1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:09,939 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:09,939 --> 00:00:12,009 Oh Aisha 3 00:00:12,009 --> 00:00:18,519 Beware of despicable sins 4 00:00:18,519 --> 00:00:23,879 The great position that Aisha, may God be pleased with her, attained 5 00:00:23,879 --> 00:00:26,920 With the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 6 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:30,920 She had a great prophetic upbringing 7 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:35,240 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, took advantage of this position 8 00:00:35,359 --> 00:00:39,159 She asked the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, many questions 9 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,679 For everything that shapes it 10 00:00:41,679 --> 00:00:44,960 Then I turned that into a practical reality 11 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,679 I committed myself to this education 12 00:00:47,679 --> 00:00:51,859 To be a role model for women around the world 13 00:00:51,859 --> 00:00:55,579 One of the aspects of the upbringing of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 14 00:00:55,579 --> 00:00:58,219 For Aisha, may God be pleased with her 15 00:00:58,219 --> 00:01:01,939 Warning her against being complacent about minor sins 16 00:01:01,979 --> 00:01:03,539 And this is the warning 17 00:01:03,539 --> 00:01:08,340 It stems from the breeder's distant view of who he raises 18 00:01:08,340 --> 00:01:12,099 It moves it from the level of avoiding major sins 19 00:01:12,099 --> 00:01:14,859 To the point of being careful of small things 20 00:01:14,859 --> 00:01:18,140 Which may destroy its owner 21 00:01:18,140 --> 00:01:21,099 Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 22 00:01:21,099 --> 00:01:25,859 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her 23 00:01:25,859 --> 00:01:27,500 Oh Aisha 24 00:01:27,500 --> 00:01:30,500 Beware of despicable sins 25 00:01:30,500 --> 00:01:34,700 For she has a request from God Almighty 26 00:01:34,700 --> 00:01:36,579 Narrated by Ahmed 27 00:01:36,579 --> 00:01:39,060 Al-Aini, may God have mercy on him, said 28 00:01:39,060 --> 00:01:42,019 The plural of despicable is despicable 29 00:01:42,019 --> 00:01:45,819 These are sins that the one who commits them despises 30 00:01:45,819 --> 00:01:48,620 And the reason why the one who did it despises her 31 00:01:48,620 --> 00:01:51,140 He sees it as one of the small things 32 00:01:51,140 --> 00:01:53,659 He avoids major sins 33 00:01:53,659 --> 00:01:58,900 He reassures himself that he will be forgiven if he avoids major sins 34 00:01:58,939 --> 00:02:02,819 This is one of Satan's intrusions into man 35 00:02:02,819 --> 00:02:04,819 It depicts Ibn al-Qayyim 36 00:02:04,819 --> 00:02:09,460 How does Satan attack a Muslim by belittling minor sins? 37 00:02:09,460 --> 00:02:11,060 By telling him 38 00:02:11,060 --> 00:02:15,930 What is the matter with you if you avoid the major sins and avoid the blame? 39 00:02:15,930 --> 00:02:21,449 Or did you not know that it is expiation by avoiding major sins and doing good deeds? 40 00:02:21,449 --> 00:02:24,129 And he still makes things easy for him 41 00:02:24,129 --> 00:02:26,530 Until he insists on it 42 00:02:26,530 --> 00:02:33,020 The one who commits a major sin, who is afraid, shameful, and remorseful, will be better off than him 43 00:02:33,020 --> 00:02:35,939 Insisting on sin is worse than it 44 00:02:35,939 --> 00:02:39,180 It is not great with repentance and seeking forgiveness 45 00:02:39,180 --> 00:02:41,900 Nothing small with persistence 46 00:02:41,900 --> 00:02:44,979 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 47 00:02:44,979 --> 00:02:48,180 Beware of despicable sins 48 00:02:48,180 --> 00:02:53,500 Then he gave an example of a people who settled in desert areas of the land 49 00:02:53,500 --> 00:02:55,580 They lacked firewood 50 00:02:55,580 --> 00:02:59,699 So he made this one come with a stick, and this one with a stick 51 00:02:59,699 --> 00:03:02,740 They collected a lot of firewood 52 00:03:02,740 --> 00:03:06,580 They lit a fire and cooked their bread 53 00:03:06,580 --> 00:03:09,819 Likewise, the degrading sins 54 00:03:09,819 --> 00:03:13,699 It meets the slave and he takes it lightly 55 00:03:13,699 --> 00:03:15,909 Until you destroy him 56 00:03:15,909 --> 00:03:18,550 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 57 00:03:18,550 --> 00:03:22,150 In his upbringing of Aisha, may God be pleased with her 58 00:03:22,189 --> 00:03:25,830 He wanted her to pay attention to these despicable things 59 00:03:25,830 --> 00:03:27,949 Don't fall into it 60 00:03:27,949 --> 00:03:30,789 And if you fall into any of that 61 00:03:30,789 --> 00:03:34,819 I treated her by leaving her and asking for forgiveness from her 62 00:03:34,819 --> 00:03:37,419 Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said 63 00:03:37,419 --> 00:03:39,699 And despised things if they are many 64 00:03:39,699 --> 00:03:44,689 They become major sins by insisting on them and persisting in them 65 00:03:44,689 --> 00:03:49,250 Based on this, the Lord of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and the Companions 66 00:03:49,250 --> 00:03:52,210 This education bore fruit among the Companions 67 00:03:52,210 --> 00:03:55,689 A keen sense of self-accountability 68 00:03:55,689 --> 00:03:59,409 Until Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, said 69 00:03:59,409 --> 00:04:02,090 You will do works 70 00:04:02,090 --> 00:04:05,210 It is more accurate in your eyes than poetry 71 00:04:05,210 --> 00:04:10,050 If we were to count it at the time of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 72 00:04:10,050 --> 00:04:11,969 Of the sins 73 00:04:11,969 --> 00:04:14,110 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 74 00:04:14,110 --> 00:04:16,550 Al-Bukhari, may God have mercy on him, said 75 00:04:16,550 --> 00:04:19,550 This means ruins 76 00:04:19,550 --> 00:04:24,910 The Companions used to discuss small matters and magnify them 77 00:04:24,910 --> 00:04:28,500 Even though they are the furthest people away from major sins 78 00:04:28,500 --> 00:04:31,379 Ibn Battal, may God have mercy on him, said 79 00:04:31,379 --> 00:04:35,259 Rather, they were considered minor sins 80 00:04:35,259 --> 00:04:37,740 Because of their intense fear of God 81 00:04:37,740 --> 00:04:40,819 Even if they do not commit major sins 82 00:04:40,819 --> 00:04:45,180 This is the view of the level of sins that a Muslim commits 83 00:04:45,220 --> 00:04:48,420 Stemming from his level of faith 84 00:04:48,420 --> 00:04:50,699 The more faith he increases 85 00:04:50,699 --> 00:04:52,939 He magnifies disobedience to God 86 00:04:52,939 --> 00:04:55,139 And the weaker his faith 87 00:04:55,139 --> 00:04:59,019 Beware of sins, even if they are major sins 88 00:04:59,019 --> 00:05:01,220 And the difference between the two things 89 00:05:01,220 --> 00:05:03,500 It is in the state of faith 90 00:05:03,500 --> 00:05:05,819 He looked at the bones of those who disobeyed 91 00:05:05,819 --> 00:05:07,740 So the sin became great 92 00:05:07,740 --> 00:05:10,060 And in case of weak faith 93 00:05:10,060 --> 00:05:14,180 He looked at the extent of the transgression and resolved it 94 00:05:14,180 --> 00:05:19,540 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, described this situation and said: 95 00:05:19,540 --> 00:05:24,180 The believer sees his sins as if he were sitting under a mountain 96 00:05:24,180 --> 00:05:26,540 He is afraid it will happen to him 97 00:05:26,540 --> 00:05:31,259 The immoral person sees his sins as flies passing by his nose 98 00:05:31,259 --> 00:05:33,740 He said it like this 99 00:05:33,740 --> 00:05:35,910 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 100 00:05:35,910 --> 00:05:38,589 Today we are in a holy month 101 00:05:38,589 --> 00:05:43,550 Muslims are keen to do good deeds and increase them 102 00:05:43,550 --> 00:05:47,829 They also ensure that their fast is valid 103 00:05:47,829 --> 00:05:50,470 They ask about the details of matters 104 00:05:50,470 --> 00:05:54,819 Sometimes it even reaches the point of obsessiveness 105 00:05:54,819 --> 00:05:57,339 However, some are lenient 106 00:05:57,339 --> 00:05:59,860 I don't say only the small things 107 00:05:59,860 --> 00:06:02,220 Even in major sins 108 00:06:02,220 --> 00:06:04,779 Is now the time for our women? 109 00:06:04,779 --> 00:06:10,459 To hold themselves accountable in matters of dress and adornment outside the home 110 00:06:10,459 --> 00:06:13,019 Is now the time for our men? 111 00:06:13,019 --> 00:06:17,139 To hold themselves accountable in their financial dealings 112 00:06:17,139 --> 00:06:20,819 With the abundance of usury and gambling in our time 113 00:06:20,819 --> 00:06:23,540 Is now the time for all of us? 114 00:06:23,540 --> 00:06:26,740 To examine the harvests of our tongues 115 00:06:26,740 --> 00:06:32,069 We protect her from backbiting, gossiping, and contempt for others 116 00:06:32,069 --> 00:06:35,589 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 117 00:06:35,589 --> 00:06:40,779 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 118 00:06:40,779 --> 00:06:44,300 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her