1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,299 Da sunan Allah, Mai rahama, Mai jin kai 2 00:00:03,299 --> 00:00:08,210 Kayan maza 3 00:00:08,210 --> 00:00:13,199 A cikin hadisin Ummu Zara’ 4 00:00:13,199 --> 00:00:23,780 Mijina duk mai bin wannan bashi ne 5 00:00:23,780 --> 00:00:28,179 Mace ta bakwai da ta yi magana a majalisar mata 6 00:00:28,179 --> 00:00:30,879 Ta siffanta mijinta da cewa: 7 00:00:30,879 --> 00:00:34,380 Mijina yana da kishi ko rauni 8 00:00:34,380 --> 00:00:35,979 Aiwatar 9 00:00:36,179 --> 00:00:38,780 Duk mai bashi ga wannan 10 00:00:38,780 --> 00:00:43,140 Shajak, Falak, ko jam'i na duka biyu a gare ku 11 00:00:43,140 --> 00:00:45,240 Ana iya cewa game da shi 12 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,240 Talaka ce 13 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,840 Ta tattara duk bayanan batanci ga mijinta 14 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:56,439 Babu wani alheri gareshi da mata zasu amfana dashi 15 00:00:56,439 --> 00:00:58,340 Wawa ne jahili 16 00:00:58,340 --> 00:00:59,840 Goma mara kyau 17 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:02,140 Rashin iya saduwa 18 00:01:02,140 --> 00:01:05,140 Ya bugi matar da karfi da karfi 19 00:01:05,140 --> 00:01:09,299 Har ma ya tattaro dukkan laifuffukan mutane a cikinsa 20 00:01:09,299 --> 00:01:12,200 Alkali Iyad, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 21 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:13,900 Ta kira shi wawa 22 00:01:13,900 --> 00:01:17,500 Da kuma iyakar dukkan gazawa da lahani 23 00:01:17,500 --> 00:01:19,799 Mummunan magani tare da iyali 24 00:01:19,799 --> 00:01:22,299 Da kuma gazawarsa wajen biyan bukatunta 25 00:01:22,299 --> 00:01:25,299 Ya buge ta ya cuce ta 26 00:01:25,299 --> 00:01:28,400 Idan kuma tayi masa magana sai ya zage ta 27 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:31,099 Idan kuma tayi masa wasa sai ya bata mata rai 28 00:01:31,099 --> 00:01:32,500 Idan kuma yayi fushi 29 00:01:32,500 --> 00:01:34,799 Ko dai ya soka mata kai 30 00:01:34,799 --> 00:01:37,799 Ko karya daya daga cikin membobinta 31 00:01:37,799 --> 00:01:40,000 Yana nufin ilimin taurari 32 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,400 Kuma aka ce wa wanda aka ci 33 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:43,689 Phil 34 00:01:43,689 --> 00:01:46,489 Ko yanke mata fatar jiki ko kuma a soka mata wuka 35 00:01:46,489 --> 00:01:48,989 Shi ne ma'anar Shajak 36 00:01:48,989 --> 00:01:51,689 Ko tara mata duka 37 00:01:51,689 --> 00:01:54,790 Daga duka, raunuka, da karyewar gabobi 38 00:01:54,790 --> 00:01:58,290 Ko kuma a wargaje ta da husuma da maganganu masu radadi 39 00:01:58,290 --> 00:02:02,019 Kuma ya karbi kudinta 40 00:02:02,019 --> 00:02:04,120 Irin wannan maza 41 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,019 Ba za ku iya zama tare da shi lafiya ba 42 00:02:07,019 --> 00:02:10,120 Ba zai yiwu a yi tunanin cewa wadannan dabi'u munanan ayyuka ne ba 43 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,020 A cikin wannan rukuni 44 00:02:12,020 --> 00:02:15,319 Na same shi ba zato ba tsammani bayan aure 45 00:02:15,319 --> 00:02:19,620 Amma abin da ake tsammani ita ce a ciki kafin aure 46 00:02:19,620 --> 00:02:22,219 Tambayar ta taso 47 00:02:22,219 --> 00:02:25,219 Me yasa matar nan ta karbe shi? 48 00:02:25,219 --> 00:02:29,639 Kuma duk wanda yayi kuskuren aurenta dashi 49 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:30,840 Na farko 50 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:34,039 Wannan lamari ya faru ne a zamanin jahiliyya 51 00:02:34,039 --> 00:02:38,139 Amma abin takaici ana maimaituwa a Musulunci 52 00:02:38,139 --> 00:02:40,889 Daga ina kuskuren ya fito? 53 00:02:40,889 --> 00:02:42,090 Na biyu 54 00:02:42,090 --> 00:02:44,289 Bisa koyarwar Musulunci 55 00:02:44,289 --> 00:02:46,289 Da kyawawan dabi'unsa 56 00:02:46,289 --> 00:02:48,889 Mun gano cewa ya kafa madaidaicin tsari 57 00:02:48,889 --> 00:02:50,789 Don hana irin wannan hoton 58 00:02:50,789 --> 00:02:52,889 Don fada cikin gaskiya 59 00:02:52,889 --> 00:02:55,550 Me yasa ake maimaita shi? 60 00:02:55,550 --> 00:02:57,250 Wanda ya bayyana a gare ni 61 00:02:57,250 --> 00:03:01,150 Shi ya sa ake maimaita irin wannan hoton a zahiri 62 00:03:01,150 --> 00:03:03,550 Ya samo asali ne daga abubuwa biyu 63 00:03:03,550 --> 00:03:05,849 Adireshinsu iri daya ne 64 00:03:05,849 --> 00:03:08,650 Rashin sadaukarwa ne ga koyarwar Musulunci 65 00:03:08,650 --> 00:03:12,150 Da kuma ladubbansa wajen auren 'yan mata 66 00:03:12,150 --> 00:03:13,750 Abu na farko 67 00:03:13,750 --> 00:03:18,349 Iyaye suna watsi da alhakin auren yarinyar 68 00:03:18,349 --> 00:03:20,750 Annabi sallallahu alaihi wasallam 69 00:03:20,750 --> 00:03:23,949 Haramun ne mace ta auri kanta 70 00:03:23,949 --> 00:03:26,750 Ya umurci waliyyanta da su aure ta 71 00:03:26,750 --> 00:03:30,949 Domin maza su dauki nauyin auren mata 72 00:03:30,949 --> 00:03:33,520 Wanene ya cancanta 73 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,819 An ambaci hadisai da dama akan haka 74 00:03:36,819 --> 00:03:38,020 Daga ita 75 00:03:38,020 --> 00:03:40,520 An kar~o daga Abu Musa Allah Ya yarda da shi 76 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,120 Cewa Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya ce 77 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,020 Babu aure sai da poly 78 00:03:47,020 --> 00:03:49,319 Abu Dawuda ya ruwaito 79 00:03:49,319 --> 00:03:52,520 An kar~o daga Aisha – Allah Ya yarda da ita ta ce 80 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:56,219 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce 81 00:03:56,219 --> 00:04:00,319 Duk macen da ta yi jima'i ba tare da izinin ubangijinta ba 82 00:04:00,319 --> 00:04:02,520 Auren ta ba daidai ba ne 83 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,319 Sau uku 84 00:04:04,319 --> 00:04:05,919 Idan ya shige ta 85 00:04:05,919 --> 00:04:09,120 Sadakin nata ne ga duk abin da ya same ta 86 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:10,719 Idan yayi rigima 87 00:04:10,719 --> 00:04:14,349 Sarkin Musulmi shi ne waliyyin wadanda ba su da majibinci 88 00:04:14,349 --> 00:04:16,810 Abu Dawuda ya ruwaito 89 00:04:16,810 --> 00:04:20,110 An kar~o daga Abu Hurairah, Allah Ya yarda da shi ya ce 90 00:04:20,110 --> 00:04:23,610 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce 91 00:04:23,610 --> 00:04:26,410 Mace ba ta auri wata 92 00:04:26,410 --> 00:04:29,509 Matar ba ta auri kanta 93 00:04:29,509 --> 00:04:33,810 Mazinaciya ita ce ta auri kanta 94 00:04:33,810 --> 00:04:36,129 Ibn Majah ne ya rawaito 95 00:04:36,129 --> 00:04:37,930 Wadannan su ne hadisan 96 00:04:37,930 --> 00:04:41,629 Ya dora alhakin aure a kan waliyyai 97 00:04:41,629 --> 00:04:44,829 An hana mata auren kansu 98 00:04:44,829 --> 00:04:47,529 Wannan hukunci ne babba 99 00:04:47,529 --> 00:04:48,629 Daga ita 100 00:04:48,629 --> 00:04:53,329 Maza sun fi iya sanin halaye da dabi'un mai neman aure 101 00:04:53,329 --> 00:04:55,930 Da tambaya game da shi a cikin maza 102 00:04:55,930 --> 00:04:57,629 Sabanin mata 103 00:04:57,730 --> 00:05:00,629 Ba za ta iya yin hakan ba 104 00:05:00,629 --> 00:05:01,829 Kuma daga ita 105 00:05:01,829 --> 00:05:05,129 Cewa maza su mallaki hankali a cikin al'amura 106 00:05:05,129 --> 00:05:06,629 Sabanin mata 107 00:05:06,629 --> 00:05:09,230 Yana sarrafa motsin rai 108 00:05:09,230 --> 00:05:11,930 Idan zuciyarta tana makale da namiji 109 00:05:11,930 --> 00:05:16,060 Ta kau da kai tana kallon duk munanan halayensa 110 00:05:16,060 --> 00:05:22,160 Wannan shi ne hadarin da ke tattare da alaka tsakanin maza da mata kafin a daura aure 111 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,560 Yarinyar tana manne da shi 112 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,060 Da kyar ta nisance shi 113 00:05:27,060 --> 00:05:30,959 Musamman idan aka zo batun samari wajen mu’amalarsu da ‘yan mata 114 00:05:30,959 --> 00:05:35,060 Suna nuna halayensu masu kyau don su rinjaye shi 115 00:05:35,060 --> 00:05:36,959 Idan an makale yarinyar 116 00:05:36,959 --> 00:05:40,019 An makantar da ni ga hangen nesa na gaskiya 117 00:05:40,019 --> 00:05:42,319 Don haka Musulunci ya haramta mata 118 00:05:42,319 --> 00:05:44,920 Don cudanya da mazajen waje 119 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,420 Don kada irin wannan dangantaka ta faru 120 00:05:47,420 --> 00:05:49,519 Tsakanin yara maza da mata 121 00:05:49,519 --> 00:05:52,740 Sai rayuwa ta lalace 122 00:05:52,740 --> 00:05:54,439 Abu na biyu 123 00:05:54,439 --> 00:05:57,779 Rasa ma'auni na zabar maza 124 00:05:57,779 --> 00:06:00,680 Da kuma irin kallon da mutane suke yi a yau wajen zabar mijin aure 125 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:02,480 Ya bambanta saboda nisan su 126 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,379 Game da riko da dokokin Sharia 127 00:06:05,379 --> 00:06:07,579 Ya zama ma'auni na zabar maza 128 00:06:07,579 --> 00:06:09,680 Matsayin jiki 129 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,509 An haɗa shi da duniya kawai 130 00:06:12,509 --> 00:06:14,310 Wannan kwata-kwata akasin haka ne 131 00:06:14,310 --> 00:06:18,009 A bisa umarnin Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama 132 00:06:18,009 --> 00:06:19,610 Inda ya ce 133 00:06:19,610 --> 00:06:21,509 Idan wani da kake don Allah ya zo maka 134 00:06:21,509 --> 00:06:24,709 Idan yana da kyawawan halaye da addini to ku aure shi 135 00:06:24,709 --> 00:06:26,110 Sai dai idan kun yi 136 00:06:26,110 --> 00:06:30,339 Za a yi rigima a duniya da ɓarna 137 00:06:30,339 --> 00:06:32,500 Ibn Majah ne ya rawaito 138 00:06:32,500 --> 00:06:35,000 Al-Mazhari Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 139 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,399 Ina nufin, idan wani ya tambaye ku 140 00:06:37,399 --> 00:06:40,100 Ku aurar da shi ga mace daga cikin 'ya'yanku 141 00:06:40,100 --> 00:06:41,899 Ko danginku 142 00:06:41,899 --> 00:06:43,000 Don haka duba 143 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,000 Idan kuma musulmine nagari 144 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,399 Kyawawan halaye 145 00:06:46,399 --> 00:06:47,899 Haka suka aure shi 146 00:06:47,899 --> 00:06:49,800 Domin idan bakayi aure ba 147 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:51,699 Matan dangin ku 148 00:06:51,699 --> 00:06:55,199 Sai dai wani sanannen mutum mai kudi da daraja 149 00:06:55,199 --> 00:06:58,500 Da sauran halaye da ya ke kula da su 150 00:06:58,500 --> 00:07:00,300 Yaran duniya 151 00:07:00,300 --> 00:07:03,600 Yawancin matan ku ba su da miji 152 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:07,000 Yawancin maza suna zama ba su da mata 153 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,199 Sannan maza suna son mata 154 00:07:10,199 --> 00:07:12,399 Kuma mata ga maza 155 00:07:12,399 --> 00:07:14,199 Zina ta yawaita 156 00:07:14,199 --> 00:07:16,000 Waliyai sun sha kunya 157 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,199 Kashi na zina da matansu 158 00:07:19,199 --> 00:07:22,199 Wataƙila suna jin kishi akan danginsu 159 00:07:22,199 --> 00:07:25,300 Domin sun ji an jingina zina da su 160 00:07:25,300 --> 00:07:27,000 Kuma suna kashe su 161 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,399 Kuma suna kashe masu niyyar aikata alfasha 162 00:07:30,399 --> 00:07:33,100 Wannan duk cin hanci da rashawa ne ya yadu 163 00:07:33,100 --> 00:07:37,079 Kuma babban jarabawa 164 00:07:37,079 --> 00:07:38,180 Amma 165 00:07:38,180 --> 00:07:41,680 Me yasa mace zata zauna da wannan wawa? 166 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:44,879 Yaushe kuka gano wadannan dabi'u? 167 00:07:44,879 --> 00:07:47,680 Akwai kuma laifin mata 168 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:50,180 Mun kuma zargi waliyyai 169 00:07:50,180 --> 00:07:52,680 A matsayinta na yarda da namiji 170 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,379 Mai neman aurenta 171 00:07:55,379 --> 00:07:57,879 Ko menene wannan ma'aunin 172 00:07:57,879 --> 00:08:01,579 Sai dai ba zai zama addini da halitta ba 173 00:08:01,579 --> 00:08:04,579 Idan ma'auninsa addini ne da dabi'u 174 00:08:04,579 --> 00:08:07,279 Lokacin da na sami irin waɗannan hotuna tare da mu 175 00:08:07,279 --> 00:08:09,379 A cikin al'ummarmu 176 00:08:09,379 --> 00:08:12,379 Domin wannan irin wauta ce ta maza 177 00:08:12,379 --> 00:08:14,480 Wautarsa dole ta fito fili 178 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:16,680 Tare da wanda yake zaune 179 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,980 Idan ka tambayi mace addininsa da dabi'unsa 180 00:08:19,980 --> 00:08:22,180 Ta tambayi waliyanta su tabbatar 181 00:08:22,180 --> 00:08:24,180 Wanda ya siffanta shi da duka biyun 182 00:08:24,180 --> 00:08:26,639 Da na san gaskiyarsa 183 00:08:26,639 --> 00:08:29,740 Kuma idan Annabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam 184 00:08:29,740 --> 00:08:32,840 An wulakanta macen da take tashi da daddare 185 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:36,740 Amma tana da mugun hali ga makwabtanta 186 00:08:36,740 --> 00:08:40,960 To fa wanda ke irin wannan hali da iyalinsa? 187 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:44,460 An kar~o daga Abu Hurairah, Allah Ya yarda da shi ya ce 188 00:08:44,460 --> 00:08:45,860 Wani mutum yace 189 00:08:45,860 --> 00:08:47,559 Ya Manzon Allah 190 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:48,860 So-da-haka 191 00:08:48,860 --> 00:08:53,460 Ana ambatonsa da yawaita sallah da azumi da sadaka 192 00:08:53,460 --> 00:08:57,559 Duk da haka, tana cutar da maƙwabtanta da harshenta 193 00:08:57,559 --> 00:08:58,559 Yace 194 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:00,460 Tana cin wuta 195 00:09:00,460 --> 00:09:01,360 Yace 196 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:02,960 Ya Manzon Allah 197 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:04,460 So-da-haka 198 00:09:04,460 --> 00:09:09,159 Ya ambaci rashin azumi, da sadaka, da sallah 199 00:09:09,159 --> 00:09:12,659 Kuma ta yi imani da masu juyin juya hali na Al-Aqt 200 00:09:12,659 --> 00:09:16,159 Ba ta cutar da maƙwabtanta da harshenta 201 00:09:16,159 --> 00:09:17,159 Yace 202 00:09:17,159 --> 00:09:18,960 Tana sama 203 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,340 Ahmed ne ya rawaito 204 00:09:21,340 --> 00:09:22,840 Wannan hadisin 205 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:30,039 Ya fadi gaskiya ta yadda baya yarda da rabuwar addini da dabi'u wajen mu'amala da mutane 206 00:09:30,039 --> 00:09:35,840 Ta yaya mace za ta yarda ta auri namiji ba tare da kyawawan halaye ba? 207 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,440 Sai mu yi la’akari da abin da ta ce 208 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:41,159 Kowace cuta tana da cuta 209 00:09:41,159 --> 00:09:44,460 Abu Ubaid Al-Harawi, Allah ya yi masa rahama, ya ce 210 00:09:44,460 --> 00:09:47,460 Wato komai daga magungunan mutane 211 00:09:47,460 --> 00:09:50,360 Yana cikinsa kuma daya daga cikin magungunansa 212 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:53,960 Al-Khalil Al-Farahidi Allah ya yi masa rahama ya ce 213 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:59,419 Tana son kowane aibi a cikin maza ya kasance a cikinsa 214 00:09:59,419 --> 00:10:04,820 Wannan wata magana ce da ta tattaro duk mugayen da ke cikin irin wadannan mazaje 215 00:10:04,820 --> 00:10:07,519 Yana daga cikin mafi munin mutane 216 00:10:07,519 --> 00:10:10,120 An kar~o daga Abu Hurairah, Allah Ya yarda da shi 217 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:15,620 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya tsaya a kan mutane a zaune 218 00:10:15,620 --> 00:10:16,919 Sai ya ce 219 00:10:17,019 --> 00:10:20,720 Shin ba zan ba ku labarin alherinku da sharrinku ba? 220 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:21,720 Yace 221 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,120 Haka suka yi shiru 222 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:26,019 Ya fadi haka sau uku 223 00:10:26,019 --> 00:10:27,519 Wani mutum yace 224 00:10:27,519 --> 00:10:29,519 Ya Manzon Allah 225 00:10:29,519 --> 00:10:32,919 Ka faxa mana alherin mu daga sharrin mu 226 00:10:32,919 --> 00:10:34,019 Yace 227 00:10:34,019 --> 00:10:38,120 Mafificinku shi ne wanda ya yi fatan alherinsa kuma ya amintar da sharrinsa 228 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:43,120 Kuma shirkarku ita ce wadda ba a fatan alherinsa, kuma sharrinsa ba ya tsira 229 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,350 Tirmizi ne ya ruwaito shi 230 00:10:45,450 --> 00:10:49,149 Kuma idan duk laifin mutane yana cikin wannan biyun 231 00:10:49,149 --> 00:10:51,850 Ba ta taba fatan alheri ba 232 00:10:51,850 --> 00:10:55,580 Kuma ba ku tsira daga sharrinta ba 233 00:10:55,580 --> 00:10:58,879 Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah 234 00:10:58,879 --> 00:11:01,779 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai