1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,000 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:14,869 Promiscuity is the most dangerous suffering for women 3 00:00:14,869 --> 00:00:19,379 The most precious thing a Muslim possesses is religion 4 00:00:19,379 --> 00:00:23,379 If he neglects it, he will lose this world and the hereafter 5 00:00:23,379 --> 00:00:27,469 As for the afterlife, its loss is known 6 00:00:27,469 --> 00:00:29,469 But the loss of the world 7 00:00:29,469 --> 00:00:33,469 You may be confused about the one to whom Satan has made his bad deeds seem pleasing 8 00:00:33,469 --> 00:00:37,820 So the woman thinks that if she goes out to work 9 00:00:37,820 --> 00:00:39,820 In mixed fields 10 00:00:39,820 --> 00:00:41,820 In order to help her family 11 00:00:41,820 --> 00:00:43,820 Or support for herself 12 00:00:43,820 --> 00:00:45,820 Or help her husband 13 00:00:45,820 --> 00:00:47,820 And maintenance for her children 14 00:00:47,820 --> 00:00:50,820 She is paid for it 15 00:00:50,820 --> 00:00:53,820 And she made a great sacrifice 16 00:00:53,820 --> 00:00:55,820 For these sake 17 00:00:55,820 --> 00:00:58,820 Society should appreciate this for her 18 00:00:58,820 --> 00:01:00,820 And to praise her 19 00:01:00,820 --> 00:01:03,820 And he even rewards her for it 20 00:01:03,820 --> 00:01:07,859 This sacrifice is justified by mixed work 21 00:01:07,859 --> 00:01:11,340 Which caused women to fall into this disorder 22 00:01:11,340 --> 00:01:16,340 These are misconceptions spread in societies 23 00:01:16,340 --> 00:01:19,340 Like work is worship 24 00:01:19,340 --> 00:01:22,340 They mean any work 25 00:01:22,340 --> 00:01:24,340 They ignore that worship 26 00:01:24,340 --> 00:01:27,340 But it will be what pleases God 27 00:01:27,340 --> 00:01:29,340 Not with what God has forbidden 28 00:01:29,340 --> 00:01:31,370 The one who consumes usury works 29 00:01:31,370 --> 00:01:33,370 Is his work an act of worship? 30 00:01:33,370 --> 00:01:35,370 And the dancer is working 31 00:01:35,370 --> 00:01:38,370 Is her dancing an act of worship? 32 00:01:38,370 --> 00:01:41,370 Not every act is worship 33 00:01:41,370 --> 00:01:44,530 It is one of the controls on women’s work in Islam 34 00:01:44,530 --> 00:01:48,530 To be away from mixing with men 35 00:01:48,530 --> 00:01:50,530 If this East is achieved 36 00:01:50,530 --> 00:01:52,530 She is allowed to work 37 00:01:52,530 --> 00:01:54,530 Otherwise, it is forbidden for her 38 00:01:54,530 --> 00:01:58,750 Dear sister, consider these hadiths 39 00:01:58,750 --> 00:02:02,750 Which educates the nation's women to stay away from men 40 00:02:02,750 --> 00:02:06,750 Compare that with what is happening in our societies today 41 00:02:06,750 --> 00:02:09,750 And the fields of work in it 42 00:02:09,750 --> 00:02:12,009 About Umm Hamid 43 00:02:12,009 --> 00:02:15,009 She came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 44 00:02:15,009 --> 00:02:18,009 She said, O Messenger of God 45 00:02:18,009 --> 00:02:21,009 I love praying with you 46 00:02:21,039 --> 00:02:26,039 He said, “I know that you like to pray with me.” 47 00:02:26,039 --> 00:02:31,039 Praying in your home is better for you than praying in your room 48 00:02:31,039 --> 00:02:36,039 Your prayer in your room is better than your prayer in your home 49 00:02:36,039 --> 00:02:48,139 Praying in your home is better for you than praying in your people’s mosque 50 00:02:48,139 --> 00:02:49,330 He said 51 00:02:49,330 --> 00:02:51,330 So I ordered 52 00:02:51,330 --> 00:02:53,330 A mosque was built for her 53 00:02:53,330 --> 00:02:55,330 In the furthest part of her home 54 00:02:55,330 --> 00:03:01,330 She prayed there until she met God Almighty 55 00:03:01,330 --> 00:03:03,360 Narrated by Ahmed 56 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:09,550 If this applies to prayer, it is said that it is better for you to pray at home 57 00:03:09,550 --> 00:03:14,550 What will be said to her if she goes out into mixed fields of work? 58 00:03:14,550 --> 00:03:19,129 On the authority of Abu Asid Al-Ansari, may God be pleased with him 59 00:03:20,129 --> 00:03:26,129 He heard the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying as he was leaving the mosque 60 00:03:26,129 --> 00:03:30,129 The men mixed with the women on the way 61 00:03:30,129 --> 00:03:35,129 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to the women 62 00:03:35,129 --> 00:03:40,129 Be late, for it will not be possible for us to achieve the path 63 00:03:40,129 --> 00:03:44,129 Stay on the side of the road 64 00:03:44,129 --> 00:03:47,189 The woman was sticking to the wall 65 00:03:47,189 --> 00:03:52,189 Her dress even stuck to the wall due to her being stuck to it 66 00:03:52,189 --> 00:03:55,289 Narrated by Abu Dawood 67 00:03:55,289 --> 00:04:02,639 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not approve of women mingling with men in the public street 68 00:04:02,639 --> 00:04:09,639 Which she must pass through when she goes or comes from anywhere 69 00:04:09,639 --> 00:04:13,639 He regulates her way of walking on the public road 70 00:04:13,639 --> 00:04:16,639 So he makes both ends of the road for her 71 00:04:16,639 --> 00:04:19,670 And for the middle-of-the-road man 72 00:04:19,670 --> 00:04:25,670 Can it then be said that it is not permissible for her to mix on the public road? 73 00:04:25,670 --> 00:04:28,670 It is permissible to mix in work offices 74 00:04:28,670 --> 00:04:33,089 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 75 00:04:33,089 --> 00:04:37,089 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 76 00:04:37,089 --> 00:04:40,089 The best rows for men are the first ones 77 00:04:40,089 --> 00:04:42,089 And evil is the last of it 78 00:04:42,089 --> 00:04:45,089 The best rows for women are the last ones 79 00:04:45,089 --> 00:04:48,089 The worst of it is the first 80 00:04:48,089 --> 00:04:50,120 Narrated by Muslim 81 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,339 Al-Nawawi, may God have mercy on him, said 82 00:04:52,339 --> 00:04:58,339 Rather, he preferred the last rows of women present with the men 83 00:04:58,339 --> 00:05:02,339 Because they are away from mingling with and seeing men 84 00:05:02,339 --> 00:05:08,339 The heart becomes attached to them when seeing their movements, hearing their words, and so on 85 00:05:08,339 --> 00:05:12,339 Their first ranks were vilified for the opposite 86 00:05:12,339 --> 00:05:16,540 Says Western writer Annie Rourd 87 00:05:16,540 --> 00:05:21,540 Because our daughters work in homes as servants or servants 88 00:05:21,540 --> 00:05:25,540 It is better and less affliction than having them work in factories 89 00:05:25,540 --> 00:05:32,540 Where the girl becomes contaminated with impurities, the luster of her life is lost forever 90 00:05:32,540 --> 00:05:35,540 I wish our country was like Muslim countries 91 00:05:35,540 --> 00:05:39,540 It contains decency, chastity, and purity 92 00:05:39,540 --> 00:05:44,569 The maid and the slave enjoy a comfortable life 93 00:05:44,569 --> 00:05:48,569 They are treated as the children of the house are treated 94 00:05:48,569 --> 00:05:50,569 The symptoms are not bad 95 00:05:50,569 --> 00:05:54,660 Yes, it is a shame for the country of the English 96 00:05:54,660 --> 00:06:00,660 To make her daughters an example of vices through frequent association with men 97 00:06:00,660 --> 00:06:04,660 So why don't we go after what makes a girl 98 00:06:04,660 --> 00:06:07,660 She acts according to her natural nature 99 00:06:07,660 --> 00:06:09,660 From doing at home 100 00:06:09,660 --> 00:06:12,660 Leave the work of men to men 101 00:06:12,660 --> 00:06:14,660 Safety for her honor 102 00:06:14,660 --> 00:06:17,730 Wali Allah Al-Dahlawi said 103 00:06:17,730 --> 00:06:22,730 Or do you think a man will see the virtues of a foreign woman? 104 00:06:22,730 --> 00:06:24,730 So he takes care of it 105 00:06:24,730 --> 00:06:27,730 And he storms into ruins for her sake 106 00:06:27,730 --> 00:06:30,730 What do you think about someone who is alone with her? 107 00:06:30,730 --> 00:06:34,730 Its virtues are seen day and night 108 00:06:34,730 --> 00:06:37,750 And I think you are, my sister 109 00:06:37,750 --> 00:06:42,750 You know for sure that this is the case with mixed businesses 110 00:06:42,750 --> 00:06:45,910 Ibn al-Qayyim, may God have mercy on him, said 111 00:06:45,910 --> 00:06:50,939 There is no doubt that enabling women to mix with men 112 00:06:50,939 --> 00:06:53,939 The root of every calamity and evil 113 00:06:53,939 --> 00:06:57,939 It is one of the greatest reasons for the infliction of public punishments 114 00:06:57,939 --> 00:07:02,980 It is also one of the causes of corruption in public and private matters 115 00:07:02,980 --> 00:07:05,980 Men and women mixing 116 00:07:05,980 --> 00:07:08,980 A reason for the abundance of immorality and adultery 117 00:07:08,980 --> 00:07:13,980 It is one of the causes of general death and related plagues 118 00:07:13,980 --> 00:07:18,899 These are sayings by contemporary women 119 00:07:18,899 --> 00:07:24,899 They talk about God's blessing upon them after they stayed away from mingling with men 120 00:07:24,899 --> 00:07:28,189 Dr. Aya says: 121 00:07:28,189 --> 00:07:32,189 The suffering I faced in keeping away from socializing 122 00:07:32,189 --> 00:07:36,189 When I decided to leave the prestigious job permanently 123 00:07:36,189 --> 00:07:38,189 I was accused of insanity 124 00:07:38,189 --> 00:07:41,189 I neglected my role in society 125 00:07:41,189 --> 00:07:45,189 The quarrel of my closest and dearest people 126 00:07:45,189 --> 00:07:50,350 Accusing me of concealing knowledge and misunderstanding of religion 127 00:07:50,350 --> 00:07:52,379 Hajar says 128 00:07:52,379 --> 00:07:57,379 Working in a public pharmacy passed far and wide 129 00:07:57,379 --> 00:08:01,379 Carrying a lot of corruption and cruelty to my heart 130 00:08:01,379 --> 00:08:05,379 This includes the effect on feminine nature 131 00:08:05,379 --> 00:08:09,379 By carrying out inventory and storage work 132 00:08:09,379 --> 00:08:13,379 And dispensing employee prescriptions 133 00:08:13,379 --> 00:08:17,379 Scratch life that is a hidden gem 134 00:08:17,379 --> 00:08:20,379 That's when the man addresses me with a complaint 135 00:08:20,379 --> 00:08:23,379 Which may be private 136 00:08:23,379 --> 00:08:26,379 He asks to prescribe the appropriate medication for her 137 00:08:26,379 --> 00:08:30,379 Disabling me from taking care of my family 138 00:08:30,379 --> 00:08:34,379 Under the pretext of the long hours spent outside the home 139 00:08:34,379 --> 00:08:38,379 Then I come back exhausted, waiting for sleep 140 00:08:38,379 --> 00:08:44,379 Then waking up early to relive the painful scene again 141 00:08:44,379 --> 00:08:50,639 It is born when there is a feeling of rebellion against everything that would force a woman 142 00:08:50,639 --> 00:08:54,639 Even if it is indirectly related to work 143 00:08:54,639 --> 00:08:57,639 As they say, your true self 144 00:08:57,639 --> 00:09:00,639 Climb the career ladder 145 00:09:00,639 --> 00:09:03,639 You must have a role in society 146 00:09:03,639 --> 00:09:06,700 Finally, and it is the most important 147 00:09:06,700 --> 00:09:10,700 But it was sealed with it to draw attention to it 148 00:09:10,700 --> 00:09:14,700 It distances my heart from God little by little 149 00:09:14,700 --> 00:09:18,700 Feeling a barrier between me and obedience 150 00:09:18,700 --> 00:09:21,700 My weakness and apathy from some closeness 151 00:09:21,700 --> 00:09:26,700 In addition to the inevitable occurrence of many violations 152 00:09:26,700 --> 00:09:29,700 During the same working hours 153 00:09:29,700 --> 00:09:36,470 These are some examples of the suffering of women today in mixed jobs 154 00:09:36,470 --> 00:09:41,500 But what is the second suffering of the woman in Media? 155 00:09:41,500 --> 00:09:47,529 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 156 00:09:47,529 --> 00:09:50,529 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 157 00:09:50,529 --> 00:09:59,070 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him