WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 পরম করুণাময়, পরম করুণাময় আল্লাহর নামে 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:16.949 উম্মে জারার হাদীসে পুরুষদের প্রকারভেদ 00:00:16.949 --> 00:00:25.129 আমার স্বামী শাজাক বা ফালাক বা আপনার সব সংগ্রহ 00:00:25.129 --> 00:00:30.129 The seventh woman's suffering with her husband is still being talked about 00:00:30.129 --> 00:00:32.130 Which she described by saying 00:00:32.130 --> 00:00:36.130 শাজাক বা ফালাক বা সবাই সংগ্রহ করুন 00:00:36.130 --> 00:00:40.509 This type of man is violent with his wife 00:00:40.509 --> 00:00:42.509 সে তাকে অনেক মারধর করেছে 00:00:42.509 --> 00:00:46.509 প্রহার প্রায়ই অন্যান্য খারাপ গুণাবলী সঙ্গে মিলিত হয় 00:00:46.509 --> 00:00:51.509 যেমন রূঢ়তা, অভদ্রতা এবং দ্রুততা এবং ক্রোধের তীব্রতা 00:00:51.509 --> 00:00:55.859 With a lack of wisdom in dealing with matters 00:00:55.859 --> 00:00:59.859 মহিলাদের আঘাত করা একটি সমস্যা যেখানে সমস্যা ঘটেছে 00:00:59.859 --> 00:01:03.859 কিছু লোকের জন্য বোঝার এবং প্রয়োগের ক্ষেত্রে 00:01:03.859 --> 00:01:08.859 তাদের মধ্যে কেউ কেউ মারধরকে অস্বীকার করে এবং পুরোপুরি প্রত্যাখ্যান করে 00:01:08.859 --> 00:01:11.859 তাদের মধ্যে কেউ কেউ স্প্যাঙ্কিংয়ের অপপ্রয়োগ করে 00:01:11.859 --> 00:01:14.930 এটা আইনি সীমা অতিক্রম করে 00:01:14.930 --> 00:01:17.930 Some of them are those whose insight is enlightened by God 00:01:17.930 --> 00:01:23.150 He uses multiplication if necessary, according to legal controls 00:01:23.150 --> 00:01:27.150 The reason why people differ is in their stance on a man hitting his wife 00:01:27.150 --> 00:01:31.150 It is the concepts that each category carries 00:01:31.150 --> 00:01:35.150 And the societal culture spread in society 00:01:35.150 --> 00:01:38.409 To correct these concepts 00:01:38.409 --> 00:01:42.409 আমাদের বিভিন্ন দিক থেকে সমস্যাটির সাথে যোগাযোগ করতে হবে 00:01:42.409 --> 00:01:45.409 First multiply the project 00:01:45.409 --> 00:01:47.409 সর্বশক্তিমান ঈশ্বর বলেছেন 00:01:47.409 --> 00:01:51.409 Men are guardians of women 00:01:51.409 --> 00:01:54.409 কেননা আল্লাহ তাদের কিছুকে অন্যদের উপর অনুগ্রহ করেছেন 00:01:54.409 --> 00:01:57.409 এবং তারা কি তাদের টাকা খরচ 00:01:57.409 --> 00:02:03.409 ধার্মিক মহিলারা আনুগত্যশীল এবং ঈশ্বর যা সংরক্ষণ করেছেন তা দিয়ে অদৃশ্যকে রক্ষা করে 00:02:03.409 --> 00:02:11.439 And those from whom you fear disobedience, admonish them and leave them in their beds and beat them 00:02:11.439 --> 00:02:16.439 যদি তারা তোমার আনুগত্য করে, তবে তাদের বিরুদ্ধে পথ খুঁজো না 00:02:16.439 --> 00:02:20.439 ঈশ্বর মহান 00:02:20.439 --> 00:02:24.629 এটি এমন আয়াত যা কিছু লোক ভুল বুঝেছে 00:02:24.629 --> 00:02:27.629 In all its detailed topics 00:02:27.629 --> 00:02:30.629 Like a man standing up to his wife 00:02:30.629 --> 00:02:35.659 And his right to discipline her and the stages of discipline and others 00:02:35.659 --> 00:02:39.659 She talks about two types of women 00:02:39.659 --> 00:02:42.659 প্রথম প্রকার একজন ধার্মিক নারী 00:02:42.659 --> 00:02:47.659 যা আল্লাহ আয়াতে প্রশংসা করেছেন এবং এর গুণাবলী ব্যাখ্যা করেছেন 00:02:47.659 --> 00:02:50.659 দ্বিতীয় প্রকার হল আউটলিয়ার 00:02:50.659 --> 00:02:54.659 তিনিই সেই ব্যক্তি যিনি ব্যাখ্যা করেছিলেন যে কীভাবে তার মতবিরোধের সাথে আচরণ করা যায় 00:02:54.659 --> 00:02:58.659 The stages of discipline do not apply to a righteous woman 00:02:58.659 --> 00:03:02.659 Because it is valid and not an outlier 00:03:02.659 --> 00:03:07.659 ভুলে গেলে বা অবহেলা করলে এ ধরনের ভালো কাজ মনে পড়ে 00:03:07.659 --> 00:03:12.659 This is enough for her because of the faith God has placed in her heart 00:03:12.659 --> 00:03:16.659 If your wife is of this type, dear man 00:03:16.659 --> 00:03:19.659 আপনি তাকে আঘাত করার অনুমতি দেওয়া হয় না 00:03:19.659 --> 00:03:22.659 Even if it is of the second type, it is the disobedient one 00:03:22.659 --> 00:03:25.659 Do not rush to burn the stages 00:03:25.659 --> 00:03:28.659 And go straight to multiplication 00:03:28.659 --> 00:03:31.659 আল্লাহ আপনাকে অন্যভাবে নির্দেশ দিয়েছেন 00:03:31.659 --> 00:03:34.759 আল-তাহির বিন আশউর, আল্লাহ তার উপর রহম করুন, বলেন 00:03:34.759 --> 00:03:41.759 And he said, “Admonish them, and leave them in their beds, and beat them.” 00:03:41.759 --> 00:03:43.759 It is intended to be arranged 00:03:43.759 --> 00:03:46.759 যে ক্রম অনুসারে তাদের উল্লেখ করা হয়েছে 00:03:46.759 --> 00:03:50.759 আমি এটি দেখতে হিসাবে, এটি তিনটি একত্রিত করার উদ্দেশ্যে নয় 00:03:50.759 --> 00:03:55.759 ওয়াও-এর সাথে মিলনে ক্রমটি মূল এবং নজির 00:03:55.759 --> 00:03:57.759 সাঈদ বিন যুবায়ের রা 00:03:57.759 --> 00:04:01.759 সে তাকে পরামর্শ দেয় যদি সে মেনে নেয়, অন্যথায় সে তাকে পরিত্যাগ করে 00:04:01.759 --> 00:04:05.759 যদি সে মেনে নেয়, অন্যথায় সে তাকে আঘাত করে 00:04:05.759 --> 00:04:12.689 But what type of beating is it permissible for him to use to discipline her? 00:04:13.819 --> 00:04:17.819 পণ্ডিতরা একমত যে এই মারধর এক ধরনের শৃঙ্খলা 00:04:17.819 --> 00:04:20.819 এবং এটি নির্যাতন নয় 00:04:20.819 --> 00:04:23.910 ইবনে কাসীর, আল্লাহ তার উপর রহম করুন, বলেন 00:04:23.910 --> 00:04:26.910 এবং তিনি বললেন, "তাদের আঘাত কর।" 00:04:26.910 --> 00:04:30.910 অর্থাৎ, যদি তারা উপদেশ বা পরিত্যাগ দ্বারা নিবৃত্ত না হয় 00:04:30.910 --> 00:04:34.910 আপনি কোনো ক্ষতি না করেই তাদের মারতে পারেন 00:04:34.910 --> 00:04:37.939 As proven in Sahih Muslim 00:04:37.939 --> 00:04:40.939 On the authority of Jabir, on the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:40.939 --> 00:04:43.939 As he said in his farewell pilgrimage 00:04:43.939 --> 00:04:46.939 And fear God regarding women 00:04:46.939 --> 00:04:49.939 If they are common people among you 00:04:49.939 --> 00:04:54.939 You are required to not let anyone you hate put on your bed 00:04:54.939 --> 00:04:59.939 যদি তারা করে, তাহলে তাদের কঠোরভাবে মারবেন না 00:04:59.939 --> 00:05:03.939 তাদের একটি যুক্তিসঙ্গত পদ্ধতিতে সরবরাহ করা হবে এবং পোশাক পরা হবে 00:05:03.939 --> 00:05:06.939 এটি ইবনে আব্বাস এবং একাধিক ব্যক্তিও বলেছেন 00:05:06.939 --> 00:05:09.939 Unexplained beating 00:05:09.939 --> 00:05:11.939 Al-Hasan Al-Basri said 00:05:11.939 --> 00:05:13.939 মানে, এটা কার্যকর নয় 00:05:13.939 --> 00:05:15.939 আইনশাস্ত্র ড 00:05:15.939 --> 00:05:17.939 এটি একটি অঙ্গ ভাঙ্গা নয় 00:05:17.939 --> 00:05:20.939 It does not affect anything 00:05:20.939 --> 00:05:26.000 If the scholars talk about the quality of multiplication 00:05:26.000 --> 00:05:30.000 It is a light beating that does not affect her 00:05:30.000 --> 00:05:33.160 So what is the benefit of multiplication? 00:05:33.160 --> 00:05:35.160 মহিলাদের কে ভালো করে চেনে? 00:05:35.160 --> 00:05:39.160 তিনি জানেন যে নারীরা মানসিকভাবে ক্ষতিগ্রস্ত হয় 00:05:39.160 --> 00:05:42.160 সে অঝোরে কাঁদতে পারে 00:05:42.160 --> 00:05:45.160 If her husband beat her lightly 00:05:45.160 --> 00:05:48.160 Not because she was physically hurt 00:05:48.160 --> 00:05:51.160 কিন্তু কারণ সে মর্যাদায় নিকৃষ্ট বোধ করে 00:05:51.160 --> 00:05:53.259 When he hit her 00:05:53.259 --> 00:05:55.259 এর মানে অন্য কিছু 00:05:55.259 --> 00:05:57.259 He was the one who hit her 00:05:57.259 --> 00:06:00.259 মহিলারা যা ঘৃণা করে তা করতে সক্ষম 00:06:00.259 --> 00:06:03.259 Of divorce or marriage to her 00:06:03.259 --> 00:06:06.319 If it was after a light beating 00:06:06.319 --> 00:06:09.319 She still has a living heart 00:06:09.319 --> 00:06:12.319 The thought is that she will abandon nushuz 00:06:12.319 --> 00:06:15.319 She returns to her husband and obeys him 00:06:15.319 --> 00:06:18.319 Thus saving the family 00:06:18.319 --> 00:06:21.319 From disintegration and cracking with its rationality 00:06:21.319 --> 00:06:24.579 Muhammad Abu Zahr, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:24.579 --> 00:06:27.579 The third is the medicine for nashouz 00:06:27.579 --> 00:06:30.579 Multiplication is the maximum 00:06:30.579 --> 00:06:32.579 He does not resort to it 00:06:32.579 --> 00:06:35.579 Except when the previous two medications fail 00:06:35.579 --> 00:06:38.579 It has been proven that hitting is permissible 00:06:38.579 --> 00:06:41.579 It happens when you reach married life 00:06:41.579 --> 00:06:45.579 A degree at which there is fear of discord and separation 00:06:45.579 --> 00:06:48.579 The Sunnah restricted it with two restrictions 00:06:48.579 --> 00:06:52.579 One of them is that it is not unpleasant 00:06:52.579 --> 00:06:55.579 And it should not be disgraceful 00:06:55.579 --> 00:06:57.579 Not to hit the face 00:06:57.579 --> 00:07:00.579 This was stated in the Sunnah 00:07:00.579 --> 00:07:02.579 Ibn Abbas was asked 00:07:02.579 --> 00:07:04.579 About unexplained beatings 00:07:04.579 --> 00:07:08.579 He said it was beating with a skewer or something similar 00:07:08.579 --> 00:07:10.579 This is permissible beating 00:07:10.579 --> 00:07:13.579 It is a symbol of deserving of being beaten 00:07:13.579 --> 00:07:15.639 Not by hitting 00:07:15.639 --> 00:07:18.639 আল-তাহির বিন আশউর, আল্লাহ তার উপর রহম করুন, বলেন 00:07:18.639 --> 00:07:21.639 It seems that permission to strike 00:07:21.639 --> 00:07:25.639 To take into account precise circumstances between spouses 00:07:25.639 --> 00:07:29.639 So the husband was allowed to beat his wife in a way that was corrective 00:07:29.639 --> 00:07:32.639 For the purpose of establishing intercourse between them 00:07:32.639 --> 00:07:35.639 If it exceeds what is required by its state of discord 00:07:35.639 --> 00:07:39.699 He was an aggressor 00:07:39.699 --> 00:07:43.699 These are the precise conditions that scientists talk about 00:07:43.699 --> 00:07:45.699 It is a woman's disobedience to a man 00:07:45.699 --> 00:07:48.699 And upload it to him in more than one form 00:07:48.699 --> 00:07:50.699 Which insults the man 00:07:50.699 --> 00:07:53.699 He loses his personality at home 00:07:53.699 --> 00:07:56.699 And it is most severe on the male psyche 00:07:56.699 --> 00:07:59.699 What a disobedient person does in front of his children 00:07:59.699 --> 00:08:02.699 The children rebel against him because of her 00:08:02.699 --> 00:08:05.860 Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:05.860 --> 00:08:08.860 This is true for most jurists 00:08:08.860 --> 00:08:11.860 Those who have been singled out for legal disobedience 00:08:11.860 --> 00:08:13.860 Which permits hitting 00:08:13.860 --> 00:08:15.860 If needed to remove it 00:08:15.860 --> 00:08:17.860 With few qualities 00:08:17.860 --> 00:08:20.860 Like disobeying a man in bed 00:08:20.860 --> 00:08:23.860 Leaving the house without an excuse 00:08:23.860 --> 00:08:25.860 Some of them made leaving it an ornament 00:08:25.860 --> 00:08:28.860 He is asking for it as a craving 00:08:28.860 --> 00:08:31.860 They told him to hit her too 00:08:31.860 --> 00:08:34.860 To abandon religious obligations 00:08:34.860 --> 00:08:36.860 Such as washing and praying 00:08:36.860 --> 00:08:39.919 It seems that disobedience is more general 00:08:39.919 --> 00:08:41.919 It includes all disobedience 00:08:41.919 --> 00:08:43.919 It is caused by elevation and pride 00:08:43.919 --> 00:08:45.919 এ কথা তিনি বলেছেন 00:08:45.919 --> 00:08:47.919 If I obey you 00:08:47.919 --> 00:08:50.919 Do not seek a way against them 00:08:50.919 --> 00:08:55.490 We are faced with two options, not a third 00:08:55.490 --> 00:08:57.490 In dealing with the disobedient 00:08:57.490 --> 00:08:59.490 Which didn't work for her 00:08:59.490 --> 00:09:01.490 Biting or abandoning 00:09:01.490 --> 00:09:03.490 Either we allow the man 00:09:03.490 --> 00:09:05.490 To use what he permitted 00:09:05.490 --> 00:09:07.490 May God give him a light beating 00:09:07.490 --> 00:09:09.490 Who disciplines women 00:09:09.490 --> 00:09:11.490 And restores her sanity 00:09:11.490 --> 00:09:13.490 Or the family will be destroyed 00:09:13.490 --> 00:09:15.490 By dropping the man's personality 00:09:15.490 --> 00:09:17.490 Or divorce 00:09:17.490 --> 00:09:22.610 আমরা একটি আসন্ন মিটিং চালিয়ে যাব, ইনশাআল্লাহ 00:09:22.610 --> 00:09:25.610 সমস্ত প্রশংসা বিশ্বজগতের পালনকর্তা আল্লাহর