Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, Aisha
The supporters admire him
God created the human soul
He knows best about it and what works for it
He sent down legislation for her that suits her nature and creates balance in her life
And when you move away from this legislation
Lost in the darkness of ignorance
Her life turned into misery
The search for happiness is the desire of all people
But some of them realize that it is the path to happiness
He is following this great religion
Which God has chosen for us
He will be happy with the satisfaction of his Lord
Some of them think that religion is a source of misery and distress in this world's life
He searches for happiness in the waters of life
He drowns in it and then does not find happiness
Islam came with legislation that balances serious worship
And the desires of the human soul are permissible entertainment
So he gave everyone his due
Who applied this balance?
He attained happiness in this world and the hereafter
It is the nature of the soul in women
They like to have fun
Especially on beautiful occasions
Such as Eid and wedding parties
Therefore, Islam took into account this nature
He permitted them to entertain themselves with what pleased them
Without entering into what is forbidden
The follower of the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
In his dealings with the nature of women
He realizes this well
Examples of this are:
What Aisha, may God be pleased with her, narrated
She married a woman to an Ansar man
The Prophet of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
O Aisha, what was with you is for him
The Ansar liked it
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
The occasion is here in this story
She is the pimp
The nature of marriage is joy and happiness
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, added to this hadith
It is in the nature of Ansar women to love him
Several things came together on the occasion
They all call for God's use
Showing joy and pleasure
So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided
Aisha's wife, may God be pleased with her
To the importance of having something to rejoice in
Women are happy on this occasion
From permissible entertainment
The word “playfulness” in this hadith
Or the word singing in other hadiths
It should be understood in terms of its time
In which it was said
And how to apply it at that time
As for our time
The term, even if it carries the same word
However, the meaning is completely different
The means and applications have also differed
No one should use such hadiths as evidence
To permit invalidity
Or analyze what God Almighty has forbidden
Ibn al-Jawzi, may God have mercy on him, said
This is called singing
For a type that is proven in chanting and recitation
Such printing does not deviate from moderation
How can this reality be used as evidence in the right time?
With pure hearts
On these singing voices located in a troubled time
In souls that may be possessed by passion
This is nothing but a fallacy of understanding
Ulysses has been correct in the hadith
On the authority of Aisha, may God be pleased with her, she said
If he saw the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
What happened to women?
To ban them from mosques
Rather, the mufti should weigh the circumstances
The doctor should also weigh time, age and country
Then he describes the amount
And where is the singing of what the Ansar argued about on the day of Resurrection?
Singed by Amrad Mustehsan with stable instruments
An industry that attracts the soul
And ghazals in which the gazelle and the gazelle are mentioned
And uncle, cheek, cod, and moderation
Is there a proven nature?
No way!
Rather, he is disturbed by his longing for pleasure
He does not pretend that he does not find it
Unless he is a liar or beyond the limits of humanity
Then this is the amusement that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, permitted
He guided Aisha, may God be pleased with her, to him
But it is on the occasion of the wedding
Therefore, scholars agreed that it is permissible during the wedding feast
Ibn Battal says:
Scholars have agreed that it is permissible to have fun during the wedding feast
Such as hitting the tambourine and the like
Unless it is forbidden
He made the feast special for this purpose so that the marriage would become apparent and spread
His rights and sanctity are confirmed
This type of amusement is characteristic of women
It is not in the nature of men
That is why Ibn Hajar, may God have mercy on him, said
And powerful conversations
There is permission for this for women
Men do not join them
In general, it is forbidden to imitate them
Where is this fun?
From the immorality we see today all the time
And on every legitimate or creative occasion
With its totality of forbidden alcohol and naked women
And music and mixing instruments
Oh, who fasted during Ramadan and spent its nights awake
Do not spoil the Eid for yourself by committing what God has forbidden
God will be angry with you
I ask God to accept good deeds from all of us
May our Eid be blessed for all of us
It is enough for us to rejoice in what God has bestowed upon us in achieving Ramadan
And good luck for his fasting and prayers
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her