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Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai

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Kayan maza

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A cikin hadisin Ummu Zara’

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Mijina duk mai bin wannan bashi ne

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Mace ta bakwai da ta yi magana a majalisar mata

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Ta siffanta mijinta da cewa:

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Mijina yana da kishi ko rauni

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Aiwatar

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Duk mai bashi ga wannan

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Shajak, Falak, ko jam'i na duka biyu a gare ku

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Ana iya cewa game da shi

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Talaka ce

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Ta tattara duk bayanan batanci ga mijinta

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Babu wani alheri gareshi da mata zasu amfana dashi

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Wawa ne jahili

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Goma mara kyau

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Rashin iya saduwa

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Ya bugi matar da karfi da karfi

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Har ma ya tattaro dukkan laifuffukan mutane a cikinsa

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Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce

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Ta kira shi wawa

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Da kuma iyakar dukkan gazawa da lahani

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Mummunan magani tare da iyali

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Da kuma gazawarsa wajen biyan bukatunta

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Ya buge ta ya cuce ta

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Idan kuma tayi masa magana sai ya zage ta

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Idan kuma tayi masa wasa sai ya bata mata rai

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Idan kuma yayi fushi

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Ko dai ya soka mata kai

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Ko karya daya daga cikin membobinta

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Yana nufin ilimin taurari

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Kuma aka ce wa wanda aka ci

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Phil

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Ko yanke mata fatar jiki ko kuma a soka mata wuka

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Shi ne ma'anar Shajak

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Ko tara mata duka

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Daga duka, raunuka, da karyewar gabobi

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Ko kuma a wargaje ta da husuma da maganganu masu radadi

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Kuma ya karbi kudinta

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Irin wannan maza

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Ba za ku iya zama tare da shi lafiya ba

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Ba zai yiwu a yi tunanin cewa wadannan dabi'u munanan ayyuka ne ba

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A cikin wannan rukuni

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Na same shi ba zato ba tsammani bayan aure

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Amma abin da ake tsammani ita ce a ciki kafin aure

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Tambayar ta taso

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Me yasa matar nan ta karbe shi?

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Kuma duk wanda yayi kuskuren aurenta dashi

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Na farko

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Wannan lamari ya faru ne a zamanin jahiliyya

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Amma abin takaici ana maimaituwa a Musulunci

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Daga ina kuskuren ya fito?

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Na biyu

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Bisa koyarwar Musulunci

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Da kyawawan dabi'unsa

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Mun gano cewa ya kafa madaidaicin tsari

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Don hana irin wannan hoton

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Don fada cikin gaskiya

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Me yasa ake maimaita shi?

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Wanda ya bayyana a gare ni

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Shi ya sa ake maimaita irin wannan hoton a zahiri

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Ya samo asali ne daga abubuwa biyu

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Adireshinsu iri daya ne

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Rashin sadaukarwa ne ga koyarwar Musulunci

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Da kuma ladubbansa wajen auren 'yan mata

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Abu na farko

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Iyaye suna watsi da alhakin auren yarinyar

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Annabi sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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Haramun ne mace ta auri kanta

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Ya umurci waliyyanta da su aure ta

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Domin maza su dauki nauyin auren mata

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Wanene ya cancanta

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An ambaci hadisai da dama akan haka

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Daga ita

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An kar~o daga Abu Musa Allah Ya yarda da shi

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Cewa Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya ce

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Babu aure sai da poly

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Abu Dawuda ya ruwaito

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An kar~o daga Aisha – Allah Ya yarda da ita ta ce

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Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce

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Duk macen da ta yi jima'i ba tare da izinin ubangijinta ba

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Auren ta ba daidai ba ne

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Sau uku

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Idan ya shige ta

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Sadakin nata ne ga duk abin da ya same ta

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Idan yayi rigima

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Sarkin Musulmi shi ne waliyyin wadanda ba su da majibinci

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Abu Dawuda ya ruwaito

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An kar~o daga Abu Hurairah, Allah Ya yarda da shi ya ce

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Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce

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Mace ba ta auri wata

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Matar ba ta auri kanta

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Mazinaciya ita ce ta auri kanta

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Ibn Majah ne ya rawaito

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Wadannan su ne hadisan

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Ya dora alhakin aure a kan waliyyai

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An hana mata auren kansu

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Wannan hukunci ne babba

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Daga ita

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Maza sun fi iya sanin halaye da dabi'un mai neman aure

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Da tambaya game da shi a cikin maza

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Sabanin mata

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Ba za ta iya yin hakan ba

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Kuma daga ita

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Cewa maza su mallaki hankali a cikin al'amura

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Sabanin mata

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Yana sarrafa motsin rai

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Idan zuciyarta tana makale da namiji

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Ta kau da kai tana kallon duk munanan halayensa

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Wannan shi ne hadarin da ke tattare da alaka tsakanin maza da mata kafin a daura aure

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Yarinyar tana manne da shi

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Da kyar ta nisance shi

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Musamman idan aka zo batun samari wajen mu’amalarsu da ‘yan mata

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Suna nuna halayensu masu kyau don su rinjaye shi

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Idan an makale yarinyar

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An makantar da ni ga hangen nesa na gaskiya

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Don haka Musulunci ya haramta mata

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Don cudanya da mazajen waje

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Don kada irin wannan dangantaka ta faru

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Tsakanin yara maza da mata

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Sai rayuwa ta lalace

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Abu na biyu

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Rasa ma'auni na zabar maza

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Da kuma irin kallon da mutane suke yi a yau wajen zabar mijin aure

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Ya bambanta saboda nisan su

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Game da riko da dokokin Sharia

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Ya zama ma'auni na zabar maza

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Matsayin jiki

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An haɗa shi da duniya kawai

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Wannan kwata-kwata akasin haka ne

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A bisa umarnin Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama

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Inda ya ce

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Idan wani da kake don Allah ya zo maka

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Idan yana da kyawawan halaye da addini to ku aure shi

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Sai dai idan kun yi

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Za a yi rigima a duniya da ɓarna

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Ibn Majah ne ya rawaito

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Al-Mazhari Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce

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Ina nufin, idan wani ya tambaye ku

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Ku aurar da shi ga mace daga cikin 'ya'yanku

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Ko danginku

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Don haka duba

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Idan kuma musulmine nagari

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Kyawawan halaye

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Haka suka aure shi

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Domin idan bakayi aure ba

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Matan dangin ku

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Sai dai wani sanannen mutum mai kudi da daraja

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Da sauran halaye da ya ke kula da su

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Yaran duniya

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Yawancin matan ku ba su da miji

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Yawancin maza suna zama ba su da mata

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Sannan maza suna son mata

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Kuma mata ga maza

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Zina ta yawaita

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Waliyai sun sha kunya

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Kashi na zina da matansu

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Wataƙila suna jin kishi akan danginsu

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Domin sun ji an jingina zina da su

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Kuma suna kashe su

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Kuma suna kashe masu niyyar aikata alfasha

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Wannan duk cin hanci da rashawa ne ya yadu

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Kuma babban jarabawa

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Amma

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Me yasa mace zata zauna da wannan wawa?

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Yaushe kuka gano wadannan dabi'u?

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Akwai kuma laifin mata

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Mun kuma zargi waliyyai

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A matsayinta na yarda da namiji

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Mai neman aurenta

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Ko menene wannan ma'aunin

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Sai dai ba zai zama addini da halitta ba

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Idan ma'auninsa addini ne da dabi'u

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Lokacin da na sami irin waɗannan hotuna tare da mu

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A cikin al'ummarmu

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Domin wannan irin wauta ce ta maza

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Wautarsa dole ta fito fili

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Tare da wanda yake zaune

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Idan ka tambayi mace addininsa da dabi'unsa

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Ta tambayi waliyanta su tabbatar

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Wanda ya siffanta shi da duka biyun

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Da na san gaskiyarsa

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Kuma idan Annabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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An wulakanta macen da take tashi da daddare

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Amma tana da mugun hali ga makwabtanta

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To fa wanda ke irin wannan hali da iyalinsa?

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An kar~o daga Abu Hurairah, Allah Ya yarda da shi ya ce

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Wani mutum yace

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Ya Manzon Allah

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So-da-haka

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Ana ambatonsa da yawaita sallah da azumi da sadaka

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Duk da haka, tana cutar da maƙwabtanta da harshenta

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Yace

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Tana cin wuta

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Yace

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Ya Manzon Allah

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So-da-haka

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Ya ambaci rashin azumi, da sadaka, da sallah

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Kuma ta yi imani da masu juyin juya hali na Al-Aqt

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Ba ta cutar da maƙwabtanta da harshenta

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Yace

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Tana sama

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Ahmed ne ya rawaito

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Wannan hadisin

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Ya fadi gaskiya ta yadda baya yarda da rabuwar addini da dabi'u wajen mu'amala da mutane

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Ta yaya mace za ta yarda ta auri namiji ba tare da kyawawan halaye ba?

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Sai mu yi la’akari da abin da ta ce

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Kowace cuta tana da cuta

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Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce

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Wato komai daga magungunan mutane

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Yana cikinsa kuma daya daga cikin magungunansa

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Al-Khalil Al-Farahidi Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce

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Tana son kowane aibi a cikin maza ya kasance a cikinsa

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Wannan wata magana ce da ta tattaro duk mugayen da ke cikin irin wadannan mazaje

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Yana daga cikin mafi munin mutane

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An kar~o daga Abu Hurairah, Allah Ya yarda da shi

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Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya tsaya a kan mutane a zaune

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Sai ya ce

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Shin ba zan ba ku labarin alherinku da sharrinku ba?

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Yace

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Haka suka yi shiru

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Ya fadi haka sau uku

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Wani mutum yace

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Ya Manzon Allah

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Ka faxa mana alherin mu daga sharrin mu

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Yace

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Mafificinku shi ne wanda ya yi fatan alherinsa kuma ya amintar da sharrinsa

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Kuma shirkarku ita ce wadda ba a fatan alherinsa, kuma sharrinsa ba ya tsira

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Tirmizi ne ya ruwaito shi

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Kuma idan duk laifin mutane yana cikin wannan biyun

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Ba ta taba fatan alheri ba

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Kuma ba ku tsira daga sharrinta ba

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Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah

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Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai