala ta biyu da matar ta fuskanta a Media? 00:09:41.500 --> 00:09:47.529 Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah 00:09:47.529 --> 00:09:50.529 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai 00:09:50.529 --> 00:09:59.070 Labarin wahalhalun da mata suka sha a zamanin Annabi Musa, tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi