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The story of the Queen of Seba

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Verification before imposing punishment

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When the Prophet of God, Solomon, peace be upon him, became angry with the hoopoe

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Because of his absence from the army

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He threatened to torture or kill him

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Unless he comes up with an acceptable excuse

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This is the morals of prophecy

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There is no punishment without sin

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There is no punishment without proof

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God Almighty said

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He inspected the bird and said, “What is the matter with me that I do not see the hoopoe or was it one of those absent?”

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I will punish him with severe punishment or I will slaughter him

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Or to bring me clear authority

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Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said

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His loss of the hoopoe indicates the perfection of his resolve and his management of the king himself

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And his cleverness was perfect until he lost this little bird

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He said: What is the matter with me that I do not see the hoopoe or is it one of those absent?

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That is, is the failure to see it due to the few who were aware of it?

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Because it is hidden among these many nations

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Or at her door because he was absent without my permission or command

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So when you get angry at him and threaten him

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He said: If we torture him severely without killing him

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Or I will slaughter him, or he will bring me clear evidence

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No clear argument for his backwardness

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This is the perfection of his piety and fairness

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He did not swear to merely punish him with torture or death

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Because that can only be a result of sin

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His absence may be presumed to be due to a clear excuse

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That is why we excluded him because of his piety and intelligence

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This is perfect justice

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Do we not punish the guilty person immediately after anger?

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Rather, we leave him an opportunity to explain his argument

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If it is acceptable, leave it

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Otherwise, he will be punished with the punishment he deserves for his sin

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Al-Tahir bin Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said

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His saying is first to come to me with clear authority

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He made it the third of the things he made as a punishment for his absence

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It is to come up with something to ward off the punishment for itself

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Any excuse for being late is acceptable

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My dear sister

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Be sure before you impose punishment on your children

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And give them the opportunity to defend themselves

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They explain their point of view

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This confirmation is what God commanded His servants to do

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To avoid rushing to judge and accuse people

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And God Almighty said

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O you who believe

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If you fight for the sake of God, then investigate

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And do not say to those who greeted you

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You are not a believer. You seek the reward of the life of this world

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God has many spoils

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So were you before

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It is from God upon you, so investigate

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Indeed, God is Acquainted with what you do

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Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said

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God Almighty commands His faithful servants

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If they go out to fight in His cause

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And seeking His pleasure

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To investigate and confirm all their suspected matters

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Matters are of two kinds

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Clear and unclear

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What is clear and evident does not need to be proven or clarified

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Because that is an achievement

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As for the unclear issues

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A person needs to confirm and understand it

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To know whether to submit it or not

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Verification in these matters

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It gets many benefits

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And refraining from great evils

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What is the means by which the servant’s religion, mind, and sobriety are known

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Unlike rushing things at the beginning

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Before its ruling became clear to him

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This leads to what should not be done

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As happened to those whom God blamed in the verse

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When they did not prove themselves and killed those who greeted them

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And the more that keeps you away from confirmation

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It causes you to be unfair to your children and those around you

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Anger

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So seek refuge in God from anger and haste

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Al-Shafi’i, may God have mercy on him, said

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So God commanded someone to carry out His command over any of His servants

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He must be clear before he proceeds with it

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Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered

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Especially in governance

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Doesn't the ruler rule when he is angry?

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Because anger is feared for two reasons

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One is lack of verification

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And the other

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Anger may change the mind

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Its owner takes precedence over what he did not take precedence over

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If he wasn't angry

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The balance of anger among many parents is imbalanced

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The reason is that they do not get angry with God

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But they get angry with themselves

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If you ask yourself

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What makes you angry for yourself and not for God?

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I would have found that social hypocrisy is the reason

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And social hypocrisy

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It is for a person to beautify himself in front of people with what he does not have

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Therefore, if your son makes a mistake in any action or behavior in front of people

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You would have revolted against him

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Your blood boiled and your face turned red

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Your blood pressure has risen

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The tone of your voice rose to him

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Although the same mistake may occur at home

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And it does not come from you like what was issued in front of people

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It is one of the things that makes mothers and fathers

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They do not verify what is attributed to their children

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Listening to people's criticism of their children

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They believe this criticism directly without proof

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The critic may be spiteful or envious

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Or actually advised

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But it exaggerates the issues

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Or he does not know the nature of the human soul in childhood and youth

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There should be no haste in dealing with children

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Based on the news we hear from people without proof

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And the worst thing is that it makes parents angry

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They rush to judge their children and do not hesitate

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What some mothers do by receiving the husband’s children’s problems

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When he returns from work

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Which makes his heart anxious for his children even though he does not realize it

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Then he rushes to judge and punish them without thinking or delaying

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My dear sister

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You also need to be patient in judging your children's actions

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You also need to be patient in judging the actions of everyone around you

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From your brothers, sisters, husband and neighbors

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To avoid bad relationships built on haste and anger

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A man is originally rational

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Because God gave him the perfection of reason and his dominance over emotions

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His haste and lack of certainty about what he hears

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And issuing punishment to them unjustly under his control

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It is considered an ugly trait that does not suit men

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All the directions given to the woman in this article

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It is for men, first and foremost

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My dear brother

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Be one of the best and wisest men

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Be a good role model for others and your family

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Be sure and wait when you hear the news

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But is the son of the hoopoe exempt from punishment?

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How did he deal with this great threat?

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From a great prophet

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A king that no human being on the face of the earth has

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We will continue in the future, God willing

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Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds

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The story of the Queen of Sheba

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With the Prophet of God Solomon, peace be upon him