WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.299 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 00:00:03.299 --> 00:00:13.160 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 00:00:13.160 --> 00:00:20.300 Husband Touch Miss Rabbit 00:00:20.300 --> 00:00:30.109 After the eighth woman listened to the women before her describing their husbands in praise and disparagement 00:00:30.109 --> 00:00:35.710 She was proud of them by describing her husband in few eloquent words 00:00:35.909 --> 00:00:37.210 And she said 00:00:37.210 --> 00:00:40.409 My husband touched a rabbit 00:00:40.409 --> 00:00:43.200 And the wind is the smell of grapes 00:00:43.200 --> 00:00:44.899 She didn't talk long 00:00:44.899 --> 00:00:47.299 But I exaggerated the description 00:00:47.299 --> 00:00:54.000 The women were left to marvel at the beautiful meanings that these few phrases carried 00:00:54.000 --> 00:00:56.299 This is an eloquent description 00:00:56.299 --> 00:01:00.399 The rabbit and the wind have many things in common 00:01:00.399 --> 00:01:04.599 Including the softness that tickles whoever touches them 00:01:04.700 --> 00:01:07.799 This is one of the beautiful logics of this woman 00:01:07.799 --> 00:01:11.900 It brought general praise without detail 00:01:11.900 --> 00:01:14.299 I think it would have been separated 00:01:14.299 --> 00:01:16.500 I would have mentioned good qualities 00:01:16.500 --> 00:01:20.030 She was summed up with this eloquent description 00:01:20.030 --> 00:01:23.329 This is because the detail in praise is among women 00:01:23.329 --> 00:01:27.930 The heart of a woman who is deprived of the beautiful qualities in her husband may be sad 00:01:27.930 --> 00:01:29.829 So you fall into envy 00:01:29.829 --> 00:01:33.329 Or regret missing such a man 00:01:33.329 --> 00:01:34.930 Or covet it 00:01:34.930 --> 00:01:38.230 Especially if you are not married 00:01:38.230 --> 00:01:40.430 Or she ignores her husband's virtues 00:01:40.430 --> 00:01:42.930 Looking at the merits of others 00:01:42.930 --> 00:01:46.430 So the blessing that is in her is blasphemous 00:01:46.430 --> 00:01:49.030 Perfection among men is dear 00:01:49.030 --> 00:01:51.849 So how about women? 00:01:51.849 --> 00:01:54.349 Advice for a sane woman 00:01:54.349 --> 00:01:56.750 Do not talk a lot between women 00:01:56.750 --> 00:02:01.709 About the beautiful details that she lives with her husband 00:02:01.709 --> 00:02:04.409 But we are afflicted in this time 00:02:04.409 --> 00:02:07.209 So-called means of communication 00:02:07.209 --> 00:02:08.509 And it's a blessing 00:02:08.509 --> 00:02:10.009 Misused 00:02:10.009 --> 00:02:12.210 By those whose minds are satiated 00:02:12.210 --> 00:02:15.610 I love fame and pride among people 00:02:15.610 --> 00:02:18.509 They photograph every moment of their lives 00:02:18.509 --> 00:02:21.610 And they publish it in these means 00:02:21.610 --> 00:02:23.909 Which indicates the mental level 00:02:23.909 --> 00:02:27.810 Which some people have reached in their interests 00:02:27.810 --> 00:02:32.500 And the extent to which the culture of triviality controls people 00:02:32.500 --> 00:02:34.800 This is a sensible woman 00:02:34.800 --> 00:02:38.599 She praised her husband in two short sentences 00:02:38.599 --> 00:02:40.800 If we ask women today 00:02:40.800 --> 00:02:44.000 To praise their men in two sentences 00:02:44.000 --> 00:02:48.099 We could not do this except through the mercy of God 00:02:48.099 --> 00:02:50.800 So how is this description that you excelled at? 00:02:50.800 --> 00:02:53.599 The eighth woman said 00:02:53.599 --> 00:02:56.099 My husband touched a rabbit 00:02:56.099 --> 00:02:58.300 And the wind is the smell of grapes 00:02:58.300 --> 00:03:00.900 It contains many characteristics 00:03:00.900 --> 00:03:04.830 This woman included it in this description 00:03:04.830 --> 00:03:08.129 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:08.129 --> 00:03:11.629 She describes him as having good manners and good looks 00:03:11.629 --> 00:03:16.159 Touch a rabbit if you put your hand on its back 00:03:16.159 --> 00:03:19.360 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:19.360 --> 00:03:23.159 This describes her husband Brian's side of the family 00:03:23.159 --> 00:03:26.060 And good manners and treatment with them 00:03:26.060 --> 00:03:29.659 The rabbit touched the softness of its tentacle 00:03:29.659 --> 00:03:32.349 And its flexibility and righteousness 00:03:32.349 --> 00:03:35.349 Ibn Diezel, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:35.349 --> 00:03:39.050 And about her saying, “Touch a rabbit.” 00:03:39.050 --> 00:03:42.150 She says he is soft-spoken 00:03:42.150 --> 00:03:46.909 Because touching the rabbit is easy and gentle 00:03:46.909 --> 00:03:50.210 The woman described her husband in two ways 00:03:50.210 --> 00:03:53.909 The first is that it is easy to use 00:03:53.909 --> 00:03:57.310 This is a praiseworthy characteristic in Islam 00:03:57.310 --> 00:04:00.110 It came in praise of those who possess it 00:04:00.110 --> 00:04:03.210 Several hadiths, including: 00:04:03.210 --> 00:04:06.409 On the authority of Ibn Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:04:06.409 --> 00:04:10.210 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:04:10.210 --> 00:04:13.710 Shall I not tell you who will be forbidden to Hell? 00:04:13.710 --> 00:04:16.709 Or someone for whom Hell is forbidden 00:04:16.709 --> 00:04:21.310 Anyway, easy, soft, easy, close to easy 00:04:21.310 --> 00:04:24.060 Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah 00:04:24.060 --> 00:04:26.459 And the easy-going and gentle person 00:04:26.459 --> 00:04:30.560 He combines many qualities, all of them beautiful 00:04:30.560 --> 00:04:34.560 Including smile and grace 00:04:34.560 --> 00:04:36.660 And the kind word 00:04:36.660 --> 00:04:40.060 And love making people happy 00:04:40.060 --> 00:04:41.660 As for the smile 00:04:41.660 --> 00:04:45.360 She has a fluent face when meeting people 00:04:45.360 --> 00:04:47.860 The most deserving of people is a fluent face 00:04:47.860 --> 00:04:51.160 A woman chosen by this gentle, gentle person 00:04:51.160 --> 00:04:53.959 To be his companion in life 00:04:53.959 --> 00:04:56.860 He paid the money for her satisfaction 00:04:56.860 --> 00:04:59.259 He made himself miserable by working hard 00:04:59.259 --> 00:05:02.050 For her happiness 00:05:02.050 --> 00:05:05.550 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:05.550 --> 00:05:09.319 And your smile in your brother’s face is sincere 00:05:09.319 --> 00:05:13.040 Narrated by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 00:05:13.040 --> 00:05:16.939 And your wife is the one who looks at your face the most 00:05:16.939 --> 00:05:19.439 More than smiling at her 00:05:19.439 --> 00:05:22.740 Your good deeds will increase while you are at home 00:05:22.740 --> 00:05:26.240 It makes her happy and makes her happy 00:05:26.240 --> 00:05:30.240 I am fascinated by it because of the most beloved deeds to God 00:05:30.240 --> 00:05:34.240 As stated in the hadith of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both 00:05:34.240 --> 00:05:38.339 That a man came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:38.339 --> 00:05:41.439 He said, O Messenger of God 00:05:41.439 --> 00:05:44.240 Which people are most beloved to God? 00:05:44.240 --> 00:05:47.480 Which deeds are most beloved to God? 00:05:47.480 --> 00:05:51.379 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:05:51.480 --> 00:05:54.379 The most beloved people to God Almighty 00:05:54.379 --> 00:05:56.680 The most beneficial to people 00:05:56.680 --> 00:05:59.879 The most beloved deeds to God Almighty 00:05:59.879 --> 00:06:03.410 The pleasure of interfering with a Muslim 00:06:03.410 --> 00:06:06.670 Narrated by Al-Tabarani in Al-Kabir 00:06:06.670 --> 00:06:11.500 Your wife is the first person to bring happiness to her 00:06:11.500 --> 00:06:13.199 As for tolerance 00:06:13.199 --> 00:06:16.500 It is not possible to imagine an easy-going, gentle man 00:06:16.500 --> 00:06:19.100 To be thick silver 00:06:19.100 --> 00:06:23.699 He is expected to be tolerant in his dealings with those around him 00:06:23.699 --> 00:06:26.399 He treated them tolerantly 00:06:26.399 --> 00:06:28.100 His household 00:06:28.100 --> 00:06:30.899 It is a sign of his faith 00:06:30.899 --> 00:06:36.300 As stated in the hadith of Jabir bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them both, he said 00:06:36.300 --> 00:06:41.199 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was asked about faith 00:06:41.199 --> 00:06:42.300 He said 00:06:42.300 --> 00:06:44.959 Patience and tolerance 00:06:44.959 --> 00:06:47.519 Narrated by Abu Ya'la 00:06:47.620 --> 00:06:51.220 And tolerance in dealing with people in general 00:06:51.220 --> 00:06:53.819 And the man’s household in particular 00:06:53.819 --> 00:06:58.019 A reason to enter Paradise and obtain God’s forgiveness 00:06:58.019 --> 00:07:03.519 As stated in the hadith of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said 00:07:03.519 --> 00:07:07.220 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:07:07.220 --> 00:07:13.079 A man entered Paradise by his grace as a judge and judge 00:07:13.079 --> 00:07:15.269 Narrated by Ahmed 00:07:15.269 --> 00:07:17.769 And those who are wise and generous 00:07:17.769 --> 00:07:19.970 The kind word 00:07:19.970 --> 00:07:24.269 It is what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about it 00:07:24.269 --> 00:07:27.370 A kind word is charity 00:07:27.370 --> 00:07:29.370 Narrated by Ahmed 00:07:29.370 --> 00:07:33.170 All of these qualities are included in her statement 00:07:33.170 --> 00:07:35.920 Touch the rabbit 00:07:35.920 --> 00:07:38.620 The second description I praised him with 00:07:38.620 --> 00:07:41.189 He smells good 00:07:41.189 --> 00:07:44.490 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:07:44.490 --> 00:07:45.490 And say it 00:07:45.490 --> 00:07:47.790 The wind is the wind of grapes 00:07:47.790 --> 00:07:50.089 It has two meanings 00:07:50.089 --> 00:07:53.189 It may be that you want to smell his body 00:07:53.189 --> 00:07:56.589 It is to want good praise from people 00:07:56.589 --> 00:07:59.990 And it spreads among them like the smell of grapefruit 00:07:59.990 --> 00:08:03.990 It is a well-known type of perfume 00:08:03.990 --> 00:08:07.189 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 00:08:07.189 --> 00:08:10.589 As for her likening it to the smell of grapes 00:08:10.589 --> 00:08:12.589 There are interpretations 00:08:12.589 --> 00:08:13.990 One of them 00:08:13.990 --> 00:08:19.189 By doing so, she wanted him to be praised and spread among the people 00:08:19.189 --> 00:08:20.490 And the second 00:08:20.490 --> 00:08:24.790 She wanted the goodness of his body and the perfume of his gardens 00:08:24.790 --> 00:08:26.189 And the third 00:08:26.189 --> 00:08:30.290 She wanted him to be gentle and have good manners 00:08:30.290 --> 00:08:34.940 It means the first chapter 00:08:34.940 --> 00:08:36.740 As for the first meaning 00:08:36.740 --> 00:08:39.139 And people praise him 00:08:39.139 --> 00:08:43.539 Which is expressed in his fragrant walk among the people 00:08:43.539 --> 00:08:48.080 This is consistent with it being easy and supple 00:08:48.080 --> 00:08:51.779 People testify to the man about what he was known for 00:08:51.779 --> 00:08:55.480 On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, he said: 00:08:55.480 --> 00:08:57.279 They went through a funeral 00:08:57.279 --> 00:08:59.779 They praised her well 00:08:59.779 --> 00:09:03.080 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:09:03.080 --> 00:09:04.480 I got it 00:09:04.480 --> 00:09:06.480 Then they passed another 00:09:06.480 --> 00:09:08.980 They praised her evilly 00:09:08.980 --> 00:09:10.179 And he said 00:09:10.179 --> 00:09:11.679 I got it 00:09:11.679 --> 00:09:14.980 Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, said 00:09:14.980 --> 00:09:16.679 I didn't have to 00:09:16.679 --> 00:09:17.779 He said 00:09:17.779 --> 00:09:20.779 This you praised well 00:09:20.779 --> 00:09:23.080 So Paradise granted him 00:09:23.080 --> 00:09:26.179 And you praised this evilly 00:09:26.179 --> 00:09:28.480 So the fire struck him 00:09:28.480 --> 00:09:32.000 You are God's martyrs on earth 00:09:32.000 --> 00:09:34.299 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:09:34.299 --> 00:09:36.100 As for the second meaning 00:09:36.100 --> 00:09:38.200 He has a good body 00:09:38.200 --> 00:09:41.500 This is what people generally like 00:09:41.500 --> 00:09:43.799 And the wife especially 00:09:43.799 --> 00:09:46.600 It must have a pleasant smell 00:09:46.600 --> 00:09:49.500 Because of the abundance of perfume he uses 00:09:49.500 --> 00:09:53.960 He takes great care of his personal hygiene 00:09:53.960 --> 00:09:56.759 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:09:56.759 --> 00:09:58.860 A lover of goodness 00:09:58.860 --> 00:10:03.159 As stated in the hadith of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said 00:10:03.159 --> 00:10:06.860 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:10:06.860 --> 00:10:09.259 Beloved to me from this world 00:10:09.259 --> 00:10:11.559 Women and perfume 00:10:11.559 --> 00:10:14.860 And he made the apple of my eye in prayer 00:10:14.860 --> 00:10:16.950 Narrated by Ahmed 00:10:16.950 --> 00:10:19.049 Are you the brother of the honorable wife? 00:10:19.049 --> 00:10:22.450 This type is easy, gentle and tolerant 00:10:22.450 --> 00:10:27.049 The one with the kind words and the sweet smell 00:10:27.049 --> 00:10:29.750 I hope you are one of them 00:10:29.750 --> 00:10:35.259 Congratulations to the one whose husband is of this type 00:10:35.259 --> 00:10:38.759 We will continue in the next meeting, God willing 00:10:38.759 --> 00:10:41.759 Praise be to God, Lord of the 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