Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
O Aisha, get up and perform your prayers
Prayer at night is one of the most honorable voluntary prayers through which the servant draws closer to his Lord
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about him
He knew that the honor of a believer is to pray at night
As the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told about him
It is the practice of the righteous before us
It is the Muslim's solitude with his Lord, Glory be to Him
He speaks to him and expresses his complaints
It is an individual act of worship between the servant and his Lord
But in Ramadan, a group prays
The Muslim practices the night prayer for one month
May he continue with him
After tasting its deliciousness and sweetness in this blessed month
And less night prayer
The Muslim must perform the Witr prayer
He prays it immediately after dinner
Or he delays it until the end of the night before going to sleep
The Witr prayer, to say the least, is a confirmed Sunnah
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not leave it while traveling or attending
He urged Muslims to preserve it
Therefore, scholars disliked a Muslim abandoning the Witr prayer
He should only pray it in Ramadan
He was raised by the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
For Aisha, may God be pleased with her
He used to wake her up to pray Witr at the end of the night
Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was praying at night
When he prayed the Witr prayer, he said, “Get up and perform the Witr prayer, O Aisha.”
Narrated by Muslim
Raising one’s wife to do obedience is a voluntary act of worship
It is the husband's task
Especially if God has guided him and given him success
For such good deeds
He had preceded his wife in this
This is among her rights over him
God Almighty has commanded Muslims
To protect themselves and their families from hellfire
And He said, Glory be to Him
Oh, where are those who believe? Strengthen yourselves
Protect yourselves and your families with fire
A fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are harsh and harsh angels. They do not disobey God in what He commands them, and they do what they are commanded.
Part of a man’s protection for his wife from Hell is that he raises her to obey God
Maintaining the performance of God’s rituals is an obligation on Muslims
Or it is a means of bringing Muslims closer to God Almighty
And in the action of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with Aisha in this hadith
Raising us Muslims as righteous husbands in several aspects
The first
If God has enabled the husband to do a good deed and he has excelled in it
It is not right for his husband to demand the same level he has reached
The wife is a human soul
She may be prepared for another good deed other than what the husband excelled at
The husband does not demand from her the good deeds he does
Such as being successful in fasting frequently
Or for the length of standing
Or because of a lot of charity
Or reading the Qur’an a lot
It is not right here for the husband to demand the same level of work from his wife that he performs
The second
The husband raises his wife to do good deeds
He must encourage and help her to do these good deeds
As minimal as possible
Third
The husband must take into account his wife’s inclinations to do good deeds
He helps her with it
Human souls are of different backgrounds and moods
Some people are inclined to do something other than what others are inclined to do
And they are both fine
Fourth
Cooperation between spouses in doing good deeds
Many hadiths have indicated this
Among them is his saying, may God bless him and grant him peace
May God have mercy on a man who got up at night and prayed
He woke up his wife
If she refuses
He splashed water on her face
May God have mercy on a woman who got up at night and prayed
She woke up her husband
If he refuses
She splashed water in his face
Narrated by Abu Dawood
This cooperation is for night prayers
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, praised him
On the spouse who initiated it
He prayed for his mercy
Fifth
The good wife
She is the one who responds to her husband
If he invites her for what is good and righteous
This response will leave an impact on the husband
It also leaves its mark on itself
As for its effect on the husband
If the husband finds a response from his wife to him
This prompted him to continue helping her do good work
And diversify these businesses for her
The wife's status in himself increased
As for its effect on itself
This is a prelude to her continuing to do good deeds
And for more
This also happened to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
She became one of those who regularly prayed the night prayers
It prolongs standing
Sixth
We benefit from this story as well
Human companions, men and women
Aisha, may God be pleased with her
People get tired, exhausted, and sleep
She needs someone to wake her up to pray
It is inconceivable that we could create a good society devoid of human qualities
The husband may try to wake his wife up to perform the night prayer
But she can't, so she apologizes to him
Or invite her to fast one day
She apologizes to him for her inability and weakness
It should not be in such a situation
A man gets upset with his wife because she does not respond to him
And finally
We are in a time when there is a lot of temptation and pressure on the family to ruin it
There was a lot of pressure on the man to break it in front of the woman
There was a lot of pressure on women to rebel against their husbands in particular
And on men in general
It does not escape these pressures
Except to hold fast to God and to His strong rope
If the husband finds a good woman, she will help him obey God
He is the conciliator
The world was given to him
If a woman finds a good husband, he will help her obey God
She is the lucky one
Either they cooperate and volunteer to obey God
Otherwise, this is a loss of an opportunity presented to them on a golden platter
At a time when such opportunities were scarce
Oh God, fix our souls and fix our husbands for us
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her