WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:11.240 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 00:00:11.240 --> 00:00:16.469 Hadith or planting? 00:00:16.469 --> 00:00:21.469 Did the woman cause a divorce or an implantation? 00:00:21.469 --> 00:00:26.010 When a man marries his wife 00:00:26.010 --> 00:00:29.010 We hear from people or from the first wife 00:00:29.010 --> 00:00:34.009 The second wife ruined her life for the first 00:00:34.009 --> 00:00:37.009 Or she destroyed the first house 00:00:37.009 --> 00:00:39.009 Rather, it became this phrase 00:00:39.009 --> 00:00:42.009 I don't want to ruin the first house 00:00:42.009 --> 00:00:45.009 It is common on the lips of many women 00:00:45.009 --> 00:00:50.070 To whom a married man proposes to marry 00:00:50.070 --> 00:00:53.140 How true is this statement? 00:00:53.140 --> 00:00:57.140 Firstly, it cannot be polygamy 00:00:57.140 --> 00:00:59.140 A cause of homes being destroyed 00:00:59.140 --> 00:01:01.140 He does not say such things 00:01:01.140 --> 00:01:04.140 Except for those who do not truly believe in God 00:01:04.140 --> 00:01:07.140 He did not know his Lord well 00:01:07.140 --> 00:01:10.140 Polygamy is legalized 00:01:10.140 --> 00:01:12.140 Issued by God Almighty 00:01:12.140 --> 00:01:14.140 He is the All-Knowing, the Wise 00:01:14.140 --> 00:01:19.140 Any objection or challenge to the issue of polygamy 00:01:19.140 --> 00:01:21.140 It is an objection to God 00:01:21.140 --> 00:01:25.140 He challenged his law, which was based on his knowledge and wisdom 00:01:25.140 --> 00:01:27.359 Secondly 00:01:27.359 --> 00:01:30.359 God required justice between wives 00:01:30.359 --> 00:01:33.359 For those who want to marry more than one spouse 00:01:33.359 --> 00:01:37.359 Adding any condition that God Almighty did not stipulate 00:01:37.359 --> 00:01:40.359 It is an accusation that God's law is deficient 00:01:40.359 --> 00:01:45.650 This is a clear challenge to God’s law and judgment 00:01:45.650 --> 00:01:46.650 Third 00:01:46.650 --> 00:01:49.650 Wrong application of some men 00:01:49.650 --> 00:01:51.650 On the topic of polygamy 00:01:51.650 --> 00:01:53.650 And their breach of justice 00:01:53.650 --> 00:01:56.650 We are not allowed to challenge God's law 00:01:56.650 --> 00:01:58.650 Men fail in justice 00:01:58.650 --> 00:02:05.650 Such as the failure of many Muslims to adhere to the law of God Almighty in other matters 00:02:05.650 --> 00:02:08.840 A man marries a second woman 00:02:08.840 --> 00:02:12.840 He is not the reason for his house to become corrupt if it becomes corrupt 00:02:12.840 --> 00:02:18.030 What is the real reason for the corruption of homes in the case of polygamy? 00:02:18.030 --> 00:02:21.030 Who is responsible for this? 00:02:21.030 --> 00:02:23.030 Is it a man or a woman? 00:02:24.030 --> 00:02:28.259 What is the relationship of these questions to the story of Umm Zara’? 00:02:28.259 --> 00:02:31.259 Perhaps we can answer these questions 00:02:31.259 --> 00:02:34.259 By contemplating the story of a sow mother 00:02:34.259 --> 00:02:38.610 With this woman whom Abu Zara married 00:02:38.610 --> 00:02:39.610 Firstly 00:02:39.610 --> 00:02:41.610 How did Abu Zara know? 00:02:41.610 --> 00:02:44.770 The size and shape of a woman's breasts 00:02:44.770 --> 00:02:47.770 The mother of the transplant described the shape of the woman's breasts 00:02:47.770 --> 00:02:50.770 She likened them to pomegranates 00:02:50.770 --> 00:02:53.770 The woman was definitely not a nudist 00:02:53.770 --> 00:02:56.770 Until Abu Zar'a sees that from her 00:02:56.770 --> 00:03:00.800 How did Abu Zaraa know the size of her breasts? 00:03:00.800 --> 00:03:03.830 She must have been wearing a dress 00:03:03.830 --> 00:03:05.830 Her body separates 00:03:05.830 --> 00:03:08.830 Otherwise, he would not have known the size of her breasts 00:03:08.830 --> 00:03:11.830 This is what Islam forbids for women 00:03:11.830 --> 00:03:15.830 Because the detail of a woman’s body fascinates a man 00:03:15.830 --> 00:03:18.830 There have been hadiths that indicate 00:03:18.830 --> 00:03:21.830 On the prohibition of clothing that details the body 00:03:21.830 --> 00:03:23.830 Of which 00:03:23.830 --> 00:03:26.830 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:03:26.830 --> 00:03:30.830 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:03:30.830 --> 00:03:34.830 Two types of people in Hell that I have not seen 00:03:34.830 --> 00:03:37.830 People with whips like cow tails 00:03:37.830 --> 00:03:39.830 They hit people with it 00:03:39.830 --> 00:03:42.830 And women who are clothed and naked 00:03:42.830 --> 00:03:45.830 Slanted slants 00:03:45.830 --> 00:03:48.830 Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel 00:03:48.830 --> 00:03:50.830 It will not take us into heaven 00:03:50.830 --> 00:03:53.830 And its scent does not find us 00:03:53.830 --> 00:03:57.830 Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance 00:03:57.830 --> 00:03:59.860 Narrated by Muslim 00:03:59.860 --> 00:04:02.860 Ibn Abdul-Barr, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:02.860 --> 00:04:05.860 It means “covered” by name 00:04:05.860 --> 00:04:07.860 Topless in fact 00:04:07.860 --> 00:04:10.860 Do not mortgage these clothes 00:04:10.860 --> 00:04:13.860 Al-Tibi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:13.860 --> 00:04:16.860 He proved to them the clothing and then denied it 00:04:16.860 --> 00:04:19.860 Because the reality of being covered is covering one’s private parts 00:04:19.860 --> 00:04:22.860 If the cover is not achieved 00:04:22.860 --> 00:04:25.959 It's like being covered 00:04:25.959 --> 00:04:28.959 Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said 00:04:28.959 --> 00:04:31.959 He wants to be dressed in decent clothes 00:04:31.959 --> 00:04:34.959 Their bodies belong to anyone other than their husbands 00:04:34.959 --> 00:04:37.959 Those of them who are forbidden look at that 00:04:37.959 --> 00:04:40.959 They are actually naked 00:04:43.689 --> 00:04:46.689 Clothes that describe a woman's body and charms 00:04:46.689 --> 00:04:49.689 She makes her look naked 00:04:49.689 --> 00:04:52.689 The man knows every detail of her body 00:04:52.689 --> 00:04:55.819 From her clothes 00:04:55.819 --> 00:04:58.819 It is clear from the hadiths that prohibit women 00:04:58.819 --> 00:05:01.819 Who wears something that describes her body 00:05:01.819 --> 00:05:04.819 Hadith of Osama bin Zaid 00:05:04.819 --> 00:05:07.819 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: 00:05:07.819 --> 00:05:10.819 Dense Coptic 00:05:10.819 --> 00:05:13.819 When Dahiya Al-Kalbi gave it to her 00:05:13.819 --> 00:05:16.819 So my woman clothed her 00:05:16.819 --> 00:05:19.819 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me 00:05:19.819 --> 00:05:22.819 Why don't you wear Coptic? 00:05:22.819 --> 00:05:25.819 I said, O Messenger of God 00:05:25.819 --> 00:05:28.819 My woman covered it 00:05:28.819 --> 00:05:31.819 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me 00:05:31.819 --> 00:05:34.819 Marry it and put a gulag underneath it 00:05:34.819 --> 00:05:37.819 I am afraid to describe the size of her bones 00:05:38.819 --> 00:05:41.879 Narrated by Ahmed 00:05:41.879 --> 00:05:44.879 Al-Rafi’i, may God have mercy on him, said 00:05:44.879 --> 00:05:47.879 What is meant is that the Coptic lace is attached to the body 00:05:47.879 --> 00:05:50.879 It shows the size of the breasts and buttocks 00:05:50.879 --> 00:05:53.879 And the flesh of the upper arms and thighs is tight 00:05:53.879 --> 00:05:56.879 The one who looks at it knows 00:05:56.879 --> 00:05:59.879 Quantities of these organs 00:05:59.879 --> 00:06:02.879 So that it becomes apparent to us for a moment 00:06:02.879 --> 00:06:05.879 And can be touched 00:06:05.879 --> 00:06:08.879 May God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:08.879 --> 00:06:11.879 These places are like descriptions of what is behind them 00:06:11.879 --> 00:06:14.879 And the one who tells what is hidden with her 00:06:14.879 --> 00:06:17.879 This is one of the best expressions of this meaning 00:06:17.879 --> 00:06:20.879 For this purpose, Omar bin Al-Khattab was shot 00:06:20.879 --> 00:06:23.879 In his saying 00:06:23.879 --> 00:06:26.879 Beware of wearing a Qabat 00:06:26.879 --> 00:06:30.040 If it does not heal, it will be described 00:06:30.040 --> 00:06:33.040 Ahmed Al-Saati, may God have mercy on him, said 00:06:33.040 --> 00:06:36.040 The woman's dress must either be thick 00:06:36.040 --> 00:06:39.040 That is, thick and narrow 00:06:39.040 --> 00:06:42.040 Describes the features of a woman's body 00:06:42.040 --> 00:06:45.040 Or it may be subtle and describes the color of her skin 00:06:45.040 --> 00:06:48.040 Both are not permissible 00:06:48.040 --> 00:06:51.040 What is required is that the woman’s dress be visible 00:06:51.040 --> 00:06:54.040 In front of people, wide and dense 00:06:54.040 --> 00:06:58.930 It does not describe a body or complexion 00:06:58.930 --> 00:07:01.930 This woman was not actually naked 00:07:02.930 --> 00:07:05.930 Rather, she wore clothes that covered her skin 00:07:05.930 --> 00:07:08.930 But she did not hide her body size 00:07:08.930 --> 00:07:11.930 And her charms 00:07:11.930 --> 00:07:14.930 Therefore, when Abu Zara saw some of these charms 00:07:14.930 --> 00:07:18.120 He was fascinated by her and married her 00:07:18.120 --> 00:07:21.120 Will women accept this bitter truth? 00:07:21.120 --> 00:07:24.120 It is the corruption of homes 00:07:24.120 --> 00:07:27.120 Caused by women who are exposed 00:07:27.120 --> 00:07:30.120 Naked, slanting women 00:07:31.120 --> 00:07:34.120 It is not what God has legislated regarding the permissibility of polygamy 00:07:34.120 --> 00:07:37.149 Why are women silent? 00:07:37.149 --> 00:07:40.149 About adornment and do not denounce adornment 00:07:40.149 --> 00:07:43.149 And do not antagonize them 00:07:43.149 --> 00:07:46.149 She is also hostile to those who accept to be a second wife 00:07:46.149 --> 00:07:49.279 Is it possible for a woman to know her? 00:07:49.279 --> 00:07:52.279 This is the legal ruling 00:07:52.279 --> 00:07:55.279 It is forbidden to wear anything that separates her body 00:07:55.279 --> 00:07:58.279 Make this month blessed 00:07:58.279 --> 00:08:01.279 A start to change her clothes in obedience to God 00:08:01.279 --> 00:08:04.410 Did the woman realize that the man... 00:08:04.410 --> 00:08:07.410 He is mesmerized by her body just by its appearance 00:08:07.410 --> 00:08:10.410 Even if he didn't see him naked 00:08:10.410 --> 00:08:13.410 But more than that 00:08:13.410 --> 00:08:16.410 A man may be fascinated by imagining what a woman looks like 00:08:16.410 --> 00:08:19.569 If you describe it to him 00:08:19.569 --> 00:08:22.569 On the authority of Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:08:22.569 --> 00:08:25.569 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:08:25.569 --> 00:08:28.569 A woman does not have intercourse with another woman 00:08:28.569 --> 00:08:31.569 So she described it to her husband as if he was looking at her 00:08:31.569 --> 00:08:34.570 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:08:34.570 --> 00:08:37.700 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:37.700 --> 00:08:40.700 The wisdom in this prohibition 00:08:40.700 --> 00:08:43.700 Fearing that the husband would like the aforementioned description 00:08:43.700 --> 00:08:46.700 This leads to divorce of the description 00:08:46.700 --> 00:08:49.700 Or two gestures as described 00:08:49.700 --> 00:08:54.460 If this is in the description 00:08:55.460 --> 00:08:58.460 What would a man be like if he saw with his own eyes? 00:08:58.460 --> 00:09:01.679 Secondly 00:09:01.679 --> 00:09:04.679 Did Abu Zara make a mistake in marrying this woman? 00:09:04.679 --> 00:09:07.899 Which he saw its advantages 00:09:07.899 --> 00:09:10.899 This story and incident occurred before Islam 00:09:10.899 --> 00:09:13.899 It is no wonder that this is the man's concern 00:09:13.899 --> 00:09:16.899 It is the shape, beauty, and beauty of a woman 00:09:16.899 --> 00:09:19.899 Although Aba planted 00:09:19.899 --> 00:09:22.899 He had reasons other than appearance 00:09:22.899 --> 00:09:25.899 Like having children 00:09:25.899 --> 00:09:28.899 Women's activity and carrying out the tasks assigned to them 00:09:28.899 --> 00:09:31.970 But the threshold is on the Muslim man 00:09:31.970 --> 00:09:34.970 Who only thinks about the woman's appearance 00:09:34.970 --> 00:09:37.970 And her goodness comes at the expense of her religion 00:09:37.970 --> 00:09:40.970 And her morals 00:09:40.970 --> 00:09:43.970 However, the man proposes marriage 00:09:43.970 --> 00:09:46.970 From a woman who fell in love with him 00:09:46.970 --> 00:09:49.970 Better than falling into adultery 00:09:49.970 --> 00:09:52.970 It didn't happen when he married this woman 00:09:52.970 --> 00:09:55.970 Rather, he did himself a favor by preventing it 00:09:55.970 --> 00:09:59.100 From falling into adultery 00:09:59.100 --> 00:10:02.100 The woman caused it indirectly 00:10:02.100 --> 00:10:05.100 In his marriage to her 00:10:05.100 --> 00:10:08.350 But was it the reason for a divorce or a transplant? 00:10:08.350 --> 00:10:11.350 The question is for Muslim women today 00:10:11.350 --> 00:10:14.350 Is a woman satisfied with her husband? 00:10:14.350 --> 00:10:17.350 To marry a woman who fell in love with him 00:10:18.350 --> 00:10:21.350 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:10:21.350 --> 00:10:25.500 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds