1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:11,240 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 3 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:16,469 Hadith or planting? 4 00:00:16,469 --> 00:00:21,469 Did the woman cause a divorce or an implantation? 5 00:00:21,469 --> 00:00:26,010 When a man marries his wife 6 00:00:26,010 --> 00:00:29,010 We hear from people or from the first wife 7 00:00:29,010 --> 00:00:34,009 The second wife ruined her life for the first 8 00:00:34,009 --> 00:00:37,009 Or she destroyed the first house 9 00:00:37,009 --> 00:00:39,009 Rather, it became this phrase 10 00:00:39,009 --> 00:00:42,009 I don't want to ruin the first house 11 00:00:42,009 --> 00:00:45,009 It is common on the lips of many women 12 00:00:45,009 --> 00:00:50,070 To whom a married man proposes to marry 13 00:00:50,070 --> 00:00:53,140 How true is this statement? 14 00:00:53,140 --> 00:00:57,140 Firstly, it cannot be polygamy 15 00:00:57,140 --> 00:00:59,140 A cause of homes being destroyed 16 00:00:59,140 --> 00:01:01,140 He does not say such things 17 00:01:01,140 --> 00:01:04,140 Except for those who do not truly believe in God 18 00:01:04,140 --> 00:01:07,140 He did not know his Lord well 19 00:01:07,140 --> 00:01:10,140 Polygamy is legalized 20 00:01:10,140 --> 00:01:12,140 Issued by God Almighty 21 00:01:12,140 --> 00:01:14,140 He is the All-Knowing, the Wise 22 00:01:14,140 --> 00:01:19,140 Any objection or challenge to the issue of polygamy 23 00:01:19,140 --> 00:01:21,140 It is an objection to God 24 00:01:21,140 --> 00:01:25,140 He challenged his law, which was based on his knowledge and wisdom 25 00:01:25,140 --> 00:01:27,359 Secondly 26 00:01:27,359 --> 00:01:30,359 God required justice between wives 27 00:01:30,359 --> 00:01:33,359 For those who want to marry more than one spouse 28 00:01:33,359 --> 00:01:37,359 Adding any condition that God Almighty did not stipulate 29 00:01:37,359 --> 00:01:40,359 It is an accusation that God's law is deficient 30 00:01:40,359 --> 00:01:45,650 This is a clear challenge to God’s law and judgment 31 00:01:45,650 --> 00:01:46,650 Third 32 00:01:46,650 --> 00:01:49,650 Wrong application of some men 33 00:01:49,650 --> 00:01:51,650 On the topic of polygamy 34 00:01:51,650 --> 00:01:53,650 And their breach of justice 35 00:01:53,650 --> 00:01:56,650 We are not allowed to challenge God's law 36 00:01:56,650 --> 00:01:58,650 Men fail in justice 37 00:01:58,650 --> 00:02:05,650 Such as the failure of many Muslims to adhere to the law of God Almighty in other matters 38 00:02:05,650 --> 00:02:08,840 A man marries a second woman 39 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,840 He is not the reason for his house to become corrupt if it becomes corrupt 40 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:18,030 What is the real reason for the corruption of homes in the case of polygamy? 41 00:02:18,030 --> 00:02:21,030 Who is responsible for this? 42 00:02:21,030 --> 00:02:23,030 Is it a man or a woman? 43 00:02:24,030 --> 00:02:28,259 What is the relationship of these questions to the story of Umm Zara’? 44 00:02:28,259 --> 00:02:31,259 Perhaps we can answer these questions 45 00:02:31,259 --> 00:02:34,259 By contemplating the story of a sow mother 46 00:02:34,259 --> 00:02:38,610 With this woman whom Abu Zara married 47 00:02:38,610 --> 00:02:39,610 Firstly 48 00:02:39,610 --> 00:02:41,610 How did Abu Zara know? 49 00:02:41,610 --> 00:02:44,770 The size and shape of a woman's breasts 50 00:02:44,770 --> 00:02:47,770 The mother of the transplant described the shape of the woman's breasts 51 00:02:47,770 --> 00:02:50,770 She likened them to pomegranates 52 00:02:50,770 --> 00:02:53,770 The woman was definitely not a nudist 53 00:02:53,770 --> 00:02:56,770 Until Abu Zar'a sees that from her 54 00:02:56,770 --> 00:03:00,800 How did Abu Zaraa know the size of her breasts? 55 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,830 She must have been wearing a dress 56 00:03:03,830 --> 00:03:05,830 Her body separates 57 00:03:05,830 --> 00:03:08,830 Otherwise, he would not have known the size of her breasts 58 00:03:08,830 --> 00:03:11,830 This is what Islam forbids for women 59 00:03:11,830 --> 00:03:15,830 Because the detail of a woman’s body fascinates a man 60 00:03:15,830 --> 00:03:18,830 There have been hadiths that indicate 61 00:03:18,830 --> 00:03:21,830 On the prohibition of clothing that details the body 62 00:03:21,830 --> 00:03:23,830 Of which 63 00:03:23,830 --> 00:03:26,830 On the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, he said 64 00:03:26,830 --> 00:03:30,830 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 65 00:03:30,830 --> 00:03:34,830 Two types of people in Hell that I have not seen 66 00:03:34,830 --> 00:03:37,830 People with whips like cow tails 67 00:03:37,830 --> 00:03:39,830 They hit people with it 68 00:03:39,830 --> 00:03:42,830 And women who are clothed and naked 69 00:03:42,830 --> 00:03:45,830 Slanted slants 70 00:03:45,830 --> 00:03:48,830 Their heads are like the inclined humps of a camel 71 00:03:48,830 --> 00:03:50,830 It will not take us into heaven 72 00:03:50,830 --> 00:03:53,830 And its scent does not find us 73 00:03:53,830 --> 00:03:57,830 Its scent can be smelled from such and such a distance 74 00:03:57,830 --> 00:03:59,860 Narrated by Muslim 75 00:03:59,860 --> 00:04:02,860 Ibn Abdul-Barr, may God have mercy on him, said 76 00:04:02,860 --> 00:04:05,860 It means “covered” by name 77 00:04:05,860 --> 00:04:07,860 Topless in fact 78 00:04:07,860 --> 00:04:10,860 Do not mortgage these clothes 79 00:04:10,860 --> 00:04:13,860 Al-Tibi, may God have mercy on him, said 80 00:04:13,860 --> 00:04:16,860 He proved to them the clothing and then denied it 81 00:04:16,860 --> 00:04:19,860 Because the reality of being covered is covering one’s private parts 82 00:04:19,860 --> 00:04:22,860 If the cover is not achieved 83 00:04:22,860 --> 00:04:25,959 It's like being covered 84 00:04:25,959 --> 00:04:28,959 Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said 85 00:04:28,959 --> 00:04:31,959 He wants to be dressed in decent clothes 86 00:04:31,959 --> 00:04:34,959 Their bodies belong to anyone other than their husbands 87 00:04:34,959 --> 00:04:37,959 Those of them who are forbidden look at that 88 00:04:37,959 --> 00:04:40,959 They are actually naked 89 00:04:43,689 --> 00:04:46,689 Clothes that describe a woman's body and charms 90 00:04:46,689 --> 00:04:49,689 She makes her look naked 91 00:04:49,689 --> 00:04:52,689 The man knows every detail of her body 92 00:04:52,689 --> 00:04:55,819 From her clothes 93 00:04:55,819 --> 00:04:58,819 It is clear from the hadiths that prohibit women 94 00:04:58,819 --> 00:05:01,819 Who wears something that describes her body 95 00:05:01,819 --> 00:05:04,819 Hadith of Osama bin Zaid 96 00:05:04,819 --> 00:05:07,819 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: 97 00:05:07,819 --> 00:05:10,819 Dense Coptic 98 00:05:10,819 --> 00:05:13,819 When Dahiya Al-Kalbi gave it to her 99 00:05:13,819 --> 00:05:16,819 So my woman clothed her 100 00:05:16,819 --> 00:05:19,819 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me 101 00:05:19,819 --> 00:05:22,819 Why don't you wear Coptic? 102 00:05:22,819 --> 00:05:25,819 I said, O Messenger of God 103 00:05:25,819 --> 00:05:28,819 My woman covered it 104 00:05:28,819 --> 00:05:31,819 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to me 105 00:05:31,819 --> 00:05:34,819 Marry it and put a gulag underneath it 106 00:05:34,819 --> 00:05:37,819 I am afraid to describe the size of her bones 107 00:05:38,819 --> 00:05:41,879 Narrated by Ahmed 108 00:05:41,879 --> 00:05:44,879 Al-Rafi’i, may God have mercy on him, said 109 00:05:44,879 --> 00:05:47,879 What is meant is that the Coptic lace is attached to the body 110 00:05:47,879 --> 00:05:50,879 It shows the size of the breasts and buttocks 111 00:05:50,879 --> 00:05:53,879 And the flesh of the upper arms and thighs is tight 112 00:05:53,879 --> 00:05:56,879 The one who looks at it knows 113 00:05:56,879 --> 00:05:59,879 Quantities of these organs 114 00:05:59,879 --> 00:06:02,879 So that it becomes apparent to us for a moment 115 00:06:02,879 --> 00:06:05,879 And can be touched 116 00:06:05,879 --> 00:06:08,879 May God bless him and grant him peace 117 00:06:08,879 --> 00:06:11,879 These places are like descriptions of what is behind them 118 00:06:11,879 --> 00:06:14,879 And the one who tells what is hidden with her 119 00:06:14,879 --> 00:06:17,879 This is one of the best expressions of this meaning 120 00:06:17,879 --> 00:06:20,879 For this purpose, Omar bin Al-Khattab was shot 121 00:06:20,879 --> 00:06:23,879 In his saying 122 00:06:23,879 --> 00:06:26,879 Beware of wearing a Qabat 123 00:06:26,879 --> 00:06:30,040 If it does not heal, it will be described 124 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,040 Ahmed Al-Saati, may God have mercy on him, said 125 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:36,040 The woman's dress must either be thick 126 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:39,040 That is, thick and narrow 127 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:42,040 Describes the features of a woman's body 128 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:45,040 Or it may be subtle and describes the color of her skin 129 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:48,040 Both are not permissible 130 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:51,040 What is required is that the woman’s dress be visible 131 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:54,040 In front of people, wide and dense 132 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:58,930 It does not describe a body or complexion 133 00:06:58,930 --> 00:07:01,930 This woman was not actually naked 134 00:07:02,930 --> 00:07:05,930 Rather, she wore clothes that covered her skin 135 00:07:05,930 --> 00:07:08,930 But she did not hide her body size 136 00:07:08,930 --> 00:07:11,930 And her charms 137 00:07:11,930 --> 00:07:14,930 Therefore, when Abu Zara saw some of these charms 138 00:07:14,930 --> 00:07:18,120 He was fascinated by her and married her 139 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,120 Will women accept this bitter truth? 140 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,120 It is the corruption of homes 141 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,120 Caused by women who are exposed 142 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:30,120 Naked, slanting women 143 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:34,120 It is not what God has legislated regarding the permissibility of polygamy 144 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,149 Why are women silent? 145 00:07:37,149 --> 00:07:40,149 About adornment and do not denounce adornment 146 00:07:40,149 --> 00:07:43,149 And do not antagonize them 147 00:07:43,149 --> 00:07:46,149 She is also hostile to those who accept to be a second wife 148 00:07:46,149 --> 00:07:49,279 Is it possible for a woman to know her? 149 00:07:49,279 --> 00:07:52,279 This is the legal ruling 150 00:07:52,279 --> 00:07:55,279 It is forbidden to wear anything that separates her body 151 00:07:55,279 --> 00:07:58,279 Make this month blessed 152 00:07:58,279 --> 00:08:01,279 A start to change her clothes in obedience to God 153 00:08:01,279 --> 00:08:04,410 Did the woman realize that the man... 154 00:08:04,410 --> 00:08:07,410 He is mesmerized by her body just by its appearance 155 00:08:07,410 --> 00:08:10,410 Even if he didn't see him naked 156 00:08:10,410 --> 00:08:13,410 But more than that 157 00:08:13,410 --> 00:08:16,410 A man may be fascinated by imagining what a woman looks like 158 00:08:16,410 --> 00:08:19,569 If you describe it to him 159 00:08:19,569 --> 00:08:22,569 On the authority of Abdullah bin Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said 160 00:08:22,569 --> 00:08:25,569 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 161 00:08:25,569 --> 00:08:28,569 A woman does not have intercourse with another woman 162 00:08:28,569 --> 00:08:31,569 So she described it to her husband as if he was looking at her 163 00:08:31,569 --> 00:08:34,570 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 164 00:08:34,570 --> 00:08:37,700 Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said 165 00:08:37,700 --> 00:08:40,700 The wisdom in this prohibition 166 00:08:40,700 --> 00:08:43,700 Fearing that the husband would like the aforementioned description 167 00:08:43,700 --> 00:08:46,700 This leads to divorce of the description 168 00:08:46,700 --> 00:08:49,700 Or two gestures as described 169 00:08:49,700 --> 00:08:54,460 If this is in the description 170 00:08:55,460 --> 00:08:58,460 What would a man be like if he saw with his own eyes? 171 00:08:58,460 --> 00:09:01,679 Secondly 172 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,679 Did Abu Zara make a mistake in marrying this woman? 173 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,899 Which he saw its advantages 174 00:09:07,899 --> 00:09:10,899 This story and incident occurred before Islam 175 00:09:10,899 --> 00:09:13,899 It is no wonder that this is the man's concern 176 00:09:13,899 --> 00:09:16,899 It is the shape, beauty, and beauty of a woman 177 00:09:16,899 --> 00:09:19,899 Although Aba planted 178 00:09:19,899 --> 00:09:22,899 He had reasons other than appearance 179 00:09:22,899 --> 00:09:25,899 Like having children 180 00:09:25,899 --> 00:09:28,899 Women's activity and carrying out the tasks assigned to them 181 00:09:28,899 --> 00:09:31,970 But the threshold is on the Muslim man 182 00:09:31,970 --> 00:09:34,970 Who only thinks about the woman's appearance 183 00:09:34,970 --> 00:09:37,970 And her goodness comes at the expense of her religion 184 00:09:37,970 --> 00:09:40,970 And her morals 185 00:09:40,970 --> 00:09:43,970 However, the man proposes marriage 186 00:09:43,970 --> 00:09:46,970 From a woman who fell in love with him 187 00:09:46,970 --> 00:09:49,970 Better than falling into adultery 188 00:09:49,970 --> 00:09:52,970 It didn't happen when he married this woman 189 00:09:52,970 --> 00:09:55,970 Rather, he did himself a favor by preventing it 190 00:09:55,970 --> 00:09:59,100 From falling into adultery 191 00:09:59,100 --> 00:10:02,100 The woman caused it indirectly 192 00:10:02,100 --> 00:10:05,100 In his marriage to her 193 00:10:05,100 --> 00:10:08,350 But was it the reason for a divorce or a transplant? 194 00:10:08,350 --> 00:10:11,350 The question is for Muslim women today 195 00:10:11,350 --> 00:10:14,350 Is a woman satisfied with her husband? 196 00:10:14,350 --> 00:10:17,350 To marry a woman who fell in love with him 197 00:10:18,350 --> 00:10:21,350 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 198 00:10:21,350 --> 00:10:25,500 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds