1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,000 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:14,970 The suffering of women working outside the home 3 00:00:14,970 --> 00:00:22,629 When Musa saw the sight of the two girls, he avoided drinking water with the people 4 00:00:22,629 --> 00:00:27,629 He turned to them, wondering and astonished at what they had done 5 00:00:27,629 --> 00:00:30,629 He said what's wrong with you? 6 00:00:30,629 --> 00:00:33,659 Ibn Jarir al-Tabari, may God have mercy on him, said 7 00:00:33,659 --> 00:00:35,659 Moses said to the two women 8 00:00:35,659 --> 00:00:40,659 What is the matter with you and what is your matter, defending what you have done to the people? 9 00:00:40,659 --> 00:00:44,659 Do you not water it with people's livestock? 10 00:00:44,659 --> 00:00:47,659 Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 11 00:00:47,659 --> 00:00:52,700 When Moses saw the two women preventing their cattle from drinking 12 00:00:52,700 --> 00:00:55,700 He asked them what's wrong with you 13 00:00:55,700 --> 00:00:58,700 It is a question about their story and their affairs 14 00:00:58,700 --> 00:01:00,700 When the water came 15 00:01:00,700 --> 00:01:04,700 He did not dare to water their sheep 16 00:01:04,700 --> 00:01:07,689 The answer was great 17 00:01:07,689 --> 00:01:13,689 Which is a lesson for every girl today who wants to work outside the home 18 00:01:13,689 --> 00:01:17,689 She said: We will not water until the pastures are released 19 00:01:17,689 --> 00:01:20,689 Our father is a great sheikh 20 00:01:20,689 --> 00:01:23,689 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 21 00:01:23,689 --> 00:01:28,689 That is, we do not get watering until after they have finished 22 00:01:28,689 --> 00:01:31,689 Al-Alusi, may God Almighty have mercy on him, said 23 00:01:31,689 --> 00:01:33,689 As if they said 24 00:01:33,689 --> 00:01:37,689 Two weak women are hidden 25 00:01:37,689 --> 00:01:41,689 We cannot argue with men or jockey with them 26 00:01:41,689 --> 00:01:44,689 We don't have a man to do that 27 00:01:44,689 --> 00:01:47,689 Our father is an old sheikh 28 00:01:47,689 --> 00:01:49,689 Old age has weakened him 29 00:01:49,689 --> 00:01:55,689 We must delay watering until people die or run out of water 30 00:01:56,689 --> 00:02:00,519 So I explained the reason for staying away from watering 31 00:02:00,519 --> 00:02:05,519 Not wanting to crowd in and mingle with men 32 00:02:05,519 --> 00:02:11,520 Then she followed that up by explaining the excuse that led them to work outside the home 33 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:16,520 She said, “Our father is an old man.” 34 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,520 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 35 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:23,520 That is, this is the situation that gives us refuge in what you see 36 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,580 Al-Taher Ibn Ashour, may God have mercy on him, said 37 00:02:26,580 --> 00:02:30,580 They said, “Our father is a great sheikh.” 38 00:02:30,580 --> 00:02:34,580 As an apology for coming to watering with the men 39 00:02:34,580 --> 00:02:38,580 Because they did not find a man to water for them 40 00:02:38,580 --> 00:02:42,580 Because the only man they have is their father 41 00:02:42,580 --> 00:02:44,580 He is a great sheikh 42 00:02:44,580 --> 00:02:48,580 It cannot reach water because it is too weak to compete with 43 00:02:48,580 --> 00:02:51,650 Al-Shaarawi, may God have mercy on him, said 44 00:02:51,650 --> 00:02:55,650 So we have three provisions in this story 45 00:02:55,650 --> 00:02:58,650 We do not water until the pasture comes out 46 00:02:58,650 --> 00:03:00,650 She gave a ruling 47 00:03:00,650 --> 00:03:03,650 Our father is a great sheikh 48 00:03:03,650 --> 00:03:05,650 She gave a ruling 49 00:03:05,650 --> 00:03:07,650 So he gave them water 50 00:03:07,650 --> 00:03:09,650 She gave a third ruling 51 00:03:09,650 --> 00:03:12,870 These three rulings 52 00:03:12,870 --> 00:03:16,870 It regulates the issue of women's work for the Muslim community 53 00:03:16,870 --> 00:03:20,870 What should we do when women are forced to work? 54 00:03:20,870 --> 00:03:22,870 It is the first ruling 55 00:03:22,870 --> 00:03:26,870 We know that watering livestock is the work of men 56 00:03:26,870 --> 00:03:28,870 From the second ruling 57 00:03:28,870 --> 00:03:33,870 We know that women do not go out to work unless necessary 58 00:03:33,870 --> 00:03:35,870 It does not do the job of men 59 00:03:35,870 --> 00:03:39,870 Unless the man is unable to perform this task 60 00:03:39,870 --> 00:03:42,870 Our father is a great sheikh 61 00:03:42,870 --> 00:03:44,900 As for the third ruling 62 00:03:44,900 --> 00:03:48,900 He knows the Muslim community or even the humanitarian community 63 00:03:48,900 --> 00:03:51,900 If he sees the woman has gone out to work 64 00:03:51,900 --> 00:03:55,900 She must not have a man to do this job 65 00:03:55,900 --> 00:04:00,900 He must help her and facilitate her mission 66 00:04:00,900 --> 00:04:04,900 I remember when I traveled to Saudi Arabia 67 00:04:04,900 --> 00:04:07,900 In the year one thousand nine hundred and fifty 68 00:04:07,900 --> 00:04:10,900 I rode with a colleague in his car 69 00:04:10,900 --> 00:04:14,900 On the way, I saw him get out of his car 70 00:04:14,900 --> 00:04:16,899 And he went to one of the houses 71 00:04:16,899 --> 00:04:19,899 In front of him was a wooden table 72 00:04:19,899 --> 00:04:22,899 Covered with a piece of cloth 73 00:04:22,899 --> 00:04:25,899 So he took her and put her in the car 74 00:04:25,899 --> 00:04:27,899 Then we walked 75 00:04:27,899 --> 00:04:29,899 So I asked him what he was doing 76 00:04:29,899 --> 00:04:30,899 And he said 77 00:04:30,899 --> 00:04:35,899 It is our custom if you see such a table at the door of the house 78 00:04:35,899 --> 00:04:39,899 It means that the owner of the house is not present 79 00:04:39,899 --> 00:04:43,899 And the housewife had prepared the dough 80 00:04:43,899 --> 00:04:45,899 And you want someone to bake it 81 00:04:45,899 --> 00:04:49,899 If one of us passed by, he took it and baked it 82 00:04:49,899 --> 00:04:52,899 Then he put the table back in place 83 00:04:52,899 --> 00:04:55,160 And in the Almighty’s saying 84 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,160 We do not water until the pastures are released 85 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:03,160 An indication that if a woman has to go out to work 86 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,160 She had this necessity 87 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:09,160 She has to take the necessity as much as she can 88 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,160 Do not mix with men 89 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:16,160 And to isolate herself from crowding and contact with them 90 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:21,160 This does not mean that necessity forced women to do men's work 91 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,160 She became like them 92 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,160 She allows herself to mingle with them 93 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:32,149 The suffering that women faced in the city 94 00:05:32,149 --> 00:05:35,149 When she goes out to work outside the home 95 00:05:35,149 --> 00:05:38,149 It consists of two things 96 00:05:38,149 --> 00:05:39,149 The first 97 00:05:39,149 --> 00:05:42,149 The suffering of mingling with men 98 00:05:42,149 --> 00:05:43,149 The second 99 00:05:43,149 --> 00:05:47,149 Suffering from the nature of the work you went out to do 100 00:05:47,149 --> 00:05:49,250 As for the first suffering 101 00:05:49,250 --> 00:05:52,250 It is mingling with men 102 00:05:52,250 --> 00:05:55,250 The texts of the Qur’an and Sunnah have indicated 103 00:05:55,250 --> 00:05:59,250 On the prohibition of women mixing with men in business 104 00:05:59,250 --> 00:06:01,250 It is this evidence 105 00:06:01,250 --> 00:06:03,250 The story of these two girls 106 00:06:03,250 --> 00:06:06,250 They are in need of watering 107 00:06:06,250 --> 00:06:10,250 However, they did not approach the men 108 00:06:10,250 --> 00:06:12,250 Go away clearly 109 00:06:12,250 --> 00:06:18,250 Until this caught the attention of God’s Prophet Moses, peace and blessings be upon him 110 00:06:18,250 --> 00:06:21,339 Among them is the Almighty’s saying 111 00:06:21,339 --> 00:06:23,339 And live in your homes 112 00:06:23,339 --> 00:06:27,339 And do not display yourselves like the display of pre-Islamic times 113 00:06:27,339 --> 00:06:30,500 So God Almighty commanded the decision-making in homes 114 00:06:30,500 --> 00:06:33,500 Because of the protection of women 115 00:06:33,500 --> 00:06:36,500 Keeping it away from corrupt means 116 00:06:36,500 --> 00:06:40,500 And because the woman who does not stay in her home 117 00:06:40,500 --> 00:06:42,500 Prone to mixing with men 118 00:06:42,500 --> 00:06:45,500 Because of her frequent going out 119 00:06:45,500 --> 00:06:48,500 So God chose for her to stay at home 120 00:06:48,500 --> 00:06:51,500 To reduce her contact with men 121 00:06:51,500 --> 00:06:54,500 Therefore, the order was followed by decision-making in homes 122 00:06:54,500 --> 00:06:56,500 By forbidding vanity 123 00:06:56,500 --> 00:06:59,500 Because leaving the house a lot 124 00:06:59,500 --> 00:07:02,569 Women's expectations of finery 125 00:07:02,569 --> 00:07:04,569 Among them is the Almighty’s saying 126 00:07:04,569 --> 00:07:09,600 O Prophet 127 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,600 Tell your husbands and daughters 128 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,600 And the women of believers 129 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:21,600 He draws down their cloaks upon them 130 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:26,269 That's the least they should know 131 00:07:26,269 --> 00:07:29,269 So they won't hurt 132 00:07:29,269 --> 00:07:33,269 God is Forgiving and Merciful 133 00:07:33,269 --> 00:07:36,819 So God Almighty commanded the women of the believers 134 00:07:36,819 --> 00:07:39,819 By lowering the jilbab over them 135 00:07:39,819 --> 00:07:41,819 If we want to go out 136 00:07:41,819 --> 00:07:43,819 The purpose of this is clear 137 00:07:43,819 --> 00:07:46,819 He hid them from men 138 00:07:46,819 --> 00:07:48,819 If we have blocked 139 00:07:48,819 --> 00:07:50,819 From the eyes of men in clothing 140 00:07:50,819 --> 00:07:53,819 How can they mix with men? 141 00:07:53,819 --> 00:07:55,819 In general community activities 142 00:07:55,819 --> 00:07:58,819 Which is not without its revelations 143 00:07:58,819 --> 00:08:01,819 Men look at women 144 00:08:01,819 --> 00:08:04,819 And falling into temptation with them 145 00:08:04,910 --> 00:08:08,040 Among them is His saying, Glory be to Him 146 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:12,040 Tell the believers to lower their gazes 147 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:15,040 And protect their private parts 148 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:18,040 It's smarter for them 149 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:24,040 God is aware of what they do 150 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:28,060 And tell the believing women to be angry 151 00:08:28,060 --> 00:08:30,060 From their sight 152 00:08:30,060 --> 00:08:33,059 And they protect their private parts 153 00:08:33,059 --> 00:08:36,059 They do not show off their adornment 154 00:08:36,059 --> 00:08:39,740 Except what appears 155 00:08:39,740 --> 00:08:41,740 So God commanded the believing women 156 00:08:41,740 --> 00:08:43,740 What he commanded the believers to do 157 00:08:43,740 --> 00:08:45,740 From lowering one's gaze and guarding one's chastity 158 00:08:45,740 --> 00:08:48,740 And he started it regardless 159 00:08:48,740 --> 00:08:50,740 Because it is the leading means 160 00:08:50,740 --> 00:08:52,740 To preserve relief 161 00:08:52,740 --> 00:08:54,740 He who lowers his gaze 162 00:08:54,740 --> 00:08:56,740 He was better off guarding his chastity 163 00:08:56,740 --> 00:08:58,740 And whoever releases his sight 164 00:08:58,740 --> 00:09:01,740 Whoever agrees to commit immorality 165 00:09:01,740 --> 00:09:05,929 No rational person doubts that the fields are mixed 166 00:09:05,929 --> 00:09:07,929 No one is safe in it 167 00:09:07,929 --> 00:09:09,929 From looking at the other party 168 00:09:09,929 --> 00:09:11,929 It is the most important field 169 00:09:11,929 --> 00:09:14,929 In which adultery occurs 170 00:09:14,929 --> 00:09:17,929 This verse indicates its meaning 171 00:09:17,929 --> 00:09:20,090 On the prohibition of mixing 172 00:09:20,090 --> 00:09:22,090 Among them is the Almighty’s saying 173 00:09:22,090 --> 00:09:25,090 And if you ask them for anything 174 00:09:25,090 --> 00:09:29,090 So ask them from behind a veil 175 00:09:29,090 --> 00:09:33,090 That is purer for your hearts and their hearts 176 00:09:33,090 --> 00:09:36,220 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 177 00:09:36,220 --> 00:09:38,220 That is, this is what I commanded you to do 178 00:09:38,220 --> 00:09:40,220 I legitimized it for you from the veil 179 00:09:40,220 --> 00:09:43,220 Purer and better 180 00:09:43,980 --> 00:09:45,980 He understands from that 181 00:09:45,980 --> 00:09:49,980 Mixing is not purer for the hearts of men and women 182 00:09:49,980 --> 00:09:52,980 Rather, it corrupted all of their hearts 183 00:09:52,980 --> 00:09:55,019 Mixed work 184 00:09:55,019 --> 00:09:59,019 There is great suffering for women in many aspects 185 00:09:59,019 --> 00:10:01,019 From her 186 00:10:01,019 --> 00:10:04,019 Suffering in lowering her gaze 187 00:10:04,019 --> 00:10:07,019 She struggles to control her emotions 188 00:10:07,019 --> 00:10:11,019 She struggles to maintain the purity of her heart 189 00:10:11,019 --> 00:10:15,019 And the suffering of not spoiling a man’s heart 190 00:10:15,019 --> 00:10:21,019 And suffering in her commitment to the legal dress that pleases her Lord 191 00:10:21,019 --> 00:10:25,019 She suffers from controlling her speech and the way she speaks 192 00:10:25,019 --> 00:10:29,049 Were women able to work in men's fields? 193 00:10:29,049 --> 00:10:33,330 Get over this suffering 194 00:10:33,330 --> 00:10:36,330 We will continue in the next meeting, God willing 195 00:10:36,330 --> 00:10:40,330 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 196 00:10:40,330 --> 00:10:47,970 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him