1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,299 In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 2 00:00:03,299 --> 00:00:13,160 Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’ 3 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:20,300 Husband Touch Miss Rabbit 4 00:00:20,300 --> 00:00:30,109 After the eighth woman listened to the women before her describing their husbands in praise and disparagement 5 00:00:30,109 --> 00:00:35,710 She was proud of them by describing her husband in few eloquent words 6 00:00:35,909 --> 00:00:37,210 And she said 7 00:00:37,210 --> 00:00:40,409 My husband touched a rabbit 8 00:00:40,409 --> 00:00:43,200 And the wind is the smell of grapes 9 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:44,899 She didn't talk long 10 00:00:44,899 --> 00:00:47,299 But I exaggerated the description 11 00:00:47,299 --> 00:00:54,000 The women were left to marvel at the beautiful meanings that these few phrases carried 12 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,299 This is an eloquent description 13 00:00:56,299 --> 00:01:00,399 The rabbit and the wind have many things in common 14 00:01:00,399 --> 00:01:04,599 Including the softness that tickles whoever touches them 15 00:01:04,700 --> 00:01:07,799 This is one of the beautiful logics of this woman 16 00:01:07,799 --> 00:01:11,900 It brought general praise without detail 17 00:01:11,900 --> 00:01:14,299 I think it would have been separated 18 00:01:14,299 --> 00:01:16,500 I would have mentioned good qualities 19 00:01:16,500 --> 00:01:20,030 She was summed up with this eloquent description 20 00:01:20,030 --> 00:01:23,329 This is because the detail in praise is among women 21 00:01:23,329 --> 00:01:27,930 The heart of a woman who is deprived of the beautiful qualities in her husband may be sad 22 00:01:27,930 --> 00:01:29,829 So you fall into envy 23 00:01:29,829 --> 00:01:33,329 Or regret missing such a man 24 00:01:33,329 --> 00:01:34,930 Or covet it 25 00:01:34,930 --> 00:01:38,230 Especially if you are not married 26 00:01:38,230 --> 00:01:40,430 Or she ignores her husband's virtues 27 00:01:40,430 --> 00:01:42,930 Looking at the merits of others 28 00:01:42,930 --> 00:01:46,430 So the blessing that is in her is blasphemous 29 00:01:46,430 --> 00:01:49,030 Perfection among men is dear 30 00:01:49,030 --> 00:01:51,849 So how about women? 31 00:01:51,849 --> 00:01:54,349 Advice for a sane woman 32 00:01:54,349 --> 00:01:56,750 Do not talk a lot between women 33 00:01:56,750 --> 00:02:01,709 About the beautiful details that she lives with her husband 34 00:02:01,709 --> 00:02:04,409 But we are afflicted in this time 35 00:02:04,409 --> 00:02:07,209 So-called means of communication 36 00:02:07,209 --> 00:02:08,509 And it's a blessing 37 00:02:08,509 --> 00:02:10,009 Misused 38 00:02:10,009 --> 00:02:12,210 By those whose minds are satiated 39 00:02:12,210 --> 00:02:15,610 I love fame and pride among people 40 00:02:15,610 --> 00:02:18,509 They photograph every moment of their lives 41 00:02:18,509 --> 00:02:21,610 And they publish it in these means 42 00:02:21,610 --> 00:02:23,909 Which indicates the mental level 43 00:02:23,909 --> 00:02:27,810 Which some people have reached in their interests 44 00:02:27,810 --> 00:02:32,500 And the extent to which the culture of triviality controls people 45 00:02:32,500 --> 00:02:34,800 This is a sensible woman 46 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,599 She praised her husband in two short sentences 47 00:02:38,599 --> 00:02:40,800 If we ask women today 48 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:44,000 To praise their men in two sentences 49 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:48,099 We could not do this except through the mercy of God 50 00:02:48,099 --> 00:02:50,800 So how is this description that you excelled at? 51 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,599 The eighth woman said 52 00:02:53,599 --> 00:02:56,099 My husband touched a rabbit 53 00:02:56,099 --> 00:02:58,300 And the wind is the smell of grapes 54 00:02:58,300 --> 00:03:00,900 It contains many characteristics 55 00:03:00,900 --> 00:03:04,830 This woman included it in this description 56 00:03:04,830 --> 00:03:08,129 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said 57 00:03:08,129 --> 00:03:11,629 She describes him as having good manners and good looks 58 00:03:11,629 --> 00:03:16,159 Touch a rabbit if you put your hand on its back 59 00:03:16,159 --> 00:03:19,360 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 60 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:23,159 This describes her husband Brian's side of the family 61 00:03:23,159 --> 00:03:26,060 And good manners and treatment with them 62 00:03:26,060 --> 00:03:29,659 The rabbit touched the softness of its tentacle 63 00:03:29,659 --> 00:03:32,349 And its flexibility and righteousness 64 00:03:32,349 --> 00:03:35,349 Ibn Diezel, may God have mercy on him, said 65 00:03:35,349 --> 00:03:39,050 And about her saying, “Touch a rabbit.” 66 00:03:39,050 --> 00:03:42,150 She says he is soft-spoken 67 00:03:42,150 --> 00:03:46,909 Because touching the rabbit is easy and gentle 68 00:03:46,909 --> 00:03:50,210 The woman described her husband in two ways 69 00:03:50,210 --> 00:03:53,909 The first is that it is easy to use 70 00:03:53,909 --> 00:03:57,310 This is a praiseworthy characteristic in Islam 71 00:03:57,310 --> 00:04:00,110 It came in praise of those who possess it 72 00:04:00,110 --> 00:04:03,210 Several hadiths, including: 73 00:04:03,210 --> 00:04:06,409 On the authority of Ibn Masoud, may God be pleased with him, he said 74 00:04:06,409 --> 00:04:10,210 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 75 00:04:10,210 --> 00:04:13,710 Shall I not tell you who will be forbidden to Hell? 76 00:04:13,710 --> 00:04:16,709 Or someone for whom Hell is forbidden 77 00:04:16,709 --> 00:04:21,310 Anyway, easy, soft, easy, close to easy 78 00:04:21,310 --> 00:04:24,060 Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah 79 00:04:24,060 --> 00:04:26,459 And the easy-going and gentle person 80 00:04:26,459 --> 00:04:30,560 He combines many qualities, all of them beautiful 81 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,560 Including smile and grace 82 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:36,660 And the kind word 83 00:04:36,660 --> 00:04:40,060 And love making people happy 84 00:04:40,060 --> 00:04:41,660 As for the smile 85 00:04:41,660 --> 00:04:45,360 She has a fluent face when meeting people 86 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,860 The most deserving of people is a fluent face 87 00:04:47,860 --> 00:04:51,160 A woman chosen by this gentle, gentle person 88 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,959 To be his companion in life 89 00:04:53,959 --> 00:04:56,860 He paid the money for her satisfaction 90 00:04:56,860 --> 00:04:59,259 He made himself miserable by working hard 91 00:04:59,259 --> 00:05:02,050 For her happiness 92 00:05:02,050 --> 00:05:05,550 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 93 00:05:05,550 --> 00:05:09,319 And your smile in your brother’s face is sincere 94 00:05:09,319 --> 00:05:13,040 Narrated by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 95 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:16,939 And your wife is the one who looks at your face the most 96 00:05:16,939 --> 00:05:19,439 More than smiling at her 97 00:05:19,439 --> 00:05:22,740 Your good deeds will increase while you are at home 98 00:05:22,740 --> 00:05:26,240 It makes her happy and makes her happy 99 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:30,240 I am fascinated by it because of the most beloved deeds to God 100 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:34,240 As stated in the hadith of Ibn Omar, may God be pleased with them both 101 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:38,339 That a man came to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 102 00:05:38,339 --> 00:05:41,439 He said, O Messenger of God 103 00:05:41,439 --> 00:05:44,240 Which people are most beloved to God? 104 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:47,480 Which deeds are most beloved to God? 105 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:51,379 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 106 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,379 The most beloved people to God Almighty 107 00:05:54,379 --> 00:05:56,680 The most beneficial to people 108 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,879 The most beloved deeds to God Almighty 109 00:05:59,879 --> 00:06:03,410 The pleasure of interfering with a Muslim 110 00:06:03,410 --> 00:06:06,670 Narrated by Al-Tabarani in Al-Kabir 111 00:06:06,670 --> 00:06:11,500 Your wife is the first person to bring happiness to her 112 00:06:11,500 --> 00:06:13,199 As for tolerance 113 00:06:13,199 --> 00:06:16,500 It is not possible to imagine an easy-going, gentle man 114 00:06:16,500 --> 00:06:19,100 To be thick silver 115 00:06:19,100 --> 00:06:23,699 He is expected to be tolerant in his dealings with those around him 116 00:06:23,699 --> 00:06:26,399 He treated them tolerantly 117 00:06:26,399 --> 00:06:28,100 His household 118 00:06:28,100 --> 00:06:30,899 It is a sign of his faith 119 00:06:30,899 --> 00:06:36,300 As stated in the hadith of Jabir bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them both, he said 120 00:06:36,300 --> 00:06:41,199 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was asked about faith 121 00:06:41,199 --> 00:06:42,300 He said 122 00:06:42,300 --> 00:06:44,959 Patience and tolerance 123 00:06:44,959 --> 00:06:47,519 Narrated by Abu Ya'la 124 00:06:47,620 --> 00:06:51,220 And tolerance in dealing with people in general 125 00:06:51,220 --> 00:06:53,819 And the man’s household in particular 126 00:06:53,819 --> 00:06:58,019 A reason to enter Paradise and obtain God’s forgiveness 127 00:06:58,019 --> 00:07:03,519 As stated in the hadith of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both, he said 128 00:07:03,519 --> 00:07:07,220 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 129 00:07:07,220 --> 00:07:13,079 A man entered Paradise by his grace as a judge and judge 130 00:07:13,079 --> 00:07:15,269 Narrated by Ahmed 131 00:07:15,269 --> 00:07:17,769 And those who are wise and generous 132 00:07:17,769 --> 00:07:19,970 The kind word 133 00:07:19,970 --> 00:07:24,269 It is what the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said about it 134 00:07:24,269 --> 00:07:27,370 A kind word is charity 135 00:07:27,370 --> 00:07:29,370 Narrated by Ahmed 136 00:07:29,370 --> 00:07:33,170 All of these qualities are included in her statement 137 00:07:33,170 --> 00:07:35,920 Touch the rabbit 138 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,620 The second description I praised him with 139 00:07:38,620 --> 00:07:41,189 He smells good 140 00:07:41,189 --> 00:07:44,490 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said 141 00:07:44,490 --> 00:07:45,490 And say it 142 00:07:45,490 --> 00:07:47,790 The wind is the wind of grapes 143 00:07:47,790 --> 00:07:50,089 It has two meanings 144 00:07:50,089 --> 00:07:53,189 It may be that you want to smell his body 145 00:07:53,189 --> 00:07:56,589 It is to want good praise from people 146 00:07:56,589 --> 00:07:59,990 And it spreads among them like the smell of grapefruit 147 00:07:59,990 --> 00:08:03,990 It is a well-known type of perfume 148 00:08:03,990 --> 00:08:07,189 Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said 149 00:08:07,189 --> 00:08:10,589 As for her likening it to the smell of grapes 150 00:08:10,589 --> 00:08:12,589 There are interpretations 151 00:08:12,589 --> 00:08:13,990 One of them 152 00:08:13,990 --> 00:08:19,189 By doing so, she wanted him to be praised and spread among the people 153 00:08:19,189 --> 00:08:20,490 And the second 154 00:08:20,490 --> 00:08:24,790 She wanted the goodness of his body and the perfume of his gardens 155 00:08:24,790 --> 00:08:26,189 And the third 156 00:08:26,189 --> 00:08:30,290 She wanted him to be gentle and have good manners 157 00:08:30,290 --> 00:08:34,940 It means the first chapter 158 00:08:34,940 --> 00:08:36,740 As for the first meaning 159 00:08:36,740 --> 00:08:39,139 And people praise him 160 00:08:39,139 --> 00:08:43,539 Which is expressed in his fragrant walk among the people 161 00:08:43,539 --> 00:08:48,080 This is consistent with it being easy and supple 162 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,779 People testify to the man about what he was known for 163 00:08:51,779 --> 00:08:55,480 On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, he said: 164 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,279 They went through a funeral 165 00:08:57,279 --> 00:08:59,779 They praised her well 166 00:08:59,779 --> 00:09:03,080 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 167 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:04,480 I got it 168 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,480 Then they passed another 169 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,980 They praised her evilly 170 00:09:08,980 --> 00:09:10,179 And he said 171 00:09:10,179 --> 00:09:11,679 I got it 172 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,980 Omar bin Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, said 173 00:09:14,980 --> 00:09:16,679 I didn't have to 174 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:17,779 He said 175 00:09:17,779 --> 00:09:20,779 This you praised well 176 00:09:20,779 --> 00:09:23,080 So Paradise granted him 177 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:26,179 And you praised this evilly 178 00:09:26,179 --> 00:09:28,480 So the fire struck him 179 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:32,000 You are God's martyrs on earth 180 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,299 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 181 00:09:34,299 --> 00:09:36,100 As for the second meaning 182 00:09:36,100 --> 00:09:38,200 He has a good body 183 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,500 This is what people generally like 184 00:09:41,500 --> 00:09:43,799 And the wife especially 185 00:09:43,799 --> 00:09:46,600 It must have a pleasant smell 186 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,500 Because of the abundance of perfume he uses 187 00:09:49,500 --> 00:09:53,960 He takes great care of his personal hygiene 188 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,759 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 189 00:09:56,759 --> 00:09:58,860 A lover of goodness 190 00:09:58,860 --> 00:10:03,159 As stated in the hadith of Anas, may God be pleased with him, he said 191 00:10:03,159 --> 00:10:06,860 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 192 00:10:06,860 --> 00:10:09,259 Beloved to me from this world 193 00:10:09,259 --> 00:10:11,559 Women and perfume 194 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,860 And he made the apple of my eye in prayer 195 00:10:14,860 --> 00:10:16,950 Narrated by Ahmed 196 00:10:16,950 --> 00:10:19,049 Are you the brother of the honorable wife? 197 00:10:19,049 --> 00:10:22,450 This type is easy, gentle and tolerant 198 00:10:22,450 --> 00:10:27,049 The one with the kind words and the sweet smell 199 00:10:27,049 --> 00:10:29,750 I hope you are one of them 200 00:10:29,750 --> 00:10:35,259 Congratulations to the one whose husband is of this type 201 00:10:35,259 --> 00:10:38,759 We will continue in the next meeting, God willing 202 00:10:38,759 --> 00:10:41,759 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds