WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:06.000 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him 00:00:06.000 --> 00:00:14.869 Promiscuity is the most dangerous suffering for women 00:00:14.869 --> 00:00:19.379 The most precious thing a Muslim possesses is religion 00:00:19.379 --> 00:00:23.379 If he neglects it, he will lose this world and the hereafter 00:00:23.379 --> 00:00:27.469 As for the afterlife, its loss is known 00:00:27.469 --> 00:00:29.469 But the loss of the world 00:00:29.469 --> 00:00:33.469 You may be confused about the one to whom Satan has made his bad deeds seem pleasing 00:00:33.469 --> 00:00:37.820 So the woman thinks that if she goes out to work 00:00:37.820 --> 00:00:39.820 In mixed fields 00:00:39.820 --> 00:00:41.820 In order to help her family 00:00:41.820 --> 00:00:43.820 Or support for herself 00:00:43.820 --> 00:00:45.820 Or help her husband 00:00:45.820 --> 00:00:47.820 And maintenance for her children 00:00:47.820 --> 00:00:50.820 She is paid for it 00:00:50.820 --> 00:00:53.820 And she made a great sacrifice 00:00:53.820 --> 00:00:55.820 For these sake 00:00:55.820 --> 00:00:58.820 Society should appreciate this for her 00:00:58.820 --> 00:01:00.820 And to praise her 00:01:00.820 --> 00:01:03.820 And he even rewards her for it 00:01:03.820 --> 00:01:07.859 This sacrifice is justified by mixed work 00:01:07.859 --> 00:01:11.340 Which caused women to fall into this disorder 00:01:11.340 --> 00:01:16.340 These are misconceptions spread in societies 00:01:16.340 --> 00:01:19.340 Like work is worship 00:01:19.340 --> 00:01:22.340 They mean any work 00:01:22.340 --> 00:01:24.340 They ignore that worship 00:01:24.340 --> 00:01:27.340 But it will be what pleases God 00:01:27.340 --> 00:01:29.340 Not with what God has forbidden 00:01:29.340 --> 00:01:31.370 The one who consumes usury works 00:01:31.370 --> 00:01:33.370 Is his work an act of worship? 00:01:33.370 --> 00:01:35.370 And the dancer is working 00:01:35.370 --> 00:01:38.370 Is her dancing an act of worship? 00:01:38.370 --> 00:01:41.370 Not every act is worship 00:01:41.370 --> 00:01:44.530 It is one of the controls on women’s work in Islam 00:01:44.530 --> 00:01:48.530 To be away from mixing with men 00:01:48.530 --> 00:01:50.530 If this East is achieved 00:01:50.530 --> 00:01:52.530 She is allowed to work 00:01:52.530 --> 00:01:54.530 Otherwise, it is forbidden for her 00:01:54.530 --> 00:01:58.750 Dear sister, consider these hadiths 00:01:58.750 --> 00:02:02.750 Which educates the nation's women to stay away from men 00:02:02.750 --> 00:02:06.750 Compare that with what is happening in our societies today 00:02:06.750 --> 00:02:09.750 And the fields of work in it 00:02:09.750 --> 00:02:12.009 About Umm Hamid 00:02:12.009 --> 00:02:15.009 She came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:15.009 --> 00:02:18.009 She said, O Messenger of God 00:02:18.009 --> 00:02:21.009 I love praying with you 00:02:21.039 --> 00:02:26.039 He said, “I know that you like to pray with me.” 00:02:26.039 --> 00:02:31.039 Praying in your home is better for you than praying in your room 00:02:31.039 --> 00:02:36.039 Your prayer in your room is better than your prayer in your home 00:02:36.039 --> 00:02:48.139 Praying in your home is better for you than praying in your people’s mosque 00:02:48.139 --> 00:02:49.330 He said 00:02:49.330 --> 00:02:51.330 So I ordered 00:02:51.330 --> 00:02:53.330 A mosque was built for her 00:02:53.330 --> 00:02:55.330 In the furthest part of her home 00:02:55.330 --> 00:03:01.330 She prayed there until she met God Almighty 00:03:01.330 --> 00:03:03.360 Narrated by Ahmed 00:03:03.360 --> 00:03:09.550 If this applies to prayer, it is said that it is better for you to pray at home 00:03:09.550 --> 00:03:14.550 What will be said to her if she goes out into mixed fields of work? 00:03:14.550 --> 00:03:19.129 On the authority of Abu Asid Al-Ansari, may God be pleased with him 00:03:20.129 --> 00:03:26.129 He heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying as he was leaving the mosque 00:03:26.129 --> 00:03:30.129 The men mixed with the women on the way 00:03:30.129 --> 00:03:35.129 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to the women 00:03:35.129 --> 00:03:40.129 Be late, for it will not be possible for us to achieve the path 00:03:40.129 --> 00:03:44.129 Stay on the side of the road 00:03:44.129 --> 00:03:47.189 The woman was sticking to the wall 00:03:47.189 --> 00:03:52.189 Her dress even stuck to the wall due to her being stuck to it 00:03:52.189 --> 00:03:55.289 Narrated by Abu Dawood 00:03:55.289 --> 00:04:02.639 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not approve of women mingling with men in the public street 00:04:02.639 --> 00:04:09.639 Which she must pass through when she goes or comes from anywhere 00:04:09.639 --> 00:04:13.639 He regulates her way of walking on the public road 00:04:13.639 --> 00:04:16.639 So he makes both ends of the road for her 00:04:16.639 --> 00:04:19.670 And for the middle-of-the-road man 00:04:19.670 --> 00:04:25.670 Can it then be said that it is not permissible for her to mix on the public road? 00:04:25.670 --> 00:04:28.670 It is permissible to mix in work offices 00:04:28.670 --> 00:04:33.089 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:04:33.089 --> 00:04:37.089 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:04:37.089 --> 00:04:40.089 The best rows for men are the first ones 00:04:40.089 --> 00:04:42.089 And evil is the last of it 00:04:42.089 --> 00:04:45.089 The best rows for women are the last ones 00:04:45.089 --> 00:04:48.089 The worst of it is the first 00:04:48.089 --> 00:04:50.120 Narrated by Muslim 00:04:50.120 --> 00:04:52.339 Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:52.339 --> 00:04:58.339 Rather, he preferred the last rows of women present with the men 00:04:58.339 --> 00:05:02.339 Because they are away from mingling with and seeing men 00:05:02.339 --> 00:05:08.339 The heart becomes attached to them when seeing their movements, hearing their words, and so on 00:05:08.339 --> 00:05:12.339 Their first ranks were vilified for the opposite 00:05:12.339 --> 00:05:16.540 Says Western writer Annie Rourd 00:05:16.540 --> 00:05:21.540 Because our daughters work in homes as servants or servants 00:05:21.540 --> 00:05:25.540 It is better and less affliction than having them work in factories 00:05:25.540 --> 00:05:32.540 Where the girl becomes contaminated with impurities, the luster of her life is lost forever 00:05:32.540 --> 00:05:35.540 I wish our country was like Muslim countries 00:05:35.540 --> 00:05:39.540 It contains decency, chastity, and purity 00:05:39.540 --> 00:05:44.569 The maid and the slave enjoy a comfortable life 00:05:44.569 --> 00:05:48.569 They are treated as the children of the house are treated 00:05:48.569 --> 00:05:50.569 The symptoms are not bad 00:05:50.569 --> 00:05:54.660 Yes, it is a shame for the country of the English 00:05:54.660 --> 00:06:00.660 To make her daughters an example of vices through frequent association with men 00:06:00.660 --> 00:06:04.660 So why don't we go after what makes a girl 00:06:04.660 --> 00:06:07.660 She acts according to her natural nature 00:06:07.660 --> 00:06:09.660 From doing at home 00:06:09.660 --> 00:06:12.660 Leave the work of men to men 00:06:12.660 --> 00:06:14.660 Safety for her honor 00:06:14.660 --> 00:06:17.730 Wali Allah Al-Dahlawi said 00:06:17.730 --> 00:06:22.730 Or do you think a man will see the virtues of a foreign woman? 00:06:22.730 --> 00:06:24.730 So he takes care of it 00:06:24.730 --> 00:06:27.730 And he storms into ruins for her sake 00:06:27.730 --> 00:06:30.730 What do you think about someone who is alone with her? 00:06:30.730 --> 00:06:34.730 Its virtues are seen day and night 00:06:34.730 --> 00:06:37.750 And I think you are, my sister 00:06:37.750 --> 00:06:42.750 You know for sure that this is the case with mixed businesses 00:06:42.750 --> 00:06:45.910 Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:45.910 --> 00:06:50.939 There is no doubt that enabling women to mix with men 00:06:50.939 --> 00:06:53.939 The root of every calamity and evil 00:06:53.939 --> 00:06:57.939 It is one of the greatest reasons for the infliction of public punishments 00:06:57.939 --> 00:07:02.980 It is also one of the causes of corruption in public and private matters 00:07:02.980 --> 00:07:05.980 Men and women mixing 00:07:05.980 --> 00:07:08.980 A reason for the abundance of immorality and adultery 00:07:08.980 --> 00:07:13.980 It is one of the causes of general death and related plagues 00:07:13.980 --> 00:07:18.899 These are sayings by contemporary women 00:07:18.899 --> 00:07:24.899 They talk about God's blessing upon them after they stayed away from mingling with men 00:07:24.899 --> 00:07:28.189 Dr. Aya says: 00:07:28.189 --> 00:07:32.189 The suffering I faced in keeping away from socializing 00:07:32.189 --> 00:07:36.189 When I decided to leave the prestigious job permanently 00:07:36.189 --> 00:07:38.189 I was accused of insanity 00:07:38.189 --> 00:07:41.189 I neglected my role in society 00:07:41.189 --> 00:07:45.189 The quarrel of my closest and dearest people 00:07:45.189 --> 00:07:50.350 Accusing me of concealing knowledge and misunderstanding of religion 00:07:50.350 --> 00:07:52.379 Hajar says 00:07:52.379 --> 00:07:57.379 Working in a public pharmacy passed far and wide 00:07:57.379 --> 00:08:01.379 Carrying a lot of corruption and cruelty to my heart 00:08:01.379 --> 00:08:05.379 This includes the effect on feminine nature 00:08:05.379 --> 00:08:09.379 By carrying out inventory and storage work 00:08:09.379 --> 00:08:13.379 And dispensing employee prescriptions 00:08:13.379 --> 00:08:17.379 Scratch life that is a hidden gem 00:08:17.379 --> 00:08:20.379 That's when the man addresses me with a complaint 00:08:20.379 --> 00:08:23.379 Which may be private 00:08:23.379 --> 00:08:26.379 He asks to prescribe the appropriate medication for her 00:08:26.379 --> 00:08:30.379 Disabling me from taking care of my family 00:08:30.379 --> 00:08:34.379 Under the pretext of the long hours spent outside the home 00:08:34.379 --> 00:08:38.379 Then I come back exhausted, waiting for sleep 00:08:38.379 --> 00:08:44.379 Then waking up early to relive the painful scene again 00:08:44.379 --> 00:08:50.639 It is born when there is a feeling of rebellion against everything that would force a woman 00:08:50.639 --> 00:08:54.639 Even if it is indirectly related to work 00:08:54.639 --> 00:08:57.639 As they say, your true self 00:08:57.639 --> 00:09:00.639 Climb the career ladder 00:09:00.639 --> 00:09:03.639 You must have a role in society 00:09:03.639 --> 00:09:06.700 Finally, and it is the most important 00:09:06.700 --> 00:09:10.700 But it was sealed with it to draw attention to it 00:09:10.700 --> 00:09:14.700 It distances my heart from God little by little 00:09:14.700 --> 00:09:18.700 Feeling a barrier between me and obedience 00:09:18.700 --> 00:09:21.700 My weakness and apathy from some closeness 00:09:21.700 --> 00:09:26.700 In addition to the inevitable occurrence of many violations 00:09:26.700 --> 00:09:29.700 During the same working hours 00:09:29.700 --> 00:09:36.470 These are some examples of the suffering of women today in mixed jobs 00:09:36.470 --> 00:09:41.500 But what is the second suffering of the woman in Media? 00:09:41.500 --> 00:09:47.529 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:09:47.529 --> 00:09:50.529 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 00:09:50.529 --> 00:09:59.070 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him