WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.399 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai 00:00:03.399 --> 00:00:13.199 Nau'in maza a cikin hadisin Ummu Zara' 00:00:13.199 --> 00:00:24.519 Mijin da ba ya sa dabino don sanin watsa shirye-shirye 00:00:24.519 --> 00:00:29.519 Wannan wani nau'i ne na mutum mai rowa ta kowane bangare 00:00:29.519 --> 00:00:33.259 Haɗin zullumi na kuɗi da zullumi na ji 00:00:33.460 --> 00:00:39.960 Watakila rowa ta kud'i ta ratsa zuciyarsa har ta kai ga tunaninsa, don haka yana rowa da su. 00:00:39.960 --> 00:00:45.460 Don haka ne matarsa, mace ta shida ta siffanta shi da cewa: 00:00:45.460 --> 00:00:52.259 Mijina idan yaci abinci sai ya kau da kai, in bai sha ba sai ya kau da kai, in ya ci sai ya kau da kai. 00:00:52.259 --> 00:00:55.960 Ba ya sa tafin hannu don sanin watsa shirye-shirye 00:00:55.960 --> 00:00:59.840 Abu Ubaidan Al-Harawi, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 00:00:59.939 --> 00:01:01.840 Mirgina a cikin gidan abinci 00:01:01.840 --> 00:01:05.140 Yawancinsa, yayin da ake hada nau'ikansa 00:01:05.140 --> 00:01:07.840 Har sai da babu abin da ya rage daga gare ta 00:01:07.840 --> 00:01:10.140 Kuma snuggling a cikin mashaya 00:01:10.140 --> 00:01:12.439 Don bincika abin da ke cikin jirgin ruwa 00:01:12.439 --> 00:01:15.040 Tambayoyi na ba su da farashi a ciki 00:01:15.040 --> 00:01:17.540 Amma an ɗauke shi daga m 00:01:17.540 --> 00:01:21.340 Shi ne ragowar abin sha da ya rage a cikin jirgin ruwa 00:01:21.340 --> 00:01:23.840 Idan mai shi ya sha 00:01:23.840 --> 00:01:26.260 Aka ce yayi kewarta 00:01:26.260 --> 00:01:29.459 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 00:01:29.459 --> 00:01:32.459 Wannan mace ce ta wulakanta mijinta 00:01:32.459 --> 00:01:35.459 Ta fara siffanta shi da mugun nufi da rowa 00:01:35.459 --> 00:01:38.459 Al-Barm, Al-Nahamah, and Al-Jaraza 00:01:38.459 --> 00:01:41.459 Mummunan dangantaka da zumunci 00:01:41.459 --> 00:01:46.459 Kuma ba ya zama a cikin abin da yake ci, da abin sha, ko barinsa 00:01:46.459 --> 00:01:50.459 Yakan tattara duk abin da ya samu ya lalatar da shi 00:01:50.459 --> 00:01:53.459 Wannan ba kyawawan halaye bane 00:01:53.459 --> 00:01:57.469 Irin wannan maza 00:01:57.469 --> 00:02:00.969 Yana da mugu, mai rowa, kuma mai yawan cin abinci 00:02:00.969 --> 00:02:03.969 Yana ci duk abincin da ke kewaye da shi 00:02:03.969 --> 00:02:06.969 Ba ya la'akari da matarsa da 'ya'yansa 00:02:06.969 --> 00:02:10.129 Wannan yana daga munanan halayensa 00:02:10.129 --> 00:02:13.129 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya yi mana bayani 00:02:13.129 --> 00:02:15.629 Da'a wajen cin abinci tare da mutane 00:02:15.629 --> 00:02:18.629 Ya hana cin dabino biyu tare 00:02:18.629 --> 00:02:21.629 Kuma mutane suna cin dabino 00:02:21.629 --> 00:02:26.159 Kuma akwai hadisi daga Ibn Umar, Allah Ya yarda da su, ya ce: 00:02:26.159 --> 00:02:28.659 Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya hana 00:02:28.659 --> 00:02:32.159 Domin namiji ya hada dabino biyu 00:02:32.159 --> 00:02:35.159 Har sai da ya nemi izini daga sahabbansa 00:02:35.159 --> 00:02:37.849 Bukhari ne ya ruwaito shi 00:02:37.849 --> 00:02:40.349 Ibn Battal, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 00:02:40.349 --> 00:02:43.849 Haramcin Qur'ani game da dabino a cewar malamai 00:02:43.849 --> 00:02:46.849 Daga kyawawan halaye wajen cin abinci 00:02:46.849 --> 00:02:50.349 Domin mutanen da aka sanya kwanan wata a hannunsu 00:02:50.349 --> 00:02:52.849 Kamar dai-daita wajen cin abinci 00:02:52.849 --> 00:02:55.849 Idan dayansu ya mallaki fiye da ɗayan 00:02:55.849 --> 00:02:58.349 Bai godewa hakan ba 00:02:58.349 --> 00:03:01.349 Al-Asbahani Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 00:03:01.349 --> 00:03:02.849 Ya hana hakan 00:03:02.849 --> 00:03:06.849 Domin yana haifar da ci da sha'awar ci da yawa 00:03:06.849 --> 00:03:09.849 Kuma a cikin wancan ne abin kunya ga mai shi 00:03:09.849 --> 00:03:13.849 Duk wanda ya tuna masa da haka, ya kuma zarge shi da aikata zunubi 00:03:13.849 --> 00:03:20.889 Abincin da ke cikin gidan yana raba tsakanin mutum, matarsa, da 'ya'yansa 00:03:20.889 --> 00:03:24.389 Idan ya ci abinci daga gare su, sai ya zalunce su 00:03:24.389 --> 00:03:27.389 Ko da shi ne ya kawo abincin 00:03:27.389 --> 00:03:32.389 Amma iyalansa suna da hakkin ciyar da su da kashe musu kudi 00:03:32.389 --> 00:03:34.979 Wannan mutumin ya isa abin zargi 00:03:34.979 --> 00:03:37.979 Malamai sun yi sabani dangane da hukuncin yin haka 00:03:37.979 --> 00:03:40.479 Shin haramun ne ko ba a so? 00:03:40.479 --> 00:03:43.580 Ibn Hajar Allah ya yi masa rahama yana cewa 00:03:43.580 --> 00:03:45.580 Sun yi sabani a kan wannan haramcin 00:03:45.580 --> 00:03:48.580 Shin haramun ne ko ba a so? 00:03:48.580 --> 00:03:51.080 Yayi daidai daki-daki 00:03:51.080 --> 00:03:54.080 Idan aka raba abinci a tsakaninsu 00:03:54.080 --> 00:03:57.580 Alkur'ani haramun ne sai da yardarsu 00:03:57.580 --> 00:03:59.580 Yana faruwa da maganarsu 00:03:59.580 --> 00:04:03.080 Ko kuma duk abin da ya ɗauki matsayinsa daga dalilai masu ma'ana 00:04:03.080 --> 00:04:06.080 Don haka mafi kusantar hakan 00:04:06.080 --> 00:04:09.080 Idan abincin na wasu ne, haramun ne 00:04:09.080 --> 00:04:12.580 Idan daya daga cikinsu yana da izinin ci 00:04:12.580 --> 00:04:14.580 Ya bukaci gamsuwarsa 00:04:14.580 --> 00:04:17.579 haramun ne ga wasu kuma ya halatta a gare shi 00:04:17.579 --> 00:04:23.959 Amma an so ya nemi izini daga masu cin abinci tare da shi 00:04:23.959 --> 00:04:26.459 Ko da yake hukuncin da aka yanke kan lamarin ya bambanta 00:04:26.459 --> 00:04:29.959 Duk da haka, sun yarda cewa wanda ya yi haka 00:04:29.959 --> 00:04:32.459 Yayi rashin da'a wajen cin abinci 00:04:32.459 --> 00:04:37.019 Dangane da lamari na biyu da matar ta yi Allah wadai da cewa: 00:04:37.019 --> 00:04:39.019 A ina ya kwanta? 00:04:39.019 --> 00:04:42.019 Ba ya saka cuff don sanin watsa shirye-shirye 00:04:42.019 --> 00:04:46.019 Ibn Qutaybah al-Din Wari, Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 00:04:46.019 --> 00:04:49.050 Ta so ya kwana 00:04:49.050 --> 00:04:52.050 Juyowa yayi bai kwanta da ita ba 00:04:52.050 --> 00:04:58.050 Ba ya aiki da ita abin da namiji zai yi da mace idan yana son saduwa da ita 00:04:58.050 --> 00:05:02.050 Don haka ya sa hannu cikin rigarta ya san watsa shirye-shiryen 00:05:02.050 --> 00:05:07.050 Babu wani abu da ake watsawa a wajen sai soyayyar mace da mijinta na kusa da ita 00:05:07.050 --> 00:05:09.550 Kuma ta yi lalata da shi 00:05:09.550 --> 00:05:12.050 Kuma ina yada labarai game da shi 00:05:12.050 --> 00:05:15.180 Domin watsa shirye-shiryen nasa ne 00:05:15.180 --> 00:05:18.180 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 00:05:18.180 --> 00:05:21.180 Sannan ta bayyana hakan a matsayin rashin aiki 00:05:21.180 --> 00:05:23.180 Kuma ku tarwatsa shi 00:05:23.180 --> 00:05:25.180 Idan kuma yayi bacci 00:05:25.180 --> 00:05:28.180 Ya lullube kansa da kayansa bai yi lalata da ita ba 00:05:28.180 --> 00:05:31.180 Kuma ba ya kasa da kansa 00:05:31.180 --> 00:05:34.180 Kuma ba shi da sha'awar yin shawarwari 00:05:34.180 --> 00:05:37.180 Wanda yana daga cikin yabon maza 00:05:37.180 --> 00:05:41.180 Larabawa sun kasance suna yabon karfi akan jima'i 00:05:41.180 --> 00:05:45.180 Domin shaida ce ta lafiyar namiji 00:05:45.180 --> 00:05:47.180 Kuma wulakanta akasin haka 00:05:47.180 --> 00:05:52.779 Kamar yadda dayan Ayaa yace 00:05:52.779 --> 00:05:54.779 Wannan mutumin yana da rowa 00:05:54.779 --> 00:05:58.779 Hatta a bai wa mata haqqin su na saduwa 00:05:58.779 --> 00:06:02.779 Idan ya kwana da ita akan gado, sai ya kau da kai daga gare ta 00:06:02.779 --> 00:06:06.779 Wannan alamar yana daya daga cikin abubuwan da suka fi tsanani ga mace ta al'ada 00:06:06.779 --> 00:06:10.779 Domin jima'i yana daya daga cikin dalilan aure 00:06:10.779 --> 00:06:12.779 Hanya ce zuwa ga tsarki 00:06:12.779 --> 00:06:16.779 Idan mutum ya kasa yin haka da matarsa 00:06:16.779 --> 00:06:19.779 Ya jawo mata babbar illa 00:06:19.779 --> 00:06:22.779 Idan ta kasance daga masu tsoron Allah 00:06:22.779 --> 00:06:25.779 Ta tsare kanta ta zauna da ciwonta 00:06:25.779 --> 00:06:28.779 Amma idan tana cikin wadanda Shaidan ya jarabce ta 00:06:28.779 --> 00:06:31.779 Za ta dauki hanyar da aka haramta 00:06:31.779 --> 00:06:34.910 Domin gamsar da kanta 00:06:34.910 --> 00:06:37.910 Al'amarin ya yi kama da irin wannan nau'in maza 00:06:37.910 --> 00:06:39.910 Kamar yadda ta ce 00:06:39.910 --> 00:06:42.910 Ba ya karkatar da ma'auni don koyar da watsa shirye-shirye 00:06:42.910 --> 00:06:46.910 Hakan yana nufin ko shafa hannunshi a jikinta ya bata 00:06:46.910 --> 00:06:49.910 A'a jikinsa baya taba jikinta 00:06:49.910 --> 00:06:52.910 Domin yayi nisa da ita 00:06:52.910 --> 00:06:56.000 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 00:06:56.000 --> 00:06:59.000 Ta koka da wannan hali daga mijinta 00:06:59.000 --> 00:07:01.000 Na dora masa laifin hakan 00:07:01.000 --> 00:07:03.000 Ta rasa sa'arta da shi 00:07:03.000 --> 00:07:06.000 Kuma baya saduwa da ita ko kusantarta 00:07:06.000 --> 00:07:09.000 Kusa da ita ya kwana 00:07:09.000 --> 00:07:11.000 Kamar yadda ta ce 00:07:11.000 --> 00:07:13.000 Idan kuma ya kwanta sai ya juya 00:07:13.000 --> 00:07:15.000 Baya kusantarta da kansa 00:07:15.000 --> 00:07:17.000 Ya sa hannu a ciki 00:07:17.000 --> 00:07:19.000 Ya taba ta ya taba ta 00:07:19.000 --> 00:07:21.000 Don haka zai kasance daga gare shi zuwa gare ta 00:07:21.000 --> 00:07:24.000 Abin da maza suke yi wa mazajensu 00:07:24.000 --> 00:07:26.000 Ya san cewa an watsa shi 00:07:26.000 --> 00:07:28.000 Da sonta gareshi 00:07:28.000 --> 00:07:31.000 Ita kuwa bakin cikinta don bai yi mata haka ba 00:07:31.000 --> 00:07:36.569 Da kyar ya ke kewarsa domin yana bukata 00:07:36.569 --> 00:07:39.569 Matar tayi bakin ciki matuka 00:07:39.569 --> 00:07:41.569 Domin irin wannan mazan 00:07:41.569 --> 00:07:43.569 Bai kula ta ba 00:07:43.569 --> 00:07:47.569 Bai san komai ba game da yanayinta da damuwarta 00:07:47.569 --> 00:07:49.569 Kuma kamar wannan 00:07:49.569 --> 00:07:52.569 Kar ki yi tsammanin zai yi mata magana da kyau 00:07:52.569 --> 00:07:54.569 Yana da rowa da ji 00:07:54.569 --> 00:07:57.639 Da kuma haɗarin yin rowa tare da ji 00:07:57.639 --> 00:08:00.639 Idan mace ta rasa mijinta 00:08:00.639 --> 00:08:03.639 Na neme shi da sauransu 00:08:03.639 --> 00:08:05.670 Idan mace ce 00:08:05.670 --> 00:08:07.670 Tana aiki a wajen gida 00:08:07.670 --> 00:08:09.670 Yana aiki a cikin fili mai gauraye 00:08:09.670 --> 00:08:12.670 Yana tsoron kada ta fada cikin jaraba 00:08:12.670 --> 00:08:15.699 Tare da maza a kusa da ita 00:08:15.699 --> 00:08:17.699 Kuma idan ta kasance daga cikin wadanda aka makala 00:08:17.699 --> 00:08:20.699 Ta hanyar sadarwa da shagaltuwa da ita 00:08:20.699 --> 00:08:22.699 Yana tsoron kada ta fadi 00:08:22.699 --> 00:08:24.699 A cikin tarkon mutum 00:08:24.699 --> 00:08:26.699 A cikin wadannan hanyoyi 00:08:26.699 --> 00:08:28.800 Mutumin ya ɗauka 00:08:28.800 --> 00:08:30.800 Laifin matarsa yana tare da ita 00:08:30.800 --> 00:08:33.960 Idan shi ne dalilin samuwar ta 00:08:33.960 --> 00:08:36.960 Nasiha ga irin wannan maza 00:08:36.960 --> 00:08:38.960 Muji tsoron Allah Ta'ala 00:08:38.960 --> 00:08:40.960 Ya canza wannan mugun halin 00:08:40.960 --> 00:08:44.960 Ta hanyar koyon yadda ake mu'amala da matar 00:08:44.960 --> 00:08:46.960 Kafin yayi latti 00:08:46.960 --> 00:08:49.960 Idan dalilin ritayar namiji matarsa ce 00:08:49.960 --> 00:08:51.960 Rauni ne da kasala 00:08:51.960 --> 00:08:53.960 Wadannan al'amura ne 00:08:53.960 --> 00:08:56.960 A yau ana bi da shi ta hanyoyi daban-daban 00:08:56.960 --> 00:08:59.960 Amma idan ritayarsa ta kasance gare ta 00:08:59.960 --> 00:09:02.960 Saboda raunin soyayyarta a cikin zuciyarsa 00:09:02.960 --> 00:09:05.960 Ba duk gidajen sun ginu akan soyayya ba 00:09:05.960 --> 00:09:09.960 Babu wani abu da ya wuce ba ta haƙƙin saduwa da ita 00:09:09.960 --> 00:09:13.960 Koda zuciyarsa bata karkata zuwa gareta ba 00:09:13.960 --> 00:09:17.049 Mace tana yawan son mijinta 00:09:17.049 --> 00:09:19.049 Ko da ya gaza da ita 00:09:19.049 --> 00:09:21.049 Idan mutum ya taba hakan 00:09:21.049 --> 00:09:24.049 Idan ya sami zuciyar kulawa da soyayya 00:09:24.049 --> 00:09:26.049 Yana zaune da shi a gida 00:09:26.049 --> 00:09:30.049 Yana son gamsuwarsa kuma yana ƙoƙarin sa shi farin ciki 00:09:30.049 --> 00:09:33.279 Idan wasu al'ummomi a yau 00:09:33.279 --> 00:09:35.279 Suna korafin yawan sakin aure 00:09:35.279 --> 00:09:39.279 Ya roki mata da su rabu da mazajensu 00:09:39.279 --> 00:09:42.279 Dole ne a lura da wannan dalili 00:09:42.279 --> 00:09:44.279 A maza da maganinsa 00:09:44.279 --> 00:09:47.279 Yana daga cikin manyan dalilai 00:09:47.279 --> 00:09:50.600 Akwai saki da buƙatun saki da yawa 00:09:50.600 --> 00:09:53.600 Dole mace ta ji tsoron Allah Ta'ala 00:09:53.600 --> 00:09:57.600 Rashin kulawar mijinta ba zai cutar da ita ba 00:09:57.600 --> 00:10:00.600 Don buɗe kofar sadarwa da maza 00:10:00.600 --> 00:10:03.600 A kula sosai kada ka yi yawa 00:10:04.600 --> 00:10:07.600 Jaraba ce ga mata 00:10:07.600 --> 00:10:10.600 Saboda haka, an umurci mace kamar yadda aka umarci namiji 00:10:10.600 --> 00:10:13.600 Tare da fushin gani 00:10:13.600 --> 00:10:17.590 Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah 00:10:17.590 --> 00:10:20.590 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai