1 00:00:01,419 --> 00:00:07,419 The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:07,419 --> 00:00:15,880 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, menstruated lavishly 3 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:25,379 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was listening to the Prophet’s sermon, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his companions 4 00:00:25,379 --> 00:00:28,379 He urged them to make it his lifetime 5 00:00:28,379 --> 00:00:34,380 But she was surprised when she started menstruating while she was in Saraf, near Mecca 6 00:00:34,380 --> 00:00:38,420 This means that she will not be able to perform Umrah 7 00:00:38,420 --> 00:00:44,420 The time remaining for the Day of Arafat is short, and menstruation has its time 8 00:00:44,420 --> 00:00:50,420 Then our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, realized that she would not be able to perform Umrah 9 00:00:50,420 --> 00:00:56,420 She hears the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, urging his companions to make it his life 10 00:00:56,420 --> 00:00:58,420 So she cried 11 00:00:58,420 --> 00:01:03,420 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her while she was crying 12 00:01:03,420 --> 00:01:06,420 He did not let her know the secret of her crying 13 00:01:06,420 --> 00:01:10,450 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 14 00:01:10,450 --> 00:01:13,450 When we came, she had menstrual periods 15 00:01:13,450 --> 00:01:18,670 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, came in and I was crying 16 00:01:18,670 --> 00:01:22,670 He said, “What makes you cry, Aisha?” 17 00:01:22,670 --> 00:01:27,769 I said, “If I knew, by God, I would not have performed Hajj this year.” 18 00:01:27,769 --> 00:01:31,769 He said: What is the matter with you? Perhaps you are my soul 19 00:01:31,769 --> 00:01:33,829 I said yes 20 00:01:33,829 --> 00:01:36,829 He said, Glory be to God 21 00:01:36,829 --> 00:01:40,829 This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam 22 00:01:40,829 --> 00:01:43,829 So do what the Hajj does 23 00:01:43,829 --> 00:01:47,829 However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure 24 00:01:47,829 --> 00:01:54,409 In general, a menstruating woman's psychology changes during menstruation 25 00:01:54,409 --> 00:01:56,409 So what about Hajj? 26 00:01:56,409 --> 00:01:59,409 She wants to perform rituals with Muslims 27 00:01:59,409 --> 00:02:03,409 She fears being late for them or delaying those with her 28 00:02:03,409 --> 00:02:07,409 That is why our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, cried 29 00:02:07,409 --> 00:02:12,409 She said, “If I were to find out, by God, I would not have performed Hajj this year.” 30 00:02:12,409 --> 00:02:17,409 This shows how strongly she is affected by menstruation 31 00:02:17,409 --> 00:02:21,629 Among the beautiful morals of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 32 00:02:21,629 --> 00:02:23,629 And he treated his family well 33 00:02:23,629 --> 00:02:26,629 When he saw her crying 34 00:02:26,629 --> 00:02:30,629 Ask her why she is crying and why she is so kind 35 00:02:30,629 --> 00:02:34,629 He said, “What makes you cry, Hunt?” 36 00:02:34,629 --> 00:02:37,729 I said, “I heard what you said to your friends.” 37 00:02:37,729 --> 00:02:39,729 Umrah was prohibited 38 00:02:39,729 --> 00:02:42,860 She explained the reason behind her crying 39 00:02:42,860 --> 00:02:45,860 She will not be able to survive 40 00:02:45,860 --> 00:02:49,860 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, inquired about her 41 00:02:49,860 --> 00:02:52,860 Again about the reason for this 42 00:02:52,860 --> 00:02:55,860 He said: What is your business? 43 00:02:55,860 --> 00:02:58,860 I said I don't pray 44 00:02:58,860 --> 00:03:03,860 I was about menstruation according to its specific ruling and it was more polite than it 45 00:03:03,860 --> 00:03:07,860 The effect of this was evident in her believing daughters 46 00:03:07,860 --> 00:03:10,860 They all talk about menstruation 47 00:03:10,860 --> 00:03:13,860 By denying prayer or otherwise 48 00:03:13,860 --> 00:03:17,050 This is one of the nice euphemisms 49 00:03:17,050 --> 00:03:20,050 And in this, dear sisters 50 00:03:20,050 --> 00:03:24,050 The etiquette of using beautiful words with your husband and others 51 00:03:24,050 --> 00:03:28,050 Especially when people find it difficult to mention it 52 00:03:28,050 --> 00:03:31,180 This hadith is useful 53 00:03:31,180 --> 00:03:33,180 That the beginning of menstruation 54 00:03:33,180 --> 00:03:36,180 With our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 55 00:03:36,180 --> 00:03:38,180 On her Hajj trip 56 00:03:38,180 --> 00:03:42,180 It was the third Saturday of Dhu al-Hijjah 57 00:03:42,180 --> 00:03:47,159 Consoling the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 58 00:03:47,159 --> 00:03:50,159 To our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 59 00:03:50,159 --> 00:03:52,159 When she wanted 60 00:03:52,159 --> 00:03:56,020 The treatment of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 61 00:03:56,020 --> 00:03:59,020 To his wives, mothers of believers 62 00:03:59,020 --> 00:04:03,020 It is the most delicate treatment between a husband and his wife 63 00:04:03,020 --> 00:04:05,020 And everyone who wants to learn 64 00:04:05,020 --> 00:04:07,020 The art of dealing with spouses 65 00:04:07,020 --> 00:04:09,020 He must study 66 00:04:09,020 --> 00:04:12,020 The life of our Holy Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 67 00:04:12,020 --> 00:04:14,020 With his wives 68 00:04:14,020 --> 00:04:17,019 This is the ideal for a married couple 69 00:04:17,019 --> 00:04:19,180 Beautiful dealing pictures 70 00:04:19,180 --> 00:04:22,180 Between the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 71 00:04:22,180 --> 00:04:24,180 And his wife Aisha 72 00:04:24,180 --> 00:04:27,180 What happened to her in this story 73 00:04:27,180 --> 00:04:30,180 Aisha cried when she had her period 74 00:04:30,180 --> 00:04:33,180 It happened because of the distress that befell her 75 00:04:33,180 --> 00:04:36,279 And sadness over the loss of life 76 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,279 This is why men may not realize it quickly 77 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,279 The man may not care about him 78 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:45,279 Because he believes that menstruation is normal 79 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,279 It happens to every woman 80 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,279 And it is 81 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,279 But the woman may be in a psychological state 82 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,279 Affected by menstruation 83 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,279 Like the one waiting for the campaign after her marriage 84 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,279 And he's late for it 85 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,279 She cries when her period begins 86 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,279 Or for any other reason 87 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,439 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, did so 88 00:05:07,439 --> 00:05:09,439 With Aisha 89 00:05:09,439 --> 00:05:12,439 Guidance for couples in the art of dealing 90 00:05:12,439 --> 00:05:15,439 With a woman in such a situation 91 00:05:15,439 --> 00:05:18,569 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not satisfied 92 00:05:18,569 --> 00:05:21,569 By asking her why she was crying 93 00:05:21,569 --> 00:05:23,569 Rather, it made it easier for her 94 00:05:23,569 --> 00:05:26,569 Show her that she is not the only one 95 00:05:26,569 --> 00:05:28,569 Who is afflicted with this menstruation 96 00:05:28,569 --> 00:05:30,569 Rather, all the daughters of Adam 97 00:05:30,569 --> 00:05:32,569 And he said 98 00:05:32,569 --> 00:05:36,569 This is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam 99 00:05:36,569 --> 00:05:39,569 That is, He decreed it for them 100 00:05:39,569 --> 00:05:41,569 And he obliged them to do so 101 00:05:41,569 --> 00:05:44,569 They are devoted to being patient with him 102 00:05:44,569 --> 00:05:47,569 But you are a woman from the daughters of Adam 103 00:05:47,569 --> 00:05:50,569 God has decreed for you what He has decreed for them 104 00:05:50,569 --> 00:05:53,569 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down 105 00:05:53,569 --> 00:05:55,569 He terrified her with two things 106 00:05:55,569 --> 00:05:59,569 The first is that menstruation is something God has written 107 00:05:59,569 --> 00:06:01,569 On women in general 108 00:06:01,569 --> 00:06:04,569 The other is that she is like them 109 00:06:04,569 --> 00:06:07,569 What is happening to them is happening to them 110 00:06:07,569 --> 00:06:10,569 This is entertainment and comfort for her 111 00:06:10,569 --> 00:06:13,569 And relieve them 112 00:06:13,569 --> 00:06:17,879 How does a forbidden woman behave? 113 00:06:17,879 --> 00:06:19,879 Hajj if she menstruates 114 00:06:19,879 --> 00:06:23,389 After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, calmed down 115 00:06:23,389 --> 00:06:27,389 From the horror of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 116 00:06:27,389 --> 00:06:29,389 Move to another dimension 117 00:06:29,389 --> 00:06:32,389 In calming her psychologically 118 00:06:32,389 --> 00:06:34,389 He explained to her that menstruation was coming 119 00:06:34,389 --> 00:06:37,389 It does not harm a woman in ihram 120 00:06:37,389 --> 00:06:40,389 It does not affect her ihram 121 00:06:40,389 --> 00:06:41,389 And he said 122 00:06:41,389 --> 00:06:43,389 It won't hurt you 123 00:06:43,389 --> 00:06:46,389 You are a woman from the daughters of Adam 124 00:06:46,389 --> 00:06:49,389 God has decreed for you what He has decreed for them 125 00:06:49,389 --> 00:06:51,389 So stand by your argument 126 00:06:51,389 --> 00:06:54,389 May God bless you with it 127 00:06:54,389 --> 00:06:57,519 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided her 128 00:06:57,519 --> 00:07:00,519 What do you do in this situation? 129 00:07:00,519 --> 00:07:01,519 And he said 130 00:07:01,519 --> 00:07:04,519 So he fulfilled what the pilgrim fulfilled 131 00:07:04,519 --> 00:07:07,519 However, do not circumambulate the House 132 00:07:07,519 --> 00:07:09,519 Until you wash yourself 133 00:07:09,519 --> 00:07:12,550 This indicates the guidance of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 134 00:07:12,550 --> 00:07:15,550 To our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 135 00:07:15,550 --> 00:07:17,550 That includes menstruation and postpartum 136 00:07:17,550 --> 00:07:20,550 It does not negate the entire work of Hajj 137 00:07:20,550 --> 00:07:23,550 Except for what relates to entering the mosque 138 00:07:23,550 --> 00:07:26,550 From circumambulation and bowing after it 139 00:07:26,550 --> 00:07:29,649 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said 140 00:07:29,649 --> 00:07:30,649 Luck 141 00:07:30,649 --> 00:07:33,649 So the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded me 142 00:07:33,649 --> 00:07:36,649 To perform all the rituals 143 00:07:36,649 --> 00:07:39,649 Except for circumambulating the Kaaba 144 00:07:39,649 --> 00:07:42,379 Oh dear sisters 145 00:07:42,379 --> 00:07:45,379 But the forbidden woman was forbidden 146 00:07:45,379 --> 00:07:47,379 Hajj or Umrah if she menstruates 147 00:07:47,379 --> 00:07:49,379 From circumambulating the Kaaba 148 00:07:49,379 --> 00:07:52,379 She was not prevented from remembering and praying 149 00:07:52,379 --> 00:07:54,379 And reading the Qur’an 150 00:07:54,379 --> 00:07:57,379 Don't be too restrictive 151 00:07:57,379 --> 00:08:02,860 Spreading hope in women's psychology 152 00:08:02,860 --> 00:08:06,459 It is one of the arts of dealing with the wife 153 00:08:06,459 --> 00:08:08,459 In such embarrassing situations 154 00:08:08,459 --> 00:08:10,459 And painful for women 155 00:08:10,459 --> 00:08:13,459 Bring hope into her soul 156 00:08:13,459 --> 00:08:17,459 This is taken from the action of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 157 00:08:17,459 --> 00:08:20,459 With our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 158 00:08:20,459 --> 00:08:22,459 When she menstruated 159 00:08:22,459 --> 00:08:24,459 When he said to her 160 00:08:24,459 --> 00:08:26,459 So stand by your argument 161 00:08:26,459 --> 00:08:29,459 May God bless you with it 162 00:08:29,459 --> 00:08:32,460 That is, He will bless you for Umrah so you can perform it 163 00:08:32,460 --> 00:08:35,460 Or he will grant you the reward of Umrah 164 00:08:35,460 --> 00:08:37,460 Even if you don't perform it 165 00:08:37,460 --> 00:08:39,460 Because actions are based on intentions 166 00:08:39,460 --> 00:08:43,460 And you only abstained for a legitimate excuse 167 00:08:43,460 --> 00:08:46,529 It happened that our mother Aisha performed the umrah 168 00:08:46,529 --> 00:08:49,620 May God be pleased with her after Hajj 169 00:08:49,620 --> 00:08:51,620 This is a great method 170 00:08:51,620 --> 00:08:54,620 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, teaches us about it 171 00:08:54,620 --> 00:08:57,620 How to deal with the wife 172 00:08:57,620 --> 00:08:59,620 When her psychology changes 173 00:08:59,620 --> 00:09:01,620 Especially when traveling 174 00:09:01,620 --> 00:09:04,620 It combines the hardship of travel 175 00:09:04,620 --> 00:09:08,620 And the hardship of the event that happened to the woman