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পরম করুণাময়, পরম করুণাময় আল্লাহর নামে

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উম্মে জারার হাদীসে পুরুষদের প্রকারভেদ

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আমার স্বামী শাজাক বা ফালাক বা আপনার সব সংগ্রহ

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The seventh woman's suffering with her husband is still being talked about

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Which she described by saying

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শাজাক বা ফালাক বা সবাই সংগ্রহ করুন

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This type of man is violent with his wife

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সে তাকে অনেক মারধর করেছে

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প্রহার প্রায়ই অন্যান্য খারাপ গুণাবলী সঙ্গে মিলিত হয়

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যেমন রূঢ়তা, অভদ্রতা এবং দ্রুততা এবং ক্রোধের তীব্রতা

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With a lack of wisdom in dealing with matters

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মহিলাদের আঘাত করা একটি সমস্যা যেখানে সমস্যা ঘটেছে

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কিছু লোকের জন্য বোঝার এবং প্রয়োগের ক্ষেত্রে

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তাদের মধ্যে কেউ কেউ মারধরকে অস্বীকার করে এবং পুরোপুরি প্রত্যাখ্যান করে

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তাদের মধ্যে কেউ কেউ স্প্যাঙ্কিংয়ের অপপ্রয়োগ করে

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এটা আইনি সীমা অতিক্রম করে

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Some of them are those whose insight is enlightened by God

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He uses multiplication if necessary, according to legal controls

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The reason why people differ is in their stance on a man hitting his wife

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It is the concepts that each category carries

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And the societal culture spread in society

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To correct these concepts

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আমাদের বিভিন্ন দিক থেকে সমস্যাটির সাথে যোগাযোগ করতে হবে

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First multiply the project

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সর্বশক্তিমান ঈশ্বর বলেছেন

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Men are guardians of women

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কেননা আল্লাহ তাদের কিছুকে অন্যদের উপর অনুগ্রহ করেছেন

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এবং তারা কি তাদের টাকা খরচ

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ধার্মিক মহিলারা আনুগত্যশীল এবং ঈশ্বর যা সংরক্ষণ করেছেন তা দিয়ে অদৃশ্যকে রক্ষা করে

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And those from whom you fear disobedience, admonish them and leave them in their beds and beat them

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যদি তারা তোমার আনুগত্য করে, তবে তাদের বিরুদ্ধে পথ খুঁজো না

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ঈশ্বর মহান

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এটি এমন আয়াত যা কিছু লোক ভুল বুঝেছে

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In all its detailed topics

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Like a man standing up to his wife

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And his right to discipline her and the stages of discipline and others

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She talks about two types of women

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প্রথম প্রকার একজন ধার্মিক নারী

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যা আল্লাহ আয়াতে প্রশংসা করেছেন এবং এর গুণাবলী ব্যাখ্যা করেছেন

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দ্বিতীয় প্রকার হল আউটলিয়ার

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তিনিই সেই ব্যক্তি যিনি ব্যাখ্যা করেছিলেন যে কীভাবে তার মতবিরোধের সাথে আচরণ করা যায়

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The stages of discipline do not apply to a righteous woman

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Because it is valid and not an outlier

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ভুলে গেলে বা অবহেলা করলে এ ধরনের ভালো কাজ মনে পড়ে

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This is enough for her because of the faith God has placed in her heart

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If your wife is of this type, dear man

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আপনি তাকে আঘাত করার অনুমতি দেওয়া হয় না

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Even if it is of the second type, it is the disobedient one

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Do not rush to burn the stages

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And go straight to multiplication

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আল্লাহ আপনাকে অন্যভাবে নির্দেশ দিয়েছেন

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আল-তাহির বিন আশউর, আল্লাহ তার উপর রহম করুন, বলেন

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And he said, “Admonish them, and leave them in their beds, and beat them.”

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It is intended to be arranged

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যে ক্রম অনুসারে তাদের উল্লেখ করা হয়েছে

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আমি এটি দেখতে হিসাবে, এটি তিনটি একত্রিত করার উদ্দেশ্যে নয়

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ওয়াও-এর সাথে মিলনে ক্রমটি মূল এবং নজির

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সাঈদ বিন যুবায়ের রা

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সে তাকে পরামর্শ দেয় যদি সে মেনে নেয়, অন্যথায় সে তাকে পরিত্যাগ করে

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যদি সে মেনে নেয়, অন্যথায় সে তাকে আঘাত করে

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But what type of beating is it permissible for him to use to discipline her?

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পণ্ডিতরা একমত যে এই মারধর এক ধরনের শৃঙ্খলা

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এবং এটি নির্যাতন নয়

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ইবনে কাসীর, আল্লাহ তার উপর রহম করুন, বলেন

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এবং তিনি বললেন, "তাদের আঘাত কর।"

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অর্থাৎ, যদি তারা উপদেশ বা পরিত্যাগ দ্বারা নিবৃত্ত না হয়

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আপনি কোনো ক্ষতি না করেই তাদের মারতে পারেন

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As proven in Sahih Muslim

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On the authority of Jabir, on the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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As he said in his farewell pilgrimage

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And fear God regarding women

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If they are common people among you

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You are required to not let anyone you hate put on your bed

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যদি তারা করে, তাহলে তাদের কঠোরভাবে মারবেন না

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তাদের একটি যুক্তিসঙ্গত পদ্ধতিতে সরবরাহ করা হবে এবং পোশাক পরা হবে

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এটি ইবনে আব্বাস এবং একাধিক ব্যক্তিও বলেছেন

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Unexplained beating

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Al-Hasan Al-Basri said

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মানে, এটা কার্যকর নয়

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আইনশাস্ত্র ড

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এটি একটি অঙ্গ ভাঙ্গা নয়

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It does not affect anything

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If the scholars talk about the quality of multiplication

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It is a light beating that does not affect her

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So what is the benefit of multiplication?

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মহিলাদের কে ভালো করে চেনে?

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তিনি জানেন যে নারীরা মানসিকভাবে ক্ষতিগ্রস্ত হয়

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সে অঝোরে কাঁদতে পারে

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If her husband beat her lightly

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Not because she was physically hurt

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কিন্তু কারণ সে মর্যাদায় নিকৃষ্ট বোধ করে

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When he hit her

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এর মানে অন্য কিছু

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He was the one who hit her

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মহিলারা যা ঘৃণা করে তা করতে সক্ষম

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Of divorce or marriage to her

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If it was after a light beating

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She still has a living heart

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The thought is that she will abandon nushuz

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She returns to her husband and obeys him

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Thus saving the family

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From disintegration and cracking with its rationality

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Muhammad Abu Zahr, may God have mercy on him, said

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The third is the medicine for nashouz

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Multiplication is the maximum

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He does not resort to it

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Except when the previous two medications fail

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It has been proven that hitting is permissible

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It happens when you reach married life

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A degree at which there is fear of discord and separation

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The Sunnah restricted it with two restrictions

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One of them is that it is not unpleasant

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And it should not be disgraceful

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Not to hit the face

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This was stated in the Sunnah

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Ibn Abbas was asked

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About unexplained beatings

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He said it was beating with a skewer or something similar

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This is permissible beating

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It is a symbol of deserving of being beaten

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Not by hitting

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আল-তাহির বিন আশউর, আল্লাহ তার উপর রহম করুন, বলেন

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It seems that permission to strike

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To take into account precise circumstances between spouses

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So the husband was allowed to beat his wife in a way that was corrective

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For the purpose of establishing intercourse between them

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If it exceeds what is required by its state of discord

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He was an aggressor

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These are the precise conditions that scientists talk about

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It is a woman's disobedience to a man

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And upload it to him in more than one form

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Which insults the man

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He loses his personality at home

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And it is most severe on the male psyche

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What a disobedient person does in front of his children

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The children rebel against him because of her

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Muhammad Rashid Reda, may God have mercy on him, said

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This is true for most jurists

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Those who have been singled out for legal disobedience

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Which permits hitting

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If needed to remove it

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With few qualities

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Like disobeying a man in bed

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Leaving the house without an excuse

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Some of them made leaving it an ornament

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He is asking for it as a craving

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They told him to hit her too

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To abandon religious obligations

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Such as washing and praying

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It seems that disobedience is more general

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It includes all disobedience

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It is caused by elevation and pride

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এ কথা তিনি বলেছেন

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If I obey you

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Do not seek a way against them

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We are faced with two options, not a third

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In dealing with the disobedient

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Which didn't work for her

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Biting or abandoning

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Either we allow the man

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To use what he permitted

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May God give him a light beating

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Who disciplines women

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And restores her sanity

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Or the family will be destroyed

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By dropping the man's personality

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Or divorce

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আমরা একটি আসন্ন মিটিং চালিয়ে যাব, ইনশাআল্লাহ

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সমস্ত প্রশংসা বিশ্বজগতের পালনকর্তা আল্লাহর