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In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

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Types of men in the hadith of Umm Zara’

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My husband is a high-ranking man

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If the eighth woman was generous in praising her husband with eloquent words

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The ninth woman began praising her husband with eloquent words as well

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She said, “My husband is tall, has long hair, has great ashes, and the house is close to the club.”

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She described him with four beautiful qualities in a man

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The first is that he is of high lineage, and she expressed this by saying, “He is of high rank.”

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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said: She describes him as honorable and virtuous

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The teeth of lightning and the teeth of plants are shortened, and the teeth of honor are extended

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The origin of the pillar is the pillar of the house, and its plural is the pillars, which are the sticks with which houses are baptized

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Rather, this is a proverb that means that his house is high among his people

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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said that her statement was high-profile and described him as honorable in his lineage and eminent among his people.

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The moral elevation of a house is borrowed from the visible elevation of a baptism from the visible house of a dwelling

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Arabs are usually proud of their high lineage

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A woman is proud of the women around her that her husband has a high lineage

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The benefit of a high lineage is that it prevents its owner from being foolish in matters and morals

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He of high lineage rises above the actions of the ignorant and foolish

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Society accepts only the best qualities from him

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If he violated it, people would criticize him and he would become a disgrace to the worlds

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This is what prevented Abu Sufyan from lying to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace

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On the authority of Abdullah bin Abbas that Abu Sufyan bin Harb told him

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Raql was sent to him with a group of Quraysh, who were merchants in the Levant

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During the period that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace

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Abu Sufyan and the infidels of Quraysh lived there

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They brought him and they were with Elijah, so he called them to his council

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The great Romans surrounded him, then he summoned them and called for his interpreter

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He said: Which of you is closer in lineage to this man who claims to be a prophet?

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Abu Sufyan said, “I said, ‘I am the closest of them in lineage.’”

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He said, "Bring him closer to me and bring his companions closer and put them at his back."

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Then he said to his interpreter, “Tell them that I am asking about this man.”

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If he tells me a lie, then they lie to him. By God, if it were not for the shame that they would lie about me, I would have lied about him

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Narrated by Al-Bukhari. People of lineage are keen to maintain their reputation among the people

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So they look away from the ugly things, and there is another meaning in describing him as being high among his people

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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said about him, and perhaps you want to support the house

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The meaning is that his supervision raised him to a high position for guests to visit

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This is a sign of generosity, as it says that his house is prominent to people and not hidden among houses

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Guests can access it easily

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The second is the beauty of stature, and she expressed this by saying: Tawil al-Najjad

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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said that he was described as having an extended stature

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Najjad is a sword strap, so it needs as much length as that

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This is what poets praise, said the poet

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His robes were shortened for him, so they became shorter, and he was careful of their strength, so he made them longer

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Judge Ayyad, may God have mercy on him, said that he was described as perfect in his appearance and of great stature in his build

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She presented this by saying, “Tall Al-Najjad,” because a tall person needs to lengthen his long necks

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She praises her husband in a way that indicates the beauty of his image to her, which is what a woman usually desires

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It is a woman's nature that she does not want her husband to be shorter than her

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Because if she walks with him, she feels like he is one of her children, or so the person looking at her imagines

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This feeling hurts her and makes her feel strong and safe while she is with him because of his shortness

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A woman may live in confusion if she is approached by a suitor who has beautiful characteristics but is short

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He may be seen with beautiful characteristics due to his short stature and his moderate stature as evidence of strength

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It indicates his strength by the fact that the tips of his sword are as long as him, to make it easier for him to use his sword when he needs it

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The third is generosity and generosity, and she expressed this by saying, “Ashes are great.”

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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said: You describe him as a generous and generous person with camel meat and other meats

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If he does that, his fire will grow larger and its fuel will increase, so the amount of ash will be as great as that

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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said, “Then she described him as generous in his character and generous with his hand.”

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She refrained from that by saying, “The ashes are great,” and that is because he who has many guests and sacrifices for them

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By roasting and cooking their food, his fire increased and his ashes increased

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This is a generous husband, and whoever honors his guests also honors his family, and she praised him for saying that he is generous and that his guests are many

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With these words, she refers to her love for having many guests and her lack of boredom

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It must be of service to these guests, despite their large number, in what it does, provides, and contributes to

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Only one who has a noble nature and loves guests will accept this, never gets tired of serving them, and does not prevent her husband from receiving them

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The fourth is its closeness to people, and she expressed this by saying that the house is close to the club

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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, may God have mercy on him, said that it means that he descends among people so that they know his location

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Then the guests come to him, but he is not excluded from them and hides himself to escape from the calamities and guests descending on him

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Judge Iyad, may God have mercy on him, said, “What you mean by this is that he resides between the people’s presence, the community of the neighborhood, the destination of the visitors, and the one seeking hospitality, so that his hospitality may be abundant.”

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He does not hide in the outskirts of clothes and in the depths of houses, and he does not stay away from the borders of the incoming area, as an escape from the one who seeks it and a refuge from the one who seeks it.

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Because they are not guided to its place, and they ignore its place, so they come across a curse

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This is a great characteristic that indicates a love of generosity, serving people, providing relief to those in distress, and supporting the oppressed

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Because if a man is close to the people, he opens the door of his gathering for them, making it easy for people to reach him

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Every person who has a need that he is unable to fulfill comes to him and asks him for help with it

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People only turn to those who open their hearts to them, who listen to them, make them happy, and fulfill whatever needs they need.

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A man whose good qualities are expected to have the most beautiful impact on his family

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The woman is lucky to have such a husband and this blessing, so she should thank God for what He has bestowed upon her

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She will help her husband to do good

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How, O noble man, do you have these beautiful qualities, and do you have room for people so that you can hear from them what is going on in their chests?

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I ask God to help us to have beautiful qualities

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We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing, and praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds