WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:06.000 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him 00:00:06.000 --> 00:00:14.970 The suffering of women working outside the home 00:00:14.970 --> 00:00:22.629 When Musa saw the sight of the two girls, he avoided drinking water with the people 00:00:22.629 --> 00:00:27.629 He turned to them, wondering and astonished at what they had done 00:00:27.629 --> 00:00:30.629 He said what's wrong with you? 00:00:30.629 --> 00:00:33.659 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 00:00:33.659 --> 00:00:35.659 Moses said to the two women 00:00:35.659 --> 00:00:40.659 What is the matter with you and what is your matter, defending what you have done to the people? 00:00:40.659 --> 00:00:44.659 Do you not water it with people's livestock? 00:00:44.659 --> 00:00:47.659 Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:00:47.659 --> 00:00:52.700 When Moses saw the two women preventing their cattle from drinking 00:00:52.700 --> 00:00:55.700 He asked them what's wrong with you 00:00:55.700 --> 00:00:58.700 It is a question about their story and their affairs 00:00:58.700 --> 00:01:00.700 When the water came 00:01:00.700 --> 00:01:04.700 He did not dare to water their sheep 00:01:04.700 --> 00:01:07.689 The answer was great 00:01:07.689 --> 00:01:13.689 Which is a lesson for every girl today who wants to work outside the home 00:01:13.689 --> 00:01:17.689 She said: We will not water until the pastures are released 00:01:17.689 --> 00:01:20.689 Our father is a great sheikh 00:01:20.689 --> 00:01:23.689 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:01:23.689 --> 00:01:28.689 That is, we do not get watering until after they have finished 00:01:28.689 --> 00:01:31.689 Al-Alusi, may God Almighty have mercy on him, said 00:01:31.689 --> 00:01:33.689 As if they said 00:01:33.689 --> 00:01:37.689 Two weak women are hidden 00:01:37.689 --> 00:01:41.689 We cannot argue with men or jockey with them 00:01:41.689 --> 00:01:44.689 We don't have a man to do that 00:01:44.689 --> 00:01:47.689 Our father is an old sheikh 00:01:47.689 --> 00:01:49.689 Old age has weakened him 00:01:49.689 --> 00:01:55.689 We must delay watering until people die or run out of water 00:01:56.689 --> 00:02:00.519 So I explained the reason for staying away from watering 00:02:00.519 --> 00:02:05.519 Not wanting to crowd in and mingle with men 00:02:05.519 --> 00:02:11.520 Then she followed that up by explaining the excuse that led them to work outside the home 00:02:11.520 --> 00:02:16.520 She said, “Our father is an old man.” 00:02:16.520 --> 00:02:18.520 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:02:18.520 --> 00:02:23.520 That is, this is the situation that gives us refuge in what you see 00:02:23.520 --> 00:02:26.580 Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 00:02:26.580 --> 00:02:30.580 They said, “Our father is a great sheikh.” 00:02:30.580 --> 00:02:34.580 As an apology for coming to watering with the men 00:02:34.580 --> 00:02:38.580 Because they did not find a man to water for them 00:02:38.580 --> 00:02:42.580 Because the only man they have is their father 00:02:42.580 --> 00:02:44.580 He is a great sheikh 00:02:44.580 --> 00:02:48.580 It cannot reach water because it is too weak to compete with 00:02:48.580 --> 00:02:51.650 Al-Shaarawi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:02:51.650 --> 00:02:55.650 So we have three provisions in this story 00:02:55.650 --> 00:02:58.650 We do not water until the pasture comes out 00:02:58.650 --> 00:03:00.650 She gave a ruling 00:03:00.650 --> 00:03:03.650 Our father is a great sheikh 00:03:03.650 --> 00:03:05.650 She gave a ruling 00:03:05.650 --> 00:03:07.650 So he gave them water 00:03:07.650 --> 00:03:09.650 She gave a third ruling 00:03:09.650 --> 00:03:12.870 These three rulings 00:03:12.870 --> 00:03:16.870 It regulates the issue of women's work for the Muslim community 00:03:16.870 --> 00:03:20.870 What should we do when women are forced to work? 00:03:20.870 --> 00:03:22.870 It is the first ruling 00:03:22.870 --> 00:03:26.870 We know that watering livestock is the work of men 00:03:26.870 --> 00:03:28.870 From the second ruling 00:03:28.870 --> 00:03:33.870 We know that women do not go out to work unless necessary 00:03:33.870 --> 00:03:35.870 It does not do the job of men 00:03:35.870 --> 00:03:39.870 Unless the man is unable to perform this task 00:03:39.870 --> 00:03:42.870 Our father is a great sheikh 00:03:42.870 --> 00:03:44.900 As for the third ruling 00:03:44.900 --> 00:03:48.900 He knows the Muslim community or even the humanitarian community 00:03:48.900 --> 00:03:51.900 If he sees the woman has gone out to work 00:03:51.900 --> 00:03:55.900 She must not have a man to do this job 00:03:55.900 --> 00:04:00.900 He must help her and facilitate her mission 00:04:00.900 --> 00:04:04.900 I remember when I traveled to Saudi Arabia 00:04:04.900 --> 00:04:07.900 In the year one thousand nine hundred and fifty 00:04:07.900 --> 00:04:10.900 I rode with a colleague in his car 00:04:10.900 --> 00:04:14.900 On the way, I saw him get out of his car 00:04:14.900 --> 00:04:16.899 And he went to one of the houses 00:04:16.899 --> 00:04:19.899 In front of him was a wooden table 00:04:19.899 --> 00:04:22.899 Covered with a piece of cloth 00:04:22.899 --> 00:04:25.899 So he took her and put her in the car 00:04:25.899 --> 00:04:27.899 Then we walked 00:04:27.899 --> 00:04:29.899 So I asked him what he was doing 00:04:29.899 --> 00:04:30.899 And he said 00:04:30.899 --> 00:04:35.899 It is our custom if you see such a table at the door of the house 00:04:35.899 --> 00:04:39.899 It means that the owner of the house is not present 00:04:39.899 --> 00:04:43.899 And the housewife had prepared the dough 00:04:43.899 --> 00:04:45.899 And you want someone to bake it 00:04:45.899 --> 00:04:49.899 If one of us passed by, he took it and baked it 00:04:49.899 --> 00:04:52.899 Then he put the table back in place 00:04:52.899 --> 00:04:55.160 And in the Almighty’s saying 00:04:55.160 --> 00:04:58.160 We do not water until the pastures are released 00:04:58.160 --> 00:05:03.160 An indication that if a woman has to go out to work 00:05:03.160 --> 00:05:06.160 She had this necessity 00:05:06.160 --> 00:05:09.160 She has to take the necessity as much as she can 00:05:09.160 --> 00:05:12.160 Do not mix with men 00:05:12.160 --> 00:05:16.160 And to isolate herself from crowding and contact with them 00:05:16.160 --> 00:05:21.160 This does not mean that necessity forced women to do men's work 00:05:21.160 --> 00:05:24.160 She became like them 00:05:24.160 --> 00:05:27.160 She allows herself to mingle with them 00:05:27.160 --> 00:05:32.149 The suffering that women faced in the city 00:05:32.149 --> 00:05:35.149 When she goes out to work outside the home 00:05:35.149 --> 00:05:38.149 It consists of two things 00:05:38.149 --> 00:05:39.149 The first 00:05:39.149 --> 00:05:42.149 The suffering of mingling with men 00:05:42.149 --> 00:05:43.149 The second 00:05:43.149 --> 00:05:47.149 Suffering from the nature of the work you went out to do 00:05:47.149 --> 00:05:49.250 As for the first suffering 00:05:49.250 --> 00:05:52.250 It is mingling with men 00:05:52.250 --> 00:05:55.250 The texts of the Qur’an and Sunnah have indicated 00:05:55.250 --> 00:05:59.250 On the prohibition of women mixing with men in business 00:05:59.250 --> 00:06:01.250 It is this evidence 00:06:01.250 --> 00:06:03.250 The story of these two girls 00:06:03.250 --> 00:06:06.250 They are in need of watering 00:06:06.250 --> 00:06:10.250 However, they did not approach the men 00:06:10.250 --> 00:06:12.250 Go away clearly 00:06:12.250 --> 00:06:18.250 Until this caught the attention of God’s Prophet Moses, peace and blessings be upon him 00:06:18.250 --> 00:06:21.339 Among them is the Almighty’s saying 00:06:21.339 --> 00:06:23.339 And live in your homes 00:06:23.339 --> 00:06:27.339 And do not display yourselves like the display of pre-Islamic times 00:06:27.339 --> 00:06:30.500 So God Almighty commanded the decision-making in homes 00:06:30.500 --> 00:06:33.500 Because of the protection of women 00:06:33.500 --> 00:06:36.500 Keeping it away from corrupt means 00:06:36.500 --> 00:06:40.500 And because the woman who does not stay in her home 00:06:40.500 --> 00:06:42.500 Prone to mixing with men 00:06:42.500 --> 00:06:45.500 Because of her frequent going out 00:06:45.500 --> 00:06:48.500 So God chose for her to stay at home 00:06:48.500 --> 00:06:51.500 To reduce her contact with men 00:06:51.500 --> 00:06:54.500 Therefore, the order was followed by decision-making in homes 00:06:54.500 --> 00:06:56.500 By forbidding vanity 00:06:56.500 --> 00:06:59.500 Because leaving the house a lot 00:06:59.500 --> 00:07:02.569 Women's expectations of finery 00:07:02.569 --> 00:07:04.569 Among them is the Almighty’s saying 00:07:04.569 --> 00:07:09.600 O Prophet 00:07:09.600 --> 00:07:12.600 Tell your husbands and daughters 00:07:12.600 --> 00:07:15.600 And the women of believers 00:07:15.600 --> 00:07:21.600 He draws down their cloaks upon them 00:07:21.600 --> 00:07:26.269 That's the least they should know 00:07:26.269 --> 00:07:29.269 So they won't hurt 00:07:29.269 --> 00:07:33.269 God is Forgiving and Merciful 00:07:33.269 --> 00:07:36.819 So God Almighty commanded the women of the believers 00:07:36.819 --> 00:07:39.819 By lowering the jilbab over them 00:07:39.819 --> 00:07:41.819 If we want to go out 00:07:41.819 --> 00:07:43.819 The purpose of this is clear 00:07:43.819 --> 00:07:46.819 He hid them from men 00:07:46.819 --> 00:07:48.819 If we have blocked 00:07:48.819 --> 00:07:50.819 From the eyes of men in clothing 00:07:50.819 --> 00:07:53.819 How can they mix with men? 00:07:53.819 --> 00:07:55.819 In general community activities 00:07:55.819 --> 00:07:58.819 Which is not without its revelations 00:07:58.819 --> 00:08:01.819 Men look at women 00:08:01.819 --> 00:08:04.819 And falling into temptation with them 00:08:04.910 --> 00:08:08.040 Among them is His saying, Glory be to Him 00:08:08.040 --> 00:08:12.040 Tell the believers to lower their gazes 00:08:12.040 --> 00:08:15.040 And protect their private parts 00:08:15.040 --> 00:08:18.040 It's smarter for them 00:08:18.040 --> 00:08:24.040 God is aware of what they do 00:08:24.040 --> 00:08:28.060 And tell the believing women to be angry 00:08:28.060 --> 00:08:30.060 From their sight 00:08:30.060 --> 00:08:33.059 And they protect their private parts 00:08:33.059 --> 00:08:36.059 They do not show off their adornment 00:08:36.059 --> 00:08:39.740 Except what appears 00:08:39.740 --> 00:08:41.740 So God commanded the believing women 00:08:41.740 --> 00:08:43.740 What he commanded the believers to do 00:08:43.740 --> 00:08:45.740 From lowering one's gaze and guarding one's chastity 00:08:45.740 --> 00:08:48.740 And he started it regardless 00:08:48.740 --> 00:08:50.740 Because it is the leading means 00:08:50.740 --> 00:08:52.740 To preserve relief 00:08:52.740 --> 00:08:54.740 He who lowers his gaze 00:08:54.740 --> 00:08:56.740 He was better off guarding his chastity 00:08:56.740 --> 00:08:58.740 And whoever releases his sight 00:08:58.740 --> 00:09:01.740 Whoever agrees to commit immorality 00:09:01.740 --> 00:09:05.929 No rational person doubts that the fields are mixed 00:09:05.929 --> 00:09:07.929 No one is safe in it 00:09:07.929 --> 00:09:09.929 From looking at the other party 00:09:09.929 --> 00:09:11.929 It is the most important field 00:09:11.929 --> 00:09:14.929 In which adultery occurs 00:09:14.929 --> 00:09:17.929 This verse indicates its meaning 00:09:17.929 --> 00:09:20.090 On the prohibition of mixing 00:09:20.090 --> 00:09:22.090 Among them is the Almighty’s saying 00:09:22.090 --> 00:09:25.090 And if you ask them for anything 00:09:25.090 --> 00:09:29.090 So ask them from behind a veil 00:09:29.090 --> 00:09:33.090 That is purer for your hearts and their hearts 00:09:33.090 --> 00:09:36.220 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:09:36.220 --> 00:09:38.220 That is, this is what I commanded you to do 00:09:38.220 --> 00:09:40.220 I legitimized it for you from the veil 00:09:40.220 --> 00:09:43.220 Purer and better 00:09:43.980 --> 00:09:45.980 He understands from that 00:09:45.980 --> 00:09:49.980 Mixing is not purer for the hearts of men and women 00:09:49.980 --> 00:09:52.980 Rather, it corrupted all of their hearts 00:09:52.980 --> 00:09:55.019 Mixed work 00:09:55.019 --> 00:09:59.019 There is great suffering for women in many aspects 00:09:59.019 --> 00:10:01.019 From her 00:10:01.019 --> 00:10:04.019 Suffering in lowering her gaze 00:10:04.019 --> 00:10:07.019 She struggles to control her emotions 00:10:07.019 --> 00:10:11.019 She struggles to maintain the purity of her heart 00:10:11.019 --> 00:10:15.019 And the suffering of not spoiling a man’s heart 00:10:15.019 --> 00:10:21.019 And suffering in her commitment to the legal dress that pleases her Lord 00:10:21.019 --> 00:10:25.019 She suffers from controlling her speech and the way she speaks 00:10:25.019 --> 00:10:29.049 Were women able to work in men's fields? 00:10:29.049 --> 00:10:33.330 Get over this suffering 00:10:33.330 --> 00:10:36.330 We will continue in the next meeting, God willing 00:10:36.330 --> 00:10:40.330 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 00:10:40.330 --> 00:10:47.970 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him