The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, menstruated lavishly
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was listening to the Prophet’s sermon, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions
He urged them to make it his lifetime
But she was surprised when she started menstruating while she was in Saraf, near Mecca
This means that she will not be able to perform Umrah
The time remaining for the Day of Arafat is short, and menstruation has its time
Then our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, realized that she would not be able to perform Umrah
She hears the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, urging his companions to make it his life
So she cried
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her while she was crying
He did not let her know the secret of her crying
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says
When we came, she had menstrual periods
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came in and I was crying
He said, “What makes you cry, Aisha?”
I said, “If I knew, by God, I would not have performed Hajj this year.”
He said: What is the matter with you? Perhaps you are my soul
I said yes
He said, Glory be to God
This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam
So do what the Hajj does
However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure
In general, a menstruating woman's psychology changes during menstruation
So what about Hajj?
She wants to perform rituals with Muslims
She fears being late for them or delaying those with her
That is why our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, cried
She said, “If I were to find out, by God, I would not have performed Hajj this year.”
This shows how strongly she is affected by menstruation
Among the beautiful morals of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
And he treated his family well
When he saw her crying
Ask her why she is crying and why she is so kind
He said, “What makes you cry, Hunt?”
I said, “I heard what you said to your friends.”
Umrah was prohibited
She explained the reason behind her crying
She will not be able to survive
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, inquired about her
Again about the reason for this
He said: What is your business?
I said I don't pray
I was about menstruation according to its specific ruling and it was more polite than it
The effect of this was evident in her believing daughters
They all talk about menstruation
By denying prayer or otherwise
This is one of the nice euphemisms
And in this, dear sisters
The etiquette of using beautiful words with your husband and others
Especially when people find it difficult to mention it
This hadith is useful
That the beginning of menstruation
With our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
On her Hajj trip
It was the third Saturday of Dhu al-Hijjah
Consoling the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
To our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
When she wanted
The treatment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
To his wives, mothers of believers
It is the most delicate treatment between a husband and his wife
And everyone who wants to learn
The art of dealing with spouses
He must study
The life of our Holy Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
With his wives
This is the ideal for a married couple
Beautiful dealing pictures
Between the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
And his wife Aisha
What happened to her in this story
Aisha cried when she had her period
It happened because of the distress that befell her
And sadness over the loss of life
This is why men may not realize it quickly
The man may not care about him
Because he believes that menstruation is normal
It happens to every woman
And it is
But the woman may be in a psychological state
Affected by menstruation
Like the one waiting for the campaign after her marriage
And he's late for it
She cries when her period begins
Or for any other reason
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did so
With Aisha
Guidance for couples in the art of dealing
With a woman in such a situation
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not satisfied
By asking her why she was crying
Rather, it made it easier for her
Show her that she is not the only one
Who is afflicted with this menstruation
Rather, all the daughters of Adam
And he said
This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam
That is, He decreed it for them
And he obliged them to do so
They are devoted to being patient with him
But you are a woman from the daughters of Adam
God has decreed for you what He has decreed for them
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down
He terrified her with two things
The first is that menstruation is something God has written
On women in general
The other is that she is like them
What is happening to them is happening to them
This is entertainment and comfort for her
And relieve them
How does a forbidden woman behave?
Hajj if she menstruates
After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down
From the horror of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
Move to another dimension
In calming her psychologically
He explained to her that menstruation was coming
It does not harm a woman in ihram
It does not affect her ihram
And he said
It won't hurt you
You are a woman from the daughters of Adam
God has decreed for you what He has decreed for them
So stand by your argument
May God bless you with it
Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her
What do you do in this situation?
And he said
So he fulfilled what the pilgrim fulfilled
However, do not circumambulate the House
Until you wash yourself
This indicates the guidance of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
To our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
That includes menstruation and postpartum
It does not negate the entire work of Hajj
Except for what relates to entering the mosque
From circumambulation and bowing after it
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said
Luck
So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded me
To perform all the rituals
Except for circumambulating the Kaaba
Oh dear sisters
But the forbidden woman was forbidden
Hajj or Umrah if she menstruates
From circumambulating the Kaaba
She was not prevented from remembering and praying
And reading the Qur’an
Don't be too restrictive
Spreading hope in women's psychology
It is one of the arts of dealing with the wife
In such embarrassing situations
And painful for women
Bring hope into her soul
This is taken from the action of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
With our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
When she menstruated
When he said to her
So stand by your argument
May God bless you with it
That is, He will bless you for Umrah so you can perform it
Or he will grant you the reward of Umrah
Even if you don't perform it
Because actions are based on intentions
And you only abstained for a legitimate excuse
It happened that our mother Aisha performed the umrah
May God be pleased with her after Hajj
This is a great method
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, teaches us about it
How to deal with the wife
When her psychology changes
Especially when traveling
It combines the hardship of travel
And the hardship of the event that happened to the woman