1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:10,939 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:10,939 --> 00:00:12,830 Oh Aisha 3 00:00:12,830 --> 00:00:15,109 Pray in stone 4 00:00:15,109 --> 00:00:20,620 It is a piece of the house 5 00:00:20,620 --> 00:00:25,179 When we talk about beauty in dealing with people 6 00:00:25,179 --> 00:00:32,060 We cannot describe the beauty of how the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, dealt with his wives 7 00:00:32,060 --> 00:00:35,659 Especially Aisha, may God be pleased with her 8 00:00:35,859 --> 00:00:39,579 He describes Jaber bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with him 9 00:00:39,579 --> 00:00:42,859 The creation of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 10 00:00:42,859 --> 00:00:46,219 And the way he dealt with Aisha 11 00:00:46,219 --> 00:00:47,579 And he says 12 00:00:47,579 --> 00:00:52,659 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was an easy-going man 13 00:00:52,659 --> 00:00:56,179 If the identity of a thing depends on it 14 00:00:56,179 --> 00:00:58,189 Narrated by Muslim 15 00:00:58,189 --> 00:01:03,189 Thus, a man and his wives should be members of his household 16 00:01:03,189 --> 00:01:06,469 From wives, daughters and sisters 17 00:01:06,469 --> 00:01:09,709 He easily follows his family in what they want 18 00:01:09,709 --> 00:01:11,750 Unless it is a sin 19 00:01:11,750 --> 00:01:15,379 This is part of good treatment with women 20 00:01:15,379 --> 00:01:20,260 This behavior is required at all times when dealing with women 21 00:01:20,260 --> 00:01:23,500 But it is required when traveling more 22 00:01:23,500 --> 00:01:28,939 So that a woman does not suffer from the hardship of traveling with the hardship of a man 23 00:01:28,980 --> 00:01:32,859 It is an example of the behavior of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 24 00:01:32,859 --> 00:01:35,659 With Aisha, may God be pleased with her 25 00:01:35,659 --> 00:01:38,019 What happened to her while she was in Mecca? 26 00:01:38,019 --> 00:01:41,060 With the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 27 00:01:41,060 --> 00:01:44,620 From her desire to pray inside the Kaaba 28 00:01:44,620 --> 00:01:47,900 How did you treat the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace? 29 00:01:47,900 --> 00:01:50,500 With this desire 30 00:01:50,500 --> 00:01:53,519 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 31 00:01:53,519 --> 00:01:57,420 I loved to enter the house and pray there 32 00:01:57,420 --> 00:02:01,340 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, took my hand 33 00:02:01,700 --> 00:02:03,060 So he brought me into the quarantine 34 00:02:03,459 --> 00:02:04,180 And he said 35 00:02:04,659 --> 00:02:05,780 Oh Aisha 36 00:02:06,420 --> 00:02:08,780 When your people built the Kaaba 37 00:02:09,180 --> 00:02:10,139 They fell short 38 00:02:10,659 --> 00:02:12,419 So they took the stone out of the house 39 00:02:13,229 --> 00:02:16,990 If you want to pray at home, pray in quarantine 40 00:02:17,590 --> 00:02:19,949 It is a piece of the house 41 00:02:20,750 --> 00:02:22,189 Narrated by Ibn Khuzaymah 42 00:02:22,909 --> 00:02:26,189 Aisha's desire was to pray inside the Kaaba 43 00:02:26,669 --> 00:02:30,949 As the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and some of the Companions did 44 00:02:31,710 --> 00:02:35,750 She expressed this desire to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 45 00:02:36,389 --> 00:02:39,509 He did not object to her desire or prevent her 46 00:02:40,030 --> 00:02:42,189 Rather, he strived to achieve it 47 00:02:42,750 --> 00:02:45,789 Even if it is not in the image you requested 48 00:02:46,580 --> 00:02:53,219 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, justified to Aisha what he would do to fulfill her desire 49 00:02:53,699 --> 00:02:57,180 To understand why it did not come with the image you wanted 50 00:02:57,819 --> 00:02:58,780 He said to her 51 00:02:59,419 --> 00:03:00,419 Oh Aisha 52 00:03:01,060 --> 00:03:03,219 When your people built the Kaaba 53 00:03:03,620 --> 00:03:04,580 They fell short 54 00:03:05,060 --> 00:03:06,780 So they took the stone out of the house 55 00:03:07,539 --> 00:03:11,939 This justification and clarification is very important in dealing with the wife 56 00:03:12,460 --> 00:03:16,219 So as not to hold the husband’s behavior in the worst light 57 00:03:16,860 --> 00:03:20,860 Do not open the door for Satan to whisper evil to her 58 00:03:21,860 --> 00:03:27,699 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her on how to pray inside the Kaaba 59 00:03:28,379 --> 00:03:29,379 He said to her 60 00:03:30,219 --> 00:03:32,500 If you want to pray at home 61 00:03:32,979 --> 00:03:34,300 Pray in the stone 62 00:03:34,860 --> 00:03:37,139 It is a piece of the house 63 00:03:38,219 --> 00:03:42,740 This is a great opening for the nation deprived of entering the Kaaba 64 00:03:43,379 --> 00:03:47,379 To pray inside the Kaaba by praying in the stone 65 00:03:47,900 --> 00:03:49,620 Anytime she wants 66 00:03:50,580 --> 00:03:53,099 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 67 00:03:53,580 --> 00:03:56,500 He did not prevent Aisha from fulfilling her desire 68 00:03:56,979 --> 00:03:59,500 He apologizes to her that the house is closed 69 00:04:00,060 --> 00:04:04,979 You cannot enter it, especially at the hour you requested 70 00:04:05,740 --> 00:04:10,699 Rather, he sought to find a legitimate solution that would fulfill this desire 71 00:04:11,569 --> 00:04:12,610 This event 72 00:04:13,169 --> 00:04:19,050 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, used it to dialogue with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 73 00:04:19,649 --> 00:04:24,009 To know more details about the story of the construction of the Sacred House 74 00:04:24,569 --> 00:04:25,329 And she said 75 00:04:25,889 --> 00:04:29,569 I asked the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, about walls 76 00:04:29,930 --> 00:04:31,290 Home security is? 77 00:04:31,769 --> 00:04:32,649 He said yes 78 00:04:33,329 --> 00:04:33,810 I said 79 00:04:34,250 --> 00:04:36,569 What is theirs that they did not bring into the house? 80 00:04:37,250 --> 00:04:37,810 He said 81 00:04:38,290 --> 00:04:41,009 Your people have neglected to provide for him 82 00:04:41,730 --> 00:04:42,250 I said 83 00:04:42,769 --> 00:04:45,089 What about his high door? 84 00:04:45,769 --> 00:04:46,329 He said 85 00:04:46,970 --> 00:04:51,730 So let your people enter it whoever they want and deny it whoever they want 86 00:04:52,370 --> 00:04:55,889 If your people were not new to ignorance 87 00:04:56,490 --> 00:05:00,370 I fear that their hearts will deny me entering the walls into the house 88 00:05:01,009 --> 00:05:03,170 And to stick his door to the ground 89 00:05:03,930 --> 00:05:05,329 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 90 00:05:06,379 --> 00:05:10,420 This is Aisha's style of dialogue, may God be pleased with her 91 00:05:10,980 --> 00:05:14,860 He is the one who enabled her to acquire knowledge and excel in it 92 00:05:15,579 --> 00:05:21,899 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told her about the details of building the house in the days of the Quraysh 93 00:05:22,420 --> 00:05:25,019 And the reason they built it like this 94 00:05:25,819 --> 00:05:31,060 Firstly, he explained that the house was not built completely on the principles of Abraham 95 00:05:31,779 --> 00:05:34,379 But it is smaller than it in terms of stone 96 00:05:35,209 --> 00:05:36,569 The reason for this shortage 97 00:05:37,170 --> 00:05:41,250 The Quraysh at that time did not have halal money 98 00:05:41,689 --> 00:05:44,449 Who is not mixed with usury or gambling 99 00:05:44,930 --> 00:05:48,610 Enough to build a house on the rules of Abraham 100 00:05:49,370 --> 00:05:52,329 This means that they associate themselves with God 101 00:05:52,810 --> 00:05:57,290 They were evacuating the Sacred House from serving it with illicit money 102 00:05:57,810 --> 00:06:00,050 The victim of usury or anything else 103 00:06:00,730 --> 00:06:05,370 Because the Quraysh were in control of the Sacred House at that time 104 00:06:06,089 --> 00:06:09,850 It changed the character of the building of the Kaaba and diminished it 105 00:06:10,449 --> 00:06:15,449 The Arabs as a whole were unable to object to the Quraysh at that time 106 00:06:16,230 --> 00:06:20,389 Then when I asked Aisha about the secret of the house’s height above the ground 107 00:06:21,170 --> 00:06:24,649 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, explained to her the reason 108 00:06:25,370 --> 00:06:29,529 That is, the Quraysh wanted to control who entered the house 109 00:06:30,209 --> 00:06:33,930 People cannot enter it without her permission 110 00:06:34,569 --> 00:06:41,810 This control is not intended to protect the house from the tyrants and arrogant people entering it 111 00:06:42,529 --> 00:06:47,610 Rather, it was intended merely to control and oppress the general public 112 00:06:48,370 --> 00:06:52,730 They open it to whoever wants, even if he is one of the most immoral people 113 00:06:53,329 --> 00:06:57,490 And they prevent him from whomever he wants, even if he is one of the most pious people 114 00:06:58,129 --> 00:07:00,009 And they continued this act 115 00:07:00,490 --> 00:07:03,730 Until people became convinced that this was the truth 116 00:07:04,290 --> 00:07:06,490 And everything else is falsehood 117 00:07:07,310 --> 00:07:14,430 Therefore, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, refrained from rebuilding the house on the principles of Abraham 118 00:07:14,949 --> 00:07:17,230 And stick the door of the house to the ground 119 00:07:17,750 --> 00:07:19,910 And to make the house two doors 120 00:07:20,389 --> 00:07:23,389 An eastern door and a western door 121 00:07:23,990 --> 00:07:27,870 Let people enter through one door and exit through the other 122 00:07:28,589 --> 00:07:32,149 Because of the wrong image in people's hearts 123 00:07:32,589 --> 00:07:38,310 Which was built by the Quraish by distorting the character of the building of the Sacred House 124 00:07:39,110 --> 00:07:42,990 God made the Sacred House a place of residence for all people 125 00:07:43,269 --> 00:07:44,550 Not for Quraysh 126 00:07:45,069 --> 00:07:48,069 But it was domineering over the Arabs 127 00:07:48,629 --> 00:07:52,310 So it sets for them the legislation it wants according to its whims 128 00:07:52,790 --> 00:07:56,269 In order to allow them to visit the Grand Mosque 129 00:07:57,029 --> 00:08:01,709 This is the wish that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, had 130 00:08:02,189 --> 00:08:09,470 We would not have known this had it not been for God inspiring Aisha to engage in dialogue with the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 131 00:08:09,910 --> 00:08:11,189 So he declares it 132 00:08:11,670 --> 00:08:14,149 Many rulings are based on it 133 00:08:14,670 --> 00:08:19,389 You will find it mentioned extensively in scholars’ explanations of the hadith 134 00:08:20,399 --> 00:08:22,920 May God be pleased with our mother Aisha 135 00:08:23,399 --> 00:08:27,040 Which caused her desire to pray inside the house 136 00:08:27,639 --> 00:08:30,720 By opening a door for Muslims throughout the ages 137 00:08:31,279 --> 00:08:34,639 Through it they can pray inside the Kaaba 138 00:08:35,279 --> 00:08:38,960 Even if the laws of Quraysh remained until the Day of Resurrection 139 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:43,840 This is one of the blessings of Aisha and the family of Abu Bakr on the nation 140 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:48,600 We ask God to grant us her love and the love of the Abu Bakr family 141 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:53,919 And may He grant us reassurance to visit the Sacred House, Amen 142 00:08:54,860 --> 00:08:57,940 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 143 00:08:57,940 --> 00:09:01,100 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds