1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:09,779 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:09,779 --> 00:00:16,839 O Aisha, get up and perform your prayers 3 00:00:16,839 --> 00:00:23,199 Prayer at night is one of the most honorable voluntary prayers through which the servant draws closer to his Lord 4 00:00:23,199 --> 00:00:26,800 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about him 5 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:30,949 He knew that the honor of a believer is to pray at night 6 00:00:30,949 --> 00:00:34,630 As the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, told about him 7 00:00:34,750 --> 00:00:38,070 It is the practice of the righteous before us 8 00:00:38,070 --> 00:00:42,270 It is the Muslim's solitude with his Lord, Glory be to Him 9 00:00:42,270 --> 00:00:46,149 He speaks to him and expresses his complaints 10 00:00:46,149 --> 00:00:50,109 It is an individual act of worship between the servant and his Lord 11 00:00:50,109 --> 00:00:53,630 But in Ramadan, a group prays 12 00:00:53,630 --> 00:00:58,189 The Muslim practices the night prayer for one month 13 00:00:58,189 --> 00:01:00,509 May he continue with him 14 00:01:00,549 --> 00:01:05,709 After tasting its deliciousness and sweetness in this blessed month 15 00:01:05,709 --> 00:01:07,750 And less night prayer 16 00:01:07,750 --> 00:01:10,909 The Muslim must perform the Witr prayer 17 00:01:10,909 --> 00:01:14,150 He prays it immediately after dinner 18 00:01:14,150 --> 00:01:18,500 Or he delays it until the end of the night before going to sleep 19 00:01:18,500 --> 00:01:24,099 The Witr prayer, to say the least, is a confirmed Sunnah 20 00:01:24,099 --> 00:01:29,099 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did not leave it while traveling or attending 21 00:01:29,140 --> 00:01:32,739 He urged Muslims to preserve it 22 00:01:32,739 --> 00:01:37,180 Therefore, scholars disliked a Muslim abandoning the Witr prayer 23 00:01:37,180 --> 00:01:40,790 He should only pray it in Ramadan 24 00:01:40,790 --> 00:01:44,430 He was raised by the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 25 00:01:44,430 --> 00:01:47,030 For Aisha, may God be pleased with her 26 00:01:47,030 --> 00:01:51,900 He used to wake her up to pray Witr at the end of the night 27 00:01:51,900 --> 00:01:54,900 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 28 00:01:54,939 --> 00:01:59,900 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was praying at night 29 00:01:59,900 --> 00:02:05,140 When he prayed the Witr prayer, he said, “Get up and perform the Witr prayer, O Aisha.” 30 00:02:05,140 --> 00:02:07,280 Narrated by Muslim 31 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:12,120 Raising one’s wife to do obedience is a voluntary act of worship 32 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,280 It is the husband's task 33 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:17,840 Especially if God has guided him and given him success 34 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,639 For such good deeds 35 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:24,080 He had preceded his wife in this 36 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:27,000 This is among her rights over him 37 00:02:27,539 --> 00:02:31,099 God Almighty has commanded Muslims 38 00:02:31,099 --> 00:02:34,500 To protect themselves and their families from hellfire 39 00:02:34,500 --> 00:02:36,620 And He said, Glory be to Him 40 00:02:36,620 --> 00:02:45,360 Oh, where are those who believe? Strengthen yourselves 41 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:51,280 Protect yourselves and your families with fire 42 00:02:51,280 --> 00:03:14,759 A fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are harsh and harsh angels. They do not disobey God in what He commands them, and they do what they are commanded. 43 00:03:15,939 --> 00:03:21,419 Part of a man’s protection for his wife from Hell is that he raises her to obey God 44 00:03:21,979 --> 00:03:27,419 Maintaining the performance of God’s rituals is an obligation on Muslims 45 00:03:27,900 --> 00:03:32,340 Or it is a means of bringing Muslims closer to God Almighty 46 00:03:33,060 --> 00:03:38,219 And in the action of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with Aisha in this hadith 47 00:03:38,699 --> 00:03:44,419 Raising us Muslims as righteous husbands in several aspects 48 00:03:45,099 --> 00:03:45,979 The first 49 00:03:46,539 --> 00:03:52,340 If God has enabled the husband to do a good deed and he has excelled in it 50 00:03:52,819 --> 00:03:57,259 It is not right for his husband to demand the same level he has reached 51 00:03:57,780 --> 00:03:59,939 The wife is a human soul 52 00:04:00,460 --> 00:04:05,780 She may be prepared for another good deed other than what the husband excelled at 53 00:04:06,419 --> 00:04:10,819 The husband does not demand from her the good deeds he does 54 00:04:11,340 --> 00:04:13,699 Such as being successful in fasting frequently 55 00:04:14,180 --> 00:04:15,580 Or for the length of standing 56 00:04:15,939 --> 00:04:17,459 Or because of a lot of charity 57 00:04:17,860 --> 00:04:20,019 Or reading the Qur’an a lot 58 00:04:20,660 --> 00:04:27,899 It is not right here for the husband to demand the same level of work from his wife that he performs 59 00:04:28,930 --> 00:04:29,649 The second 60 00:04:30,329 --> 00:04:33,889 The husband raises his wife to do good deeds 61 00:04:34,449 --> 00:04:39,329 He must encourage and help her to do these good deeds 62 00:04:39,810 --> 00:04:42,889 As minimal as possible 63 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:44,800 Third 64 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,839 The husband must take into account his wife’s inclinations to do good deeds 65 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:50,519 He helps her with it 66 00:04:51,199 --> 00:04:54,839 Human souls are of different backgrounds and moods 67 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:59,800 Some people are inclined to do something other than what others are inclined to do 68 00:05:00,199 --> 00:05:02,000 And they are both fine 69 00:05:02,829 --> 00:05:03,589 Fourth 70 00:05:04,189 --> 00:05:07,310 Cooperation between spouses in doing good deeds 71 00:05:07,790 --> 00:05:10,230 Many hadiths have indicated this 72 00:05:10,709 --> 00:05:13,550 Among them is his saying, may God bless him and grant him peace 73 00:05:14,110 --> 00:05:17,550 May God have mercy on a man who got up at night and prayed 74 00:05:17,949 --> 00:05:19,269 He woke up his wife 75 00:05:19,870 --> 00:05:20,750 If she refuses 76 00:05:21,069 --> 00:05:22,829 He splashed water on her face 77 00:05:23,589 --> 00:05:27,069 May God have mercy on a woman who got up at night and prayed 78 00:05:27,550 --> 00:05:29,029 She woke up her husband 79 00:05:29,629 --> 00:05:30,550 If he refuses 80 00:05:30,910 --> 00:05:32,910 She splashed water in his face 81 00:05:33,629 --> 00:05:35,269 Narrated by Abu Dawood 82 00:05:36,230 --> 00:05:38,670 This cooperation is for night prayers 83 00:05:39,149 --> 00:05:42,310 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, praised him 84 00:05:42,310 --> 00:05:44,829 On the spouse who initiated it 85 00:05:45,230 --> 00:05:46,949 He prayed for his mercy 86 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:48,639 Fifth 87 00:05:49,319 --> 00:05:50,759 The good wife 88 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,399 She is the one who responds to her husband 89 00:05:53,399 --> 00:05:56,800 If he invites her for what is good and righteous 90 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,800 This response will leave an impact on the husband 91 00:06:01,319 --> 00:06:03,920 It also leaves its mark on itself 92 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:06,279 As for its effect on the husband 93 00:06:06,879 --> 00:06:10,439 If the husband finds a response from his wife to him 94 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:15,240 This prompted him to continue helping her do good work 95 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,120 And diversify these businesses for her 96 00:06:18,639 --> 00:06:21,360 The wife's status in himself increased 97 00:06:22,220 --> 00:06:24,339 As for its effect on itself 98 00:06:24,860 --> 00:06:28,899 This is a prelude to her continuing to do good deeds 99 00:06:29,139 --> 00:06:30,420 And for more 100 00:06:30,860 --> 00:06:34,740 This also happened to our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 101 00:06:35,259 --> 00:06:38,819 She became one of those who regularly prayed the night prayers 102 00:06:39,019 --> 00:06:40,620 It prolongs standing 103 00:06:41,500 --> 00:06:42,500 Sixth 104 00:06:43,019 --> 00:06:45,579 We benefit from this story as well 105 00:06:46,100 --> 00:06:49,379 Human companions, men and women 106 00:06:49,980 --> 00:06:52,459 Aisha, may God be pleased with her 107 00:06:52,740 --> 00:06:55,620 People get tired, exhausted, and sleep 108 00:06:56,019 --> 00:06:58,740 She needs someone to wake her up to pray 109 00:06:59,300 --> 00:07:04,620 It is inconceivable that we could create a good society devoid of human qualities 110 00:07:05,300 --> 00:07:08,819 The husband may try to wake his wife up to perform the night prayer 111 00:07:09,220 --> 00:07:12,579 But she can't, so she apologizes to him 112 00:07:13,220 --> 00:07:16,180 Or invite her to fast one day 113 00:07:16,620 --> 00:07:20,019 She apologizes to him for her inability and weakness 114 00:07:20,699 --> 00:07:23,060 It should not be in such a situation 115 00:07:23,540 --> 00:07:27,740 A man gets upset with his wife because she does not respond to him 116 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:29,519 And finally 117 00:07:30,079 --> 00:07:35,040 We are in a time when there is a lot of temptation and pressure on the family to ruin it 118 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,040 There was a lot of pressure on the man to break him in front of the woman 119 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:43,720 There was a lot of pressure on women to rebel against their husbands in particular 120 00:07:44,199 --> 00:07:45,800 And on men in general 121 00:07:46,550 --> 00:07:48,470 It does not escape these pressures 122 00:07:48,870 --> 00:07:51,870 Except to hold fast to God and to His strong rope 123 00:07:52,550 --> 00:07:57,149 If the husband finds a good woman, she will help him obey God 124 00:07:57,470 --> 00:07:58,550 He is the conciliator 125 00:07:59,189 --> 00:08:01,069 The world was given to him 126 00:08:01,709 --> 00:08:06,269 If a woman finds a good husband, he will help her obey God 127 00:08:06,870 --> 00:08:08,110 She is the lucky one 128 00:08:08,829 --> 00:08:12,829 Either they cooperate and volunteer to obey God 129 00:08:13,430 --> 00:08:18,790 Otherwise, this is a loss of an opportunity presented to them on a golden platter 130 00:08:19,430 --> 00:08:22,709 At a time when such opportunities were scarce 131 00:08:23,540 --> 00:08:27,379 Oh God, fix our souls and fix our husbands for us 132 00:08:28,500 --> 00:08:31,459 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 133 00:08:31,980 --> 00:08:34,460 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 134 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:41,360 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her